FabSwingers.com forum: Back handed compliments

By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

What have you ever received.

Mine Is (& I’ve heard it a lot)

‘you’re so much prettier in real life’..

ok. *Puts camera down*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look “special”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're just weird (I take it as a compliment but never sure which way it's intended)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re hot for being a young mum!

You’d be hot if you lost weight

You’d be hot if you got rid of your stretch marks

You’re hot for someone with short hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you don't look "that" old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your sexy for your age

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Anything with the 'for your age' caveat. Guaranteed to make me stabby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything with the 'for your age' caveat. Guaranteed to make me stabby."

Stabby lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep getting a variation of "you look cute"

hardly a compliment a man wants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything with the 'for your age' caveat. Guaranteed to make me stabby."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when my eldest child was 5 years old, I was asked by a parent at school of I was a "gym slip mum" as I looked very young to have a child of 5 yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep getting a variation of "you look cute"

hardly a compliment a man wants!"

Yes! I don't want to look cute, I want to look sexy, dammit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when my eldest child was 5 years old, I was asked by a parent at school of I was a "gym slip mum" as I looked very young to have a child of 5 yrs"

Hope you punched them in the genitals, I detest having to speak to other parents on the school run

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Your sexy for your age"

I get this a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont look like a grandma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when my eldest child was 5 years old, I was asked by a parent at school of I was a "gym slip mum" as I looked very young to have a child of 5 yrs

Hope you punched them in the genitals, I detest having to speak to other parents on the school run

Was a female, I just laughed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you had a bit of a tan you would be better looking"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep getting a variation of "you look cute"

hardly a compliment a man wants!

Yes! I don't want to look cute, I want to look sexy, dammit!

Cute and damn sexy,is that better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your sexy for your age

I get this a lot"

I can understand why

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"You dont look like a grandma

GLAM ma ma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep getting a variation of "you look cute"

hardly a compliment a man wants!

Yes! I don't want to look cute, I want to look sexy, dammit!

Cute and damn sexy,is that better

Ooooh... Why thank you Ms Red

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Keep getting a variation of "you look cute"

hardly a compliment a man wants!

Yes! I don't want to look cute, I want to look sexy, dammit!

Cute and damn sexy,is that better

Now you're speaking my language

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when my eldest child was 5 years old, I was asked by a parent at school of I was a "gym slip mum" as I looked very young to have a child of 5 yrs

Hope you punched them in the genitals, I detest having to speak to other parents on the school run

Was a female, I just laughed"

I wouldn't have discriminated due to gender

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By *eeling0880Man
over a year ago

Pennines

I get ..you look good for your age!

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

Your hotter than your photos, your voice melts me. You are a beast!!

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

Your photos don’t do you justice , camera’s not your friend... i am pleasantly surprised though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not bad for a ginger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why cant i meet a guy like you.....

Translated

Basically your everything i want but not in the right packaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep getting a variation of "you look cute"

hardly a compliment a man wants!

Yes! I don't want to look cute, I want to look sexy, dammit!

Cute and damn sexy,is that better

Ooooh... Why thank you Ms Red

Your most welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me looking at photos of boyfriend in his youngers: "wow you were so good looking".

Eek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me looking at photos of boyfriend in his youngers: "wow you were so good looking".

Eek

Youngers is a contraction of younger days, oops lol

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

“You always were good at that” during sex. Hmm. Past tense.

Dumped me in the morning

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

"You’re hot for being a young mum!

You’d be hot if you lost weight

You’d be hot if you got rid of your stretch marks

You’re hot for someone with short hair"

You are hot as you are. Stretch marks and all. The skin on a “ mum tum” is so soft against my lips. Love planting kisses on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why cant i meet a guy like you.....

Translated

Basically your everything i want but not in the right packaging

Yep. The unspoken caveat: *like* you but, y'know, *not* you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything with the 'for your age' caveat. Guaranteed to make me stabby."
That's the one that always riles me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your nice looking but not my type but we can still chat love being friendzoned lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your new hair style.

Not so much Julian Clary it's more like Elton John.

Say that to a female narcissist and watch her implode.

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

"Anything with the 'for your age' caveat. Guaranteed to make me stabby. That's the one that always riles me. "

A sexy lady is just that.. not a number or age

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I like your new hair style.

Not so much Julian Clary it's more like Elton John.

Say that to a female narcissist and watch her implode."

Patrick do people remember who Julian Clary was these days

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

[Removed by poster at 11/09/20 11:29:16]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like chunky girls!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"You’re hot for being a young mum!

You’d be hot if you lost weight

You’d be hot if you got rid of your stretch marks

You’re hot for someone with short hair"

People really say that ? Even if you thought it why would you even consider saying it !!!!

You have a gorgeous cock. Like I didn't do anything to get it, it’s just my cock, it’s not a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like your new hair style.

Not so much Julian Clary it's more like Elton John.

Say that to a female narcissist and watch her implode.

Patrick do people remember who Julian Clary was these days

Saw him live and he was brilliant. Fitzpatrick still makes me laugh

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I forgot to say i was called a “sturdy bird” on a night out, errrmmm thanks

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If only you didn’t live so far away

Translated as no thanks I’m not interested

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Anything with the 'for your age' caveat. Guaranteed to make me stabby."

But not when they wipe 10 years off your true age

then its a big smile instead

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I like chunky girls!

I’ve been told I don’t look so big in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get people saying I look a lot younger for my age ?????

And I look better in the flesh

I look normal as far as am concerned

Happy Fabbing sexy people x

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Keep getting a variation of "you look cute"

hardly a compliment a man wants!"

This,and ‘you have a friendly face’ .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like chunky girls!

I’ve been told I don’t look so big in real life

I'd have definitely followed that up with " yeah, well in your case its obviously amazing what a good filter can do! " ..... check please!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I like chunky girls!

I’ve been told I don’t look so big in real life

I'd have definitely followed that up with " yeah, well in your case its obviously amazing what a good filter can do! " ..... check please!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like chunky girls!

I’ve been told I don’t look so big in real life

What you on about women

We barely fitted down the hotel corridor together

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I like chunky girls!

I’ve been told I don’t look so big in real life

What you on about women

We barely fitted down the hotel corridor together

Oi Patrick that was your fault

trying to squeee through that door together

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got told....

"You have a nice ass"

As she looked me in the eyes

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By *iss behaving2019Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

That my bum is my best feature!!!

Not sure a complement or insult!!!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

You don’t look that old

You’re pretty for a nana

I love larger ladies

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

You're pretty quick for a fat bloke.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Anything with the 'for your age' caveat. Guaranteed to make me stabby.

But not when they wipe 10 years off your true age

then its a big smile instead "

I'm not getting what you mean with that. Any caveat to a compliment is an insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re Soufflé is better than I thought it would be, but still slightly over seasoned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have an incredible ass for a man with your accent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your dress sense is appalling but somehow you’ve pulled it off, just.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For someone with limited intelligence you’ve made it go along way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again the “for your age” comments

And another favourite “you look like fun”

Wtf does that even mean?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

oops sorry Granny, thought that was Kate Moss for a minute.....

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I have just this minute been sent a message (I'm paraphrasing admin)

'You're never the age you say you are'.

Yeah, I'm actually 29 but added 30 years for the hell of it.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I don’t look irish , then says, but your attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t look irish , then says, but your attractive

Maybe they only know Aamon Holmes and Shane McGowan

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You look “different”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What have you ever received.

Mine Is (& I’ve heard it a lot)

‘you’re so much prettier in real life’..

ok. *Puts camera down*.

It’s true though you are

Mine is your stunning for a big girl

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

"You guys actually look good" with the emphasis on ACTUALLY

"you look better without your glasses"

thanks, you look better without my glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep getting a variation of "you look cute"

hardly a compliment a man wants!

Yes! I don't want to look cute, I want to look sexy, dammit!

Who said cute isn't sexy?!?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

""You guys actually look good" with the emphasis on ACTUALLY

"you look better without your glasses"

thanks, you look better without my glasses

If you're gonna look at me, can you please turn the lights down as well.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"I don’t look irish , then says, but your attractive

Maybe they only know Aamon Holmes and Shane McGowan"

Or Micheal Fasbinder or Cillian Young / Jamie Doran perhaps.... nobody thinks they are irish

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

"You are too young and fit for me to sleep with, I prefer older men who are out of shape, they are more grateful."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't want to fuck you again but you're so good I can't help myself.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

That I'm not typically attractive but he thought I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're not fat, you're beautiful."

I'm both you cockwomble

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Anything with the 'for your age' caveat. Guaranteed to make me stabby."

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You'd be stunning if not for (things about me I wasn't holding a referendum on).

You're (compliment) for a woman.

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I’m sexy for someone my size

Or my usual one when I say that I’m big or that I’m fat they tell me I’m not ugly. I never said I was ugly in the first place

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I often get told I’m nicer than I look.

Apparently it’s because I look a bit stand offish and intimidating

when in actual fact I’m just anti social and shy.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

You’re not our usual type

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Mrs bluebellracer told me I scowl a lot. I think it’s my contacts and my astigmatism. I wouldn’t scowl at anyone really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never judge someone on their looks but with some there is a lot of subject matter

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