FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it people on here......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always presume your just messaging them for sex?

I mean I’m sure we can all just have a general conversation too? Surely others find personality attractive too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite enjoy chatting to all sorts. I've had some great chats with guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it’s a swinging site

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By *weetheart90Woman
over a year ago

Ipswich

I enjoy talking to everyone and anyone. I think some people have lost the art of conversation.

Tbf most messages I and I'm sure a lot of other girls on here get are from guys profiles with no profile pics with one worded messages and a dick pic

they get a very polite no thank you! Lol how about a how are you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause it’s a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I’m a massive pervert and I just shag.

Hard.

And often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you join a gardening forum and then wonder why people were always messaging you about plants?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I never talk sex shiz and have plenty of chats with friends. It’s my only reason for returning, so yes it’s very possible. Settle in.. find the folk you like the sound of and take it from there

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By *herubCheeksWoman
over a year ago

seaside

"Always presume your just messaging them for sex?

I mean I’m sure we can all just have a general conversation too? Surely others find personality attractive too?

Totally agree I refuse to chat about sex or anything I like ! The person on other end is a total stranger in my eyes !

If a guy won't hold decent convo then bye bye I'm worth more than that

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By *herubCheeksWoman
over a year ago

seaside

"I never talk sex shiz and have plenty of chats with friends. It’s my only reason for returning, so yes it’s very possible. Settle in.. find the folk you like the sound of and take it from there

Snap

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

because 99% of the people who message us, even if they say they just want to chat, wait a few messages and then bring sex up.

We had a long message exchange with a guy who said he genuinely just wanted to make friends. He invited us to his flat for a platonic drink then just a day before we were due to go messaged excitedly about the bdsm equipment he'd got in ready for us to try out together

We tend to be very careful now

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

its good getting to know people and share banter ,but it is a swinging site also lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"because 99% of the people who message us, even if they say they just want to chat, wait a few messages and then bring sex up.

We tend to be very careful now"

Indeed. I've not had that exact scenario of course, but I agree.

Forum people I find different though, as messages tend to be subject specific as they're usually off the back of threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's lots of people who like general chatting!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"because 99% of the people who message us, even if they say they just want to chat, wait a few messages and then bring sex up.

We tend to be very careful now

Indeed. I've not had that exact scenario of course, but I agree.

Forum people I find different though, as messages tend to be subject specific as they're usually off the back of threads.

Yes

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"There's lots of people who like general chatting! "

I like talking with people who I find interesting and who may find me the same

I dont like crave or need bland chit chat

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Yes I had some real random no sexual conversations with members on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're taking things into PM's between 6-9am and 9-11pm be ready to get sexual

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Always presume your just messaging them for sex?

I mean I’m sure we can all just have a general conversation too? Surely others find personality attractive too?

Firstly - hello from a fellow Lancastrian.

In all honesty - your issue probably lies with the fact that you’re an MM profile. Upon reading it’s clear you’re a couple - but on fab (rather than fab guys) most mm profiles are 2 or more straight (occasionally bi) blokes who’ve grouped together to optimise their chances of appealing to ‘greedy’ females/female of couples. As that’s their primary motivation for the joint profile they tend to be blunt rather than conversational - and dialogue is limited.

I imagine it’ll take a few messages on your part for people to ‘get’ that you’re a genuine couple rather than a manufactured one and wish to be treated accordingly.

You make a cute couple btw - I hope you find what you’re looking for on here.

Peachy

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

What is sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is sex?"

Sex is when my mum met your dad and we are brother and sister.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

...also I need to ask OP:

Do you guys ever hook up with say, a James for example, and then all high-five because you are PB and J?

Please say yes it's my kink.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"What is sex?

Sex is when my mum met your dad and we are brother and sister.

Picked the wrong day to quit therapy, eh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is sex?

Sex is when my mum met your dad and we are brother and sister.

Picked the wrong day to quit therapy, eh...

I love you brother and stay strong we don't need the therapy. X

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"...also I need to ask OP:

Do you guys ever hook up with say, a James for example, and then all high-five because you are PB and J?

Please say yes it's my kink.

Ok I’m old - you need to explain!

Who on earth are PB and J?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"What is sex?

Sex is when my mum met your dad and we are brother and sister.

Picked the wrong day to quit therapy, eh...

I love you brother and stay strong we don't need the therapy. X "

Are we Pornhub now?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"...also I need to ask OP:

Do you guys ever hook up with say, a James for example, and then all high-five because you are PB and J?

Please say yes it's my kink.

Ok I’m old - you need to explain!

Who on earth are PB and J?

Peanut Butter and Jelly.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"What is sex?

Sex is when my mum met your dad and we are brother and sister.

Picked the wrong day to quit therapy, eh...

I love you brother and stay strong we don't need the therapy. X

Are we Pornhub now?

Oh I hope so

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"...also I need to ask OP:

Do you guys ever hook up with say, a James for example, and then all high-five because you are PB and J?

Please say yes it's my kink.

Ok I’m old - you need to explain!

Who on earth are PB and J?

Peanut Butter and Jelly.

When did you become an American?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is sex?

Sex is when my mum met your dad and we are brother and sister.

Picked the wrong day to quit therapy, eh...

I love you brother and stay strong we don't need the therapy. X

Are we Pornhub now?

Yes we are!!

'SEXY BROTHER AND SISTER GO TO FAMILY THERAPY AND FUCK LIKE LOVERS'

Sorry I don't know what is wrong with me tonight. Please forgive me jesus.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The only thing I really want right now, is for this stupid virus to go away so we can all get back to normal life.

Cal

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I rarely assume anyone is primarily going to talk to me about sex only when it comes to going into pm's.

On the forum then yeah but I take that as tongue in cheek pretty much.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Cause it’s a sex site "

You've had it now

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"What is sex?

Sex is when my mum met your dad and we are brother and sister.

Picked the wrong day to quit therapy, eh...

I love you brother and stay strong we don't need the therapy. X

Are we Pornhub now?

Yes we are!!

'SEXY BROTHER AND SISTER GO TO FAMILY THERAPY AND FUCK LIKE LOVERS'

Sorry I don't know what is wrong with me tonight. Please forgive me jesus."

I'm your brother AND jesus? Who wrote this porno?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always presume your just messaging them for sex?

I mean I’m sure we can all just have a general conversation too? Surely others find personality attractive too?

Potentially something to do with your status update, perhaps?

These things count towards first impressions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is sex?

Sex is when my mum met your dad and we are brother and sister.

Picked the wrong day to quit therapy, eh...

I love you brother and stay strong we don't need the therapy. X

Are we Pornhub now?

Yes we are!!

'SEXY BROTHER AND SISTER GO TO FAMILY THERAPY AND FUCK LIKE LOVERS'

Sorry I don't know what is wrong with me tonight. Please forgive me jesus.

I'm your brother AND jesus? Who wrote this porno?

It was definitely LaceyRed

She's such a strange pervert and she is always trying to get you and me naked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose a lot depends on the profile....some ladies out there say they want dirty and kinky messages....other say read the profile and dont send dick pics!

I try to find what they’re interested in....however has it worked....nope

But I think the forums offer the best variety and provide some very good evening entertainment

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"What is sex?

Sex is when my mum met your dad and we are brother and sister.

Picked the wrong day to quit therapy, eh...

I love you brother and stay strong we don't need the therapy. X

Are we Pornhub now?

Yes we are!!

'SEXY BROTHER AND SISTER GO TO FAMILY THERAPY AND FUCK LIKE LOVERS'

Sorry I don't know what is wrong with me tonight. Please forgive me jesus.

I'm your brother AND jesus? Who wrote this porno?

It was definitely LaceyRed

She's such a strange pervert and she is always trying to get you and me naked! "

Outrageous.

I owe her another cookie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find chat sexy even if it's not about sex

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think the majority of messages from an unknown contact here relate to their sexual interests in you, based on my 10 years here.

Clear communication can readily sort out any uncertainty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it’s a swinging site"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's lots of people who like general chatting! "

And General Levy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...also I need to ask OP:

Do you guys ever hook up with say, a James for example, and then all high-five because you are PB and J?

Please say yes it's my kink.

*Crosses fingers*

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