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Seduction is it dying ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are we becoming a click and collect "meets' society killing the art of seduction Or is it just me ?

Friends on FAB tell me that an increasing section of new members on the site expect instant meets.Bearing in mind covid restrictions wtf ?

Personally I prefer the seduction and build up of a social ?

Over to you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we becoming a click and collect "meets' society killing the art of seduction Or is it just me ?

Friends on FAB tell me that an increasing section of new members on the site expect instant meets.Bearing in mind covid restrictions wtf ?

Personally I prefer the seduction and build up of a social ?

Over to you ?"

100% with you OP

The build up, excitement, flirting and teasing is the best part of getting to know each other...

Not into straight down to meets at all..

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Are we becoming a click and collect "meets' society killing the art of seduction Or is it just me ?

Friends on FAB tell me that an increasing section of new members on the site expect instant meets.Bearing in mind covid restrictions wtf ?

Personally I prefer the seduction and build up of a social ?

Over to you ?

100% with you OP

The build up, excitement, flirting and teasing is the best part of getting to know each other...

Not into straight down to meets at all.."

I love the build up, the anticipation waiting to meet

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

I don't think it's dead but there is a lot of people that actually just want a good no strings attached fuck session which is absolutely fine either way with us us ourselves will always say we are going on a date instead of a social, it's just a little thing say to make it more exciting than it already is. And we always try to treat the lady in question as if it was a date with lots of flirting rather than a hey how are you kind of meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The art and enjoyment of seduction is not dead, I love it and am not interested in meeting people who don't.

In fairness a lot of people don't need it or require it to suit their needs but I do.

Her x

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Same as with regular online dating the art of conversation, seduction and romance are dead or dieing, replaced with it seems to me, an online shopping experience. Pretty sure that a growing number of people think this is amazon even if not consciously.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think yeah, it's gone for most. Some people need it to connect with someone, to create the desire.

I used to be that way, now, well, I don't know how I'd feel about it. I think now I'd view it as part of a game instead of how I used to see it which was like a dance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as with regular online dating the art of conversation, seduction and romance are dead or dieing, replaced with it seems to me, an online shopping experience. Pretty sure that a growing number of people think this is amazon even if not consciously. "

I agree. One reason I don't like profiles and verifications. I want to meet a person not a tick box.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

I was just thinking, I miss a really good flirting session.

Sending silly texts with the odd fruity one thrown in.

The build up of tension and all that it brings.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Same as with regular online dating the art of conversation, seduction and romance are dead or dieing, replaced with it seems to me, an online shopping experience. Pretty sure that a growing number of people think this is amazon even if not consciously.

I agree. One reason I don't like profiles and verifications. I want to meet a person not a tick box. "

It's tremendously frustrating because on paper it's a great way to meet like minded people but i think people generally speaking, don't entertain anyone that doesn't tick every box.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Are we becoming a click and collect "meets' society killing the art of seduction Or is it just me ?

Friends on FAB tell me that an increasing section of new members on the site expect instant meets.Bearing in mind covid restrictions wtf ?

Personally I prefer the seduction and build up of a social ?

Over to you ?"

It’s not dead where I’m concerned; it’s a must!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

The majority of guys who message, want to meet now, especially at 2am when I finish work. I doubt that’s for a sensuous meet, more can I stick my arse up in the air whilst wearing a wig

But for a few who do send a nice and well thought out message, they often want to have a more intimate and non rushed meeting.

So it’s not dead, But just don’t expect it in the early morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work both ways. Sometimes I want a one off fuck, bham! Sometimes I want seducing, sometimes I want to work hard to reel someone in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always been this way. Some want quit meets some dont. For me personally I like to chat and build up. I then like a social only first.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"I work both ways. Sometimes I want a one off fuck, bham! Sometimes I want seducing, sometimes I want to work hard to reel someone in "

there’s always time for a little bit of kiss and till

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No If we are not in the seduction dance we are not meeting, I won't compromise on that part. I want to feel the chase and the excitement of opening my messages to see if he has left me one, the way he makes me smile with one line and I know when we meet that pure pleasure will follow

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We both like flirting and seduction, it’s like kissing and foreplay to us , essential in any potential meet. We find many guys in couples can’t or won’t do it either, maybe the wife has insecurity issues or the guys just forgotten how to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, so many just want instant meets. That’s fine for them but it’s not what I like.

I like to build up the desire and passion. I want to be seduced. There’s nothing else better, it makes for a better experience all round. In my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking of seduction...

Any ladies fancy a fuck?

I promise cuddles afterwards.

This was a joke btw.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Not really into seduction, if I don't know you, trying not to waste my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be dying for some, but even though I'm a terrible flirt (as in not good at it) I do like the back and forth of getting to know someone, builds attraction this way also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what a lot of people are on here for though. Meets just for sex. I want more than that, some people do want more than that. I don’t think it’s totally dead but judging by how many people I meet it could be dying!!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I work both ways. Sometimes I want a one off fuck, bham! Sometimes I want seducing, sometimes I want to work hard to reel someone in "

That’s cool, I’m great at playing hard to get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy is not going to put the time in then I am not going to give them my time.

Sick of the one line love your tits type of messages I get. BORING!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The art and enjoyment of seduction is not dead, I love it and am not interested in meeting people who don't.

In fairness a lot of people don't need it or require it to suit their needs but I do.

Her x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's just developing... morphing into something else. That's why my usual preference for men elder than me. The art of seduction probably has changed. The pace and form..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the problem is, that some people's idea of seduction is verging on creepy and intimidating?

I guess most reasonable people see the difference but until everyone does its how it will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work both ways. Sometimes I want a one off fuck, bham! Sometimes I want seducing, sometimes I want to work hard to reel someone in

That’s cool, I’m great at playing hard to get "

Oh sweetie, you're the donest deal if ever there was one

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope. I'm a slow burner . Pays off sometimes though!

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

The art of seduction will never die

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Are we becoming a click and collect "meets' society killing the art of seduction Or is it just me ?

Friends on FAB tell me that an increasing section of new members on the site expect instant meets.Bearing in mind covid restrictions wtf ?

Personally I prefer the seduction and build up of a social ?

Over to you ?"

I would say that I've been seduced this year, no rushing or wham bam. Quite the opposite

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

It's not dying, reality is just that very few men have the ability , confidence, charm, patience ect to actually be able to seduce a lady or couple.

That's how it has always been, it's just now more people are trying to access meets through fab.

Ask any girl who has ever been online dating just how few men can actually send a decent message.

How many men can walk up to a women in a bar and charm her without being pushy or crude or cheesy.

Subduction has and always will be a fine art mastered by only a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The art of seduction will never die "

You are right there as I have just had a delicious experience of it this afternoon and tonight.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

It is some states of the the USA where seduction is a felony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not dying, reality is just that very few men have the ability , confidence, charm, patience ect to actually be able to seduce a lady or couple.

That's how it has always been, it's just now more people are trying to access meets through fab.

Ask any girl who has ever been online dating just how few men can actually send a decent message.

How many men can walk up to a women in a bar and charm her without being pushy or crude or cheesy.

Subduction has and always will be a fine art mastered by only a few"

110% agree!

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