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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My profile has stated for a long time that I'm not into hairy men, I prefer gym fit and not in beards.

Recently though there have been guys I've noticed that go against those preferences and so much so that I think its time to change my opinion and profile.

Have you always had a type that's never changed for you or over the years have you evolved as you have met/engaged with people?

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

Waves hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love feeling excluded anyway so don't change them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont have a type and we go for personality and a connection over looks, like we still like attractive people but if you the fittest person on fab but act like an arrogant fool then you go from a 10 to a 1 x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love feeling excluded anyway so don't change them x"

Oh be quiet. You get enough attention as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have a particular type, some people carry off the way they look better than others and throw in a decent personality and we have a winner.

Big boobs/small boobs

BBW/Average etc

Some people ooze sex appeal (in my eyes) some don't

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I don’t seek a certain look really. So many beautiful faces around

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Never had a type physically. But their personality tends to be a tad quirky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile has stated for a long time that I'm not into hairy men, I prefer gym fit and not in beards.

Recently though there have been guys I've noticed that go against those preferences and so much so that I think its time to change my opinion and profile.

Have you always had a type that's never changed for you or over the years have you evolved as you have met/engaged with people? "

Nah I’m still shallow

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't have a type I go for aesthetically, personality wise yes I do. That's definitely changed over the years. At one point it was very brash, cocky, super smart but arrogant with it, much older men, now less so.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yep I used to only go for tall young strong bulls, full of testorone and fun

Now I search for like minded men and they come in all shapes and sizes

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

The more I meet people, the more I find that having a type limits you.

Take a group of 10 people with 6 packs: 5 will probably be twats, 2 will be alright, 1 will be awesome and 2 might be complete bell ends.

Take a group of 10 chubby blokes and the ratios will be similar.

Much better to do the looking for awesome people because then the fact they have a beard or are body type doesn’t matter. Awesome people can carry it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a exact type although generally don’t go for gym fit. Although there is a guy on here that is gym fit who if I was looking he knows he would be getting it , however that’s as much to do with his personality to how he looks although he’s deliciously pretty.

I usually range from dad bods to slightly overweight guys. 6ft plus (the guy above is shorter than that 2)

So in answer to your question yes I have a type but it’s quite fluid and someone can come along who isn’t my usual type but who I get instant minge twinges for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a type but I definitely think I have become more open to things that might have once put me off. I think as we get older it becomes more about the person inside(as it should be) and we realise that everyone is unique and its foolish to block out a whole range of people based on wether or not they have a beard, are tall, thin, muscular or whatever the preference may be. All I want is to meet a woman or 2 that I can get on with and who I would like to fuck, if I really like her personality I start to subconsciously find more things attractive about her so that's where I put importance.

What I like about a personality or what I gel towards is someone who likes to laugh, that has actually probably been my one constant since starting dating. So I maybe do have a type but everyone likes to laugh really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definetly evolved over time.

Nowadays I would say I didn't have a physical type and is more about personality/connection and the way they express themselves.

I wouldn't say I knew what I was looking for because I don't have a fixed idea. But I know it when I've found it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't think that I will ever be able to totally ignore a physical attraction even if the person has the best personality I have come across. Just the way I am wired

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Never had a physical type with men though I seem to go for more brunettes. My type is mostly quirky geeks with a daft sense of humour and an "I don't give a fuck what you think of my unusual hobbies" attitude.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

In Male mode looking for a female partner, it’s always happy, intelligent and bubbly girl I’m after. Her body, preferably slim or same as mine (bit of a belly) but I do love walking etc..so they do have to enjoy exercise.

The opposite would be miserable, thick and sullen possibly lethargic if they just want to sit in watching the telly. Not sure if this is anyone’s type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want me to be honest? - people who judge others on looks - and even more so those that exclude others based on the type of look from the get go- are exhibiting vanity in my opinion. And vanity is a turnoff

-xxBebe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t shave my beard for any woman, I repeat any woman, if they can’t handle my beard they can’t handle me, plus I keep my tools in there and also my packed lunch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My beard very much represents me as a man, if this is an issue for some ladies then I’m afraid you’re not for, the beard comes first, plus I keep my car keys and phone in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to clarify I have a very impressive beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had the same very specific type. I dismiss whole groups of people who I'm just not ever going to be attracted to. That won't change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.....

Those who I connect with because of who they are rather than how they look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a specific "type", if I get on with someone and I'm attracted to them, then I guess that is my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the fact they have to be taller than me and be beardless really. Other than that I’m not sure I do have a type. I need to like their face though. They can have the best personality in the world but if I don’t like their face it won’t happen. Is that shallow? I don’t think so. Some people might think so I suppose.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I don’t think I’m gym fit. I never really had a type because perfection is a imperfection.

But saying that I do like quirky people

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