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By *layPrincessDaddyBear OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bracknell

So are there many other cuckqueens on here, I’ve not come across any, wondering if it’s really that rare. Obviously would love to find a cuckcake but it just seems that this dynamic is not really a big thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats a cuckcake?

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By *layPrincessDaddyBear OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bracknell

It’s a female bull, as in she and my man would have sex whilst I watch and clean up after x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a female bull, as in she and my man would have sex whilst I watch and clean up after x"

Thank for explaining, this terminology pickles my mind sometimes!

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By *har mouthfulMan
over a year ago

london


"It’s a female bull, as in she and my man would have sex whilst I watch and clean up after x"

Sounds hot!! Thats one lucky husband!

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

We're a Cuckquean couple. There are not many cuckcakes on here, and those that do say they are up for this dynamic turn into ghosts 99% of the time x

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By *layPrincessDaddyBear OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bracknell

It’s been so long since we have been able to do this, I honestly didn’t think it would be so hard to find a girl that would be interested. We have had lots of threesomes as I’m very much bi and love girls. But the cuckqeen thing is something I’m missing xx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It is a fantasy of Hannah's to watch me (Luke) with another woman. We have found a couple of potential cuckcakes but we haven't really pursued it. There are definitely some around.

There have been threads in the past you can find with a forum search where you can find others who are interested.

I am not surprised it's difficult to find. It seems to me it's like a combination if finding a woman to join a couple and a woman for a single man. Both of those are difficult on their own and this is a double-whammy.

We always say concentrate on making friends over fulfilling sexual fantasies. Once you have met somebody and you all get on well together, the nature of this site means that they are more likely to be interested in trying things like this. But very few will be interested in this if that's all you want them for.

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants


"It’s been so long since we have been able to do this, I honestly didn’t think it would be so hard to find a girl that would be interested. We have had lots of threesomes as I’m very much bi and love girls. But the cuckqeen thing is something I’m missing xx "

The only girls we've had enjoy the cuckquean dynamic with us have been from real life. Never found anyone to go through with it on fab. We had another account in here for ages (ckqncpl) and for years we never found anyone. Hubby even had a single profile but that didn't work either.

We think the cuckquean / Hot Husband thing is too much of a niche for fab and not the correct audience.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"It’s been so long since we have been able to do this, I honestly didn’t think it would be so hard to find a girl that would be interested. We have had lots of threesomes as I’m very much bi and love girls. But the cuckqeen thing is something I’m missing xx

The only girls we've had enjoy the cuckquean dynamic with us have been from real life. Never found anyone to go through with it on fab. We had another account in here for ages (ckqncpl) and for years we never found anyone. Hubby even had a single profile but that didn't work either.

We think the cuckquean / Hot Husband thing is too much of a niche for fab and not the correct audience. "

I don't entirely agree with that. We have known women on here who are into this dynamic. It's the age-old Fab issue of supply and demand. It is more niche than finding a lady to join a couple, but we have had enough conversations with Fab women to know that it could happen for us. We have had two women approach us directly off the back of previous threads who were interested in joining us in this way, plus we have other single female friends who may be interested if we talked to them about it.

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants


"It’s been so long since we have been able to do this, I honestly didn’t think it would be so hard to find a girl that would be interested. We have had lots of threesomes as I’m very much bi and love girls. But the cuckqeen thing is something I’m missing xx

The only girls we've had enjoy the cuckquean dynamic with us have been from real life. Never found anyone to go through with it on fab. We had another account in here for ages (ckqncpl) and for years we never found anyone. Hubby even had a single profile but that didn't work either.

We think the cuckquean / Hot Husband thing is too much of a niche for fab and not the correct audience.

I don't entirely agree with that. We have known women on here who are into this dynamic. It's the age-old Fab issue of supply and demand. It is more niche than finding a lady to join a couple, but we have had enough conversations with Fab women to know that it could happen for us. We have had two women approach us directly off the back of previous threads who were interested in joining us in this way, plus we have other single female friends who may be interested if we talked to them about it. "

From our experience, and around 4 or 5 years of being on fab, lots of positive conversations about it with lots of lovely ladies and promises of meets and them becoming a Cuckcake for us, not one lady from Fab has ever done so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm husband to Quean_lou its really hard to find others! It must be quite niche, however the search continues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s my best fantasy. Hope to put to reality. Just need a girl to take over my man for a session!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex girlfriend was a cuckqueen she wanted to be tied up and watch me and another woman and both of us tease her unfortunately this never cam to fruition but there were plenty of other times where I went and had a meet to tell her all about it after the reclaim sex was amazing as were the meets

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By *oyeurzCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Something we want to try with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone has any tips on finding a cuckcake please let me know! Found one on a different site but didn't work out, so if anyone is interested pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckcake here, I enjoy the dynamic with a cuckquean couple, but it's rare to find couples who want to do this in clubs (where all of my meets take place).

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Cuckcake here, I enjoy the dynamic with a cuckquean couple, but it's rare to find couples who want to do this in clubs (where all of my meets take place). "

I'd have thought this would be the ideal place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuckcake here, I enjoy the dynamic with a cuckquean couple, but it's rare to find couples who want to do this in clubs (where all of my meets take place).

I'd have thought this would be the ideal place "

Me too, and I've had successful cuckq meets there in the past, but many who get in touch about it would prefer to do it in private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuckcake here, I enjoy the dynamic with a cuckquean couple, but it's rare to find couples who want to do this in clubs (where all of my meets take place). "
Sounds interesting x

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By *averingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

romford

We're a cuck queen couple as well. It is hard to find a cake indeed specially if our queen would also like to be tied etc. Not every woman cup of tea. You can try to search a unicorn for ffm but then cuck queen dynamic won't be interesting for them... As for club/home meets. It is a part of kink to play with cake in bed where you sleep with your queen i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow.

Well ive got a new porn search word. Cuckcake

Gatsbys out of office until further notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lucky husband lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuckcake here, I enjoy the dynamic with a cuckquean couple, but it's rare to find couples who want to do this in clubs (where all of my meets take place).

I'd have thought this would be the ideal place

Me too, and I've had successful cuckq meets there in the past, but many who get in touch about it would prefer to do it in private. "

I can understand that, I know personally for me if I did it in a club around other people it would add a level of humiliation to it that I would ruin it for me

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I was a cuckcake for a short period of time.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

When I was in a relationship with my son's mother she encouraged me to fuck her best friend.I did but never felt really comfortable with the whole experience.I am far more comfortable as a cuck so obviously not suited to this dynamic.I'm sure many guys would love the opportunity but it's not for me.

Mike

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By *eachyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

the sunny South

I (Mrs P) love fucking husbands in front of my husband. Even better in front of their wife. X.

Things to tick off the list in the new world. X

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By *aimeDWoman
over a year ago

Shaftesbury, Dorset


"Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though "

I’m surprised by how hard it is for cuckqueens to find a cuckcake ( honestly first time I’ve heard that term ).

I have found it almost impossible to find a couple that would be into this but as you say,

without the humiliation aspect. That part is really important to me.

Are the majority of cuckqueens really into the humiliation part or have I just been unlucky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been a long-standing fantasy for us too, in fact Tinks openly admits it’s her favourite. We’ve tried a few times to make it happen, but never managed it. A few women have said that they like the idea, but have had bad experiences in the past with couples, so won’t do it again. Still something we would love to do though.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though

I’m surprised by how hard it is for cuckqueens to find a cuckcake ( honestly first time I’ve heard that term ).

I have found it almost impossible to find a couple that would be into this but as you say,

without the humiliation aspect. That part is really important to me.

Are the majority of cuckqueens really into the humiliation part or have I just been unlucky? "

Are you a keen cuckcake, then, Jaime?

We totally get what you mean about humiliation. I know a lot of people enjoy that side of sharing their partner but it does nothing for us at all. For us it's about excitement and pleasure, not putting anybody down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello well all i want is a kind confident perverted couple to take me under there wing dosent have to be couple at all ! Had absolutely no luck so far willing to learn from experienced people x

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By *aimeDWoman
over a year ago

Shaftesbury, Dorset


"Are you a keen cuckcake, then, Jaime?

We totally get what you mean about humiliation. I know a lot of people enjoy that side of sharing their partner but it does nothing for us at all. For us it's about excitement and pleasure, not putting anybody down."

In all honesty I haven’t found the right couple to explore this with yet but it’s certainly something that excites me a lot.

The couples I have met wanted more of a unicorn experience than a cake which is absolutely fine but I think the cake dynamic without the humiliation seems to be an even rarer niche.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Are you a keen cuckcake, then, Jaime?

We totally get what you mean about humiliation. I know a lot of people enjoy that side of sharing their partner but it does nothing for us at all. For us it's about excitement and pleasure, not putting anybody down.

In all honesty I haven’t found the right couple to explore this with yet but it’s certainly something that excites me a lot.

The couples I have met wanted more of a unicorn experience than a cake which is absolutely fine but I think the cake dynamic without the humiliation seems to be an even rarer niche."

Notes taken, bookmark made.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We wouldn’t define ourselves exclusively that way, but it’s certainly a scenario we enjoy...and as others have observed, it’s rare to find a cuckcake on Fab, a niche within a niche really.

It’s not something we’d want to explore in a club as part of the whole eroticism of that experience is the private atmosphere you create for all three, and we’ve found clubs don’t really lend themselves to that for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello well all i want is a kind confident perverted couple to take me under there wing dosent have to be couple at all ! Had absolutely no luck so far willing to learn from experienced people x"

Think you may be on the wrong thread..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though

I’m surprised by how hard it is for cuckqueens to find a cuckcake ( honestly first time I’ve heard that term ).

I have found it almost impossible to find a couple that would be into this but as you say,

without the humiliation aspect. That part is really important to me.

Are the majority of cuckqueens really into the humiliation part or have I just been unlucky? "

I dislike the humiliation part too. Some scenarios such as me being blindfolded or being made to wait outside the room sound hot and I guess they are sort of humiliating, but I never want to be made to feel like the cake is "better" as it changes my feelings from jealously (good) to insecurity (bad)

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though

I’m surprised by how hard it is for cuckqueens to find a cuckcake ( honestly first time I’ve heard that term ).

I have found it almost impossible to find a couple that would be into this but as you say,

without the humiliation aspect. That part is really important to me.

Are the majority of cuckqueens really into the humiliation part or have I just been unlucky?

I dislike the humiliation part too. Some scenarios such as me being blindfolded or being made to wait outside the room sound hot and I guess they are sort of humiliating, but I never want to be made to feel like the cake is "better" as it changes my feelings from jealously (good) to insecurity (bad)"

Yes, this is a fine line.

Humiliation is such a loaded word...the experience for the cuckquean can be deliciously humiliating, because she is watching her man fuck another woman for his pleasure, and she is being made to watch a scene that is very taboo in the eyes of society, and goes against every expectation of a ‘normal’ relationship.

And the quean can feel ashamed of herself, because she cannot do anything but find this subversion scorching hot, and wants nothing more than to see her man satisfy this cuckcake, and clean them both up afterwards - something that everyone she knows on ‘normal’ life would be horrified by if they knew she desired such things.

But this ‘humiliation’ is not about insecurity, but security and empowerment - there is really nothing stronger than a couple who can watch each other fuck people for the pleasure they can take from it, safe in the knowledge it brings them closer together as a loving couple.

The feelings in these scenarios are very powerful.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Thinking more on this, the key point is that play in the bedroom can be humiliating without being insulting - and it can be degrading without being belittling.

These are complex emotions, and however we choose to mess around with them to make ourselves feel good is just fine, as long as everyone involved is consensual, and finds it satisfying.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We do this to a certain degree, I love to watch him with other women and will often take a step back and watch them for a while but I always like to get involved it is on our list to just let the Hubby and another girl have sex in front of me and let them both finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a long held fantasy of mine. I love the psychology of it... The trust....the lust....the power play. Its so hot on so many levels.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We do this to a certain degree, I love to watch him with other women and will often take a step back and watch them for a while but I always like to get involved it is on our list to just let the Hubby and another girl have sex in front of me and let them both finish "

That’s the difficulty, isn’t it? Unless you’re tied up, it’s so hard not to join in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting confused so if I’m looking for a lady and hope for her to have more partners she would be a cuckoldress?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting confused so if I’m looking for a lady and hope for her to have more partners she would be a cuckoldress? "

Or a hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I like that name ... how to find one is another matter ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do this to a certain degree, I love to watch him with other women and will often take a step back and watch them for a while but I always like to get involved it is on our list to just let the Hubby and another girl have sex in front of me and let them both finish "

Us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone tried any kind of online play with this?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Anyone tried any kind of online play with this?"

Not sure how that would work really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mayb clubs when it’s safe

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By *aimeDWoman
over a year ago

Shaftesbury, Dorset


"Not sure how that would work really."

I’m not sure either but might be kinda fun to figure it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone tried any kind of online play with this?

Not sure how that would work really."

Such as watching him cam with another woman, or being in a group chat and them flirting etc but not being able to join in

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Anyone tried any kind of online play with this?

Not sure how that would work really.

Such as watching him cam with another woman, or being in a group chat and them flirting etc but not being able to join in "

Right...well, that wouldn’t be for us, but it’s certainly something others would enjoy.

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By *aimeDWoman
over a year ago

Shaftesbury, Dorset


"Anyone tried any kind of online play with this?

Not sure how that would work really.

Such as watching him cam with another woman, or being in a group chat and them flirting etc but not being able to join in."

I could imagine that being a good substitute in lieu of actual meets right now.

Nowhere near as good as the real thing but it could tide people over, gotta get creative in 2020

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, that’s certainly true!

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

Innocent questions.

Does the woman joining get licked out by the wife (not her husband)?

If so is it to orgasm?

Also does it mean as the bull she can do this with nothing in return to the female beyond the psychology of it?

I've always wondered about getting oral from a woman but not wanting to reciprocate. I never acted on it because it felt selfish. I'm wondering if this scenario solves that?

Thanks!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Innocent questions.

Does the woman joining get licked out by the wife (not her husband)?

If so is it to orgasm?

Also does it mean as the bull she can do this with nothing in return to the female beyond the psychology of it?

I've always wondered about getting oral from a woman but not wanting to reciprocate. I never acted on it because it felt selfish. I'm wondering if this scenario solves that?

Thanks!

"

It’s entirely down to the scenario all three want to enjoy. There are some cuckqueans who want to do nothing except watch, some who want to be made to orally prepare and clean up the cuckcake afterwards with no reciprocation, and some who want to control the cuckcake and make her fuck the male of the couple to her instruction.

It’s like any kink scenario, you can get exactly what you want if you communicate it honestly beforehand.

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

Thanks!

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By *aimeDWoman
over a year ago

Shaftesbury, Dorset

I definitely agree with Edwalu on this, there’s so many differing scenarios to be played out.

I don’t think you’re at all alone in wanting what you’ve described and for some it can be a quite natural step in exploring with other women and I’ve played that role for some already. Don’t worry about it being selfish, just as long as everyone knows what to expect

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"So are there many other cuckqueens on here, I’ve not come across any, wondering if it’s really that rare. Obviously would love to find a cuckcake but it just seems that this dynamic is not really a big thing... "

I love it, either my gf getting fucked or my fwb, even better when both together, clean up like a woman possessed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though

I’m surprised by how hard it is for cuckqueens to find a cuckcake ( honestly first time I’ve heard that term ).

I have found it almost impossible to find a couple that would be into this but as you say,

without the humiliation aspect. That part is really important to me.

Are the majority of cuckqueens really into the humiliation part or have I just been unlucky?

I dislike the humiliation part too. Some scenarios such as me being blindfolded or being made to wait outside the room sound hot and I guess they are sort of humiliating, but I never want to be made to feel like the cake is "better" as it changes my feelings from jealously (good) to insecurity (bad)

Yes, this is a fine line.

Humiliation is such a loaded word...the experience for the cuckquean can be deliciously humiliating, because she is watching her man fuck another woman for his pleasure, and she is being made to watch a scene that is very taboo in the eyes of society, and goes against every expectation of a ‘normal’ relationship.

And the quean can feel ashamed of herself, because she cannot do anything but find this subversion scorching hot, and wants nothing more than to see her man satisfy this cuckcake, and clean them both up afterwards - something that everyone she knows on ‘normal’ life would be horrified by if they knew she desired such things.

But this ‘humiliation’ is not about insecurity, but security and empowerment - there is really nothing stronger than a couple who can watch each other fuck people for the pleasure they can take from it, safe in the knowledge it brings them closer together as a loving couple.

The feelings in these scenarios are very powerful."

So perfectly explained.

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