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By *arlpeter OP Man
over a year ago

London

Really frustrating when you get really excited about someone on here, send a message and it never gets read.. Grrrrrrr......

What's your frustrations on fabs?

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By *ngelShare18Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

When you very politely explain that someone isn't right for you/what you are looking for but continue to send 10 messages stating how they want pussy and am I sure I dont want their big cock lol.

Also when you can clearly see its a man pretending to be a couple

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Distance is the biggest frustration for me.

Join in the forums more. You'll find it a lot easier to strike up a conversation.

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By *arlpeter OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Distance is the biggest frustration for me.

Join in the forums more. You'll find it a lot easier to strike up a conversation. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men thinking us women owe them something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperate ain't a nice thing

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not that I send them anyway but I certainly wouldn't get frustrated about a message I'd sent to someone I didn't know not being read or replied to.

In fact I'm trying to think of anything about Fab that truly frustrates me and am coming up empty handed

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

People who don’t get it.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

how excited can you possibly get about a profile on here that you've never interacted with

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

"Really frustrating when you get really excited about someone on here, send a message and it never gets read.. Grrrrrrr......

What's your frustrations on fabs? "

I’m with you mate same happens probably to all us guy , it is annoying but what can you do

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

"Really frustrating when you get really excited about someone on here, send a message and it never gets read.. Grrrrrrr......

What's your frustrations on fabs? "

No frustrations, we have a healthy scepticism of fab so do not have high expectations

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

"Really frustrating when you get really excited about someone on here, send a message and it never gets read.. Grrrrrrr......

What's your frustrations on fabs?

No frustrations, we have a healthy scepticism of fab so do not have high expectations "

Also agree with you my expectations are very low fortunately are very low fortunately

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By *he sultan of swingMan
over a year ago

mid devon

My frustration is when you get chatting to a woman and its going really well then you do a reverse image search on there pictures only to find out there a fake its happened so many times and I keep saying it but admin needs to make photo varifcation mandatory!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Tend to mark many emails as unread after reading if no interest in the person rather than blocking on first instance..

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

"Men thinking us women owe them something "

Nar that’s not what I think it’s just how it is women get far more messages than guys do anyway so takes longer to answer them some messages will be very rude or dirty and probably lots of abusive message too and so consequently some messages don’t get answered or maybe the guys just not your type so you don’t answer but it would be nice to get an acknowledgement of some kind in a positive way

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Men thinking us women owe them something "

You owe me a tenner from our chippy tea last night

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"My frustration is when you get chatting to a woman and its going really well then you do a reverse image search on there pictures only to find out there a fake its happened so many times and I keep saying it but admin needs to make photo varifcation mandatory!"

Why not just refuse to message anyone who is not photo verified?

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By *he sultan of swingMan
over a year ago

mid devon

yes true but I think everyone should do there bit for the site especially it being free to use a simple photo varfication takes a few minutes and would save alot of time and hassle for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really frustrating when you get really excited about someone on here, send a message and it never gets read.. Grrrrrrr......

What's your frustrations on fabs? "

I have 12 unread messages it’s comes with the territory

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"yes true but I think everyone should do there bit for the site especially it being free to use a simple photo varfication takes a few minutes and would save alot of time and hassle for everyone "

How would it though? Yes people can get photo verified - but what if they then choose to use "borrowed" pics subsequently after they have? The site would have no way of knowing if it was genuinely them or not and in some instances people do have their pics on multiple sites too.

It's down to each and every one of us as users to be vigilant and use a little common sense and due diligence to protect ourselves and not expect the site to do it for us.

In four years here I don't think I've ever once been duped by another user in terms of messaging/meeting

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By *he sultan of swingMan
over a year ago

mid devon

But is that in one day ir over a period of time and u just not read them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really frustrating when you get really excited about someone on here, send a message and it never gets read.. Grrrrrrr......

What's your frustrations on fabs? "

Most of it is fine.

Although I do get frustrated when I’ve been having a decent conversation with someone, sometimes for several days, and it just stops!

Although maybe that’s my judgement of what’s a decent conversation and not theirs!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Really frustrating when you get really excited about someone on here, send a message and it never gets read.. Grrrrrrr......

What's your frustrations on fabs?

I’m with you mate same happens probably to all us guy , it is annoying but what can you do "

I fail to see how it is either "frustrating" or "annoying" that a stranger on the internet, who you've had no prior contact with, fails to read or respond to a message?

To use the junk mail analogy - do you respond to each and every pizza delivery leaflet that comes through your door? Or do you just keep and use the one from the local company whose leaflet you like the look of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really frustrating when you get really excited about someone on here, send a message and it never gets read.. Grrrrrrr......

What's your frustrations on fabs? "

getting messages from people who obviously havnt read your profile, and really dont fit what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but we always reply, and often get aload of abuse

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By *nya888Woman
over a year ago

London

"When you very politely explain that someone isn't right for you/what you are looking for but continue to send 10 messages stating how they want pussy and am I sure I dont want their big cock lol.

Also when you can clearly see its a man pretending to be a couple "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who look at our photos then message and tell us we're too good for them and we probably won't be interested but would we be interested...

People are funny

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By *arlpeter OP Man
over a year ago

London

Wow alot of mixed reasons huh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People stressing about unread messages. It's the way of Fab. If it isn't right for them then let it go and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wish there was a way to turn read receipts off. I don’t see what purpose it serves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really wish there was a way to turn read receipts off. I don’t see what purpose it serves "

I agree with this.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I expect to chat with many more people than I will ever get to know or meet, so don't really get frustrated. Setting reasonable expectations is vital, especially for you guys here.

Plus months into virus lockdown, new messages go to the back of a very long queue. Patience is needed.

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