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By *ingleCheshireM OP   Man
over a year ago

Alsager

So I’m in a strong current relationship, but I want nothing more than an ex. She is engaged, but not a day goes by without me thinking about her non stop. We are currently talking whilst working on a creative project, which has seriously intensified my feelings for her. Do I open up and pour my heart out? Just because it may be the last chance? I’m really stuck for people to ask and would love some genuine advice. I can’t function daily because of these feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would your current gf feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you told your current girlfriend

You may have that feeling for your ex but does she have same for you

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By *ingleCheshireM OP   Man
over a year ago

Alsager

Hurt and disappointed. But I genuinely know there is nobody on earth I want more

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By *ingleCheshireM OP   Man
over a year ago

Alsager

Current girlfriend kind of knows or has atleast picked up on these feelings.Ex girlfriend has maybe dropped a hint or 2, but I could be reading it wrong. Hint or not this woman is the one for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hurt and disappointed. But I genuinely know there is nobody on earth I want more"

Best finish with your current gf then.

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By *ingleCheshireM OP   Man
over a year ago

Alsager

I understand that. But theirs actually no problem with my current girlfriend. I don’t seek other females for sex or relationship reasons, I’ve never met a anyone more suited to me, apart from my ex. So to split up with my current girlfriend would partially be backwards. I do feel I should, but if my ex rejects me fully, I’ve wasted the 2nd most important girl I’ve met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is she an ex?

Why do you think you have feelings for her now? Because she’s moved on?

Imo, rarely does getting back with an ex work out, they are usually exes for good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t string them along or you will lose them both. Don’t make it messy. You can’t have your cake and eat it, it won’t end well. Best choose, and choose fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your current girlfriend is the “2nd most important” in your life you should end it now. The main reason being that it’s cruel to keep her tagging along behind a ghost of an old relationship. If your ex wants you back or not, no one deserves to be a consolation prize.

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By *ingleCheshireM OP   Man
over a year ago

Alsager

I’ve chosen. I guess I need the courage to talk to my current girlfriend and explain how I feel and how it really isn’t about her, and she couldn’t do anything to change how I feel. It’s just impossible to explain I need time to re-evaluate my life and Get my head around my ex without actually losing my current girl forever. I wouldn’t act behind her back either. Hence me asking for advice in my life pickle

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By *ingleCheshireM OP   Man
over a year ago

Alsager

You’re bang on. I guess the only right way is to confide in my current girlfriend before I bring it up with my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe ask your girlfriend what she thinks? I'm sure she'll give you some honest advice.

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By *ingleCheshireM OP   Man
over a year ago

Alsager

You could say I’m mad asking relationship advice on a swinger forum but to my way of thinking swinger couples know how to trust and be trusted better than anybody? And also know where the boundary is

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By *ingleCheshireM OP   Man
over a year ago

Alsager

A fairytale world where she’d allow me to push the avenue whilst waiting for me would be amazing. But It’s not going to be that pretty in reality I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your current girlfriend is the “2nd most important” in your life you should end it now. The main reason being that it’s cruel to keep her tagging along behind a ghost of an old relationship. If your ex wants you back or not, no one deserves to be a consolation prize. "

This.

I’d hate you if I found I was second choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your current girlfriend is the “2nd most important” in your life you should end it now. The main reason being that it’s cruel to keep her tagging along behind a ghost of an old relationship. If your ex wants you back or not, no one deserves to be a consolation prize. "

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A fairytale world where she’d allow me to push the avenue whilst waiting for me would be amazing. But It’s not going to be that pretty in reality I guess "

Wouldn't it be lovely if we could all have our cake and eat it.

Tread warily, you may find you have no cake at all.

Maybe some time out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m in a strong current relationship, but I want nothing more than an ex. She is engaged, but not a day goes by without me thinking about her non stop. We are currently talking whilst working on a creative project, which has seriously intensified my feelings for her. Do I open up and pour my heart out? Just because it may be the last chance? I’m really stuck for people to ask and would love some genuine advice. I can’t function daily because of these feelings "

Forbidden fruit

Age old tale

Grass is greener - it rarely is btw

Go for it. What have you got to lose?

Saira x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that. But theirs actually no problem with my current girlfriend. I don’t seek other females for sex or relationship reasons, I’ve never met a anyone more suited to me, apart from my ex. So to split up with my current girlfriend would partially be backwards. I do feel I should, but if my ex rejects me fully, I’ve wasted the 2nd most important girl I’ve met "

I've changed my mind

You're clearly a C**t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that escalated quickly.

Women aren't football teams. They should all be number 1 when with you. Sounds like your current GF is the reserve team and nobody wants to watch them. Let her get into someone else's first team. She deserves a better pitch to play on.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"If your current girlfriend is the “2nd most important” in your life you should end it now. The main reason being that it’s cruel to keep her tagging along behind a ghost of an old relationship. If your ex wants you back or not, no one deserves to be a consolation prize.

This "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel sorry for your current girlfriend, you don't diserve her, let her get on with her life and find someone who doesn't think of her as second best, grow a pair, if I was your current girl and read this, you feet wouldn't touch the ground as I got rid of you and moved on, are you so insecure that you can't be single? And at the same time probably distroy your girlfriend if she found out, don't be so selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe what I read on the forums sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe what I read on the forums sometimes

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Get a new girlfriend that knows what to do with you and I'm sure that you will forget about your ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure your current girlfriend will be chuffed to know she's second best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you love two people at the same time,choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn`t have fallen for the second."

Johnny Depp (surprisingly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""If you love two people at the same time,choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn`t have fallen for the second."

Johnny Depp (surprisingly)"

Yeah

He's done fabulously with relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up? "

I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco

My life is dull compared to OP's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?

I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco

My life is dull compared to OP's"

If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?

I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco

My life is dull compared to OP's

If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up "

If you have

A. A Black Country accent

B. And Uno game

And C. A local Tesco

I might consider it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?

I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco

My life is dull compared to OP's

If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up

If you have

A. A Black Country accent

B. And Uno game

And C. A local Tesco

I might consider it"

An not and. Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?

I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco

My life is dull compared to OP's

If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up

If you have

A. A Black Country accent

B. And Uno game

And C. A local Tesco

I might consider it

An not and. Ffs"

Will my brummie accent do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?

I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco

My life is dull compared to OP's

If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up

If you have

A. A Black Country accent

B. And Uno game

And C. A local Tesco

I might consider it

An not and. Ffs

Will my brummie accent do x"

At a push

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?

I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco

My life is dull compared to OP's

If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up

If you have

A. A Black Country accent

B. And Uno game

And C. A local Tesco

I might consider it

An not and. Ffs

Will my brummie accent do x

At a push"

They be a plenty a pushing going on x

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