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By *orthern Stars OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Our vanilla friends of many years have just called us fab friends for the first time.

Now have we been sussed or are we just over thinking?

Hoping it's the latter.

What's your thoughts and do your vanilla friends know about this side of your life?

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Our vanilla friends of many years have just called us fab friends for the first time.

Now have we been sussed or are we just over thinking?

Hoping it's the latter.

What's your thoughts and do your vanilla friends know about this side of your life?

"

Does it really matter? If they enjoy the lifestyle as much as you, but you're not their type or vice versa, then you could swap stories / experiences and leave it at that. After all, there's never any obligation to play, with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're reading something into their use of the word fab that isn't there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My closest vanilla friend knew I had casual bfs but told her about fab recently she was really cool about it

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Now have we been sussed or are we just over thinking?

Hoping it's the latter.

"

Why would it worry you if they knew ?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don’t care. All my friends know. If it’s not for them then I don’t invite them to the party x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol we must confess if we think someone is a swinger then we always throw the odd fab in a sentence to see how they react

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By *orthern Stars OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

We wouldn't want our friends knowing. It's a small community where we live, people would judge without understanding, and above all it's our sex life, not for public discussion down the local pub. We value our privacy.

We do understand not everyone feels that way but it's our sex life and that's how we feel about ours.

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

I wouldn't worry if they just said your fab friends, I would take it as just an expression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're reading something into their use of the word fab that isn't there"

I agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We wouldn't want our friends knowing. It's a small community where we live, people would judge without understanding, and above all it's our sex life, not for public discussion down the local pub. We value our privacy.

We do understand not everyone feels that way but it's our sex life and that's how we feel about ours."

We feel the same way you do.

Its easy to think they might have sussed you but they probably don't even know there's a swingers site called Fab .

I've got a friend who often replied to a text message with the word "fab". I think it's entirely innocent but sometimes I wonder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wouldn't want our friends knowing. It's a small community where we live, people would judge without understanding, and above all it's our sex life, not for public discussion down the local pub. We value our privacy.

We do understand not everyone feels that way but it's our sex life and that's how we feel about ours."

Just ignore it and play dumb if they ask outright. Then deny. It's not worth the hassle.

Many people don't understand what 'privacy' means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are discrete and mostly meet away from our local area. Once or twice I thought people might have found out. I think it is another turn on to know that we are doing something secret x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

There's only one friend that knows about this side of me, but then we met on one of these sites, so...

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

Could be worse, your sister could out you as a swinger at grandads funeral in front of everyone , few old aunties nearly spat out their sherries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our friends know what we get up to and they all think it's great. They're often intrigued. Always non-judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my friends know we're swingers, some of J's do. We're pretty open about it and so far no one seems to give a shit

Lu

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Whenever someone uses the word fab I get worried

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

Why do people believe that because the site is called Fab, then swinging is the one and only thing the word is connected to .... thank fuck they didn't call it milk swingers or something else in everyday vocabulary

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Whenever someone uses the word fab I get worried "

I tend to do a double take when i hear that word. Lol

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By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester

Depends if you are looking to become real "fab friends" with them!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Why do people believe that because the site is called Fab, then swinging is the one and only thing the word is connected to .... thank fuck they didn't call it milk swingers or something else in everyday vocabulary

"

I don't think the word fab is used that much nowadays,not many people I know use it in day to day conversations that's why.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Whenever someone uses the word fab I get worried

I tend to do a double take when i hear that word. Lol"

Then see if you recognise their faces from here

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Whenever someone uses the word fab I get worried

I tend to do a double take when i hear that word. Lol

Then see if you recognise their faces from here "

See if they give that 'knowing smile'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non of my friends no

It is my secret little private life which i can smile about when someone asks

"How was your weekend?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to use 'fab' quite a lot to describe something good, don't give it a second thought if someone else does, the site wouldn't be first thing to come to mind.

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By *orthern Stars OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"We are discrete and mostly meet away from our local area. Once or twice I thought people might have found out. I think it is another turn on to know that we are doing something secret x"

This is exactly us too. It's great having a sexy little secret.

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By *ojo3011Woman
over a year ago

Devon

My eldest daughter's and best friends know about fab. Never go into to much detail but will always say if i have any kind of meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ears do prick up when I hear that word used ... and I do use it sometimes myself.

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By *orthern Stars OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"My ears do prick up when I hear that word used ... and I do use it sometimes myself. "

I do too, then smirk to myself

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