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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The say you can't chose your family. So true. But you can chose if you speak to them or not.

Do you have a family member you just don't see eye to eye with regardless of how much effort you put in..

My uncle is a complete nob and a total creep and I just cant bare him he talks over everyone, has to be center of attention, embarrases my aunt.Thinks his funny jokes are funny.Makes a total idiot of himself at gatherings and so thinks he's gods gift..

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Ive never got on with my sister or brother, we are just very very different people. At the moment contact is out of my hands but as soon as it is in my control then I will choose to no longer see them.

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By *iffy1968Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

I cant stand my sisters new husband , hes a little prick served in the army and thinks hes better than everyone , always used to make comments to Lucy then 1 day i lost it in the pub with him , got a lifetime ban and needless to say dont speak to either of them anymore

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Jeeeeez - quite a lot of my family are on my block list in real life!

We just have different outlooks on everything, and as I’ve grown older, I’ve become tired of all of the arguing and bickering....so I’ve been dropping them!

I probably only still remain on good terms with my brother and sister. But I’m fine with it and life has been so much more peaceful since everyone else dropped out of it!

-Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The say you can't chose your family. So true. But you can chose if you speak to them or not.

Do you have a family member you just don't see eye to eye with regardless of how much effort you put in..

My uncle is a complete nob and a total creep and I just cant bare him he talks over everyone, has to be center of attention, embarrases my aunt.Thinks his funny jokes are funny.Makes a total idiot of himself at gatherings and so thinks he's gods gift.. "

Ditto. Have an uncle who exhibits the same traits as your uncle. Total knob-jockey.

Lately, I've heard through the family grapevine that he is writing his "autobiography".

He is a total narcissist. Even his son hates him, his wife has given up too amd never goes out with him anywhere.

Last year, during International Women's Day, he gate crashed a private community event, just for women. He "wanted to help out."

He's shockingly inappropriate too. Once gave a lift home to young teenage girl, alone in his car. Total stranger, doesn't know her. His wife wasn't happy.

Penny pincher too. Once gave a £5 note to his mother in front of everyone as it was Mothers Day or a birthday. My grandmother told him to fuck off amd take it back.

I wish he had Covid19 and went away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive never got on with my sister or brother, we are just very very different people. At the moment contact is out of my hands but as soon as it is in my control then I will choose to no longer see them."

Yeah people say but there your family. But at the end of the day if you don't get on then whats the point. I totally get you .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I cant stand my sisters new husband , hes a little prick served in the army and thinks hes better than everyone , always used to make comments to Lucy then 1 day i lost it in the pub with him , got a lifetime ban and needless to say dont speak to either of them anymore"

Always one no matter what isn't there..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jeeeeez - quite a lot of my family are on my block list in real life!

We just have different outlooks on everything, and as I’ve grown older, I’ve become tired of all of the arguing and bickering....so I’ve been dropping them!

I probably only still remain on good terms with my brother and sister. But I’m fine with it and life has been so much more peaceful since everyone else dropped out of it!

-Mr"

I can really relate to this. As ive got older there becoming more irritable and I keep saying to myself is it me. Am I overthinking things or are they really not worth bothering with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The say you can't chose your family. So true. But you can chose if you speak to them or not.

Do you have a family member you just don't see eye to eye with regardless of how much effort you put in..

My uncle is a complete nob and a total creep and I just cant bare him he talks over everyone, has to be center of attention, embarrases my aunt.Thinks his funny jokes are funny.Makes a total idiot of himself at gatherings and so thinks he's gods gift..

Ditto. Have an uncle who exhibits the same traits as your uncle. Total knob-jockey.

Lately, I've heard through the family grapevine that he is writing his "autobiography".

He is a total narcissist. Even his son hates him, his wife has given up too amd never goes out with him anywhere.

Last year, during International Women's Day, he gate crashed a private community event, just for women. He "wanted to help out."

He's shockingly inappropriate too. Once gave a lift home to young teenage girl, alone in his car. Total stranger, doesn't know her. His wife wasn't happy.

Penny pincher too. Once gave a £5 note to his mother in front of everyone as it was Mothers Day or a birthday. My grandmother told him to fuck off amd take it back.

I wish he had Covid19 and went away.

"

Sounds exactly like mine..I leave a room when he enters as I just feel his eyes following me if I dont..Total creep

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Sadly my big sister. She is only a year older and was so much fun a child but now turned into a straight, laced fuddy duddy. We are like chalk and cheese and she is always dictating her principles whilst looking down at me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sadly my big sister. She is only a year older and was so much fun a child but now turned into a straight, laced fuddy duddy. We are like chalk and cheese and she is always dictating her principles whilst looking down at me."

Oh I have an older sister very much like this .

We have fallen out on numerous occasions as she tries to preach to me since mum died. Im trying to keep a level head for my mum wouldn't want us to fall out but I can really see me turning round and telling her to do one..

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My nan's husband. For starters he's nearly 20 years younger and she was left very well off when my grandad died... He's also very rude and confrontational to the rest of the family. To top it off, now that she's older and less mobile (she's in her 90s) he doesn't even live with her every day and goes back to him own place. He's done this their whole marriage and it just wasn't our business but now it's not safe now she's very elderly and they've refused carers because he doesn't want to pay for them. The house is also a mess as he doesn't clean very well but won't pay for cleaners or upkeep of things that need fixing. For example her stair lifts keep breaking down. It's her money but he's very controlling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family is incredibly small. Literally my boys and I,one aunt and one uncle.

I like them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because people are your family it doesn't mean you have to put up with it!

My sister lives a 10 minute walk from me and we rarely see each other because of her shady toxic behaviour.

I wish it was different because most of our family has passed away - but she is a nasty woman that only brings misery and unease to others.

I would rather be alone than have her in my life.

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

Got a huge family and I love em to bits. Yeah,we fight and argue, annoy and all (including the ladies) can be accused of being a knob at times. Just a normal family really. But when we need eachother, I know they will be there for me.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"The say you can't chose your family. So true. But you can chose if you speak to them or not.

Do you have a family member you just don't see eye to eye with regardless of how much effort you put in..

My uncle is a complete nob and a total creep and I just cant bare him he talks over everyone, has to be center of attention, embarrases my aunt.Thinks his funny jokes are funny.Makes a total idiot of himself at gatherings and so thinks he's gods gift.. "

I think you and I are related as that sounds like my younger brother!!

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Quite a few of my cousins actually. They're all greedy and selfish, and have massive inferiority complexes, so they make spiteful remarks.

I've got no time for such people, and so i ignore them or make it very obvious that I have no respect for them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My niece she's a twin and not at all like her sister,she thinks that the world revolves around her,she's a stuck up madam with no respect for other I've tried so hard with her,but she just looks down her nose at me,I've gave up trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family in Huddersfield we don’t see.

Family in Essex we don’t see.

Family in North Wales we don’t see

Not for us and it’s been like that for many years.

Bless em!!!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two uncles. One is just an awkward weirdo who I can't gel with and gives me the creeps, I'll be civil but that's it. The other is a complete waste of oxygen after telling me at my dad's funeral it didn't matter that he was dead as no one liked him anyway he's lucky I was so upset and shocked by his comment at the time or he'd have no kneecaps left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the point, there's always one, but its 21st century drama and not a problem ...just disengage I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family is massive as my dad was one of 12 and my mum one of 8.

I'm not really close with any of them except my sister.

This is mostly because the family is so big its impossible to be in to be in contact with all of them.

Parts of the family get together normally at weddings, funerals ect and we always have a great time but other than that we don't really have any contact.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

My brother, more specifically his wife.

Not spoken to her in eleven years since she ruined my 40th birthday, and have had minimal contact with my brother since

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I have a big family get on with most x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister in law is toxic, she has been with my brother since I was 11 and has always been vile to me.

She has stolen off me; lied about me and physically assaulted me.

I'm 46 now and she is still vile.

I lost my Mum 3 years ago and while we were at the hospital my sister in law says

"well this is a nice birthday isn't it" - I shot back with "sorry for the inconvenience to you, I'm sure Mum didn't deliberately plan ruin your Birthday"

Mum was barely cold I was so upset and my Brothers just stood looking at her.

Then the Nurse handed me a small envelope with Mum's jewellery, I popped it in Mum's bag, without thought.

We decided to meet at Mum's house to decide what to do next. Got there and my Brother decided to search for a copy of her will - he opened it and read that all of her assets were to be split, but I was to receive her jewellery, I knew she had some expensive pieces and I knew my Sister in law coveted it.

My sister in laws face went white, then red! My brother asked her for the envelope.

She started pulling rings off her fingers and stuff out of her purse! The jewellery had literally been on Mums body less than hour prior....I made a comment about grave robbing, my brother was mortified, I felt quite sorry for him

That night I had her daughters crying on the phone to me about how upset their Mother was. I had lost my Mum! Like I give a fuck and told them so.

I later learnt off my other brother that she had spent that evening slagging me off to anyone who listened before he told her to stop it

The day of the funeral as Mum's body was being loaded she was asking my other neice whether she'd seen me and what I had given her

At the wake I told my brother that while I wanted to maintain a relationship with him I'm done with her, I told him I don't want to see her, speak to her. So I now we have a once monthly chat, which is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My sister in law is toxic, she has been with my brother since I was 11 and has always been vile to me.

She has stolen off me; lied about me and physically assaulted me.

I'm 46 now and she is still vile.

I lost my Mum 3 years ago and while we were at the hospital my sister in law says

"well this is a nice birthday isn't it" - I shot back with "sorry for the inconvenience to you, I'm sure Mum didn't deliberately plan ruin your Birthday"

Mum was barely cold I was so upset and my Brothers just stood looking at her.

Then the Nurse handed me a small envelope with Mum's jewellery, I popped it in Mum's bag, without thought.

We decided to meet at Mum's house to decide what to do next. Got there and my Brother decided to search for a copy of her will - he opened it and read that all of her assets were to be split, but I was to receive her jewellery, I knew she had some expensive pieces and I knew my Sister in law coveted it.

My sister in laws face went white, then red! My brother asked her for the envelope.

She started pulling rings off her fingers and stuff out of her purse! The jewellery had literally been on Mums body less than hour prior....I made a comment about grave robbing, my brother was mortified, I felt quite sorry for him

That night I had her daughters crying on the phone to me about how upset their Mother was. I had lost my Mum! Like I give a fuck and told them so.

I later learnt off my other brother that she had spent that evening slagging me off to anyone who listened before he told her to stop it

The day of the funeral as Mum's body was being loaded she was asking my other neice whether she'd seen me and what I had given her

At the wake I told my brother that while I wanted to maintain a relationship with him I'm done with her, I told him I don't want to see her, speak to her. So I now we have a once monthly chat, which is fine.

"

She doesn't like my kids either, she used to make comments about how they were abnormal because they preferred to play in their garden rather than in the streets

When my youngest went to University she said 'what's the point in that, he'll never get a job doing that'

5 years later he is earning more than she will ever earn doing a job he gained his degree for! I took great delight in telling her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will always have a relative where you just can't stand them or you just physically can't stand them same difference really full stop back in the day I had this family member but thought they were better than anyone else until karma hit them in the face

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