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By *ab50 OP   Man
over a year ago

bexhill

Knock off watches..

Hang round you,

Look good,

But when it comes to it,

They're just fake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All friends or just shit friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's the case, they were never real friends to begin with.

Lu

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Oh sorry you feel like that OP. There's nothing worse than realising people you thought were friends aren't. But there are good people out there don't give up hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That all depends on the people you decide to call your friends.

The ones who are there on your bad days are your true friends OP.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

it can be a weird one.

I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.

It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.

Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you feel like that OP. although it is shit when you realise the so call friends are just idiots. But some have said there are good people out there , but can take awhile to find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it can be a weird one.

I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.

It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.

Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.

"

Everyone needs to understand this and actually do it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"it can be a weird one.

I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.

It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.

Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.

Everyone needs to understand this and actually do it. "

Yep, but then a lot of the time you worry they'll think you're a bad/fake friend and you don't do the things you need to for your own wellbeing!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"it can be a weird one.

I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.

It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.

Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.

"

Snap. I’m a shit communicator because I need a huge amount of silence to function. Very few people get it even though I try and explain it upfront. Takes a special person to get it and respect it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knock off watches..

Hang round you,

Look good,

But when it comes to it,

They're just fake...

"

They're not friends so ...or never were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need some new friends.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"it can be a weird one.

I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.

It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.

Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.

Snap. I’m a shit communicator because I need a huge amount of silence to function. Very few people get it even though I try and explain it upfront. Takes a special person to get it and respect it x"

Me three. I can't deal with people all the time and often retreat into myself for days or weeks at a time, even down to ignoring messages because one to one communication is too much. I'm a tough person to be friends with but apparently it's worth it cording to some people.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"it can be a weird one.

I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.

It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.

Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.

Snap. I’m a shit communicator because I need a huge amount of silence to function. Very few people get it even though I try and explain it upfront. Takes a special person to get it and respect it x

Me three. I can't deal with people all the time and often retreat into myself for days or weeks at a time, even down to ignoring messages because one to one communication is too much. I'm a tough person to be friends with but apparently it's worth it cording to some people. "

Come sit with us in the quiet corner

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"it can be a weird one.

I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.

It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.

Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.

Snap. I’m a shit communicator because I need a huge amount of silence to function. Very few people get it even though I try and explain it upfront. Takes a special person to get it and respect it x

Me three. I can't deal with people all the time and often retreat into myself for days or weeks at a time, even down to ignoring messages because one to one communication is too much. I'm a tough person to be friends with but apparently it's worth it cording to some people. "

I totally understand that about 1 to 1 communication.

For me it can almost snap me out of my safe place (nowhere? Somewhere? there's no pressure or thinking necessary) and it's like "shit, I gotta start again now"

My phone goes on silent if I'm like that.

I guess like when someone who's pissed gets slapped up the chops and brought back to reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality. I have just one very close. She is a diamond. Helped me I help her. I support she supports. We don't judge. We have laughs and help each other out when it's needed. She like the mother I never had kind of friend.

After all, I only need one best friend. Not several, as toxic people I don't befriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like potatoes, if you eat them they die

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Some of my friends are real Rolexs.

I do have the odd one of 2 that are terrible time keepers. Lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe buy a Casio from Argos.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"it can be a weird one.

I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.

It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.

Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.

"

Can I steal this P?

So true!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you need a better watch OP....

Or better friends?

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

.... Are like condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those... are not friends.

I keep my circle very small.. everyone of those 6 i can put my life in thier hands and they can in mine.

The rest are acquaintances.

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