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Going A.W.O.L. or M.I.A.

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By *aul1973Hull OP   Man
over a year ago

East Hull

If for some reason you stopped logging on to here & other social media, stopped replying to texts, whatsapps, emails and any other messaging formats, stopped answering phone calls. How much time do you think would pass before somebody became concerned enough for your welfare to report you missing? Hours? Days? Weeks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From just here? I wouldn’t have thought they ever would to be honest. Maybe one would. When I have a break I usually delete kik too.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Mine would be not turning up for work.

Could be hours, could be days. If it had been during my time off then it would have been weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have socail media. However afew people on here whatsapped me within the day when i deleted my old profile.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Years probably

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

My sister did this a few years ago now. It took me a day or so to notice. And a I'm turning up on your doorstep if you don't answer me message for her to tell me she was ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once missed my alarm for work and didn’t wake up until 11.

I called them straight away to apologise and they said they assumed I was taking the day off as holiday. They didn’t even text to check

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m not here now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't be from social media, messaging etc. that I'd get reported missing but whether I came home or not.

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By *aul1973Hull OP   Man
over a year ago

East Hull


"From just here? I wouldn’t have thought they ever would to be honest. Maybe one would. When I have a break I usually delete kik too. "

No not just here, absent from all forms of communication.

You're one of the kool kids Nora, I'm sure a few people would notice if you were absent from here after only a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From here no one would bat an eyelid, but my friends start freaking out if you don't answer a WhatsApp within about half an hour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few days to a week? Hardly anyone here has my contact info though so I probably wouldn't know until I logged back on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If for some reason you stopped logging on to here & other social media, stopped replying to texts, whatsapps, emails and any other messaging formats, stopped answering phone calls. How much time do you think would pass before somebody became concerned enough for your welfare to report you missing? Hours? Days? Weeks?"

Minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From just here? I wouldn’t have thought they ever would to be honest. Maybe one would. When I have a break I usually delete kik too.

No not just here, absent from all forms of communication.

You're one of the kool kids Nora, I'm sure a few people would notice if you were absent from here after only a day "

Not really. They’re used to me disappearing for weeks . 2 people have my number though so they might check on me.

In real life probably about an hour! I can’t do anything without one of the kids ringing or Facetiming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If for some reason you stopped logging on to here & other social media, stopped replying to texts, whatsapps, emails and any other messaging formats, stopped answering phone calls. How much time do you think would pass before somebody became concerned enough for your welfare to report you missing? Hours? Days? Weeks?"

I dated a soldier all of a sudden it went quiet. I got a call from the army he had gone AWOL.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I can honestly say that no one on here would give a shit lol

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

On here about an hour but that would be one of my relationships as we chat everyday

Real life normally a couple of hours as I like my quiet time and they know that

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Via my inbox? A few days

Via the forums - I wouldn’t hold my breath!

I’m fine with that. I have lovely inbox interactions so would rather someone I messaged missed me than someone I once made laugh back in 2017 who can’t really remember who I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this but my brother has a key to my house, saw him within a couple of days asking if my phone was broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive a few folk from Fab on my facebook and other social media..

Im sure it wouldnt be all that long. However doubt this time around many from the current forums would 'know' me enough to be concerned..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn’t turn up to work with no contact then within a few hours they would be at my door.

Just stopping all contact, several days I imagine. I’m notoriously bad at answering calls or returning messages so it wouldn’t concern anyone that knew me!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Maybe a few weeks for my real life friends. I often go MIA online when I'm working intensely so they're used to it. If they were worried they'd probably contact my mum before the police as that's happened before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never

unless it's the police spying on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just talking about this.

I don’t know how long it would take people to miss me.

In real life it would probably take a while because I work so much so I’m often MIA from my social life. A couple of weeks at least I’d imagine.

On here, I think there are one or two people who would notice my absence after a few days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From here I have on occassion.

Pretty sure I coukd have gone forever without causing a ripple of concern....

From "real life"... I'm already a hermit

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

They would never miss me on here as i take long breaks. In the real world it took 48hrs before they called the police to break in. My mum has a key but id left my key in the door so she couldnt get in. Got a right bollocking for it and put on a new care plan

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