FabSwingers.com forum: Unleash your inner Goth!

By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Dyed my hair today and far from being "Chocolate Brown" as per the box, I am now virtually jet black....with nails to match on one hand as I lost a glove ( doh!)

I guess I'm just going to have to embrace my unintentional move to the Dark Side and put some Sisters of Mercy on...

Any other closet Goths out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Ello there lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirted with goth when I was in university, but the music was shit and I didn't like the clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hair is naturally almost black, not sure that makes me a closet goth though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf this sounds like a good photo challenge for you girls, inner goth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do but not had the wish to since all this stuff kicked off

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Used to be back in the day, dyed my Ian McCulloch style spiky dark hair with blue streaks (obviously before I turned blonde lol), wore only black clothes, listened to Bauhaus and sulked a lot!!

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"‘Ello there lovely

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Im looking forward to the pics then

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By *ingeriearoundTV/TS
over a year ago

Where ever the wind takes me

I do like a bit of goth. Murder dolls and Marilyn mason.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Not remotely closet

I love the dark side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still listen to Fields of the Nephilim, Bauhaus and Sisters of Mercy on occasion but was never a full-on Goth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to have my hair dyed black with a red fringe and my lip pierced still got my ink though

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Aren’t they called Emos now or is that something else. Whatever they are called , they are hot but take forever to unlace , especially the boots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I died my hair black once I just looked pale and uninteresting

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Used to be back in the day, dyed my Ian McCulloch style spiky dark hair with blue streaks (obviously before I turned blonde lol), wore only black clothes, listened to Bauhaus and sulked a lot!! "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone very slightly lighter than black recently... But yes, very much a closet goth. The past few years I've added a little more colour mind x

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By *mbracedeleganceMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Definitely more of a ‘closet goth’ now. Still love my rock music but don’t dress that way anymore. I do miss my long hair and baggy trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Litterally did some dark side photos yesterday x

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Moelfre

Oh never mind Sisters of Mercy get some Siouxie on!

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Hello there!

In all seriousness if you want to tone down the goth vibe head and shoulders original shampoo is basically a really good colour stripper.

5 min mask well lathered up will strip it down one shade, rinse and repeat until it's the desired colour xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love the whole pale skin, dark eyes, dark lip look..

ive auburn/blonde hair. Dont think id suit it to go fully dark

I did used to be flame red though

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By *iercedyvonneTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

I love the look but rarely fully indulge in it. Only on special occasions.

I'm usually in black and always wear all my piercings.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I was watching Strike and when Holliday Grainger assumed the goth look - my penis did suddenly twinge. It was most curious....

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I use to date a goth model many many many years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not closet goth... Outland proud

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd totally go black if I wasn't too lazy to dye my roots. Maybe when I go grey

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I'd totally go black if I wasn't too lazy to dye my roots. Maybe when I go grey

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Keep us posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always loved goth girls, don’t see as many these days but would still love to meet some or a couple

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By *luryMan
over a year ago

?????

I did that hole scene years ago. Hopefully gigs are back next year and I finally get to see mercyful fate.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

What do you mean 'inner'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure I’m edgy enough to pull it off. I’m too much of a walking marshmallow

Witch bitch season is around the corner though who knows

might take a day trip over to the dark side

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I’m not sure I’m edgy enough to pull it off. I’m too much of a walking marshmallow

Witch bitch season is around the corner though who knows

might take a day trip over to the dark side

I am also a walking marshmallow but it's part of my look

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

The music was great, Sisters of Mercy, look at their video, Mother Russia/Dominion, you can't tell me the girl in that video isn't as hot as hell, girls like that always do something for me, The Mission The Cult, all great

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

I've always found goth women sexy,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hair is red and blue it use to be long but had to cut it with it falling out so much don't dress as goth as I use to when I was younger but still enjoy the music

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By *iercedyvonneTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

"The music was great, Sisters of Mercy, look at their video, Mother Russia/Dominion, you can't tell me the girl in that video isn't as hot as hell"

Confirmed. Hot as hell.

I always liked the girl in the Marilyn Manson Tainted Love video.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Nothing closeted about my gothness. I tone it down somewhat for clubs as the swinging scene is very normie, but you're never going to mistake me for someone who likes [insert whatever's in the charts at the moment].

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dyed my hair today and far from being "Chocolate Brown" as per the box, I am now virtually jet black....with nails to match on one hand as I lost a glove ( doh!)

I guess I'm just going to have to embrace my unintentional move to the Dark Side and put some Sisters of Mercy on...

Any other closet Goths out there?

Yes! I do have days where I just want to get my hair dyed black again, pull out my dms, go and buy a long black lacy skirt and rock the look like I used to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More an out and proud one here.

Well, a gothabilly anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me! From the totally black bedroom when I was a teen to the backcombed hair and ott black eyeliner. Just kept the eyeliner today and a love of black clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both goth here. Nothing left to release

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Nothing closeted about my gothness. I tone it down somewhat for clubs as the swinging scene is very normie, but you're never going to mistake me for someone who likes [insert whatever's in the charts at the moment].

Poser! Goth all the way baby, fuck what normies think, that's what being a goth is about. "Ridicule is nothing to be scared of". Adam Ant."

Actual fucking LOL at someone calling *me* a "poser".

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Me! From the totally black bedroom when I was a teen to the backcombed hair and ott black eyeliner. Just kept the eyeliner today and a love of black clothes

And just when I thought I couldn't like you any more than I do already!

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Wow, was that really 33 weeks ago? Bloody hell. No wonder my roots have come through!

Just picked up a box of "Intense Espresso" to try next

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

More punky atm but love alt in all it's forms xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I opened this expecting another photo challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still gothing in my DM's special occasions may call for guyliner

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Still gothing in my DM's special occasions may call for guyliner

Oh I do love a bit of guyliner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do goth bi bikers get extra points?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I was always more of an indie kid, but it’s a broad church.

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By *hat_alt_coupleCouple
over a year ago

near you

Hey

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

Been listening to goth,punk,heavy metal,alternative since I was in my teens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dyed my hair today and far from being "Chocolate Brown" as per the box, I am now virtually jet black....with nails to match on one hand as I lost a glove ( doh!)

I guess I'm just going to have to embrace my unintentional move to the Dark Side and put some Sisters of Mercy on...

Any other closet Goths out there?

I still listen to The Sisters of Mercy and Siouxsie, sadly no hair left to dye anymore lol...

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Poser! Goth all the way baby, fuck what normies think, that's what being a goth is about. "Ridicule is nothing to be scared of". Adam Ant.

Actual fucking LOL at someone calling *me* a "poser".

What self respecting Goth tones it down in order to fit in? If people don't except you, fuck them your in the wrong place. Try a fetish club instead if it's full of townies and shit music.

The whole point of Goth was being who you are, irrespective of being ridiculed, insulted or even attacked (which used to be quite common in the 80s and 00's).

Unless your one of the ones who does the Goth thing once a year (like Whitby attracts these days) because they don't really have the bottle to do the Goth thing?

I know it's not just about the clothes it's a life style choice as well. Yes I am so lofty, I shit marble

Go to a formal job interview in full cowboy-covered-in-flour Fields of the Nephilim regalia.

Let us know how you get on.

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By *an Seeking StuffMan
over a year ago

linslade.

Just by posting your opinion here you have shown yourself to be a conformist pig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ziggy Stardust by Bauhaus really started it for me. As a biker and rocker I still used to hang with a Goth crowd. Leather n lace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, there was one local Goth hangout, the back room of a large licensed B&B. I'd head there at 11pm after the rock pub closed.

Were PIL gothic, or merely new wave? I sprayed my doc Martins metallic blue and made like Zodiac Mindwarp despite my Monsters of Rock tshirts lol

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Dyed my hair today and far from being "Chocolate Brown" as per the box, I am now virtually jet black....with nails to match on one hand as I lost a glove ( doh!)

I guess I'm just going to have to embrace my unintentional move to the Dark Side and put some Sisters of Mercy on...

Any other closet Goths out there?

Still have black Tudor style dress & bought a full length trench coat this year

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By *an Seeking StuffMan
over a year ago

linslade.

It was just getting interesting!

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By *urydiceRisingWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Goth Girl from San Francisco here. My favourite places are still graveyards - no body talks back and everyone stays where you put them. Used to paint spider webs on my face with black eyeliner just to piss off my mother. I don't think I wore coloured clothes until a few years ago. My one non-goth thing is no tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dyed my hair today and far from being "Chocolate Brown" as per the box, I am now virtually jet black....with nails to match on one hand as I lost a glove ( doh!)

I guess I'm just going to have to embrace my unintentional move to the Dark Side and put some Sisters of Mercy on...

Any other closet Goths out there?

Welcome to the dark!!

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Moelfre

"Haha, there was one local Goth hangout, the back room of a large licensed B&B. I'd head there at 11pm after the rock pub closed.

Were PIL gothic, or merely new wave? I sprayed my doc Martins metallic blue and made like Zodiac Mindwarp despite my Monsters of Rock tshirts lol"

PiL are post-punk/new wave. Fantastic and interesting band.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Jesus and Mary Chain...

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By *ltcouple69Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Dyed my hair today and far from being "Chocolate Brown" as per the box, I am now virtually jet black....with nails to match on one hand as I lost a glove ( doh!)

I guess I'm just going to have to embrace my unintentional move to the Dark Side and put some Sisters of Mercy on...

Any other closet Goths out there?

Well you don't look very Goth! Just a phase then?

My father said that 25 years ago and Here I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have hair anymore and I blend in clothes wise with normal people (I blend in with hobos to be honest) but in my heart I'm still a Cure head.

Seen them 2 years ago and it was magic.

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By *ltcouple69Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I don't have hair anymore and I blend in clothes wise with normal people (I blend in with hobos to be honest) but in my heart I'm still a Cure head.

Seen them 2 years ago and it was magic. "

Whats hair to do with being a Goth or not? Just wearing black does not make you Goth, its more then that. According to the news, Eva Green is a Goth because she wears black in most of the films...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oof Eva Green...

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Don't mention Eva Green to Minnie.. Lololol

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By *ltcouple69Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

The point is, wearing simply black does not make you a Goth. Are Uniformed Police Goths, Vicars No!

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