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"I don't think I'm the most skillful of lovers but I'm definitely enthusiastic! If you had to pick one what would you choose? In case your wondering this post wasn't born out of any lovers complaints
Just curiosity "Skill sounds so clinical, put this leg here and that arm there all to obtain a perfect position. Stuff that ! I like enthusiasm and the ability to giggle when a position doesn't quite work | |||
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"I don't think I'm the most skillful of lovers but I'm definitely enthusiastic! If you had to pick one what would you choose? In case your wondering this post wasn't born out of any lovers complaints
Just curiosity
Skill sounds so clinical, put this leg here and that arm there all to obtain a perfect position.
Stuff that !
I like enthusiasm and the ability to giggle when a position doesn't quite work"I love a giggle  | |||
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"I don't think I'm the most skillful of lovers but I'm definitely enthusiastic! If you had to pick one what would you choose? In case your wondering this post wasn't born out of any lovers complaints
Just curiosity
Skill sounds so clinical, put this leg here and that arm there all to obtain a perfect position.
Stuff that !
I like enthusiasm and the ability to giggle when a position doesn't quite work
I love a giggle "Get your coat you've pulled  | |||
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"I don't think I'm the most skillful of lovers but I'm definitely enthusiastic! If you had to pick one what would you choose? In case your wondering this post wasn't born out of any lovers complaints
Just curiosity
Skill sounds so clinical, put this leg here and that arm there all to obtain a perfect position.
Stuff that !
I like enthusiasm and the ability to giggle when a position doesn't quite work
I love a giggle
Get your coat you've pulled "This day just got so much better  | |||
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"I don't think I'm the most skillful of lovers but I'm definitely enthusiastic! If you had to pick one what would you choose? In case your wondering this post wasn't born out of any lovers complaints
Just curiosity
Skill sounds so clinical, put this leg here and that arm there all to obtain a perfect position.
Stuff that !
I like enthusiasm and the ability to giggle when a position doesn't quite work
I love a giggle
Get your coat you've pulled
This day just got so much better "Don't forget to bring your enthusiasm | |||
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"I don't think I'm the most skillful of lovers but I'm definitely enthusiastic! If you had to pick one what would you choose? In case your wondering this post wasn't born out of any lovers complaints
Just curiosity
Skill sounds so clinical, put this leg here and that arm there all to obtain a perfect position.
Stuff that !
I like enthusiasm and the ability to giggle when a position doesn't quite work
I love a giggle
Get your coat you've pulled
This day just got so much better
Don't forget to bring your enthusiasm"You may be left wishing I'd left a little of it behind | |||
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"Enthusiasm, as long as it comes with a willingness to take some direction. I don't want them bouncing around like a puppy who's just happy to be there ! "I'm happy to take direction if they'd speak up! I am also happy to give direction | |||
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"Enthusiasm, as long as it comes with a willingness to take some direction. I don't want them bouncing around like a puppy who's just happy to be there !
I'm happy to take direction if they'd speak up! I am also happy to give direction "the perfect woman | |||
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"Thing is good sex isn't about skill or enthusiasm but compatability... ...if you're on the same wavelength as a sexual partner is when it's really good and learned "_kills" don't come into it and enthusiasm is a given" Exactly this, enthusiasm is all well and good but so long as you both want each other then that will drive itself, skill is more about experience with that individual or the ability to read and adapt to what works for the person you are with. The 2 very much go hand in hand and think the either or argument is often linked to youth vs experience at least to some degree. If backed in to a corner to choose between those 2 then it would depend on the mood but more often than not experience wins over for me. | |||
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"I don't think I'm the most skillful of lovers but I'm definitely enthusiastic! If you had to pick one what would you choose? In case your wondering this post wasn't born out of any lovers complaints
Just curiosity "Enthusiasm, _kills can be picked up along the way  | |||
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"I don't think I'm the most skillful of lovers but I'm definitely enthusiastic! If you had to pick one what would you choose? In case your wondering this post wasn't born out of any lovers complaints
Just curiosity
Enthusiasm, _kills can be picked up along the way "But I might add, what one person considers to be skilful is not always the case with others. As everyone is different. | |||
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"have as much skill as you want but if they not into you its just no good" Have as much enthusiasm as you want but if they are clueless it's just no good  | |||
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"I would have both, but in different ways Vanilla sex enthusiasm definitely Kink play is all about the skill level, I cannot generate the pleasure feelings without skill" There does not need to be a conflict between skill and enthusiasm. Think geek! In terms of kink I like to think I am skilfull and enthusiastic about being able to deliver and deliver safely. It is about constantly considering, practising and reflecting. Similarly for vanilla activities skill and enthusiasm do not have to conflict. These days expertise is not given any respect but you don't become an expert or skilfull in anything without passion and enthusiasm. So if I had to choose between skilfull and enthusiasm, I choose skilfull. | |||
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"Thing is good sex isn't about skill or enthusiasm but compatability... ...if you're on the same wavelength as a sexual partner is when it's really good and learned "_kills" don't come into it and enthusiasm is a given Exactly this, enthusiasm is all well and good but so long as you both want each other then that will drive itself, skill is more about experience with that individual or the ability to read and adapt to what works for the person you are with. The 2 very much go hand in hand and think the either or argument is often linked to youth vs experience at least to some degree. If backed in to a corner to choose between those 2 then it would depend on the mood but more often than not experience wins over for me." Perfectly expanded my point
If there is a desirable "skill" it's the ability to listen and sense what is working for a partner and what is not and adapt accordingly | |||
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"Skilfully enthusiastic or enthusiastically skilfull "I’d go with this too | |||
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"Thing is good sex isn't about skill or enthusiasm but compatability... ...if you're on the same wavelength as a sexual partner is when it's really good and learned "_kills" don't come into it and enthusiasm is a given"  | |||
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" Enthusiasm. Nothing worse than wondering if the other person recognises you're even there!" I have been that sack of spuds | |||
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"I don't think I'm the most skillful of lovers but I'm definitely enthusiastic! If you had to pick one what would you choose? In case your wondering this post wasn't born out of any lovers complaints
Just curiosity "Skill afterall which women really want a guy who can barely take your bra off properly  | |||
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" Enthusiasm. Nothing worse than wondering if the other person recognises you're even there!" Yeah, I once had someone go down on me who only looked at me down there. Never once looked at my face. Don't most people look at their face for reactions? I know I do. | |||
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" Enthusiasm. Nothing worse than wondering if the other person recognises you're even there! Yeah, I once had someone go down on me who only looked at me down there. Never once looked at my face. Don't most people look at their face for reactions? I know I do. " Nope sorry too busy watching the clock till your 5 mins are up and i can have my turn | |||
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