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Chemistry.. How rare is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The type of chemistry that feels like electricity in the first 20 seconds of being in the room with them.

The type that really does feel like fireworks when they kiss or touch you and it's very clearly mutual.

When you can feel it in the air just from a look across the room.

When it's like some magnetic force you can't control.

How often does that actually happen?

Do you think it's a once in a lifetime thing when it's that powerful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always one better out there...

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"The type of chemistry that feels like electricity in the first 20 seconds of being in the room with them.

The type that really does feel like fireworks when they kiss or touch you and it's very clearly mutual.

When you can feel it in the air just from a look across the room.

When it's like some magnetic force you can't control.

How often does that actually happen?

Do you think it's a once in a lifetime thing when it's that powerful? "

Gawd once in a lifetime? Hell no ... not in my experience anyway crackly lust happens quite a lot for me

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Hens teeth.. once a decade at the current success rate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/09/20 18:57:51]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did general science and to be honest most of that was biology and physics, chemistry was an afterthought, so I’d say it’s rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The type of chemistry that feels like electricity in the first 20 seconds of being in the room with them.

The type that really does feel like fireworks when they kiss or touch you and it's very clearly mutual.

When you can feel it in the air just from a look across the room.

When it's like some magnetic force you can't control.

How often does that actually happen?

Do you think it's a once in a lifetime thing when it's that powerful? "

Only experienced twice as powerful as you describe

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think it's something that can be natural or something you can create with anticipation and is often something that wears off but is replaced by warm, fuzzy comfort which is also nice.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think in any relationship, be it friends, Fab meets or work colleagues it's entirely possible to find an immediate connection - where you feel like you've known each other for years or that you were destined to come together somehow - it's mainly about like minds that are on the same wavelength and in some ways it's inevitable that on a planet of however many billion people there are going to be some that are matched so completely that it feels that way.

Is a great feeling when it happens though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 17/09/20 18:57:51]"
. Oh I know, that's why it's so bloody hard to give up on..

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

As often as you allow your heart to see it I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rare. But it exists. But how often does it come along... I’m not holding my breath. Longing to find that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 17/09/20 18:57:51]. Oh I know, that's why it's so bloody hard to give up on.. "

It’s bloody hard to give up on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hens teeth.. once a decade at the current success rate... "

I think once in a decade is not bad

I've genuinely never ever known anything like this before and it's not meant to be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I studied chemistry. It was hot handling bunsen burner and learning my periodic table of chemicals. Did I feel for chemistry in the room. Only science I liked. Could I cook up a real chemical reaction in a room of sex around tables. You bet.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I've had it a few times and I've jumped every single one on the first social. When you can't think of anything else but f*cking them right now is an amazing feeling

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By *rishcowboy36Man
over a year ago

dundalk

Chemistry can happen multiple times for sure and you know at first glance....waste of effort without it

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"The type of chemistry that feels like electricity in the first 20 seconds of being in the room with them.

The type that really does feel like fireworks when they kiss or touch you and it's very clearly mutual.

When you can feel it in the air just from a look across the room.

When it's like some magnetic force you can't control.

How often does that actually happen?

Do you think it's a once in a lifetime thing when it's that powerful? "

Luckily it's not once in a lifetime but it is indeed rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely, but that's the beauty of it.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It can happen more than once, but when it causes an involuntary natural shiver as they touch you, then you know it’s special

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

When your drawn to someone, closer and closer, the sparks from each others touch, then the chemistry begins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As often as you allow your heart to see it I think "

This. Way too many folk wallowing expecting someone to tick all their self indulgent boxes. Just enjoy

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