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Does age really matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When it comes to getting that spark getting the attraction to someone especially on Fab is age really a problem because once upon a time we all used to be young and now we are all getting old

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes age does really matter to some of us.

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By *am4youMan
over a year ago

gillingham

Age does matter and but all to their own. I personally will not have sexual intercourse with someone I’m old enough to be her dad or someone old enough to be my mum. Like I said it’s all about preference.

I have a good friend on here that will never have sex with someone than she’s not at least 20 years than.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - I guess it's just another preference some have

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

It's elastic based on horn, desperation level

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

It clearly does for a lot of ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does to me.

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By *-and-mCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle

We are very open minded about age and most other things

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes but it's not the be all and end all.

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Absolutely not! Can chat to young and old not a problem so why would a number dictate that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Matters to me

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

At a club or party i am well aware i have had great sex with men very much younger than me. This is never a problem and age is not an issue but if i choose to spend 1 to 1 time with a certain person then i really do need someone i feel comfortable with in many other ways apart from just a sexual connection.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Age as a number never bothers me, looking like my dad does

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Young looking guys are a big no

We have a son in late teens so that's just wrong in my eyes

Everyone is different OP

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age as a number never bothers me, looking like my dad does "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes it matters to me

I wouldn't have a connection with someone who was miles younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does, especially when you're outside preferences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It's incredibly unlikely that I'll fuck an octogenarian... I'm just not their type

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Yes..again.. was nice and responded to a chap of 25... thats a social that was soooo awkward.. my preferences stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes think maybe it would be fun to shag someone in their 20s /30s... But then i think what on earth will we talk about

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes it’s important, and wouldn’t go with anyone my child’s age, maturity and experience counts for a lot

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"I sometimes think maybe it would be fun to shag someone in their 20s /30s... But then i think what on earth will we talk about "

You talk?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Young looking guys are a big no

We have a son in late teens so that's just wrong in my eyes

Everyone is different OP

Jo x "

I completely understand that everyone is different everyone has got their own opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I wish it didn't matter as they are some beautiful women that are older than myself on this site that I would love to talk too but everyone has a preference and you have to respect that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sometimes think maybe it would be fun to shag someone in their 20s /30s... But then i think what on earth will we talk about "

You never know there could be some interesting things that you could talk about like the weather

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it’s important, and wouldn’t go with anyone my child’s age, maturity and experience counts for a lot"

I've always said for 32 years old I'm not too bad in the mature way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im so old i can't remeber the question

So im just going to say i like jelly babies and bicycles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes think maybe it would be fun to shag someone in their 20s /30s... But then i think what on earth will we talk about

You talk? "

Ummm yeah haha.... I need input

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I don't want anyone my sons age nor do I want someone my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes think maybe it would be fun to shag someone in their 20s /30s... But then i think what on earth will we talk about

You never know there could be some interesting things that you could talk about like the weather "

Err

See.. I'll stick with my interesting 40+..actually seems to be 50+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a no strings sex meet I am not really bothered about age , as long as there is the physical attraction to want to meet in the first place .

If I was wanting to date then yes age is massively important for me .

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Clearly it didn't matter for Rolf Harris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it matters. I relate better to people of certain age bracket usually..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clearly it didn't matter for Rolf Harris."

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Clearly it didn't matter for Rolf Harris."

A little wee just came out

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes age is a factor for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is as much a factor as many things, it's understandable that it could influence anyone's preference.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Butlins, Bognor Regis

Yes it matters, fab is different from a club. You build a rapport with someone here and generally someone of a similar age gets my references, there are exceptions but I'll never really go too young... There are people reading this thinking he hasn't got a chance anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes think maybe it would be fun to shag someone in their 20s /30s... But then i think what on earth will we talk about "

^^This^^ While I would be flattered if someone in their 20s/30s wanted to sleep with me in all honesty it would probably not happen or, if it did, just be a one off (but like anything there will be exceptions).

While I usually prefer someone 5-6 years younger I wouldn't discount anyone 5-6 years older if a connection was there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not too bothered by age myself , but we’re all different

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also I look at my body which shows signs of a life well lived and the experiences we've been through together and think that despite their protestations that they like older women, young men in their 20s and 30s would never pick an older woman over younger if they had the choice.

I don't say that in a sad way but it's realistic and I don't want to feel like second best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is only a number in my opinion I love older women but I also love younger women haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter for me personally. I feel a bit awkward if I'm with someone too young, I know I shouldn't feel awkward but I just feel peoples "gaze of judgment" with anything too much more than ten years difference....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i find 20 somethings dont have much realworld life experience or much i can relate with in conversations.

I like people around my age -5 year +10 years... better conversion and soo so much better & more experimental in bed.

Im not strict on age but i wouldnt fuck a fit 20 year old just because she was pretty.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Butlins, Bognor Regis


"Also I look at my body which shows signs of a life well lived and the experiences we've been through together and think that despite their protestations that they like older women, young men in their 20s and 30s would never pick an older woman over younger if they had the choice.

I don't say that in a sad way but it's realistic and I don't want to feel like second best. "

I completely agree, I'm surprised if anyone in their 20s or 30s shows any interest in me. Clubs are different and I get that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Also I look at my body which shows signs of a life well lived and the experiences we've been through together and think that despite their protestations that they like older women, young men in their 20s and 30s would never pick an older woman over younger if they had the choice.

I don't say that in a sad way but it's realistic and I don't want to feel like second best.

I completely agree, I'm surprised if anyone in their 20s or 30s shows any interest in me. Clubs are different and I get that"

Yes.

I think once you reach 50 to 65/70 things even out a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The spark is the one that makes a difference to me. Age less so.

If someone is fun, attractive to me and interesting then I’m always happy to get to know them, age be damned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't shag an 18 or a 99 year old. I have an range between those that I seem to keep falling into. But that's probably just the 'middle age crisis' age when men panic that they'll never have sex again so they chat me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age matters very much to me, i don't want to meet guys the age of my children or my parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does matter. Each to their own though

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