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By *ierced_Viking OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdare

I seem to send loads of messages and either get an instant delete or a few not interested replies! Is my profile bad or is it just a case of the women to men ratio?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks fine to me.

Maybe it’s the context of your messages?x

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By *ierced_Viking OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdare

I try to be polite and not sound like a robot punching out the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is like fishing. Enjoy sitting on the river bank in peace, because most of the time thats all youll do.

Its not failure, simply the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s tricky for males on here.

Introducing yourself is always a good opening message. I pretty much always reply to them providing they aren’t blatantly copied and pasted

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By *ierced_Viking OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdare


" Fab is like fishing. Enjoy sitting on the river bank in peace, because most of the time thats all youll do.

Its not failure, simply the way it is. "

Hahaha! I have had a few meets but the message to meet ratio is shocking!!! Maybe I just need to keep playing the game!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is bland.

You’re sending loads of messages. Are you actually attracted to every single person you’re sending a message to? Have you read their profile? Are you local enough to them, to actually be able to meet? Are you their type?

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By *ierced_Viking OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdare


"It’s tricky for males on here.

Introducing yourself is always a good opening message. I pretty much always reply to them providing they aren’t blatantly copied and pasted "

I never send the same message twice!!!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Your photos are a bit naff but the biggest problem, is the ratios and the fact that we are still in the middle of a pandemic.

Some people are meeting but far fewer than under normal circumstances.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

You can send out pics of your dick.

Or search the forum of all the other guys that ask this every day

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By *ierced_Viking OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdare


"Your photos are a bit naff but the biggest problem, is the ratios and the fact that we are still in the middle of a pandemic.

Some people are meeting but far fewer than under normal circumstances. "

Unfortunately I don't have anyone to help me with the pictures!! Need to find a willing candidate to photograph me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your photos are a bit naff but the biggest problem, is the ratios and the fact that we are still in the middle of a pandemic.

Some people are meeting but far fewer than under normal circumstances.

Unfortunately I don't have anyone to help me with the pictures!! Need to find a willing candidate to photograph me!!"

The timer function on your phone.

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By *ierced_Viking OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdare


"Your photos are a bit naff but the biggest problem, is the ratios and the fact that we are still in the middle of a pandemic.

Some people are meeting but far fewer than under normal circumstances.

Unfortunately I don't have anyone to help me with the pictures!! Need to find a willing candidate to photograph me!!

The timer function on your phone. "

I have experimented with that but I just don't seem to get the picture I'm hoping for!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your photos are a bit naff but the biggest problem, is the ratios and the fact that we are still in the middle of a pandemic.

Some people are meeting but far fewer than under normal circumstances.

Unfortunately I don't have anyone to help me with the pictures!! Need to find a willing candidate to photograph me!!

The timer function on your phone.

I have experimented with that but I just don't seem to get the picture I'm hoping for!!"

I agree, your photos don’t do anything for you.

Just keep practicing taking them until you get the hang of it. Change the angle etc

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By *ierced_Viking OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdare


"Your photos are a bit naff but the biggest problem, is the ratios and the fact that we are still in the middle of a pandemic.

Some people are meeting but far fewer than under normal circumstances.

Unfortunately I don't have anyone to help me with the pictures!! Need to find a willing candidate to photograph me!!

The timer function on your phone.

I have experimented with that but I just don't seem to get the picture I'm hoping for!!

I agree, your photos don’t do anything for you.

Just keep practicing taking them until you get the hang of it. Change the angle etc "

Cheers! Will have a little practice and see if I can get a few good ones!!

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Your photos are a bit naff but the biggest problem, is the ratios and the fact that we are still in the middle of a pandemic.

Some people are meeting but far fewer than under normal circumstances.

Unfortunately I don't have anyone to help me with the pictures!! Need to find a willing candidate to photograph me!!

The timer function on your phone.

I have experimented with that but I just don't seem to get the picture I'm hoping for!!

I agree, your photos don’t do anything for you.

Just keep practicing taking them until you get the hang of it. Change the angle etc

Cheers! Will have a little practice and see if I can get a few good ones!!"

Fair play, great attitude

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By *ierced_Viking OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdare


"Your photos are a bit naff but the biggest problem, is the ratios and the fact that we are still in the middle of a pandemic.

Some people are meeting but far fewer than under normal circumstances.

Unfortunately I don't have anyone to help me with the pictures!! Need to find a willing candidate to photograph me!!

The timer function on your phone.

I have experimented with that but I just don't seem to get the picture I'm hoping for!!

I agree, your photos don’t do anything for you.

Just keep practicing taking them until you get the hang of it. Change the angle etc

Cheers! Will have a little practice and see if I can get a few good ones!!

Fair play, great attitude "

I don't have a massive amount of confidence but I'll do whatever it takes! I'm trying to get rid of the Dad-bod...that should help?

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln


"Your photos are a bit naff but the biggest problem, is the ratios and the fact that we are still in the middle of a pandemic.

Some people are meeting but far fewer than under normal circumstances.

Unfortunately I don't have anyone to help me with the pictures!! Need to find a willing candidate to photograph me!!

The timer function on your phone.

I have experimented with that but I just don't seem to get the picture I'm hoping for!!

I agree, your photos don’t do anything for you.

Just keep practicing taking them until you get the hang of it. Change the angle etc

Cheers! Will have a little practice and see if I can get a few good ones!!

Fair play, great attitude

I don't have a massive amount of confidence but I'll do whatever it takes! I'm trying to get rid of the Dad-bod...that should help?"

You need to take your own photos it’s so simple to take decent photos with a phone . You have put your attractive in the first sentence of your profile so you must have confidence . A non confident person would not start with that.

You need to sell yourself the first pic any woman will see is a pic of bland boxer shorts on a messy bed.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

have a watch of my educational videos

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Do it as a video then screen capture the image, that’s what I do now. I can then have as many pictures as I’d like. Obviously the quality isn’t great on some but as long as you don’t move around to quickly, you’ll be surprised how good they can be.

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By *ierced_Viking OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdare


"have a watch of my educational videos "

Fairplay Princess Peach, those video are absolutely amazing!!! I love your sense of humour!!! Definitely need to change a few bits and pieces but, generally, I think I'm almost there!!

Happy Fabbing Peach!!

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