FabSwingers.com forum: Why do so many straight guys ???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do so many straight guys look for TV's on here ????

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

This site needs an FAQ sticky thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many straight guys look for TV's on here ????"

I suppose it's just because they can. It doesn't actually matter what the profile states its whatever interests the person. I try to ignore the labels and just accept people.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site needs an FAQ sticky thread. "

Agree

Or you could just do an FAQ thread and people can do a forum search for it. Similar to the thread on the emojis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"This site needs an FAQ sticky thread. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they like talking to tv/ts but arnt sexually attracted to them.bit they get am ego boost when flirted with???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't anyone look for anything they like and why can't what we look for change in a heartbeat? Why the need to judge others?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Maybe they like talking to tv/ts but arnt sexually attracted to them.bit they get am ego boost when flirted with???"

Or maybe they quack like a duck and swim like a duck, but with a bit extra?

TV/TS aren’t my bag, but things aren’t as clear cut as some people think.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Some women or couples don’t meet Bi guys, it’s that simple. So by labelling yourself bi, it means you’re limiting some potential meets.

Or in some cases as they see a feminine image in front of them, they also don’t see it as a bisexual act, as they’re not attracted to masculinity at all. So sleeping with a convincing Tgirl is just a woman with a little extra.

That’s Fab for you

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Thinking that they may not be straight!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies and insite guys ,hope i haven't offended anyone.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Why do so many straight guys look for TV's on here ????

I suppose it's just because they can. It doesn't actually matter what the profile states its whatever interests the person. I try to ignore the labels and just accept people.

Her x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't anyone look for anything they like and why can't what we look for change in a heartbeat? Why the need to judge others?

Exactly!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Thinking that they may not be straight!"

Or maybe they are straight.

who really cares ?

Is their choices same as we all have our own choices .

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

Mate, there's only one way to find out! Go for it!

Spoken by a nearly straight guy

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By *readMan
over a year ago

polesworth

When you get aroused by the real possibility of experiencing your deepest, or previously unimaginable fantasies that don’t conspire, people are engulfed and indulge in fantasies just as inconceivable but a lot more accessible

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place "

Is that such a important think for you? Are you looking for straight guys, sounds like ! If is not the case just move on , there's question they are outdated already and more than answered over and over again .

Enjoy Fabs OP and concentrate in what you looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An insight into my Bi/Not Bi.

I have and will in the future play with men. I can't say I am Bi because I am only really attracted to a man on a rare occasion. Only a very few I find to my taste. I have very specific likes when it comes to men, and all have to be ticked!

I wouldn't say I am strictly Straight either but, i find the vast majority of women attractive in one way or another.

It's the need to label that causes the issue.

I find more Cute Ts's attractive than men. It may be the femininity, the breasts who knows. Its just what I like.

I will happily dance, kiss and fumble with anyone in a club, but i need to be drawn to you for anything else!

In my opinion I am somewhere between straight and Bi. I have put Bi in profiles before and have gotten grief for not engaging with men more.

I am happy with who I am and who/what I am attracted to. I do not need to conform to anyone else's idea or label.

Much the same as others have their ideas and ideals. The expectation of conformity to a strict set of "rules" rather than the questions asked, is what I find a frustration. Ask any Q you have but, don't push back if you don't agree. Just accept that there are a handful of labels for 7,000,000,000 people! Not everyone will fit!

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

For a perv, there are some fine looking tv/ts even if you don't swing that way, appreciate beauty in all it's forms i say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they’re not gay but bloke sucking their cock is

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

There's a large concept within the bisexual community that recognises a person's ability to self identify, that recognises that 99%/1% attraction is still recognised as bi.

However there is also a huge stigma associated with male bisexuality, so for many they can't or won't recognise that part of themselves. They also assume that people (mainly women) won't meet them if they 'come out'.

It's a very complex and thorny issue. One that is an individual journey to be taken and can't be rushed.

As such the simple answer is; leave them to it, it has no bearing on your experience here whatsoever

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place "

All the biphobia on fab might have something to do it if I was to have a guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place

All the biphobia on fab might have something to do it if I was to have a guess. "

Why is there a biphobia on this site? Sorry if it's been covered before but this the first time I'm hearing about this.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place

All the biphobia on fab might have something to do it if I was to have a guess.

Why is there a biphobia on this site? Sorry if it's been covered before but this the first time I'm hearing about this."

Because a percentage of people are absolute shitters no matter where you look, being on a site like this does not exclude closed minded or out dated views. For the record that is just an opinion

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Straight men are defined as men exclusively attracted to women. Trans women are exactly that; Women.

I don't see what's so confusing about that.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"Straight men are defined as men exclusively attracted to women. Trans women are exactly that; Women.

I don't see what's so confusing about that."

There is quite the argument over how an individual identifies vs biological identity. Whilst i have my own opinion on the subject I'll say it's a very emotive issue and also nuanced.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place

All the biphobia on fab might have something to do it if I was to have a guess.

Why is there a biphobia on this site? Sorry if it's been covered before but this the first time I'm hearing about this.

Because a percentage of people are absolute shitters no matter where you look, being on a site like this does not exclude closed minded or out dated views. For the record that is just an opinion

Not either exclude bi, open minded people or whatever you want to call , and for more shitter people can be that don't makes you better than anyone else here

For the record this is just a simple and honest opinion

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place

All the biphobia on fab might have something to do it if I was to have a guess.

Why is there a biphobia on this site? Sorry if it's been covered before but this the first time I'm hearing about this.

Because a percentage of people are absolute shitters no matter where you look, being on a site like this does not exclude closed minded or out dated views. For the record that is just an opinion

This! Biphobia exists within society there it will exist on here. I'm kind of surprised there aren't yet comments saying men meet TVs and men because women won't meet them as if men are just something people fall back on out of desperation. Not sure what that says about straight women either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many straight guys look for TV's on here ????

I suppose it's just because they can. It doesn't actually matter what the profile states its whatever interests the person. I try to ignore the labels and just accept people.

Her x"

So true

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Straight men are defined as men exclusively attracted to women. Trans women are exactly that; Women.

I don't see what's so confusing about that."

Agreed but just because someone is a TV on here it doesn't mean they're necessarily transgender. Some are but many aren't.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place

All the biphobia on fab might have something to do it if I was to have a guess.

Why is there a biphobia on this site? Sorry if it's been covered before but this the first time I'm hearing about this.

Because a percentage of people are absolute shitters no matter where you look, being on a site like this does not exclude closed minded or out dated views. For the record that is just an opinion

I meet women and i'm sure is not because women's don't want to meet them , this all biphobia for sure works only against mans , reading threads about is impossible deny that

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Straight men are defined as men exclusively attracted to women. Trans women are exactly that; Women.

I don't see what's so confusing about that.

Agreed but just because someone is a TV on here it doesn't mean they're necessarily transgender. Some are but many aren't. "

I'm transgender but that doesn't make anyone else less or more valid

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place

All the biphobia on fab might have something to do it if I was to have a guess.

Why is there a biphobia on this site? Sorry if it's been covered before but this the first time I'm hearing about this.

Because a percentage of people are absolute shitters no matter where you look, being on a site like this does not exclude closed minded or out dated views. For the record that is just an opinion

Not either exclude bi, open minded people or whatever you want to call , and for more shitter people can be that don't makes you better than anyone else here

For the record this is just a simple and honest opinion "

Anyone and everyone can lay claim to being better than someone AND shitter than some with the use of perspective. I respect all views regardless of whether i agree with them and have some very disagreeable views on various subjects myself. I do think that biphobia or any other such view point is extremely out dated in an "enlightened" society but it still persists.

In fairness though my ill thought out remark could perhaps have been worded better.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Straight men are defined as men exclusively attracted to women. Trans women are exactly that; Women.

I don't see what's so confusing about that.

Agreed but just because someone is a TV on here it doesn't mean they're necessarily transgender. Some are but many aren't. "

Well, quite. That's rather my point. Fab doesn't have the capacity to identify gender rather than sex, "TV/TS" seems to be the only option beyond binary gender identity. TV/TS doesn't necessarily mean a cis man cross-dressing for sexual kicks, and declaring that straight men meeting trans people are meeting men and therefore not straight ignores so much nuance that it's inherently absurd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place

All the biphobia on fab might have something to do it if I was to have a guess.

Why is there a biphobia on this site? Sorry if it's been covered before but this the first time I'm hearing about this.

Because a percentage of people are absolute shitters no matter where you look, being on a site like this does not exclude closed minded or out dated views. For the record that is just an opinion

So does this just apply to men, then? I've seen a lot of couples on here looking for a single bisexual lady to play with but I've seen no issue with that

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Straight men are defined as men exclusively attracted to women. Trans women are exactly that; Women.

I don't see what's so confusing about that.

Agreed but just because someone is a TV on here it doesn't mean they're necessarily transgender. Some are but many aren't.

It's too broad of a category but at the same time I think the alternative of 101 to cover everyone who currently uses it wouldn't be great either. I'm not sure what the solution is to that particular problem.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Straight men are defined as men exclusively attracted to women. Trans women are exactly that; Women.

I don't see what's so confusing about that.

Agreed but just because someone is a TV on here it doesn't mean they're necessarily transgender. Some are but many aren't.

*101 categories

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By *nblemishedhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

because a lot of " straight " guys are BI and they can justify it to themselves by looking at Tv's and TS's. Oh im not gay it's just a girl with a dick.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"because a lot of " straight " guys are BI and they can justify it to themselves by looking at Tv's and TS's. Oh im not gay it's just a girl with a dick."

Sad that they don't feel ok to just accept being bi.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Straight men are defined as men exclusively attracted to women. Trans women are exactly that; Women.

I don't see what's so confusing about that.

Agreed but just because someone is a TV on here it doesn't mean they're necessarily transgender. Some are but many aren't.

*101 categories"

I'm not arguing for a broader gender-identity list to choose from necessarily, although it's important to be inclusive, a small niche member-supported site can't reasonably be all things to all people. (Although dismissive jibes about "101 categories" aren't particularly helpful)

The solution, as I see it, is for people to stop acting like it's their business what consenting adults do with their own genitals.

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

I'll try and explain. I don't fancy guy's at all. So I'd make a crap gay/bi guy. What does turn me on, is femininity. So, I like girls and trans girls. See, easy!

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"because a lot of " straight " guys are BI and they can justify it to themselves by looking at Tv's and TS's. Oh im not gay it's just a girl with a dick.

Sad that they don't feel ok to just accept being bi. "

I mean, this really hits the nail on the head. If it weren't for the kind of homophobic bullshit that gets spouted every time a post like this goes up, maybe people WOULD be more comfortable being more open.

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

"Why do so many straight guys look for TV's on here ????"

I sometimes wonder that myself,

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

Folk can do whatever they want to do, it’s nobody else’s business at the end of the day.....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Straight men are defined as men exclusively attracted to women. Trans women are exactly that; Women.

I don't see what's so confusing about that.

Agreed but just because someone is a TV on here it doesn't mean they're necessarily transgender. Some are but many aren't.

*101 categories

The solution, as I see it, is for people to stop acting like it's their business what consenting adults do with their own genitals. "

I didn't think you were. I'm saying I recognise the problem and I'm not sure what the solution is as personally I think neither of those options work.

Also not sure why you think I'm making dismissive jibes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with a new tv. My 42” is knocking on a bit now.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"because a lot of " straight " guys are BI and they can justify it to themselves by looking at Tv's and TS's. Oh im not gay it's just a girl with a dick.

Sad that they don't feel ok to just accept being bi.

Exactly.

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By *untop7Man
over a year ago

Eaton

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place "

Agree... whether they are or are not sexually attracted to men.. they should say bi. Thinking about it, if you are not sexually into guys then why even bother fucking TV?TS? Mind boggles.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"because a lot of " straight " guys are BI and they can justify it to themselves by looking at Tv's and TS's. Oh im not gay it's just a girl with a dick."

Because maybe they don't need to justify their own choices to anyone . Do you justify all your choices? Don't right ? Me either and i believe nobody either .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am seeing some very reductive opinions.

I would like to think that they may be, perhaps views quickly written and that the meaning has been skewed a little in haste.

But arguing that the onus is on the individual to state what others think they should identify as. Rather than the argument, that the wider society should be more accepting of an individual for who and what they are.

The blanket view of they need to do this or that, is quite dismissive of an individuals right to be who AND what they want!

If you want to call yourself straight, Bi, Gay whatever. That is what you identify as. There is no further argument!

The idea that being attracted "exclusively" to a sex is a HUGE oversimplification. I would argue that anyone can be attracted to ANYONE.

I am attracted to whomever I find attractive! They just happen to be predominantly women.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"because a lot of " straight " guys are BI and they can justify it to themselves by looking at Tv's and TS's. Oh im not gay it's just a girl with a dick.

Sad that they don't feel ok to just accept being bi. "

Sad is questioning others choices when is nobody's business .

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"because a lot of " straight " guys are BI and they can justify it to themselves by looking at Tv's and TS's. Oh im not gay it's just a girl with a dick.

Sad that they don't feel ok to just accept being bi.

Sad is questioning others choices when is nobody's business ."

Yep.

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By *ing_of_the_swingers400Man
over a year ago

edinbugh

"because a lot of " straight " guys are BI and they can justify it to themselves by looking at Tv's and TS's. Oh im not gay it's just a girl with a dick.

Sad that they don't feel ok to just accept being bi.

Sad is questioning others choices when is nobody's business ."

Exactly!!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Cant understand why they just dont say bi ! There is also a lot of guys on here as straight suddenly appear on fabguys. Why not just say it in the first place

Agree... whether they are or are not sexually attracted to men.. they should say bi. Thinking about it, if you are not sexually into guys then why even bother fucking TV?TS? Mind boggles."

Would you bother in Fuck a lesbian woman? Or a transman?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I could do with a new tv. My 42” is knocking on a bit now."

I have a spare one if you in need of one you also can take the wall mont with you , can save you some pennies

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"because a lot of " straight " guys are BI and they can justify it to themselves by looking at Tv's and TS's. Oh im not gay it's just a girl with a dick.

Sad that they don't feel ok to just accept being bi.

Sad is questioning others choices when is nobody's business ."

I'm not questioning anyone's choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they know how to put on make up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could do with a new tv. My 42” is knocking on a bit now."

I like older TVs, can I wank in front of it?

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Not guilty

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

Just because a man is straight, doesn't mean he isn't still straight if he's with a transgender woman. He doesn't have to say he's bi, because he may not be bi. He doesn't have to say he's gay, because he's not gay. A straight man can be with all the women or transgender women he wants, and still be straight. The operative word here is "women", it's not that complicated people.

Transgender "woman"

Transexual "woman"

Transvestite "woman"

Can you see the pattern here people !!!

Sure, there's some naive people out there that

want to argue this fact for one reason or another.

The fact is many straight men like transgender

women, and their still straight, and if you don't

like that their straight and attracted to

transgender women, well, that's just tough on you

isn't it lol. Your just gonna have to live with that

fact whether you like it or not aren't you ; ) !!!

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

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