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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have on a few occasions now, had sex and not orgasmed. And the partner has asked if anything was wrong, although it’s frustrating at times nothing really was wrong at all.

Was damn close, but you wanted to stop although I had been at it for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always keep a carton of yoghurt near by, don’t do what I did though and throw a fruit one on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she wanted to know why I had nectarine chunks in my cum, I had no answers I was still licking the lid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly ever.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

"Always keep a carton of yoghurt near by, don’t do what I did though and throw a fruit one on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she wanted to know why I had nectarine chunks in my cum, I had no answers I was still licking the lid."

And now I have coffee absolutely everywhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fwb is done in minutes every time. She's focussed and it works nicely. Occasionally I don't finish. Things get overcooked and it won't happen. It might finish after a tea break or not at all on the day.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Always. Normally several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My fwb is done in minutes every time. She's focussed and it works nicely. Occasionally I don't finish. Things get overcooked and it won't happen. It might finish after a tea break or not at all on the day. "

Same

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over a year ago

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

No not always, I regularly orgasam without Cumming. But when I actually do cum WOOOOOWWWWW

I can barely walk for 20mins

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.

I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time

It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. And neither do many of my partners. It's not an issue, it's all just jolly good fun!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Only with 2 of my special friends that know my body very very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should be so lucky.

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over a year ago

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By *erkswankerMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.

I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time

It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.

I know that one well, had girls crying before because they think they don't do it for me. I've also always struggled to cum through interaction with someone else, I almost wish I was the opposite and was premature, doesn't need so much explaining

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.

I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time

It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.

We'd make for either a very frustrating or very well matched pair

My nerve damage means I have reduced sensation and take ages to cum too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.

I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time

It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.

20 minutes, you are lucky. Usually takes me 45 minutes or an hour to pop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time I had sex I didn't cum.

I also didn't cum for the first few weeks when I started seeing a woman after me and the Mrs split for a while.

But christ when I eventually did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. One person gets me there every session but not necessarily every time we have sex

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By *iscrete77Man
over a year ago

King’s Lynn

No not every time even after hours I sometimes don’t which pisses the wife off but then sometimes (most times) she doesn’t which really gets to me I don’t care if I don’t but when she doesn’t wow that makes me feel bad but that’s when the tongue makes up for it

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I can’t remember the last guy to make me cum. As long as I enjoy the sex I’m happy enough.

What I hate is when the guy cums and I haven’t even had a chance to start enjoying myself.

Now I feel a bit paranoid with it tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.

I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time

It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.

I do get that in a way though. I’d be more upset if he didn’t cum than if I didn’t. I think I’d rather know beforehand if it may not happen or if there was medical reasons etc.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

No not every time , makes a guy more special if we both connect n cum together

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

No, they do i hope but it makes no difference to me if I do whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t remember the last guy to make me cum. As long as I enjoy the sex I’m happy enough.

What I hate is when the guy cums and I haven’t even had a chance to start enjoying myself.

Now I feel a bit paranoid with it tbh. "

I need my nipples pinched or have my nipple clamps on while I am having sex to make me cum.

Very rarely otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very often.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.

I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time

It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.

We'd make for either a very frustrating or very well matched pair

My nerve damage means I have reduced sensation and take ages to cum too

That could work quite well then

As long as my stamina can keep up. XD

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By *iscrete77Man
over a year ago

King’s Lynn

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Yes xx I might squirt too xx

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By *iscrete77Man
over a year ago

King’s Lynn

"I can’t remember the last guy to make me cum. As long as I enjoy the sex I’m happy enough.

What I hate is when the guy cums and I haven’t even had a chance to start enjoying myself.

Now I feel a bit paranoid with it tbh.

I need my nipples pinched or have my nipple clamps on while I am having sex to make me cum.

Very rarely otherwise "

My wife’s the same sometimes I feel I’m going to rip them off but she still says harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab sex, rarely. In a relationship, yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With each other always. Many times.

It's not entirely unheard of though with other people. Though rare

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.

I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time

It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.

I do get that in a way though. I’d be more upset if he didn’t cum than if I didn’t. I think I’d rather know beforehand if it may not happen or if there was medical reasons etc. "

I've faked it a few times.

Waited till they were shaking through their orgasm and pretended I came too.

They were so distracted with theirs that they didn't even notice.

Just needed to whip the condom off without them seeing it

Know I'm no longer embarrassed about it, and just tell them (and everyone else apparently XD)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.

I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time

It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.

I do get that in a way though. I’d be more upset if he didn’t cum than if I didn’t. I think I’d rather know beforehand if it may not happen or if there was medical reasons etc.

I've faked it a few times.

Waited till they were shaking through their orgasm and pretended I came too.

They were so distracted with theirs that they didn't even notice.

Just needed to whip the condom off without them seeing it

Know I'm no longer embarrassed about it, and just tell them (and everyone else apparently XD) "

Nah you shouldn’t be embarrassed definitely! I’d just rather know beforehand x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I can’t remember the last guy to make me cum. As long as I enjoy the sex I’m happy enough.

What I hate is when the guy cums and I haven’t even had a chance to start enjoying myself.

Now I feel a bit paranoid with it tbh.

I need my nipples pinched or have my nipple clamps on while I am having sex to make me cum.

Very rarely otherwise "

Yeah similar for me, I need nipple stimulation along with clit stimulation for best results

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation

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Know I'm no longer embarrassed about it, and just tell them (and everyone else apparently XD)

Nah you shouldn’t be embarrassed definitely! I’d just rather know beforehand x"

Well now you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation

...

Know I'm no longer embarrassed about it, and just tell them (and everyone else apparently XD)

Nah you shouldn’t be embarrassed definitely! I’d just rather know beforehand x

Well now you know

. I’ll stick a private note on your profile haha

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Yes, many times.

I've been told, I'm like a gift that keeps on giving

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Never. And I’ve pretty much forgotten how sex even works now anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At one point i didnt cum for about 3 years during sex only by masturbating.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Yes ....both .....

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

I'm really hard to please anyway but due to opiates (needed for extreme pain) it's even harder for me to finish.

80% of the time P1 can make me climax with no issues. If pain or painkillers are stopping me from finishing we get creative. he never fails but sometimes I do need more than penetration.

I never experienced an orgasm before him so it makes me appreciate his mind-blowing skills so much more.

(P2)

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Hardly ever on a meet to be honest.

Hardly any of the guys I've met with will spend enough time on me

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Nope.

Quite often I don't.

I suffer from delayed ejaculation

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Know I'm no longer embarrassed about it, and just tell them (and everyone else apparently XD)

Nah you shouldn’t be embarrassed definitely! I’d just rather know beforehand x

Well now you know

. I’ll stick a private note on your profile haha "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't come cos he's been a selfish cunt then I never see him again, otherwise all is hunky dory.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

When I was younger and my mind wasn't as strong then yes, I did sometimes not cum. It's all mental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes generally i only shag those that tent my trousers.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

everytime

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes, multiple times.

I'm blessed!

Jo.Xx

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes I make sure I do

she’ll cum first tho as I’m a gent

But if I don’t get to cum I’ll make sure I get a happy ending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And now I have coffee absolutely everywhere!

You’re welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of the time, yes. As certain positions do it for me.

If I've ever struggled, it's been with new partners who've put pressure on me to cum or squirt. "Cum for me" during a bad fingerblasting tends to throw me off completely

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Like a lot of you on this thread, I don’t always cum each time ... but I do like to cum at some point if we’re having a session.

I am a pleaser and it gets me off to see my partner having an orgasm. As many as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish... Xx

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Nope, i don't always cum during sex and never when receiving blow jobs.

Red Heads normally get me there, but that's because i have loads of chemistry whith them. Anyone else it can be hit or miss whether i reach an orgasm.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Ooh interesting thread ... yes I do every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, it's pretty rare.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

It's very interesting to read that some of you guys don't always cum. I rarely get the chance to & I've only had one Fab meet where he didn't. I must admit that I thought it was me, although we've met again since that, so maybe it bothered me more than him.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Sometimes no but I think that is just down to nerves but it looks like she had a great time

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By *DGF20Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Well that's absolutely fine, especially if u already had sex that day...if i have sex few times during the day i won't cum but still sex is amazing and of course she will cum

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m quite adept and knowing how to reach my own and help him achieve his.....

It’s a mind set between two two people - a watchful eye and a clever hand.... and if you talk about what turns you on then he isn’t left guessing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not always, but that doesn't take away from the enjoyment from sex with a partner.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

Depends some times I can go for ages others it’s too quick can’t seem to predict

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish... Xx"

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.... i can probably count on one hand the amount of times I’ve had a full blown toe curling orgasm... but I think it’s all my doing as I really struggle to let myself go fully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make sure I do one way or another, D doesn’t always but that’s cool he still has a great time and will maybe cum later on that day or the next morning maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I pick my victims wisely!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I hardly ever cum

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't cum in over 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually, yes. Lucky me

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG I nearly died with laughter reading this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always, but usually with a regular partner......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Sometimes you can start with the best intentions and for whatever reason be off your game. Usually ends with laughter or just giving up and making a cup of tea before trying again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Majority of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG I nearly died with laughter reading this! "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have on a few occasions now, had sex and not orgasmed. And the partner has asked if anything was wrong, although it’s frustrating at times nothing really was wrong at all.

Was damn close, but you wanted to stop although I had been at it for a while

First time I met my first fab guy no, we spent hours kissing no sex. Second time sex outside yes we both did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but I cum quite easily. I always reach down and rub my own bean though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

by my husband I have both clit and internal orgasms..

however, I now cannot cum when I only flick my bean, it has to be an internal orgasm, every time. I use to be just a clit cum girl!

As of yet, I also haven't orgasmed clit wise by anyone that I haven't been in a relationship with and no one apart from my husband with internal orgasms.

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