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By *icolerobbie OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall

What would peoples requirements be for boyfriend or girlfriend material.

Yesterday I overheard a group of young lads debating how sexy a lady was, when one of them chirped in “she’s hot, but not girlfriend material”

Love to hear everyone’s thoughts about this. Are you relationship worthy to others? Do you care? Do you even want a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boyfriend/girlfriend material to me would be just that, be my friend but that's it. Mention the word relationship and all you'll see is the dust as I run very fast in the other direction.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

On paper no im not relationship material but after meeting my perfect match 15 years ago then yes i am relationship material to him

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Boyfriend/girlfriend material to me would be just that, be my friend but that's it. Mention the word relationship and all you'll see is the dust as I run very fast in the other direction. "

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i’d say when you find someone attractive and wouldn’t mind fucking them but you don’t fancy waking up every morning to them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've never understood that phrase

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

I love all of my relationships, the deeper personal connection and the ability to make love to a wonderful human being, without feeling pressure to conform to societies norms Is something I'm never letting go of again

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I love all of my relationships, the deeper personal connection and the ability to make love to a wonderful human being, without feeling pressure to conform to societies norms Is something I'm never letting go of again "

You are very special and a rare find

For us it’s someone who you enjoy spending time with, can be yourself with, challenges you a little, but you don’t want to commit to going further / moving in etc ( not possible for us!) - it’s a friend, an adventure, will usually run it’s course but it could in theory be permanent. We both have one or two each !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would take him saying that as to mean she either looks like a slut or looks like she’d be hard work.

Not my opinion, just what I’d imagine he meant!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford

If she can cook a good lasagne and asks me to make love to her often then its a good start.

Oh - and likes to wear blue underwear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refuse to answer this question so as not to incriminate myself.

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By *icolerobbie OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"I personally would take him saying that as to mean she either looks like a slut or looks like she’d be hard work.

Not my opinion, just what I’d imagine he meant!"

I took it as a high maintenance type. Could be wrong

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

o o OO o o

Realistically I’m not girlfriend material these days.

I have two young children, we live with my mum and that will be for the long term now.

I don’t particularly want a conventional “live in” relationship now anyway. I’d rather meet someone who was happy to live apart and we see each other as and when we can (at least a couple of times a week) and maybe holiday together etc.

So they’d have to be patient, laid back and extremely trust worthy and not at all needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I nit had reltionship in years so I wouldn't know what reliontshio is now so I'm not really relationship matraial

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

You would want a boyfriend or girlfriend to be someone who you want to spend time with rather than just oggle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship first. A boyfriend/girlfriend has to pass the “friend” section before anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what girlfriend material is but sadly I've come to the realisation I'm not seen as it.

I'm very much in the great fun to fuck but not to marry category.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Apparently none ofy friends can understand why I am single still. Perhaps some of my ex's could explain why

Seriously though I'd love to find someone to be with but I just never happens. I'm always someone's bit of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take it as someone that’s good for a shag but you wouldn’t want to introduce to your family and friends

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I would take it as someone that’s good for a shag but you wouldn’t want to introduce to your family and friends "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would take it as someone that’s good for a shag but you wouldn’t want to introduce to your family and friends "

So would I but I'm lovely lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, not boyfriend material would be those muppets talking about that girl like that.

I hope she always has good hair days and clear skin and whatever relationship dynamic she wants, she finds.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I would take it as someone that’s good for a shag but you wouldn’t want to introduce to your family and friends "

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Personally I'd find that quite insulting. Although I've seen similar thought processes on here often enough

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By *icolerobbie OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"For me, not boyfriend material would be those muppets talking about that girl like that.

I hope she always has good hair days and clear skin and whatever relationship dynamic she wants, she finds.

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She had her youth and good looks, dressed beautifully. She wouldn’t have trouble attracting male attention. I just didn’t quite get why she wouldn’t be worthy of a relationship.

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By *icolerobbie OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"Personally I'd find that quite insulting. Although I've seen similar thought processes on here often enough"

Maybe the younger generation no longer want relationships.

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By *icolerobbie OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"Apparently none ofy friends can understand why I am single still. Perhaps some of my ex's could explain why

Seriously though I'd love to find someone to be with but I just never happens. I'm always someone's bit of fun. "

There’s someone for everyone, or so they say.

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