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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you are alone forever.....

For the single fabbers. How does the thought make you feel ?

It makes me feel kinda sad but I will continue smiling .

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm happy on my own and long may it continue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm happy on my own and long may it continue "

Dear Lord

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t think of anything as forever so I won’t be scared of any thoughts. I’ve been on my own 10 years now and they’ve been the most constructive years of my life. I have no fear of that continuing but I miss the companionship of someone who Cares.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"someone who Cares."

A beautiful thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forever is a long time...

I'd rather be alone than somewhere that I don't want to be or with someone who doesn't want me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm happy on my own and long may it continue

Dear Lord "

It will help you sleep better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days being single gets me down, then I remember how stressful relationships can be and I come back to my senses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty much resigned to being alone forever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm pretty much resigned to being alone forever."

Dude, that's sad .

That saying that there is someone for everyone. Positivity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relieved!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or someone comes along when you least expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some days being single gets me down, then I remember how stressful relationships can be and I come back to my senses"

I can relate to this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just gotta know where to look and be with someone who makes you happy and treat ya well, because at the end of day we all are human and need someone to be there for us. That’s why kindness is crucial as you don’t really know what someone is going through behind close door!!!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

The thought of always being single doesn’t bother me.

I have a great circle of friends, and I also really like myself... I don’t feel like I need another person to “complete me”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You just gotta know where to look and be with someone who makes you happy and treat ya well, because at the end of day we all are human and need someone to be there for us. That’s why kindness is crucial as you don’t really know what someone is going through behind close door!!!"

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm happy to never b in a conventional relationship ever again! I've become 2 selfish as been alone since 2004! I prefer the occasional friend suites me fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been in any form of relationship for at least 10 years. So wouldn't want a conventional one now (and not poly or anything like that) but something would be nice.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was more lonely when i was in a relationship than i am now. I love being myself but have a busy job and 2 dogs for company. My mum was left a widow at my age and i have always admired the way she coped by herself. Life for me is pretty damn good.x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"If you are alone forever.....

For the single fabbers. How does the thought make you feel ?

It makes me feel kinda sad but I will continue smiling ."

Depressed. Really depressed, but I'm working on coming to terms with it.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Just because I’m not in a relationship nor have any plans to, doesn’t mean I’m alone. I’m content with the lack of a significant other.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I would much rather be alone than in a bad relationship that makes me feel unloved, unseen and uncared for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would much rather be alone than in a bad relationship that makes me feel unloved, unseen and uncared for."

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I choose to be single and it would take a pretty darn special man for me to want to enter a real life relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone

I am here with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I got divorced I never thought I'd still be on my own 11 years later.

I've accepted that my dream of happy ever after with someone is probably very unlikely. While at times that makes me sad and loneliness can be crippling, I also know I'm lucky. I have my boys and 8 years time my youngest will be 20. I'm going to do all the things others do when they are young. Travel, have adventures and who knows who I may meet along the way.

Maybe at that point I'll learn to love myself and that will be my happy ever after.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

That’s a toughie. I’m happy as I am but I do miss the couples things now and again. And if I never do it again it makes me a bit sad.

So time for a beer!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You are not alone

I am here with you"

Though we're far apart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think of all those happy cats though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just think of all those happy cats though. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forever isn't realistic - life is unpredictable.

I doubt I'll be in a conventional relationship again- but I'll never say never.

I'm at peace with my own company.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What if Covid never goes away

We may never get a chance. Crazy times !

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By *heshire-cat74Woman
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

I would love nothing more than to be in a relationship but unfortunately having 2 kids with additional needs will put most people off it makes me sad to think I will most probably be alone for many years to come

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"What if Covid never goes away

We may never get a chance. Crazy times ! "

Covid is going nowhere but a vaccine will be found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy my own company too much to give it up.

I’d be happy with someone to go on holiday with and the odd night out and the occasional sex stuff but don’t want to live with anyone.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

There’s some people in toxic relationships that wish they were on their own. Then there are kind and loving people who should be able to share their love with others who deserve it.

I’ve made the best of my situation, hopefully others can as well. If the right person comes along great if not I’ll continue on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then you have some that can't handle Love and choose to be on their own.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I’m alone and mostly happy with it but sometimes I miss company to chat with or cuddle with. Pros & cons to all life situations at the end of the day, you just have to be content with what you have or work at changing it (not always easy, sometimes harder than others but always a possibility)

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"If you are alone forever.....

For the single fabbers. How does the thought make you feel ?

It makes me feel kinda sad but I will continue smiling ."

I've been single since 1987. Life is good

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I enjoy my own company too much to give it up.

I’d be happy with someone to go on holiday with and the odd night out and the occasional sex stuff but don’t want to live with anyone."

That sounds good. Also would be nice to have a man around to do some repairs but like you i enjoy my own space and company.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I've never had stressful relationships, so i struggle with single life. I enjoy good company, be it a friend or gf.

Even harder this year living isolated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only ever had 2 relationships.

One indifferent and the other very stressful.

It's gotta be 3rd time lucky, right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being single doesn't bother me yes I miss the closeness a relationship can bring cuddles on the sofa laughing at each other but when i look back on it those were moments and not everyday occasions and how can anyone be lonely when here on fab theres someone to chat to whether it be in the forums or chat rooms or the one in a million chance you get a reply to a message being single means I can focus on me and do things I want to do

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