FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone have problems cumming

By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

For a while now ive had issues cumming . I usually have to finish up by getting my cock sucked then wanking til i cum ....usually in her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much porn and fantasising about being fab straight i suspect

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By *ingeriearoundTV/TS
over a year ago

Where ever the wind takes me

I'm the same. Can go for days sometimes. As said above is sometimes from too much wanking. Or if you've put a shift in trying to impress with mad skills and are knackered doesn't help.

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Oh it can take me literally forever and a day to come! I really enjoy myself, but just can't always orgasm, particularly if it hasn't been so long since I last had an orgasm. It is what it is! Xx her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's just not going to happen no matter how much I want it. It's not a big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's just not going to happen no matter how much I want it. It's not a big deal

Same here sometimes i last and last and sometimes never cum, so those that i do cum for I know i have had a really good sensuous time with them.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Sometimes don't cum first time round but after 5 mins i get back on the horse and fill her up

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

Might help guys....get more Zinc intake

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I know I'm a woman but I know for me I can get desensitised from too much stimulation so a small break and starting again gently usually does the trick. Might be worth a try for the guys too, who knows. Though obviously it's okay if it just doesn't happen too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffers this for 3 years or more. One day it just went away

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Yup, I nerve damage so....... *shrug*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last year when i was going through a breakdown i did. It was all in the mind and was frustrating for 6 months but worrying will make it worse. Chill relax and reconnect with yourself

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

It happens, dude. For many reasons.

Physical, exhaustion, psychological, even some diet changes. Loads of factors.

Don't stress it, though: stress is kinda the biggest one and really, it doesn't say anything about anyone.

Shrug, do a little penis dance, have a laugh, continue doing sex. Might help.

(NOTE: I'm not a real doctor.)

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

"It happens, dude. For many reasons.

Physical, exhaustion, psychological, even some diet changes. Loads of factors.

Don't stress it, though: stress is kinda the biggest one and really, it doesn't say anything about anyone.

Shrug, do a little penis dance, have a laugh, continue doing sex. Might help.

(NOTE: I'm not a real doctor.)

Stress has been big lately ...the family courts over the yrs havnt helped must admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually have to finish up by getting my cock sucked then wanking til i cum ....usually in her mouth "

Are you sure that's not just what you're telling her?

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By *ustyMilfxxxCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

" Too much porn and fantasising about being fab straight i suspect "

What is fab straight? X

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I've had this issue since getting the snip 9 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *r and Mrs PenguinCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes. As the female half, I have always found it hard to cum.

Squirting is not an issue, but to orgasm is hard with hubby or others.

Things get too wet to quickly haha

It's not about being horny, or certain mood.

If I do it myself it's very easy but with hubby or fwb or both, I find it very hard.

If I do orgasm it will be because I am on top and controlling how, what and where...

It's well frustrating..

Any tips gladly recieved haha xx

Mrs p xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problems cumming finding a woman to cum with is the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get it a lot too, sometimes just doesn’t happen. I put it down to steer of work and when I have been on my bike for hours crushing my groin (not in a nice way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on allot of medication the last year or so and can't cum at all most times but wen i do I could nearly get it across the room ????

Least wer not 2 pumps and a squirt ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh it can take me literally forever and a day to come! I really enjoy myself, but just can't always orgasm, particularly if it hasn't been so long since I last had an orgasm. It is what it is! Xx her"

I am like this too. Then other times I can cum very easily and multiple times. I just don't think about it as I still thoroughly enjoy the sex.

Her x

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Im very lucky. I orgasm so easily, extremely rare that I don't.

But there's nothing wrong with finishing yourself off OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on some medication and found that it literally takes ages to cum, but as soon as I come off, I cum in almost no time.

Weird how the body works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the problem is that you've had a patch of too little sex and too few orgasms and the body's got used to that. In other words, assuming you have no meds problems or other specific issues, you have to train your body a bit so it's used to cumming.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Only when i think of Margaret Thatcher in a basque,stockings & high heels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only when i think of Margaret Thatcher in a basque,stockings & high heels!

I just came

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex military, spinal injury, meds for PTSD and it happens a lot. Sometimes I have what I call a dry cum, same effect minus jizz. I focus on keeping my head together and not having bad thoughts, it seems like when I relax, I can cum ok. I am just happy to be on the right side of the dirt, most days!

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By *reamblueMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah, it is kind of a nice problem to have. It means you're having sex in the first place which is always nice. If I start to worry I won't be able to cum then that makes it 10 times worse and I know it won't happen

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By *an SmithMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

After having a prostate laser rebore I don't cum at all. Ever. However, my orgasm is probably more intense than it has ever been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. As the female half, I have always found it hard to cum.

Squirting is not an issue, but to orgasm is hard with hubby or others.

Things get too wet to quickly haha

It's not about being horny, or certain mood.

If I do it myself it's very easy but with hubby or fwb or both, I find it very hard.

If I do orgasm it will be because I am on top and controlling how, what and where...

It's well frustrating..

Any tips gladly recieved haha xx

Mrs p xx"

I have the same problem and not yet found a solution. Can cum when I'm on my own or phone or sex texting and can gush for England in front of someone. But, despite being every feeling going, tears in the eyes, body shaking etc, I very rarely cum in front of anyone. Twice in the last 15 years!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely everyone experiences this sometimes. Many factors involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m on some medication and found that it literally takes ages to cum, but as soon as I come off, I cum in almost no time.

Weird how the body works!"

Sertraline by any chance?

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By *adylydfordWoman
over a year ago

altinkum

My otherhalf cant cum if he gets too hot. We sometimes forget to turn on the dyson fan and its frustrating for us both. I dont feel i have done a good enough job if he doesnt cum but i get exhausted with him just going on and on. He obviously gets hot and sweaty and tgen carries on trying to cum.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Obviously dehydrated, possibly doesn't drink enough water regularly enough, it recommended about 3 litres of water every day, tea and coffee doesn't count apparently

As an aside, if the partner is aware of this beforehand it does at least put them still ease in as much the self doubt about THEIR performance ( in want of a better phrase) and what have they done wrong. In the lifestyle, if it is an issue, it would fair to make the others aware as the destination for some is as, if not more, than the journey itself.

For us it's the ride we enjoy more than the final stopping point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Medication makes it very hard to, if I'm really tired as well then not a chance I'll cum.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"Medication makes it very hard to, if I'm really tired as well then not a chance I'll cum."

Tiredness is a good point too.

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By *ovestruck69Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I do after the 3rd or 4th time lol

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