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Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to 
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 stick around the forums and get to know a few people. I think your profile comes across well. | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu "I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out? I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me. I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around. | |||
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"Should I add or change anything? " Looks alright mate, just maybe few more pics! Ahh no dick pics the ladies don’t like it apparently  | |||
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"Maybe add another joe." This site picked the name for me | |||
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"Should I add or change anything? Looks alright mate, just maybe few more pics! Ahh no dick pics the ladies don’t like it apparently "Okay thanks | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
"That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh. Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you? Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different | |||
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"I like it stick around the forums and get to know a few people. I think your profile comes across well. "Thank you | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh.
Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you?
Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different "You didn't look at my profile okay. I don't think anything is special or interesting about me. | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh.
Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you?
Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different
You didn't look at my profile okay. I don't think anything is special or interesting about me. "Everyone has something. A cracking sense of humour perhaps? Any unusual hobbies? A kink? Could just be that your message clearly shows you've read their profile and genuinely think you might be compatible with what they're looking for. | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh.
Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you?
Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different
You didn't look at my profile okay. I don't think anything is special or interesting about me. "You say it doesn't take much to be different.. But we can all put on a false personalty in that case if we wanted to pretend to be different, which is what I think many people do online. However it's all about being honest right? | |||
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"It's a decent profile and like the shirt pic, very nice  "I'm glad someone likes it thanks | |||
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"Should I add or change anything? Looks alright mate, just maybe few more pics! Ahh no dick pics the ladies don’t like it apparently "Don’t believe the hype | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh.
Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you?
Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different
You didn't look at my profile okay. I don't think anything is special or interesting about me.
You say it doesn't take much to be different.. But we can all put on a false personalty in that case if we wanted to pretend to be different, which is what I think many people do online. However it's all about being honest right? "I'm not suggesting you "put on" anything that's not genuine. I absolutely think being honest is key in swinging. But to be blunt, women get 100s of messages a day, if you don't stand out in some way, you won't get many replies. | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh.
Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you?
Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different
You didn't look at my profile okay. I don't think anything is special or interesting about me.
You say it doesn't take much to be different.. But we can all put on a false personalty in that case if we wanted to pretend to be different, which is what I think many people do online. However it's all about being honest right?
I'm not suggesting you "put on" anything that's not genuine.
I absolutely think being honest is key in swinging.
But to be blunt, women get 100s of messages a day, if you don't stand out in some way, you won't get many replies. "Well it seems like honestly isn't the best policy but I can't change myself. I know it's a womens world online. | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh.
Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you?
Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different
You didn't look at my profile okay. I don't think anything is special or interesting about me.
You say it doesn't take much to be different.. But we can all put on a false personalty in that case if we wanted to pretend to be different, which is what I think many people do online. However it's all about being honest right?
I'm not suggesting you "put on" anything that's not genuine.
I absolutely think being honest is key in swinging.
But to be blunt, women get 100s of messages a day, if you don't stand out in some way, you won't get many replies.
Well it seems like honestly isn't the best policy but I can't change myself. I know it's a womens world online. "I really think you're taking what I'm saying the wrong way... You shouldn't change yourself. | |||
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"Should I add or change anything? Looks alright mate, just maybe few more pics! Ahh no dick pics the ladies don’t like it apparently
Don’t believe the hype "Okay? | |||
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"Maybe add another joe. This site picked the name for me " Oh. I was thinking it would be a bit like a beetle juice thing then where any potential meets could just chant your name at a mirror and you’d instantly appear. Joe joe joe 39 has a nice ring too it. | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh.
Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you?
Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different
You didn't look at my profile okay. I don't think anything is special or interesting about me.
You say it doesn't take much to be different.. But we can all put on a false personalty in that case if we wanted to pretend to be different, which is what I think many people do online. However it's all about being honest right?
I'm not suggesting you "put on" anything that's not genuine.
I absolutely think being honest is key in swinging.
But to be blunt, women get 100s of messages a day, if you don't stand out in some way, you won't get many replies.
Well it seems like honestly isn't the best policy but I can't change myself. I know it's a womens world online.
I really think you're taking what I'm saying the wrong way...
You shouldn't change yourself.
"No I appreciate the advice but I really don't get it anymore. I don't know how to play this game. Everyone says that honestly is the best policy but I don't know anymore. | |||
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"Should I add or change anything? " Personally I'd love to see a bum pic
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh.
Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you?
Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different
You didn't look at my profile okay. I don't think anything is special or interesting about me.
You say it doesn't take much to be different.. But we can all put on a false personalty in that case if we wanted to pretend to be different, which is what I think many people do online. However it's all about being honest right?
I'm not suggesting you "put on" anything that's not genuine.
I absolutely think being honest is key in swinging.
But to be blunt, women get 100s of messages a day, if you don't stand out in some way, you won't get many replies.
Well it seems like honestly isn't the best policy but I can't change myself. I know it's a womens world online.
I really think you're taking what I'm saying the wrong way...
You shouldn't change yourself.
No I appreciate the advice but I really don't get it anymore. I don't know how to play this game.
Everyone says that honestly is the best policy but I don't know anymore. "Nowhere have I or anyone else suggested you shouldn't be honest.  | |||
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"Maybe add another joe. This site picked the name for me Oh. I was thinking it would be a bit like a beetle juice thing then where any potential meets could just chant your name at a mirror and you’d instantly appear. Joe joe joe 39 has a nice ring too it." I can't change it | |||
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"Should I add or change anything? Personally I'd love to see a bum pic
Saira x"Nobody wants to see my flat hairy arse lol | |||
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"Maybe add another joe. This site picked the name for me Oh. I was thinking it would be a bit like a beetle juice thing then where any potential meets could just chant your name at a mirror and you’d instantly appear. Joe joe joe 39 has a nice ring too it. I can't change it " Ok then. Joe joe 39 it is. It’s a good name. I like it. | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh.
Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you?
Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different
You didn't look at my profile okay. I don't think anything is special or interesting about me.
You say it doesn't take much to be different.. But we can all put on a false personalty in that case if we wanted to pretend to be different, which is what I think many people do online. However it's all about being honest right?
I'm not suggesting you "put on" anything that's not genuine.
I absolutely think being honest is key in swinging.
But to be blunt, women get 100s of messages a day, if you don't stand out in some way, you won't get many replies.
Well it seems like honestly isn't the best policy but I can't change myself. I know it's a womens world online.
I really think you're taking what I'm saying the wrong way...
You shouldn't change yourself.
No I appreciate the advice but I really don't get it anymore. I don't know how to play this game.
Everyone says that honestly is the best policy but I don't know anymore.
Nowhere have I or anyone else suggested you shouldn't be honest.
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"Maybe add another joe. This site picked the name for me Oh. I was thinking it would be a bit like a beetle juice thing then where any potential meets could just chant your name at a mirror and you’d instantly appear. Joe joe joe 39 has a nice ring too it. I can't change it Ok then. Joe joe 39 it is. It’s a good name. I like it." | |||
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" But I am thinking that way, if that makes sense " Not really...what makes you think that? | |||
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"Maybe add another joe. This site picked the name for me Oh. I was thinking it would be a bit like a beetle juice thing then where any potential meets could just chant your name at a mirror and you’d instantly appear. Joe joe joe 39 has a nice ring too it. I can't change it Ok then. Joe joe 39 it is. It’s a good name. I like it. "I didnt know fab picked names for you, I wonder what it may have suggested for me. Anyway, Hello | |||
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"Whatever you do you won't please everyone. Do a search on the forums for some similar threads though, there's loads of great advise...I'm just too lazy to type it all out for ya
Main points are, be honest, stand out, be funny, don't copy and paste, don't wave your dick about unless asked to
Lu
I am honest, probably too honest for my own good. How can a man stand out?
I'm afraid to try and be funny for getting blocked if someone doesn't me.
I never copy and paste.. I'm not sure even how you do that and I never wave my dick around.
That was just my general advise, I didn't actually have a look at your profile tbh.
Everyone can stand out. What's special/interesting about you?
Women receive a lot of the same messages over and over, it doesn't really take much to be different
You didn't look at my profile okay. I don't think anything is special or interesting about me.
You say it doesn't take much to be different.. But we can all put on a false personalty in that case if we wanted to pretend to be different, which is what I think many people do online. However it's all about being honest right?
I'm not suggesting you "put on" anything that's not genuine.
I absolutely think being honest is key in swinging.
But to be blunt, women get 100s of messages a day, if you don't stand out in some way, you won't get many replies.
Well it seems like honestly isn't the best policy but I can't change myself. I know it's a womens world online.
I really think you're taking what I'm saying the wrong way...
You shouldn't change yourself.
No I appreciate the advice but I really don't get it anymore. I don't know how to play this game.
Everyone says that honestly is the best policy but I don't know anymore.
Nowhere have I or anyone else suggested you shouldn't be honest.
But I am thinking that way, if that makes sense "Being honest and down to earth is not exciting enough for women. My mate goes out and fills women full of lies and gets off with them, but I be truthful and it never gets me anywhere. I just come across boring to them. | |||
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" But I am thinking that way, if that makes sense Not really...what makes you think that? " I addressed this in another text | |||
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" But I am thinking that way, if that makes sense Not really...what makes you think that? I addressed this in another text " I mean, I kinda get what you're saying...but you're wrong to generalise. Most women I know prefer a decent, honest, down to earth guy. Someone who pays attention and treats them with respect. Do all that and you will stand out. | |||
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"Maybe add another joe. This site picked the name for me Oh. I was thinking it would be a bit like a beetle juice thing then where any potential meets could just chant your name at a mirror and you’d instantly appear. Joe joe joe 39 has a nice ring too it. I can't change it Ok then. Joe joe 39 it is. It’s a good name. I like it.
I didnt know fab picked names for you, I wonder what it may have suggested for me. Anyway, Hello "Hello Alder I didn't know it did that either but after I signed back in I was named Joe joe 39 for some reason | |||
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"Maybe add another joe. This site picked the name for me Oh. I was thinking it would be a bit like a beetle juice thing then where any potential meets could just chant your name at a mirror and you’d instantly appear. Joe joe joe 39 has a nice ring too it. I can't change it Ok then. Joe joe 39 it is. It’s a good name. I like it.
I didnt know fab picked names for you, I wonder what it may have suggested for me. Anyway, Hello
Hello Alder
I didn't know it did that either but after I signed back in I was named Joe joe 39 for some reason
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"Maybe add another joe. This site picked the name for me Oh. I was thinking it would be a bit like a beetle juice thing then where any potential meets could just chant your name at a mirror and you’d instantly appear. Joe joe joe 39 has a nice ring too it. I can't change it Ok then. Joe joe 39 it is. It’s a good name. I like it.
I didnt know fab picked names for you, I wonder what it may have suggested for me. Anyway, Hello
Hello Alder
I didn't know it did that either but after I signed back in I was named Joe joe 39 for some reason
What did you start out as? I wonder if the original Joe Joe 39 wonders where his profile went "I can't rememeber exactly but Joe was my name on another app and some how it popped up on here after I signed back in. | |||
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"Apparently my profile is "long and shit" I didn't expect to hear this from a woman considering most women's profiles are like novels. Can't please anyone on here. " Don’t try to. Read yours and ask does it sound like you? If it does.. fuck it.. it’s fine. Chat around the forums and get to know people on a conversational level.. you’ll get a better feel for the place. Personality matters just as much as a face we find attractive. Starting the conversation is the hard part for all. Relax and enjoy. | |||
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"Apparently my profile is "long and shit" I didn't expect to hear this from a woman considering most women's profiles are like novels. Can't please anyone on here. " I didn't find your profile long or shit. I thought it was good. Hang out in the forums and post a bit more to get noticed. And you're never going to please everybody but hopefully you'll please the ones attracted to a profile like yours. | |||
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"Should I add or change anything? Personally I'd love to see a bum pic
Saira x
Nobody wants to see my flat hairy arse lol "Oh 
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"Should I add or change anything? Personally I'd love to see a bum pic
Saira x
Nobody wants to see my flat hairy arse lol
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I want to even more now "Oh, no lol. I think I will have to work on my photos. Thanks everyone. | |||
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