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Why do people read messages then unread them?

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By *har mouthful OP   Man
over a year ago

london

It happens to me a lot just wondering why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause they want to reply later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they don't want people to see it's been read and then respond again asking why they haven't had a reply

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By *har mouthful OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Ooh I see thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this because I want to read the message now but will reply later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or because they are curious, but then decide not for me and don't want to be pestered with follow up mails... So many reasons!

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"It happens to me a lot just wondering why?"

If a couple, might want to show their partner before replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you read and then unread a message ?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Because you can’t flag for follow up or anything , it’s the only feature available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you read and then unread a message ? "

Under the message you have 'Reply', under that you have 'Block', 'Save', 'Mark Unread'.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"How do you read and then unread a message ? "

The OP means when a message is read it goes white in the senders sent box, then if the recipient marks it unread it goes back to yellow.

To the OP, I've found it easier to not worry about how others choose to use the site and not sweat the small stuff like this - watching sent messages to see if they're read won't change a thing, they'll either reply or they won't - and there could be any number of reasons that they do it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know about the yellow box but never knew you could read it and turn it yellow again.

That increases my fab knowledge for the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens to me a lot just wondering why?"

Checking your sent messages is sad tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause they want to reply later. "

this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't want to talk to the person

So leave message unread & delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was to make you started a thread about it. It worked their job is done !

Happened to me two weeks ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will often read then set to unread So I can consider my reply/check profile/reply when I have time too

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By *ngelShare18Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I do this if I open the message to see it's obvious the sender hasn't bothered to read our profile, so I'll mark unread and delete.

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