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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I received a wink from a couple. Of course no deets to respect forum rules.

They initially engaged me, and I responded with a message. Not crude, a polite hello if you will. They responded within a minute as they were online.

We shared some converse, they asked me for a cock pic, then asked me how big I was, both length and girth. I think it's fair to assume they were keen.

Our converse developed and after pm them my face pic, I asked if they would reveal themselves too. They did not.

Instead, they replied all their photos were already on Fab. They went on to say, they could send more via kik.

I replied giving my kik deets. 30 minutes past and I had no further contact. Not on Fab or kik.

I have used this and other swinging platforms on and off for years. I've been duped/time wasted too often as we all have. I'm not green.

Up until this point all messages were sent and replied within a few minutes.

All of a sudden it went dark, despite the fact I could see they remained online. I became concerned I was being taken for a ride and sent a polite (no rudeness or abuse) direct message that I was going to draw a line under our chat.

To abridge the saga, I got blocked. I wish to make clear they were at no time rude. It simply concerned me why a flowing conversation suddenly jilted and that they didn't returned face pics after seeing mine.

Have I jumped the gun, or is it a case of a few bad apples causing me to be overly suspicious? Too late now I know, just asking the community.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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The community says they wanted to see your tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received a wink from a couple. Of course no deets to respect forum rules.

They initially engaged me, and I responded with a message. Not crude, a polite hello if you will. They responded within a minute as they were online.

We shared some converse, they asked me for a cock pic, then asked me how big I was, both length and girth. I think it's fair to assume they were keen.

Our converse developed and after pm them my face pic, I asked if they would reveal themselves too. They did not.

Instead, they replied all their photos were already on Fab. They went on to say, they could send more via kik.

I replied giving my kik deets. 30 minutes past and I had no further contact. Not on Fab or kik.

I have used this and other swinging platforms on and off for years. I've been duped/time wasted too often as we all have. I'm not green.

Up until this point all messages were sent and replied within a few minutes.

All of a sudden it went dark, despite the fact I could see they remained online. I became concerned I was being taken for a ride and sent a polite (no rudeness or abuse) direct message that I was going to draw a line under our chat.

To abridge the saga, I got blocked. I wish to make clear they were at no time rude. It simply concerned me why a flowing conversation suddenly jilted and that they didn't returned face pics after seeing mine.

Have I jumped the gun, or is it a case of a few bad apples causing me to be overly suspicious? Too late now I know, just asking the community.

"

I think you're over thinking

Just saying

Saira x

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Sorry to say, but maybe they weren't too keen on your face?

Or they just wanted to steal your details...

I generally don't reveal anything here unless the other person makes a good effort

Keep your wits about you next time, and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s sounds like maybe they just changed their minds ? Or maybe one of them was the one doing the chatting and then the other one wasn’t keen ? It’s annoying I know but these things happen on fab unfortunately x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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Your face looks very handsome Op x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry to say, but maybe they weren't too keen on your face?

Or they just wanted to steal your details...

I generally don't reveal anything here unless the other person makes a good effort

Keep your wits about you next time, and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your face looks very handsome Op x"

Fantastic jaw line

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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"Your face looks very handsome Op x

Fantastic jaw line

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Beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I received a wink from a couple. Of course no deets to respect forum rules.

They initially engaged me, and I responded with a message. Not crude, a polite hello if you will. They responded within a minute as they were online.

We shared some converse, they asked me for a cock pic, then asked me how big I was, both length and girth. I think it's fair to assume they were keen.

Our converse developed and after pm them my face pic, I asked if they would reveal themselves too. They did not.

Instead, they replied all their photos were already on Fab. They went on to say, they could send more via kik.

I replied giving my kik deets. 30 minutes past and I had no further contact. Not on Fab or kik.

I have used this and other swinging platforms on and off for years. I've been duped/time wasted too often as we all have. I'm not green.

Up until this point all messages were sent and replied within a few minutes.

All of a sudden it went dark, despite the fact I could see they remained online. I became concerned I was being taken for a ride and sent a polite (no rudeness or abuse) direct message that I was going to draw a line under our chat.

To abridge the saga, I got blocked. I wish to make clear they were at no time rude. It simply concerned me why a flowing conversation suddenly jilted and that they didn't returned face pics after seeing mine.

Have I jumped the gun, or is it a case of a few bad apples causing me to be overly suspicious? Too late now I know, just asking the community.

I think you're over thinking

Just saying

Saira x"

Yes, you could well be right, but this site is akin to a cunning boobytrap if you don't have your wits about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to let it get to you OP, Happens a lot on here.

I keep my face public that way, people have to message me there's and there's no confusion if someone's attracted to me. But that also isn't for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s sounds like maybe they just changed their minds ? Or maybe one of them was the one doing the chatting and then the other one wasn’t keen ? It’s annoying I know but these things happen on fab unfortunately x"

Could well be the case, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try not to let it get to you OP, Happens a lot on here.

I keep my face public that way, people have to message me there's and there's no confusion if someone's attracted to me. But that also isn't for everyone.

"

Their's *

Jesus ignore my illiterate ass lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Were you conversing with the male half of the couple?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Were you conversing with the male half of the couple? "

I was thinking this

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Were you conversing with the male half of the couple?

I was thinking this

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I'm a cynical old baggage and it's usually my first thought

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Were you conversing with the male half of the couple?

I was thinking this

I'm a cynical old baggage and it's usually my first thought

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I'm a cynical marginally younger baggage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can behave appallingly on here.

Just outright rude and self centred. No excuse for it.

Best pick yourself up and try again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received a wink from a couple. Of course no deets to respect forum rules.

They initially engaged me, and I responded with a message. Not crude, a polite hello if you will. They responded within a minute as they were online.

We shared some converse, they asked me for a cock pic, then asked me how big I was, both length and girth. I think it's fair to assume they were keen.

Our converse developed and after pm them my face pic, I asked if they would reveal themselves too. They did not.

Instead, they replied all their photos were already on Fab. They went on to say, they could send more via kik.

I replied giving my kik deets. 30 minutes past and I had no further contact. Not on Fab or kik.

I have used this and other swinging platforms on and off for years. I've been duped/time wasted too often as we all have. I'm not green.

Up until this point all messages were sent and replied within a few minutes.

All of a sudden it went dark, despite the fact I could see they remained online. I became concerned I was being taken for a ride and sent a polite (no rudeness or abuse) direct message that I was going to draw a line under our chat.

To abridge the saga, I got blocked. I wish to make clear they were at no time rude. It simply concerned me why a flowing conversation suddenly jilted and that they didn't returned face pics after seeing mine.

Have I jumped the gun, or is it a case of a few bad apples causing me to be overly suspicious? Too late now I know, just asking the community.

I think you're over thinking

Just saying

Saira x

Yes, you could well be right, but this site is akin to a cunning boobytrap if you don't have your wits about you.

"

I rarely have my wits about me! Usually leave them at home

I'm at peace with my over thinking, it's what I do

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Were you conversing with the male half of the couple?

I was thinking this

I'm a cynical old baggage and it's usually my first thought

I'm a cynical marginally younger baggage

"

Marginally! 30 years nearly lol.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Were you conversing with the male half of the couple?

I was thinking this

I'm a cynical old baggage and it's usually my first thought

I'm a cynical marginally younger baggage

Marginally! 30 years nearly lol. "

OK, OK I was being polite

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Were you conversing with the male half of the couple?

I was thinking this

I'm a cynical old baggage and it's usually my first thought

I'm a cynical marginally younger baggage

Marginally! 30 years nearly lol.

OK, OK I was being polite

"

Bless you, I know

.

I'm not shy about my age, I'm old it beats the alternative

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

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"Were you conversing with the male half of the couple?

I was thinking this

I'm a cynical old baggage and it's usually my first thought

I'm a cynical marginally younger baggage

Marginally! 30 years nearly lol.

OK, OK I was being polite

Bless you, I know

.

I'm not shy about my age, I'm old it beats the alternative

"

That's not old xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Were you conversing with the male half of the couple? "

Not certain, but I believe the lady was present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a frequent thing here tbh ,l've actually stopped sending face pics here, if they ask for one l will only send them via Kik.,if that don't suit them ,no worries ,the reason being is umpteen times l sent one on the promise of theirs being returned ,but the promised returned one never happened ,which isn't a great confidence booster either as it can make you feel like you're unattractive and especially as you don't get to see them ..they could have a face like a bulldog chewing a wasp ..but you don't get to see it ..so l pulled the plug on sending face pics here ..and another thing that l did was when they'd ask for a face pic to send theirs first ,which of course never happened either.... Live and learn l suppose.

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