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"How kind are you? Is kindness important to you when looking for a fab friend to meet? " How kind I am is ultimitly for others to judge, but I would be disappointed if they judged me unkind. Is it important for fab meet? Yes... the meet may just be social and I wouldn't want to spend my time with unkind people, let alone share intimacy if it were to get that far. | |||
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"If she doesn't say thank you when I gave her an orgasm I won't see her again. " when she leaves do you say 'thanks for coming'? | |||
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"If she doesn't say thank you when I gave her an orgasm I won't see her again. when she leaves do you say 'thanks for coming'? " well played | |||
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"I'd like to think I was a kind person, I treat others how I'd like to be treated." I agree with this x | |||
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"If she doesn't say thank you when I gave her an orgasm I won't see her again. when she leaves do you say 'thanks for coming'? " If you leave a tip - go see a doctor quickly... | |||
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"Whatever I do, I do because I want to, if people see that as kindness that is their feeling not mine As for meets, it’s more how they interact with others that shows themselves, rather than a kindness to myself. Example if I meet someone and they are rude to bar staff, or similar, act like they are above them, don’t look at them when placing an order and can’t do a simple please and thank you, that’s a no no for me" Ooh yes this for me too! It's a good 'test'. | |||
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"Kindness isn’t measured in words, it’s measured in actions. " I think this about most things. Respectful. | |||
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"Whatever I do, I do because I want to, if people see that as kindness that is their feeling not mine As for meets, it’s more how they interact with others that shows themselves, rather than a kindness to myself. Example if I meet someone and they are rude to bar staff, or similar, act like they are above them, don’t look at them when placing an order and can’t do a simple please and thank you, that’s a no no for me Ooh yes this for me too! It's a good 'test'. " Very much this | |||
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"I honestly don't know. I do think I'm often kind to people when others are being very unkind. " You are kind. I've seen more than one lovely post from you when others are having a go. Keep it up! Xx | |||
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"I honestly don't know. I do think I'm often kind to people when others are being very unkind. You are kind. I've seen more than one lovely post from you when others are having a go. Keep it up! Xx" | |||
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"If you are kind you know it, it’s a choice you make , it almost always has a cost, giving a good tip, choosing to say kind words, writing a thank you note to the hotel room cleaner , helping someone out who doesn’t deserve it. If it doesn’t cost it’s not kindness " And yet so often, we hear it costs nothing | |||
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"I’d like to think I am. I hope those that have met me think so too Vine you are one of the kindest people I know x" Aw! Thank you. You are a lovely kind person too. | |||
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"If you are kind you know it, it’s a choice you make , it almost always has a cost, giving a good tip, choosing to say kind words, writing a thank you note to the hotel room cleaner , helping someone out who doesn’t deserve it. If it doesn’t cost it’s not kindness And yet so often, we hear it costs nothing " Nothing is without cost. Those who you give your manners and your kindness to determine whether the cost is worth it. | |||
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"Whatever I do, I do because I want to, if people see that as kindness that is their feeling not mine As for meets, it’s more how they interact with others that shows themselves, rather than a kindness to myself. Example if I meet someone and they are rude to bar staff, or similar, act like they are above them, don’t look at them when placing an order and can’t do a simple please and thank you, that’s a no no for me" I like that take Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human | |||
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"If it doesn’t cost it’s not kindness " It costs nothing to: Treat others with respect, Say please, Say thank you, Not be a dick to people, So many more... it doesn't necessarily have a monetary value. Giving somebody your time is probably the most precious thing you can give. | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human " This | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This " Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal " yep | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal " I'd say it's going out of your way, stepping outside your bubble, in order to help or lift the spirits of another human being regardless of their need. | |||
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"If it doesn’t cost it’s not kindness It costs nothing to: Treat others with respect, Say please, Say thank you, Not be a dick to people, So many more... it doesn't necessarily have a monetary value. Giving somebody your time is probably the most precious thing you can give. " | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal " | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal " Kindness starts from being normal first and the rest follows. You can't measure it. | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal " I think you have a great point that I feel gives further insight I think the nuance lies It isnt normal but it absolutely should be quite right And as sadly treating others as equals is not the norm though it should be means when a person does it can be relatively considered kindness by many | |||
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"Don't mistake my kindness for weekness, I am kind to everyone but if you're unkind to me, weekness will not be what you remember about me. " That sounds more like a threat than kindness | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal I'd say it's going out of your way, stepping outside your bubble, in order to help or lift the spirits of another human being regardless of their need." I'm not sure it's even something that's thought about, but something that develops or happens naturally. It's getting the bee some sugar water It's checking the garden for hedgehogs before you light a bonfire Instead of donating £2 a month to a charity even though you could easily afford ten times as much, it's the person who can't, but gives the orphaned kid a cuddle, and tells them they matter kinda thing. The person who gives hope through their actions that the world isn't as cruel as it may seem Is that not kindness? | |||
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"If you are kind you know it, it’s a choice you make , it almost always has a cost, giving a good tip, choosing to say kind words, writing a thank you note to the hotel room cleaner , helping someone out who doesn’t deserve it. If it doesn’t cost it’s not kindness And yet so often, we hear it costs nothing " Doesn’t always cost money - time, effort , risk of being called an idiot.... | |||
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"Kindness is key. I’m attracted to beautiful humans, which is more soul than style." | |||
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"Kindness is key. I’m attracted to beautiful humans, which is more soul than style." Opens the door to the soul | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal I'd say it's going out of your way, stepping outside your bubble, in order to help or lift the spirits of another human being regardless of their need. I'm not sure it's even something that's thought about, but something that develops or happens naturally. It's getting the bee some sugar water It's checking the garden for hedgehogs before you light a bonfire Instead of donating £2 a month to a charity even though you could easily afford ten times as much, it's the person who can't, but gives the orphaned kid a cuddle, and tells them they matter kinda thing. The person who gives hope through their actions that the world isn't as cruel as it may seem Is that not kindness? " Yes it is Not sure it needs to be an either or though not sure one could or should try to quantify a hierarchy of kindness A kind act is a kind act , kinda | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal I'd say it's going out of your way, stepping outside your bubble, in order to help or lift the spirits of another human being regardless of their need. I'm not sure it's even something that's thought about, but something that develops or happens naturally. It's getting the bee some sugar water It's checking the garden for hedgehogs before you light a bonfire Instead of donating £2 a month to a charity even though you could easily afford ten times as much, it's the person who can't, but gives the orphaned kid a cuddle, and tells them they matter kinda thing. The person who gives hope through their actions that the world isn't as cruel as it may seem Is that not kindness? " I'm not sure where i stand on animal welfare being kindness although certainly it's in the same bracket and speaks well of a persons nature. Charity has nothing to do with kindness certainly and I'd argue it can often be selfish. The giving a kid a hug is defo what i was getting at, or kind words for a colleague in distress, helping an old lady over the road etc. It takes many forms but it's noticing and sparing a thought or action for those around you. | |||
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"Don't mistake my kindness for weekness, I am kind to everyone but if you're unkind to me, weekness will not be what you remember about me. That sounds more like a threat than kindness " Pi just like the quote it's Al capone so yeah probably a threat | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal I'd say it's going out of your way, stepping outside your bubble, in order to help or lift the spirits of another human being regardless of their need. I'm not sure it's even something that's thought about, but something that develops or happens naturally. It's getting the bee some sugar water It's checking the garden for hedgehogs before you light a bonfire Instead of donating £2 a month to a charity even though you could easily afford ten times as much, it's the person who can't, but gives the orphaned kid a cuddle, and tells them they matter kinda thing. The person who gives hope through their actions that the world isn't as cruel as it may seem Is that not kindness? I'm not sure where i stand on animal welfare being kindness although certainly it's in the same bracket and speaks well of a persons nature. Charity has nothing to do with kindness certainly and I'd argue it can often be selfish. The giving a kid a hug is defo what i was getting at, or kind words for a colleague in distress, helping an old lady over the road etc. It takes many forms but it's noticing and sparing a thought or action for those around you." Thats what I meant about the charity. That's more generosity than kindness, and an awful lot of people can afford way more but don't, so I'm not sure if that's generous or not. I think it isn't. So when people say "yeah I'm kind, I support charity" but you know it means fuck all in their heart. | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal I'd say it's going out of your way, stepping outside your bubble, in order to help or lift the spirits of another human being regardless of their need. I'm not sure it's even something that's thought about, but something that develops or happens naturally. It's getting the bee some sugar water It's checking the garden for hedgehogs before you light a bonfire Instead of donating £2 a month to a charity even though you could easily afford ten times as much, it's the person who can't, but gives the orphaned kid a cuddle, and tells them they matter kinda thing. The person who gives hope through their actions that the world isn't as cruel as it may seem Is that not kindness? I'm not sure where i stand on animal welfare being kindness although certainly it's in the same bracket and speaks well of a persons nature. Charity has nothing to do with kindness certainly and I'd argue it can often be selfish. The giving a kid a hug is defo what i was getting at, or kind words for a colleague in distress, helping an old lady over the road etc. It takes many forms but it's noticing and sparing a thought or action for those around you. Thats what I meant about the charity. That's more generosity than kindness, and an awful lot of people can afford way more but don't, so I'm not sure if that's generous or not. I think it isn't. So when people say "yeah I'm kind, I support charity" but you know it means fuck all in their heart." Agreed wholeheartedly, if you have to let others know you give to charity then it's because you want others to know how good you are, selfish. | |||
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"If she doesn't say thank you when I gave her an orgasm I won't see her again. " I always say thank you even though you may not realise I've had an orgasm | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal I'd say it's going out of your way, stepping outside your bubble, in order to help or lift the spirits of another human being regardless of their need. I'm not sure it's even something that's thought about, but something that develops or happens naturally. It's getting the bee some sugar water It's checking the garden for hedgehogs before you light a bonfire Instead of donating £2 a month to a charity even though you could easily afford ten times as much, it's the person who can't, but gives the orphaned kid a cuddle, and tells them they matter kinda thing. The person who gives hope through their actions that the world isn't as cruel as it may seem Is that not kindness? I'm not sure where i stand on animal welfare being kindness although certainly it's in the same bracket and speaks well of a persons nature. Charity has nothing to do with kindness certainly and I'd argue it can often be selfish. The giving a kid a hug is defo what i was getting at, or kind words for a colleague in distress, helping an old lady over the road etc. It takes many forms but it's noticing and sparing a thought or action for those around you. Thats what I meant about the charity. That's more generosity than kindness, and an awful lot of people can afford way more but don't, so I'm not sure if that's generous or not. I think it isn't. So when people say "yeah I'm kind, I support charity" but you know it means fuck all in their heart." I think I know what you mean, Rich suit attends a £1000 a plate charity function, Joe Bloggs puts his last 50p in the charity collection tin, I'd say Joe was the kindest as he gave everything he had and put the needs of others before his own. | |||
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" Kindness is treating another simpley as another equal human This Is it? I don't think that's being kind. I think that's being fucking normal I'd say it's going out of your way, stepping outside your bubble, in order to help or lift the spirits of another human being regardless of their need. I'm not sure it's even something that's thought about, but something that develops or happens naturally. It's getting the bee some sugar water It's checking the garden for hedgehogs before you light a bonfire Instead of donating £2 a month to a charity even though you could easily afford ten times as much, it's the person who can't, but gives the orphaned kid a cuddle, and tells them they matter kinda thing. The person who gives hope through their actions that the world isn't as cruel as it may seem Is that not kindness? I'm not sure where i stand on animal welfare being kindness although certainly it's in the same bracket and speaks well of a persons nature. Charity has nothing to do with kindness certainly and I'd argue it can often be selfish. The giving a kid a hug is defo what i was getting at, or kind words for a colleague in distress, helping an old lady over the road etc. It takes many forms but it's noticing and sparing a thought or action for those around you. Thats what I meant about the charity. That's more generosity than kindness, and an awful lot of people can afford way more but don't, so I'm not sure if that's generous or not. I think it isn't. So when people say "yeah I'm kind, I support charity" but you know it means fuck all in their heart. I think I know what you mean, Rich suit attends a £1000 a plate charity function, Joe Bloggs puts his last 50p in the charity collection tin, I'd say Joe was the kindest as he gave everything he had and put the needs of others before his own." Yes. Exactly | |||
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"A big problem today is many dont realise kindness is tough love sometimes and we have become a nation of enablers" True that, for example I'd enable you to lift your top for me. | |||
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"Absolutely I see a little trend forming that I'm more attracted to men who have dogs Kinda demonstrates a caring streak I guess? Jo x " Ah but what about the guy who wants a dog but decides it would be cruel to leave alone at home for over 8hrs everyday and so does not give in to a selfish desire? | |||
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"Absolutely I see a little trend forming that I'm more attracted to men who have dogs Kinda demonstrates a caring streak I guess? Jo x Ah but what about the guy who wants a dog but decides it would be cruel to leave alone at home for over 8hrs everyday and so does not give in to a selfish desire?" I'll consider him too The thought was there There are a myriad or dog walking businesses mind you X | |||
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