FabSwingers.com forum: muscles hot or not???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi all

i'm steve i'm fairly new to this site and i'm getting mixed response to my build most couples wont entertain me i think purely on my size. Is it intimidating to meet someone of my size if your in a relationship or is it men have insecurities and see me as a threat,yet single men and women contact me all the time. Honest answers please i'm a big boy i can take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there more to you than the muscles ?

for some they will be enough

for others they won't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im fairly intelligent not some neanderthal that ok the size says i am but i've worked hard to look the way i do and some people see it as disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a fan of muscular men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why cute? just curious x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi all

Can I ask why do you think my man (big build, not muscly) feel intimidated by a body builder type?

It's a gunuine question...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im fairly intelligent not some neanderthal that ok the size says i am but i've worked hard to look the way i do and some people see it as disgusting "

some people do

some people don't

do the results make YOU happy ?

surely not being seen as physically attractive by some people is a small price to pay for you achieving your goals ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not a fan of muscular men"

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot, hot, hot!!! I love muscles and could play with them all day! Mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I like fit, well toned guys (which is hilarious as I am neither). However someone who spends all day in front of the mirror kissing his guns or rippling his 6-pack would not be for me.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not a fan of overly muscular guys..

Average / Athletic is what I go for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why cute? just curious x "

i just dont find it attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 25/06/12 20:16:37]"

oops so hot had to say it twice! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im just trying to find out why im getting a mixed response thats all im not saying people are intimidated im just asking if they are and why? hate this stigma i seem to have people think im just some sort of meathead im a soldier in the british army and i love my job but get the same sort of treatment there

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I'd say the biggest thing to put couples off of meeting you is the fact you don't mention wanting to meet them in your profile..... that just might have something to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nik likes muscles,im a fair size and ive noticed more blokes look at me than women haha,not in a gay way though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was enormous, with muscles on his muscles. His pecs were bigger than my boobs and I'm a 36G. We had problems with getting meets with other couples and were told that he was intimidating. We had no problems with meeting singles though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs doesnt like massive muscles, and Mr wouldnt be imtimadated my you either not in a you up for a fight way, he,s just a confident man around anyone so you wouldnt bother him,

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

the world turns and its full of different people.

pay attention to those that show positivity towards you and your physique, and dont worry about the other.

why would they bother you anyway?

you like the way you look so why would people that dont like it be a detriment to you in anyway?

and no, not for us, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im just trying to find out why im getting a mixed response thats all im not saying people are intimidated im just asking if they are and why? hate this stigma i seem to have people think im just some sort of meathead im a soldier in the british army and i love my job but get the same sort of treatment there "

it's only a stigma if you allow it to be

i am at the opposite end of the scale

i get picked out cos of my weight and the fact for a bloke am a short ass

if i'd have listened to every pillock that had called me over the years, i'd have thrown myself off the top of a car park years ago

if you like the way you look, accept that some people will and some people won't and move on

some women will find it attractive, others won't

some men will find it intimidating, others will take you as they find you

can i ask you a question and feel free to answer in private if you don't want to here ?

was there a reason you wanted to become so big ?

did you / do you feel inferior in some way to other guys and felt that the big guy look would take some of that away ?

did you think it would make you more attracive to all women ?

or did you just like that look ? you saw other guys and thought i would look like that ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like fit, well toned guys (which is hilarious as I am neither). However someone who spends all day in front of the mirror kissing his guns or rippling his 6-pack would not be for me."

is that not the same as a woman spending 2 hours getting ready for a night out? ha ha kissing guns im not that extreme i still slob out not stuck on a diet and i only go gym 3 times a week

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek

it's my ugly mug that stops me getting a shag

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I like muscles and tall fit toned men. Fortunately for me, many gym bunnies like a girl with some cushion for the pushin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for coarses. Some people will find muscles attractive and some won't....each to their own.

Concentrate on those that find you attractive and accept that we can't all to attractive to everyone

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I like fit, well toned guys (which is hilarious as I am neither). However someone who spends all day in front of the mirror kissing his guns or rippling his 6-pack would not be for me.

is that not the same as a woman spending 2 hours getting ready for a night out? ha ha kissing guns im not that extreme i still slob out not stuck on a diet and i only go gym 3 times a week"

I work with soldiers and can assure you there are plenty that spend a lot of time admiring themselves. there are also plenty who are just my type, and I enjoy watching them on the treadmill while I wheeze and puff on the crosstrainer behind them. However, as I spend less than 30 mins getting ready for a night out I am not sure what the point of your comparison is.

By all means, spend your time improving yourself. But who are you doing it for? Yourself? Or the couples you aren't meeting?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Off topic somewhat but did you all know that the tongue is the only muscle in the body attached at one end only (*).

For a reason.

(*) snapped hamstrings excepted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

it's only a stigma if you allow it to be

i am at the opposite end of the scale

i get picked out cos of my weight and the fact for a bloke am a short ass

if i'd have listened to every pillock that had called me over the years, i'd have thrown myself off the top of a car park years ago

if you like the way you look, accept that some people will and some people won't and move on

some women will find it attractive, others won't

some men will find it intimidating, others will take you as they find you

can i ask you a question and feel free to answer in private if you don't want to here ?

was there a reason you wanted to become so big ?

did you / do you feel inferior in some way to other guys and felt that the big guy look would take some of that away ?

did you think it would make you more attracive to all women ?

or did you just like that look ? you saw other guys and thought i would look like that ?"

i was the fat kid in school usual story bullied told ill never amount to anything so i changed for me not to fit in but to stand out. and as i said before im not saying they are intimidated just asking if

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every single one of us that use this site will get a mixed response. You can't float everyone's boat ..... not one person on this planet can.

Concentrate on the positive responses you get in your private mail box.... it's the only way forward

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Horses for coarses. Some people will find muscles attractive and some won't....each to their own.

Concentrate on those that find you attractive and accept that we can't all to attractive to everyone

Or some of us to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well good for you in turning your physical self around

don't take this the wrong way, but i think the mental effect of that bullying has run deeper than the physical

be happy man

you look good, with some confidence and a bit of self assuredness behind ya you could turn it all round

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Every single one of us that use this site will get a mixed response. You can't float everyone's boat ..... not one person on this planet can.

Concentrate on the positive responses you get in your private mail box.... it's the only way forward

im not trying to bed the world just trying to understand the situation (its a army thing)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well good for you in turning your physical self around

don't take this the wrong way, but i think the mental effect of that bullying has run deeper than the physical

be happy man

you look good, with some confidence and a bit of self assuredness behind ya you could turn it all round

possibly yes but i seen one of them a year or so ago and i always said id beat him but when i seen him i pitied him felt sorry because i seen the scared look in his eye i just walked away and that gave me closure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every single one of us that use this site will get a mixed response. You can't float everyone's boat ..... not one person on this planet can.

Concentrate on the positive responses you get in your private mail box.... it's the only way forward

im not trying to bed the world just trying to understand the situation (its a army thing)

Well, read my answer (and all of the other answers that you have got) again... it'll prove life is full mixed responses

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Every single one of us that use this site will get a mixed response. You can't float everyone's boat ..... not one person on this planet can.

Concentrate on the positive responses you get in your private mail box.... it's the only way forward

im not trying to bed the world just trying to understand the situation (its a army thing)

Well, read my answer (and all of the other answers that you have got) again... it'll prove life is full mixed responses

your a diamond cheers x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If you wanted a good curry, would you go to Pizza Hut?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"If you wanted a good curry, would you go to Pizza Hut?"

If i wanted a good pizza, i wouldn't go to Pizza hut.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

you look ok to me but then muscles dont mean a lot to me

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"If you wanted a good curry, would you go to Pizza Hut?

If i wanted a good pizza, i wouldn't go to Pizza hut. "

I like their salad bar though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you wanted a good curry, would you go to Pizza Hut?

If i wanted a good pizza, i wouldn't go to Pizza hut.

I like their salad bar though."

oh no dont do salad bring on the ice cream though

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If you have the brain to match the brawn? Hell yes please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you have the brain to match the brawn? Hell yes please

ha ha that i do well i like to think so anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love guys with muscles or athletic and toned.

But yeah as a bigger girl I've a cheek wanting toned men lol, the gyms my idea of hell

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"If you have the brain to match the brawn? Hell yes please

ha ha that i do well i like to think so anyway

Bugger!! They are always so bloody far away!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love guys with muscles or athletic and toned.

But yeah as a bigger girl I've a cheek wanting toned men lol, the gyms my idea of hell

why is it a cheek ?

if that's what you like, that's what you like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you have the brain to match the brawn? Hell yes please

ha ha that i do well i like to think so anyway

Bugger!! They are always so bloody far away!!

ha ha im actually born and raised in paisley im just posted in leicester (north luffenham)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you wanted a good curry, would you go to Pizza Hut?

If i wanted a good pizza, i wouldn't go to Pizza hut. "

If I wanted an upset stomach, you couldn't pull me away from Pizza Hut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol "

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Get in the queue

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"If you have the brain to match the brawn? Hell yes please

ha ha that i do well i like to think so anyway

Bugger!! They are always so bloody far away!!

ha ha im actually born and raised in paisley im just posted in leicester (north luffenham)

Yeah, but your no way near me lol and that is the difference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love guys with muscles or athletic and toned.

But yeah as a bigger girl I've a cheek wanting toned men lol, the gyms my idea of hell

why is it a cheek ?

if that's what you like, that's what you like "

I think its just how some of society expects bigger people to feel inferior and that we should be 'grateful' to get some action, never mind hot action with the kind of guys that we're into. Just how I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have the brain to match the brawn? Hell yes please

ha ha that i do well i like to think so anyway

Bugger!! They are always so bloody far away!!

ha ha im actually born and raised in paisley im just posted in leicester (north luffenham)

you ever come home to visit? Not that far from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Get in the queue

There's already a queue?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Get in the queue

There's already a queue?

Deffo you and me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love guys with muscles or athletic and toned.

But yeah as a bigger girl I've a cheek wanting toned men lol, the gyms my idea of hell

why is it a cheek ?

if that's what you like, that's what you like

sod that for a game of soldiers

i can sniff out a chubby chaser a mile off

practice makes perfect as they say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love guys with muscles or athletic and toned.

But yeah as a bigger girl I've a cheek wanting toned men lol, the gyms my idea of hell

why is it a cheek ?

if that's what you like, that's what you like

ha ha beleve it or not same thing for me x people see me as a tool (not in the sense you all are thinking lol) im a way to get back at the ex sort of thing its quite degrading to think people only like a certain type of body we are all the same just different shapes and colours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 years on army scran, and thats natural!!! fair play

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Get in the queue

There's already a queue?

Deffo you and me lol

ha ha bring it on anytime lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love guys with muscles or athletic and toned.

But yeah as a bigger girl I've a cheek wanting toned men lol, the gyms my idea of hell

why is it a cheek ?

if that's what you like, that's what you like

sod that for a game of soldiers

i can sniff out a chubby chaser a mile off

practice makes perfect as they say

I need to pratice more lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Get in the queue

There's already a queue?

Deffo you and me lol

ha ha bring it on anytime lol

"
haha... can you cope with us both...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A welcome wud await u here!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Get in the queue

There's already a queue?

Deffo you and me lol

ha ha bring it on anytime lol

Oi I'm a pad's brat, so I know how the land lies! So I must be at the top of the queue right?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Just been for a little perv... ahem!

look at your profile.

You might be surprised but many of the women on here would be far more impressed by the pic of you in the yellow tee than the one in the pulled up black tee.

We will perv over the body shots, but a good, smiley face pic is far more useful when looking for meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Get in the queue

There's already a queue?

Deffo you and me lol

ha ha bring it on anytime lol

Oi I'm a pad's brat, so I know how the land lies! So I must be at the top of the queue right?

ha ha there is plenty to go around x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has likes and dislikes, we are all different and you will not appeal to all just in the same way that we may not appeal to everyone, don't worry about it, as long as you're happy and comfortable thats what is important, and true friends will always look at the person as a whole not just at what is on the outside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been for a little perv... ahem!

look at your profile.

You might be surprised but many of the women on here would be far more impressed by the pic of you in the yellow tee than the one in the pulled up black tee.

We will perv over the body shots, but a good, smiley face pic is far more useful when looking for meets

oh yes

and tidy your room up

they can be very fussy on here ya know

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Get in the queue

There's already a queue?

Deffo you and me lol

ha ha bring it on anytime lol

Oi I'm a pad's brat, so I know how the land lies! So I must be at the top of the queue right?

ha ha there is plenty to go around x

Me first me first!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Get in the queue

There's already a queue?

Deffo you and me lol

ha ha bring it on anytime lol

haha... can you cope with us both...;-)"

ha ha with no doubt x all my muscles are big so i return the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have an amazing body and from what you've said in this thread, you have your head screwed on the right way. And your head's not up your own arse which is amazing!

On personality I'd definitely meet you. Your body would put me off as I'm not a gym bod and I wouldn't think you'd meet someone like me so I wouldn't even try.

Chat to people more and they will get to know you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just been for a little perv... ahem!

look at your profile.

You might be surprised but many of the women on here would be far more impressed by the pic of you in the yellow tee than the one in the pulled up black tee.

We will perv over the body shots, but a good, smiley face pic is far more useful when looking for meets

cheers for that ill try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i think u look amazing, prob not every ones cup of tea but then who is, we all have our own personal prefernces!!i wouldnt worry hun...just gonna perv over your pics again...Hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you have an amazing body and from what you've said in this thread, you have your head screwed on the right way. And your head's not up your own arse which is amazing!

On personality I'd definitely meet you. Your body would put me off as I'm not a gym bod and I wouldn't think you'd meet someone like me so I wouldn't even try.

Chat to people more and they will get to know you.

I suggest a MMF

The big lad can make you feel all inadequate and I can make you see that things ain't that bad after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you have an amazing body and from what you've said in this thread, you have your head screwed on the right way. And your head's not up your own arse which is amazing!

On personality I'd definitely meet you. Your body would put me off as I'm not a gym bod and I wouldn't think you'd meet someone like me so I wouldn't even try.

Chat to people more and they will get to know you.

I suggest a MMF

The big lad can make you feel all inadequate and I can make you see that things ain't that bad after all

ha ha ha thats not me at all i dont judge been there delt with it and wouldnt want anyone to go through it just because i look like this dont mean i want a size 8 blond x its all about the curves for me only dogs chase bones

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

They say the biggest muscle in your body is your brain so I'd like to say I'm ripped. Unfortunately I can't.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"They say the biggest muscle in your body is your brain so I'd like to say I'm ripped. Unfortunately I can't."

Surely it's the biggest sexual organ

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"They say the biggest muscle in your body is your brain so I'd like to say I'm ripped. Unfortunately I can't.

Surely it's the biggest sexual organ"

No that's my cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Get in the queue

There's already a queue?

Deffo you and me lol

ha ha bring it on anytime lol

haha... can you cope with us both...;-)

ha ha with no doubt x all my muscles are big so i return the question

ooh I think we can cope with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They say the biggest muscle in your body is your brain so I'd like to say I'm ripped. Unfortunately I can't.

Surely it's the biggest sexual organ

No that's my cock."

ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"personally i think u look amazing, prob not every ones cup of tea but then who is, we all have our own personal prefernces!!i wouldnt worry hun...just gonna perv over your pics again...Hmmmmm

ha ha perv away

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Where was that thread about BBW's, I want to show the OP of it how it's done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

Was thinking the same kind of thing meself

Don't mind muscles, so long as they aren't the sole topic of conversation...get bored then! Can be beautifully toned but if there is nothing else to a guy then what's the point. I like to have a giggle in the breathers on a meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow wow wow wow, just need to go and find a change of panties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why is it all the hotties live miles away. your defo a hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is all horses for courses , I've spoke to a few ladies who where turned off by athletic guys and like there men with a beer belly , which is fair enough as I like ladies who are keen on food

Different people like different things , it about liking the way you look and I'd say 95% of people have some critisism about themselves.

You've obviously worked hard to get what youve got so should be proud of yourself , even prouder that you managed to do that on the stable Scottish diet of deep fried mars bars , they are a speciality in paisley and Johnston

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"They say the biggest muscle in your body is your brain so I'd like to say I'm ripped. Unfortunately I can't.

Surely it's the biggest sexual organ

No that's my cock."

Dinosaurs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not in the queue, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you have an amazing body and from what you've said in this thread, you have your head screwed on the right way. And your head's not up your own arse which is amazing!

On personality I'd definitely meet you. Your body would put me off as I'm not a gym bod and I wouldn't think you'd meet someone like me so I wouldn't even try.

Chat to people more and they will get to know you.

I suggest a MMF

The big lad can make you feel all inadequate and I can make you see that things ain't that bad after all

wayhayyy mmf it is then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi all

Genuine ones are fab but the guys who seem to use pictures from the USA sites always make me giggle. Bless hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them,love them,love them...got a bit of a fetish.

Not the be all and end all though,but a big bonus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys with big strong arms and a nice chest,, but 6 packs are not my thing, prefer just a flat tummy to a 6 pack,,, but well done you, you look like you put alot of effort into it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. As a muscly guy myself i struggle to open a tin of beans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like gents who care about their appearances, however, not vain gym bunnies who adore their own reflections in the mirror and window.

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By *RS79Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I have loads of muscles just most of them are relaxed! As for a six pack - please! I have a 24 pack!!!!

I am short fat hairy apart from my now balding head ginger blind and have an average sized cock!

Do I worry that I am not attractive to everyone? Am intimidated by anyone - no I just get on with things - those who do meet me can attest to my special skills and performance

Just take things as they come and concentrate on those who do want to meet you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not intimidating but slightly uncomfortable perhaps for those of us older ladies that have had kids and personally, what you are like as a person is more important and providing you don't spend an entire meet constantly flexing your muscles (with one exception

) and looking in the mirror, you will do okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur jacked bro

am mirin

some wont like it because it really isnt their thing and others will be intimidated and insecure

you just have to walk around town to see the response it brings. its either admiration or hatred in their eyes

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As you know from some responses here, there are people who don't fancy you, and others, like myself, who love a guy with big muscles.

I wonder if at the core of this is just the old question/complaint that gets raised on the forums all the time -

'I'm a single guy, why am I not getting enough meets?'

This is a swinging site, where single guys are competing with hundreds/thousands of others, and new guys find it tougher than others. Check out some of the posts for how to improve your chances.

Your response that you were once overweight and got criticised, and so embarked to build yourself up, to instead be noticed and remarked upon for being built massively, hints that you maybe still have some issues with your body image/identity.

Both this, and your being a single guy on Fab, not getting tons of success, can be worked upon.

Your profile is your starting point on here, and I encourage you to review forum posts on improving it. People want to know the person behind the image - as much as we're fucking your body, many of us want to know the person to some extent too. You seem a great guy, and I wonder if your body emphasis has led your focus that way, and this is reflected in getting our focus onto it too.

Let us get a greater feel for the real you, and what you love sexually, what you're offering and who you're looking to explore with. If you have swinging experience, then let us know this, so you don't come across as a complete newvbie.

Change your profile to reflect who you are open to meeting or getting to know. Not all of Fab is about meeting others for sex, and who you know can be helpful, as people know others too. If you're a single guy really only wanting single girls, then Fab may not be the ideal place for you, but don't rule it out, as you're not alone in this.

Hope this helps. Good luck! Sophie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well personally I'd have to say no, I don't see you as a threat - and it's pretty comically arrogant sounding for you to ask that!

I can only go on my experience, and my experience is that bodybuilders tend to be vain assholes with no personalities. You might not be like that but your profile if anything just backs up the stereotype. That's why I wouldn't be interested in meeting you and my gf I suspect wouldn't because she just doesn't tend to like bodybuilders' physiques, she likes athletes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi all

well im single so you have noone to intimidate here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well personally I'd have to say no, I don't see you as a threat - and it's pretty comically arrogant sounding for you to ask that!

dont agree that makes him arrogant, i know lots of couples with big women who wont meet slim women cause the women finds it intimidating to get naked next to someone 5 sizes smaller than her, whats the difference?

Lots of people have insecurities and im sure there are lots of men who wouldnt want their wifes playing with a gym fit body if they are out of shape themselves

This is the real world and some people really do feel like that, i know theres a lot who wont compair themselves to those they are meeting but lots will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to add to that i woulnt meet someone with his build because i would find him intimidating and im not a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well personally I'd have to say no, I don't see you as a threat - and it's pretty comically arrogant sounding for you to ask that!

Lots of people have insecurities and im sure there are lots of men who wouldnt want their wifes playing with a gym fit body if they are out of shape themselves

This is the real world and some people really do feel like that, i know theres a lot who wont compair themselves to those they are meeting but lots will"

well said

people forget the real world applies here aswell sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont agree that makes him arrogant, i know lots of couples with big women who wont meet slim women cause the women finds it intimidating to get naked next to someone 5 sizes smaller than her, whats the difference?

Lots of people have insecurities and im sure there are lots of men who wouldnt want their wifes playing with a gym fit body if they are out of shape themselves

This is the real world and some people really do feel like that, i know theres a lot who wont compair themselves to those they are meeting but lots will"

No I don't think it makes him arrogant either, just that it sounds arrogant.

We all have insecurities, definitely, and we all have different insecurities. I only ever spoke for my own. If he looked athletic in all honestly I might be a bit insecure because I've got pretty out of shape lately and it's getting on my nerves a bit. But he just looks like a bodybuilder and I'd rather be out of shape than be that.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"hi all

How do you know it's because of your size that most couples won't entertain you?

Could be a number of reasons why they aren't interested.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" But he just looks like a bodybuilder and I'd rather be out of shape than be that."

well thats ok then, you both have the bodies you want

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"They say the biggest muscle in your body is your brain so I'd like to say I'm ripped. Unfortunately I can't.

Surely it's the biggest sexual organ

No that's my cock.

Dinosaurs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" But he just looks like a bodybuilder and I'd rather be out of shape than be that.

well thats ok then, you both have the bodies you want

Haha, something like that! I've heard it said that most every guy wishes he was 2" taller and 2" longer and I probably wouldn't turn down either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i admire anyone who take that much time, effort and commitment to look after themselves, its easy to sit about and get out of condition saying...i wouldnt want to look like that anyway, but its a lot harder to train your mind to actually commit yourself to the level of training it takes to look like that

So fair play to him i say, i personally wouldnt meet a guy with a body like that and not because i dont like the way he looks but because he would make me feel very insecure about my saggy bits and im sure someone who takes such good care about himself wouldnt wnat to look at my flab anyway you tend to find gym fit bodyes go for like wise, how many times have you read on profiles....i take care of myself and expect the same from you etc...

So it could well be the women who turn him down for the same reason as much as the men in couples

or as also suggested it coul be for a totally different reason all together

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I think you have an amazing body and from what you've said in this thread, you have your head screwed on the right way. And your head's not up your own arse which is amazing!

On personality I'd definitely meet you. Your body would put me off as I'm not a gym bod and I wouldn't think you'd meet someone like me so I wouldn't even try.

Chat to people more and they will get to know you.

Not the first time I have heard this . There seem to be a number of ladies who prejudgmentaly assume that because we have an athletic body we will not like theirs .or that we are too self obsessed to hold an articulate interesting conversation .all I would ask instead of making unjustified assumptions .an open mind and exchange of a few words .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one have a big thing about muscles. The bigger the better for muscles as far as I'm concerned. If the OP is still struggling to get a meet, he clearly hasn't messaged the right people (including me!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you have an amazing body and from what you've said in this thread, you have your head screwed on the right way. And your head's not up your own arse which is amazing!

On personality I'd definitely meet you. Your body would put me off as I'm not a gym bod and I wouldn't think you'd meet someone like me so I wouldn't even try.

Chat to people more and they will get to know you.

im so glad its not just me who feels like that lol

Im a bugger for deciding for people if they will like me or not and if i look at a pic and i feel a guy is to good for me i will decide he wont like me so i see no point in wasting either of our time talking

It drives my friends mad, i do it in club too, if a guy talks to me i will turn him dowen if i feel hes to good looking for me

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

"I love perving at gents with a well-defined Apollo's Belt, as the regulars on here will confirm.

However, there is more to a gent than just muscles.

If he has brain as well as brawn, with a sexy voice, come to bed eyes, and a true gentleman in every way, a quick wit and be able to make me laugh, then I shall find him very difficult to resist.

ha ah well im Scottish (dont know if thats a good thing) ive got all my own teeth and thats an achievement for a scot lol

Muscles, a brain, a Scottish accent and all his own teeth! Yummy!

LMFAO

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By *TR8HUNTERMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

very hot love str8 muscle guys

msg me if u r xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi all

i think you just have to accept that some like it and others dont.

its the same if you are skinny chubby tall short ETC ETC...

obviously one lady loves it looking at your verification and others wont.

maybe with couples the male may feel intimidated if he thinks your body is better than his. personally it wouldnt bother me if i was playing as a couple if my partner liked it and wanted to meet.

i am chubbier build and often get a 'no thanks' or i dont message if profile says 'no overweight guys' but i have equally had woman i have met who love my build because they feel i am 'normal' whatever that is..!!!

i wouldnt worry, i think there will be peopel who love your look and those that dont, just enjoy the ones who do, but be careful that you dont just play on the ' look at my body' line to get meets as most on here are not so shallow and will want someone with personality and nice character too.

good luck though and welcome..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all for the honesty it has shed some light its good to have diffrent opinion from so many diffrent people I do understand that I won't appeal to everyone but the people I do will get that extra 20%

Thanks again all x x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you have an amazing body and from what you've said in this thread, you have your head screwed on the right way. And your head's not up your own arse which is amazing!

On personality I'd definitely meet you. Your body would put me off as I'm not a gym bod and I wouldn't think you'd meet someone like me so I wouldn't even try.

Chat to people more and they will get to know you.

Finally someone who understands we are still people who take that bit extra pride in our bodies

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"hi all

I think your being very honest asking the question my take on it...yes, a lot of guys who are lesser built and conscious of it might not want to around...in the same way as a woman who is pretty overweight might not feel comfortable in a room full of 'babes' (my wife is one and this is part of the reason we dont swing)

The other barrier you may have is that a lot of guys who are into the body building scene are too full of themselves, over confident, vain and cant pass a mirror and lack personality...much the same as some 'posy' women..

I reckon your obviously an honest guy and that will shine at meets and hopefully people will take you for what you are and not what they think you are...

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

t a lot of guys who are into the body building scene are too full of themselves, over confident, vain and cant pass a mirror and lack personality...

i have to suggest that the above is actually an assumption not based on experience , myself and most of the guys on the scene I know are just normal blokes very few I know are vain we all share our mix of vanity and insecurity just as most others

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By *exxymeWoman
over a year ago

south devon

i love meeting men with muscles,especially soldiers but must say that when me and my partner used to meet as a couple, he did find it intimidating if the bloke had a fitter body then himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got to be happy in your own body, muscles or not!

I've had people turn me down saying I'm too hot!! (LoL), but I train because I enjoy it and the body comes as a by-product - but as I've said on other threads, looks play a bigger part than muscles!!

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By *illing131Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I am actually partial to a woman with muscles. Not overdone bodybuilder type muscles, but certainly well defined and toned ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most importantly you have to be happy with yourself. If they don't want to meet for whatever reason... move on. Some will be happy to I guess.

I love a man with muscles. It's beautiful to look at and to touch.

But I can only judge YOUR muscles if you show them to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like chunky men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did OP leave the site??!!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I think you have an amazing body and from what you've said in this thread, you have your head screwed on the right way. And your head's not up your own arse which is amazing!

On personality I'd definitely meet you. Your body would put me off as I'm not a gym bod and I wouldn't think you'd meet someone like me so I wouldn't even try.

Chat to people more and they will get to know you.

Finally someone who understands we are still people who take that bit extra pride in our bodies

"
if they are indeed their own yes......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did OP leave the site??!!"

oh no, he was still there an hour ago or so! I must have scared him away with my post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am actually partial to a woman with muscles. Not overdone bodybuilder type muscles, but certainly well defined and toned ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im so glad its not just me who feels like that lol

It drives my friends mad, i do it in club too, if a guy talks to me i will turn him dowen if i feel hes to good looking for me

your friends are right! I'm much bigger than you, have lots of wobbly bits but that doesn't necessarily mean that a fit toned man doesn't like it. I had a few fitness instructors contacting me and I was so put off, saying "what does someone LIKE YOU want from me?". But just like any other men, they have preferences too and some of them like wobbly bits lol

But I have to admit when I'm out in a club it would be my first thought too. But it's worth getting over that thought and enjoy touching such a lovely muscly body mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im so glad its not just me who feels like that lol

It drives my friends mad, i do it in club too, if a guy talks to me i will turn him dowen if i feel hes to good looking for me

But I have to admit when I'm out in a club it would be my first thought too. But it's worth getting over that thought and enjoy touching such a lovely muscly body mmmmm

I did used to think like that, but I have met a few personal trainers now and not one of them has ever said anything bad and two have come back for more! There are some guys I have met that I just wouldn't have taken seriously if they'd be hitting on me in a bar or club before joining fab, but I've really had my eyes opened in the last couple of years and it has boosted my confidence a bit x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im so glad its not just me who feels like that lol

It drives my friends mad, i do it in club too, if a guy talks to me i will turn him dowen if i feel hes to good looking for me

But I have to admit when I'm out in a club it would be my first thought too. But it's worth getting over that thought and enjoy touching such a lovely muscly body mmmmm

I used to have a body builder fb from here and his body was just amazing. But additionally, he was one of the most down to earth and funny guy I've had the honour to meet and shag

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Why did OP leave the site??!!"

Two guesses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did OP leave the site??!!

Two guesses."
not real or no luck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he saw me and knew he couldnt compete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did OP leave the site??!!

Two guesses. not real or no luck ? "

maybe he found a girl friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he saw me and knew he couldnt compete

actually that was my first thought lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he saw me and knew he couldnt compete

actually that was my first thought lol"

lol

nah really tho i was gonna ask the guy for afew diet n training tips but hes buggered off now

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Shame. I quite liked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gone?

aaw

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"he saw me and knew he couldnt compete

actually that was my first thought lol

lol

nah really tho i was gonna ask the guy for afew diet n training tips but hes buggered off now

lol easy eat regularly . Always eat more protein than carb . Reduce alcohol train regularly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol easy eat regularly . Always eat more protein than carb . Reduce alcohol train regularly x"

ROFL.

Eat more proteins than carbs? You eat wholesome food alongside the proteins, where do you think the majority of your energy comes from?

If you want to bulk up, you eat as much decent food as possible spread throughout the day.

If you are cutting to reveal the muscle you gained over the course of bulking you need to cut carbs.

Last time I checked, only BB'ers, strongmen & weightlifters followed this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he saw me and knew he couldnt compete

actually that was my first thought lol

lol

nah really tho i was gonna ask the guy for afew diet n training tips but hes buggered off now

come over to my house you can share my personal trainer

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

If I have to express a preference - it would be for a toned body rather than muscles. And that most definitely goes for the female figure - much better to retain those sexy lady shapes in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a look at his pics last night..and i'm surprised the army let him carry that much weight and be that muscle bound.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol easy eat regularly . Always eat more protein than carb . Reduce alcohol train regularly x

ROFL.

Eat more proteins than carbs? You eat wholesome food alongside the proteins, where do you think the majority of your energy comes from?

If you want to bulk up, you eat as much decent food as possible spread throughout the day.

If you are cutting to reveal the muscle you gained over the course of bulking you need to cut carbs.

Last time I checked, only BB'ers, strongmen & weightlifters followed this."

picky picky lol

I have a personal trainer that i see a couple of times a month and i was told to cut down on carbs and eat more protein as cals from protein isnt stored as fat so they are the cals you will burn off first, cals from carbs will only be taken when when everything else is gone, of course you eat food along side the protein but i think what he was saying is eat more protein than cards not just eat protein

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i LOVE big muscles.i really cant see the appeal of a man with scrawny shoulders and a concave chest.

4 or 5 of them fucking me is my idea of heaven.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love well build biceps, ive always had a thing for guys with big arms and shoulders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i LOVE big muscles.i really cant see the appeal of a man with scrawny shoulders and a concave chest.

4 or 5 of them fucking me is my idea of heaven.......

I've started weights............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i actually live with a bodybuilder and any other women in the same situ can vouch for this.it can be hard work sometimes.mood swings depending what supplements he is taking,plus the constant wanting sex but thats good.

the sweat ridden clothes everyday from the gym.the massive food bill

when out in the pub,other men thinking its a challenge to act tough around him

its all worth it though,as he is like a piece of granite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

picky picky lol

Sorry to be blunt but PTs are not the types of people in the know about this stuff, if they were they'd be out of a job as people wouldn't need them once they've got where they want to be and stay there.

The one thing you do not do is cut down on anything and increase/keep the same level of another.

It causes your body all sorts of problems. The Atkins diet is notorious for this I have found.

Carbs and proteins are stored as fat regardless of what they are.

Your body uses whatever nutrients they have when they're eaten. Fat stores are only used when your consumption goes down but your energy use rate is the same.

Thats what 'cutting' is. Its dieting but the best diet there is, rather than starving yourself on food you cannot sustain yourself on.

Dont think I am getting at you though, I just hate seeing men and women being taken for a ride by PTs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the OP (where's he gone?) I had a body as a kid that stood out for the wrong reasons, just the opposite of his as I was almost skeletal. Didn't matter what I ate (I remember scoffing my way through around a dozen pancakes in addition to my usual massive diet on Shrove tuesdays when I was in primary school lol...) Basically, I couldn't develop much muscle at all till I turned around 27 due to my metabolism being sky high. I scoffed down six large meals a day every day and it just burned off. Though I was half decent looking facially I suppose, I had the body of a 17 year old guy, which meant that most girls who found me attractive were around 16, which wasn't the best. I suppose I learned to work on my charm and mental proficiencies at least instead lol!

Finally though as I aged into my early thirties and my metabolic rate shifted from off the scale to merely extremely fast I was able to develop a normal muscular body of an early twenties bloke (with the help of continuing to eat every single carb and protein in sight of course). Better late than never I guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat more proteins than carbs? You eat wholesome food alongside the proteins, where do you think the majority of your energy comes from?"

The body can burn proteins as well as carbs but not lay them down as fat check out some of the low carb diets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops forgot to add to this..

"Your body uses whatever nutrients they have when they're eaten. Fat stores are only used when your consumption goes down but your energy use rate is the same*."

Energy consumption increases*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did somebody mention double egg and chips ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to be blunt but PTs are not the types of people in the know about this stuff, if they were they'd be out of a job as people wouldn't need them once they've got where they want to be and stay there."

Haha, that's a good way of putting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

picky picky lol

The one thing you do not do is cut down on anything and increase/keep the same level of another.

It causes your body all sorts of problems. The Atkins diet is notorious for this I have found.

Carbs and proteins are stored as fat regardless of what they are.

Your body uses whatever nutrients they have when they're eaten. Fat stores are only used when your consumption goes down but your energy use rate is the same.

Thats what 'cutting' is. Its dieting but the best diet there is, rather than starving yourself on food you cannot sustain yourself on.

Dont think I am getting at you though, I just hate seeing men and women being taken for a ride by PTs."

Proteins are NOT stored as fats get your facts straight

You dont look clever at all when you are spouting rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

picky picky lol

The one thing you do not do is cut down on anything and increase/keep the same level of another.

It causes your body all sorts of problems. The Atkins diet is notorious for this I have found.

Carbs and proteins are stored as fat regardless of what they are.

Your body uses whatever nutrients they have when they're eaten. Fat stores are only used when your consumption goes down but your energy use rate is the same.

Thats what 'cutting' is. Its dieting but the best diet there is, rather than starving yourself on food you cannot sustain yourself on.

Dont think I am getting at you though, I just hate seeing men and women being taken for a ride by PTs."

so if a personal trainer isnt the right perosn to go to for advice over weight, diet and training who is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did somebody mention double egg and chips ?"

yes i did, on another thread: do u spunk on ur food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did somebody mention double egg and chips ?

yes i did, on another thread: do u spunk on ur food"

i don't believe in mixing pleasures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

picky picky lol

The one thing you do not do is cut down on anything and increase/keep the same level of another.

It causes your body all sorts of problems. The Atkins diet is notorious for this I have found.

Carbs and proteins are stored as fat regardless of what they are.

Your body uses whatever nutrients they have when they're eaten. Fat stores are only used when your consumption goes down but your energy use rate is the same.

Thats what 'cutting' is. Its dieting but the best diet there is, rather than starving yourself on food you cannot sustain yourself on.

Dont think I am getting at you though, I just hate seeing men and women being taken for a ride by PTs.

so if a personal trainer isnt the right perosn to go to for advice over weight, diet and training who is?

I would take more notice of your trainer, if your are not sure ask him questions but half of the BS above is plainly WRONG! Trust me I am no trainer but I kind of know what I am on about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proteins are NOT stored as fats get your facts straight

You dont look clever at all when you are spouting rubbish. "

ok you put it much beter than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only stop exercising when i'm taking pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did somebody mention double egg and chips ?

yes i did, on another thread: do u spunk on ur food

i don't believe in mixing pleasures "

but I made ur plate into a funny face....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proteins are NOT stored as fats get your facts straight

You dont look clever at all when you are spouting rubbish.

ok you put it much beter than me

You mean bluntly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so if a personal trainer isnt the right perosn to go to for advice over weight, diet and training who is?

It's a tough question that, though people often seem to want easy answers to it. That's probably a big part of why there are as many bullshit peddlers as there are.

With tough questions it's always best to try to find the answers yourself - learn a bit about physiology and stay a bit cynical. There are no divine authorities in sport and fitness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did somebody mention double egg and chips ?"

Nothing wrong with that as long as you run round the block for 45 mins to burn it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did somebody mention double egg and chips ?

yes i did, on another thread: do u spunk on ur food

i don't believe in mixing pleasures

but I made ur plate into a funny face...."

a cum face ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would take more notice of your trainer, if your are not sure ask him questions but half of the BS above is plainly WRONG! Trust me I am no trainer but I kind of know what I am on about.

i really dont want to sound like im being smooth her cause im really not lol but looking at your pics you obviously know what your talking about better than said rubbish spouter lol

oh god i hope that didnt come over as corney as i think it did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i really dont want to sound like im being smooth her cause im really not lol but looking at your pics you obviously know what your talking about better than said rubbish spouter lol"

And there's the other reason for the abundance of bullshit peddlers lol - results can still come from crap methods!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would take more notice of your trainer, if your are not sure ask him questions but half of the BS above is plainly WRONG! Trust me I am no trainer but I kind of know what I am on about.

i really dont want to sound like im being smooth her cause im really not lol but looking at your pics you obviously know what your talking about better than said rubbish spouter lol

oh god i hope that didnt come over as corney as i think it did

I like the gym what can I say

Food wise if you do exercise and plenty of it you can eat a fair variety. If you don't then carbs are stored as fat. Proteins lol well if you have ever come across someone on the Fplan type diet eating lots of meat then don't follow them to the bathroom as you will find out what happens to excess unused protein

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i really dont want to sound like im being smooth her cause im really not lol but looking at your pics you obviously know what your talking about better than said rubbish spouter lol

And there's the other reason for the abundance of bullshit peddlers lol - results can still come from crap methods!"

you really did get out the wrong side of the bed this morning didnt you? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you really did get out the wrong side of the bed this morning didnt you? lol"

No, I didn't. But if you'd rather not listen to my advice then fine, your call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i really dont want to sound like im being smooth her cause im really not lol but looking at your pics you obviously know what your talking about better than said rubbish spouter lol

And there's the other reason for the abundance of bullshit peddlers lol - results can still come from crap methods!"

colonic irrigation builds muscles???...thats it...am gettin the hoover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about a dietitian?

best probably a personal trainer with dietitian credentials? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to smile at some of the less than shall I say athletic giving advice. Well just to point out you don't get fit or get ripped from using google.

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