FabSwingers.com forum: Losing interest after messages

By *imBanks OP Man
over a year ago

Letchworth

How do you keep things going while waiting to meet a far away fab friend?

It seems to have fizzled out after the initial excitement and messages, it's become a bit one sided and infrequent now. Damn you Covid

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's right it just keeps itself going...

I think you've answered this one yourself. Sadly it's fizzled out and that's just one of those things x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

It takes two to tango as the saying goes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's right it just keeps itself going...

I think you've answered this one yourself. Sadly it's fizzled out and that's just one of those things x"

I would agree here. And add that even in the initial stages it is all about pacing the messages. If you get that initial rush of excitement and you are virtually in each other's pockets then once that wears off so can the interest. To keep it going when you can't really plan for a meet in the current situation takes commitment from both sides.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trick is not to bore the shit out of people. So cam with them make sure you have a unique talent and show it off.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Thing is it has to be working for both of you and happen naturally, you can't force it - and when it does happen that way it just flows and seems "right"

As someone else said sometimes you do get that initial "flurry" that then fizzled and dies down - sometimes it can be revived and sometimes it dies off completely - there really is no rhyme or reason to it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imBanks OP Man
over a year ago

Letchworth

Thanks above, I've not abandoned hope just yet!

It would be a shame as we chatted loads on & off Fab.

I'm sure things will be better when meets are ok again.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could just ask her straight if she is still interested. The worse bit is the not knowing and being unsure of where you stand.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Do the elephant dance on cam for them and their interest will be reignited, that is a personal guarantee.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

That’s Fab life unfortunately. Plenty more fish in the sea as they say

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

With my special friends we keep checking in with each other and are honest about how we are feeling with each other although sporadically we trust in our relationships.

Sometimes after that has happened it becomes one sided then I let it naturally slide away sometimes connections can be rebuilt, mostly I move on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread