FabSwingers.com forum: Age

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Soo many men I’ve spoken to on fab eventually end up telling me they are older than what they’ve stated on their profiles. Or on very few occasions, we’ve met for a social and it’s been blatantly obvious they’re older.

Is this normal in the world of fab?

I understand a year difference for discretion and what not. But saying you’re 5 or 10 years younger doesn’t put us on to a good start in terms of trust. I like to know who I’m engaging with.

Is it just me who gets miffed by this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s not pretend it’s just men who do this

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We state our correct age and dont understand why lie about it, like you said OP, if you met them then it would be obvious if they are 5-10 yes older than stated

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Let’s not pretend it’s just men who do this "

True. I know a female who is 8yrs older than she states.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let’s not pretend it’s just men who do this "

Of course. I’m just talking of my personal experience though

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I dont mind age wise if they are older, its when they show younger pictures of themselves and show up looking like my dad

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By *tag and HellcatCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

Dont really understand the need .. though i had a minor wobble when i ticked over from 49 to 50 this year ... but for no strings fun does age matter that much ... ?

Vixen

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I show my real age (35) and I've had people call me a liar, or for using old pictures, as I allegedly look so young

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I once went to meet a good looking slimmish young guy ....... I went into the pub and could only see this rather portly older gent who looked like my grandad. For a second I thought i'd been stood up but then he waved...... and I went like this ....

Anyway ....... he was good

Sometimes a slow decision over a drinky poo .... turns out for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t really bother me, I think most men I’ve met have turned out to be older than their fab age, as long as the pics are recent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because the age range of the majority of people on here. Im 62 and always look at the age range people are looking to meet.

Just accept your age and know others around the same age are out there. Feeling sexy does not stop at any age.

Just accept your body changes and your abilities are different than you were when younger. Horses for courses?

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

I've neverstood why a 50 year old says their 42

You just look like a really really old 42. Isnt is better to look great for 50?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

The people I’ve met who have lied about their age have been less than truthful with many other things too. So it’s a clear filter for me to stay away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Perfectly normal for both sexes OP. I am my profile age though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the point in lying about age. I've get my real age up and if someone is stringent about their age range and I fall out of that so be it.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I show my true age on here, but most people I meet, even workmates, always think I'm 4-5 years younger than I am.

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I've neverstood why a 50 year old says their 42

You just look like a really really old 42. Isnt is better to look great for 50? "

Exactly this, and as someone who doesn't care about age, I'd rather people were honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always like the way women always pick up men for lying about their age.

you make it incredible difficult in the first place with must haves and have nots on profiles so no wonder guys do it.

you set the rules of the playground and lets be honest.

ive turned up to many socials to meet women and they have been overweight, untidy and nothing like how they photoshop there pics on the profiles.

but as a man if i dare mention that you get damned and be treading on twitter as some sort of cunt for telling the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone once who was at least 10 years older than his pics. Could just about see the resemblance! Why?? What a waste if everyone’s time.

I’ll admit my age isn’t correct but we’re only talking months, my location isn’t either but that was for anonymity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i always like the way women always pick up men for lying about their age.

you make it incredible difficult in the first place with must haves and have nots on profiles so no wonder guys do it.

you set the rules of the playground and lets be honest.

ive turned up to many socials to meet women and they have been overweight, untidy and nothing like how they photoshop there pics on the profiles.

but as a man if i dare mention that you get damned and be treading on twitter as some sort of cunt for telling the truth."

Don’t get me started on bloody photoshop and filters!!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

We were thinking about changing one or both of our ages to make us less visible. Putting 10 years on Belle was the thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy, don’t know why people have to tell lies, liars always get found out in the end, it’s like photos on some profiles, you so can tell it’s been photoshopped and when you meet that person they are totally different to there profile.. Honestly why?? Trust is everything on this site, some people just don’t get that.

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By *ngelShare18Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not sure why people bother, most people's profiles we look at are all stuck at looking for an age range of 18 - 99 anyway. Not sure what I'll do when I bite 100.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people question my age, it true at 66 ut many say i look younger and ask why I add years......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"i always like the way women always pick up men for lying about their age.

you make it incredible difficult in the first place with must haves and have nots on profiles so no wonder guys do it.

you set the rules of the playground and lets be honest.

ive turned up to many socials to meet women and they have been overweight, untidy and nothing like how they photoshop there pics on the profiles.

but as a man if i dare mention that you get damned and be treading on twitter as some sort of cunt for telling the truth."

I'm gonna back Patrick up on this ....

times 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older the wine the sweeter the juice

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always going to be men and women who lie about their age sometimes they will say they are older sometimes they will say their younger that's just the way life is

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Why lie

I am old, bald, married can’t get much more honest on a profile than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perfectly normal for both sexes OP. I am my profile age though. "

Doesn't mean its executable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if people lie about a simple thing like there age,just makes me think what else are they lying about

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m 7 days younger than i say I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We presume people do it when they want to meet someone who has an age limit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perfectly normal for both sexes OP. I am my profile age though.

Does mean its executable. "

Bit harsh

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

On the dating sites- POF, Tinder, in my experience 90% of women are ‘creative’ about their age. If you get on on the first date it usually comes out quickly in the conversation and is laughed off.

No big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perfectly normal for both sexes OP. I am my profile age though.

Does mean its executable.

Bit harsh

Oh bollocks.

I keep tell myself to proof read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood why anyone would deceive regarding there age, if your looking to meet then your so obviously heading for a fall. Apart from the dishonesty aspect surely you must know your going to disappoint before you even say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m 7 days younger than i say I am

*pointing* Shame! SHAME!

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Soo many men I’ve spoken to on fab eventually end up telling me they are older than what they’ve stated on their profiles. Or on very few occasions, we’ve met for a social and it’s been blatantly obvious they’re older.

Is this normal in the world of fab?

I understand a year difference for discretion and what not. But saying you’re 5 or 10 years younger doesn’t put us on to a good start in terms of trust. I like to know who I’m engaging with.

Is it just me who gets miffed by this?

Wow you get to the meet state so when you meet them what they look like should be no issue or video chat first or ask for a current selfie ask lots of questions if they won’t video chat or do a quick selfie always smell a rat....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i always like the way women always pick up men for lying about their age.

you make it incredible difficult in the first place with must haves and have nots on profiles so no wonder guys do it.

you set the rules of the playground and lets be honest.

ive turned up to many socials to meet women and they have been overweight, untidy and nothing like how they photoshop there pics on the profiles.

but as a man if i dare mention that you get damned and be treading on twitter as some sort of cunt for telling the truth."

Again, it’s just my experience I’m talking of here.

I’m sorry my profile annoyed you with my “must haves” and “have nots”, but a lot of us do have preferences and standards.

You’re not going to be everyone’s cup of tea.

Exact same way how I steer away from the profiles looking for more mature ladies/ladies of a different size to me. That’s life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honesty is the best policy, don’t know why people have to tell lies, liars always get found out in the end, it’s like photos on some profiles, you so can tell it’s been photoshopped and when you meet that person they are totally different to there profile.. Honestly why?? Trust is everything on this site, some people just don’t get that. "

Agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a 54 year old, I can tell you that these kids these days are just finding it hard to be themselves

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve had it a few times. I don’t see people older than me, so it is annoying when I make the exception and it turns out that they are 15+ years older than me... I have zero interest. I always have a social, so from there I say I am no longer interested.

Fortunately it’s only been 2-3 times.

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

It's been common knowledge for a while that women lie about their age by 5 years on dating profiles but i had no idea that men were doing the same.

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

Our ages are entered roughly six months out, but that's only because I never put my exact birthdate on any website unless it's absolutely required.

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

I have an honest profile in age etc

However seeing the age ranges of some Ladies who interest me I can see the potential benefit of having a younger aged profile. That though starts me done the path of not having an honest profile....

Have fun all.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I dont mind age wise if they are older, its when they show younger pictures of themselves and show up looking like my dad

This

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Similar to the "height" thread currently running - people (both men and women) will lie about their age for various reasons and *some* of those reasons will be to get round filters, or give themselves a "better chance" because those people perceive that it will - invariably those people will be found out and ruin their own chances.

Personally I'm a 55 year old, past his prime, no more than average bloke and I see no reason to lie about that, or anything else, if anything I can be a little too honest at times, yet it's never done me any harm - whereas pretending someone I'm not probably would.

I do however understand why people do it - men because they think it will secure a meet in an environment already crammed with men, and women because they think it will make them more appealing to the kind of guy they hope to attract - or any number of other reasons you care to think of.

Personally if I found someone was lying about something like their height or age or sexuality or marital status or anything really, I'd want to understand why they felt the need to lie, and if the reason was compelling enough (e.g. shaved a year off to avoid being recognised) then I might overlook it, but generally speaking I'd wonder what else they were lying about

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yep most of the men I have met on here have under played their age. One by nearly 10 years, but usually it’s 5 years.

I’m rubbish at gauging someone’s age anyway so tend to think they’ve had a stressful life until they tell me (because they always tell me, eventually

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

59 here no bull I am 59

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

From my recent experience couple are worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find I get messages by guys claiming to be older when really they’re in their early to mid twenties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always find I get messages by guys claiming to be older when really they’re in their early to mid twenties. "

I would Pm and say hey how’s things, but I’m out of range.

Moose knuckle crew shout out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always find I get messages by guys claiming to be older when really they’re in their early to mid twenties.

I would Pm and say hey how’s things, but I’m out of range.

Moose knuckle crew shout out

Aww mate how are you. Sent you a friend request!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always find I get messages by guys claiming to be older when really they’re in their early to mid twenties.

I would Pm and say hey how’s things, but I’m out of range.

Moose knuckle crew shout out

Aww mate how are you. Sent you a friend request! "

All good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always find I get messages by guys claiming to be older when really they’re in their early to mid twenties.

I would Pm and say hey how’s things, but I’m out of range.

Moose knuckle crew shout out

Aww mate how are you. Sent you a friend request! "

I'm 36.5 but I lie on fab about my age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our ages are totally legit. And we assume everyone else's are too, how naive of us I suppose. Catfishing is very real and we should all be aware of it. Stay safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't they do it to get past filters, bit pointless, always better to be honest.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Don't they do it to get past filters, bit pointless, always better to be honest. "

Yes they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I put my age as any younger, I wouldn't be allowed on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does lying about your age get you more meets? Maybe that's where I'm going wrong. Asking for a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only found one or two that have lied about age but it’s not been a big issue as I’ve had recent photos off them.

My age is wrong it’s older but I like that it’s slightly off as makes me feel a little more discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m secretly 67

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m secretly 67

Fabulous! You don't look a day over 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m secretly 67

Fabulous! You don't look a day over 40

Piss off

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Don’t understand why people lie. We have had messages from people outside of our age range and even then I’m convinced some are older than they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did they use metric or imperial?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m secretly 67

Fabulous! You don't look a day over 40

Piss off

I'm so sorry, my thumb was hovering over the "post message" button wondering if it would be worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m secretly 67

Fabulous! You don't look a day over 40

Piss off

I'm so sorry, my thumb was hovering over the "post message" button wondering if it would be worth it

it did make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex is 39 apparently! (Hes the same age as me)

His reasoning- he doesnt want to be outside younger ladies filters, and says he looks younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age is right

Can't see the point in lying unless its a month or two to prevent detection off fab

I did notice another female on here was a couple of years older than me until her recent birthday and is now younger than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would annoy me slightly but thats life I'm afraid.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I understand why people lie but it’s not exactly great if you meet someone socially and they are way off there pictures

I don’t lie I’m hundred percent my age and there’s nothing I could do to get away from it

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By *loop JohnMan
over a year ago

Dublin

The older she is the better as far as im concerned... Xx

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'm 38 here and in the real world, I'd rather still be 25 but wouldn't we all!

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Let’s not pretend it’s just men who do this "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be and have been slightly put off by this.. Same with any big discrepancies really..just be up front and honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age isn't that deep aslong as pics are recent

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Think it goes for both sides

I know for a fact there Ladies on here with 10+ year old pics be dated to this year,,

Dorian Grey wouldn't have a patch on them lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this normal in the world of fab?

I understand a year difference for discretion and what not. But saying you’re 5 or 10 years younger doesn’t put us on to a good start in terms of trust. I like to know who I’m engaging with.

Is it just me who gets miffed by this?

Probably the reason they do it is because they may be outside the age cut off point that ladies have on their profile so they lower it to that so they can Message ladies ...some can carry a few years sliced off as they may be fit for their age ..others may not so much ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lady told me she was 51 after our first five minutes of meeting in the bar she said she had a confession to make that she was really 61 .

I said can't understand why she lied as she looked great for her age and looked slightly younger than the the 51 she lied about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My age is right

Can't see the point in lying unless its a month or two to prevent detection off fab

I did notice another female on here was a couple of years older than me until her recent birthday and is now younger than me

wow...must've been some birthday present

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will admit to fibbing about my age but only by a few months

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I've found that quite a lot of males do lie about there age, so by a lot, I met a bloke who was 59 on his profile, but 73 I real life, really nice guy, fit for his age, but had lied about it. Said he found that if he had put up his real age he would have outside the range a lot of people look at.

Maybe if people were more open minded about age, and didn't think that after 60 a man or woman is over the hill, people wouldn't lie so much.

I'm 63, look younger, and have never been age shamed, but find that women that fit my age range often don't want to meet because I'm outside theirs.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I find that when people join Fab they are that keen to get laid they do not complete their profile fully and leave the age parameters at the default setting of 18 - 99. When I try to make contact with these people I am told that I am far too old for them.

Fortunately there are a few ladies on here who are actively seeking really old men and who are genuine.

I can understand ladies in their 60s knocking a few years off their age, but I cannot condone it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Does lying about your age get you more meets? Maybe that's where I'm going wrong. Asking for a friend."

No, probably less. I fell if people lie about something so simple, what else are they hiding?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I've found that quite a lot of males do lie about there age, so by a lot, I met a bloke who was 59 on his profile, but 73 I real life, really nice guy, fit for his age, but had lied about it. Said he found that if he had put up his real age he would have outside the range a lot of people look at.

Maybe if people were more open minded about age, and didn't think that after 60 a man or woman is over the hill, people wouldn't lie so much.

I'm 63, look younger, and have never been age shamed, but find that women that fit my age range often don't want to meet because I'm outside theirs. "

And that is their choice.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

My age on my profile is correct. I arguably look older than I am, but I've always looked (and often acted) older than my age. Blame that all uphill paper round as a child....

I'm largely past caring about such things, and don't have the inclination or imagination to lie about things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say its a lot to do with filters men lower their age to get to message people women don't really need to do this. Its sad to see many men returning to fab are 5-10 years younger than they were when they left though its a little sad they think its ok to deceive others.

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Maybe if people were more open minded about age, and didn't think that after 60 a man or woman is over the hill, people wouldn't lie so much.

I'm 63, look younger, and have never been age shamed, but find that women that fit my age range often don't want to meet because I'm outside theirs.

And that is their choice.

Yes of course it is, and I know that most of us draw a line at a certain age difference, but I've known lots of happy couples who have an age gap of over 10 years plus and are perfectly happy and matched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see is what you get from me.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

On my previous profile I knocked a few years off.

But I think it's best to be honest from the start.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

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By *lsa-xxxWoman
over a year ago

Tetbury

My fab age is slightly out. I’m 2 years younger in real life

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

That would be enough for me to turn and burn.

I have my age preference for a reason.

Don't do liars. I especially don't do liars who effectively lie to trick people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age on my profile is correct, to a few days.

My age places me outside a huge number of people's age range. On the rare days I get pissed off when being 54 means many ladies won't even allow me to message them, I take comfort knowing that neither can Brad Pitt.

Would it be worth a lie to get past their filters? No, because I'm sure they'd notice, and they have an age range for their own reason.

is it right to lie? I understand having a minor adjustment for discretion, but really if you have an incorrect age ask yourself if you can successfully pull it off. I'm not overly bothered about somebodies age (being legal of course!) as before we would meet we would already have established if there is sufficient interest to meet in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ask a woman her age but I don't get the reasons people have to lie if I'm honest x

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I use a half size tape measure. Does that count ?

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By *uddlyfun4142Man
over a year ago

Heathrow

Our user name includes our real ages, 41&42.

Hope we can change user name next year

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