FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Girl cums too quickly

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this may seem like a trivial issue, and one that is a positive in many peoples eyes, but my girlfriend cums after around 2 mins of sex (and several times). After 3 or 4 orgasms (5 mins in), she asks me to stop and I am not finishing. Do any girls have any experience of this, and how could she make herself last longer?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lut and sirCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Yep happens here and a sqirter. Usually just pick another hole till ready for more lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Are you sure she just doesn't want to stop after 5 minutes?

Look to prolong your foreplay, tease it out a bit.

When she is getting close, back off and let her calm down?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - clarification needed

Did you intend to say that you're not finishing when your gf asks you to stop or mean that you're not finished at the time she asks you to stop? There's a big difference between them...

You may want to clarify before others take the unintended meaning out of context and reply.

Take care

Her x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the perils of being easy cummer! Think about other things like what you are missing on tele

Or try other positions and lots and lots of foreplay. There are many ways to have sex that don’t involve penetration. Explore and find out what works for you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohnny_ThunderMan
over a year ago

LLandudno

The problem isn't her, the problem is you... You need to learn to cum in 3 minutes. That'll teach her

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum very quickly from penetration... And often... I wouldn't ask anyone to stop

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I know this may seem like a trivial issue, and one that is a positive in many peoples eyes, but my girlfriend cums after around 2 mins of sex (and several times). After 3 or 4 orgasms (5 mins in), she asks me to stop and I am not finishing. Do any girls have any experience of this, and how could she make herself last longer?"

I'm guessing that she is thinking that you're on fab balls deep in klunge that her horn is off the scale either that or she just does not like you much and is faking it to shift you or you're just not very empathetic or responsive to a ladies signals

If you were a competent desirable lover then

A you simply would have no need for this question

B , see A

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I know this may seem like a trivial issue, and one that is a positive in many peoples eyes, but my girlfriend cums after around 2 mins of sex (and several times). After 3 or 4 orgasms (5 mins in), she asks me to stop and I am not finishing. Do any girls have any experience of this, and how could she make herself last longer?"

I don't have any experience of it but I do know that if a woman was saying that a guy was leaving her unsatisfied she'd be drowning in offers of help and sympathy.

Could you delay penetration or maybe once she's asked you to stop could she help you cum with oral.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you spoke to her about it?

Why isn't she continuing on after she has had an orgasm? It's not very fair on you to leave you unfinished each time you have sex.

I was going to suggest a lube that might help with sensitivity, but that might make it more difficult for you to finish.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I know this may seem like a trivial issue, and one that is a positive in many peoples eyes, but my girlfriend cums after around 2 mins of sex (and several times). After 3 or 4 orgasms (5 mins in), she asks me to stop and I am not finishing. Do any girls have any experience of this, and how could she make herself last longer?"

Give her to me I’ll have her

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this may seem like a trivial issue, and one that is a positive in many peoples eyes, but my girlfriend cums after around 2 mins of sex (and several times). After 3 or 4 orgasms (5 mins in), she asks me to stop and I am not finishing. Do any girls have any experience of this, and how could she make herself last longer?

Give her to me I’ll have her "

Guaranteed she won’t be having orgasms at all. You’ll definitely solve it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this may seem like a trivial issue, and one that is a positive in many peoples eyes, but my girlfriend cums after around 2 mins of sex (and several times). After 3 or 4 orgasms (5 mins in), she asks me to stop and I am not finishing. Do any girls have any experience of this, and how could she make herself last longer?

Give her to me I’ll have her

Guaranteed she won’t be having orgasms at all. You’ll definitely solve it "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may have the condition of over sensitivity where you can orgasm from even the slightest movement and apparently it’s a nightmare to live with.

At the end of the day actually speaking to her about it is key.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Fuck her face til you finish as well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have her help you get closer to orgasm before you fuck her??

I cum multiple times and have never asked to stop so it must be a sensitivity thing with her... So yes talk and find a solution both are happy with??? Be that you close to orgasm before penetration or her finishing you in another way... I'm sure it's frustrating for you if you are being left with no orgasm!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I know this may seem like a trivial issue, and one that is a positive in many peoples eyes, but my girlfriend cums after around 2 mins of sex (and several times). After 3 or 4 orgasms (5 mins in), she asks me to stop and I am not finishing. Do any girls have any experience of this, and how could she make herself last longer?

Give her to me I’ll have her

Guaranteed she won’t be having orgasms at all. You’ll definitely solve it "

I’m a selfish lover, it only matters if I cum

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend, (lol) she comes very quickly and squirts significantly over and over. She flatters me by saying she doesn’t do that with anyone else. This makes me pleased and really hard. She then gets a really good fucking and cums and squirts more. If she can’t take any more we rest and cuddle untill she is ready for mor or she makes me cum another way. god I’m hard now. And need to see her xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I had this problem with a previous partner and it's a bloody nightmare. She'd come quickly (once) and was then oversensitive.

I did teach myself to come quickly over time and then after we split up had to unlearn it.

I feel (or rather felt) your pain.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sure you ain't being too rough and she's faking?

Not pointing fingers, just making sure.

OK, you might not be finishing inside her but you could always ask if she would help you reach orgasm another way.

Or just do what a lot of women do when the roles are reversed. Finish yourself off when she goes to the toilet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top