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Wheres love for the younger guys

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By *itnessXx OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I've noticed that alot of women block messages from younger guys. I mean its nice to feel young at 29, but ladies surely your missing a trick here.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

What’s the trick? Enlighten us please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older = more experienced, attentive to her needs, happy to go for a social only, respectful, not so cocky, more relaxed ...

And don't forget you'll be 'old' one day as well. And what do you class as old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me...I am into rugged men. I also have nephews in their 20s. I'm not too bothered by age, providing they're over 25ish, but they need to LOOK like men, not boys. A lot of guys in their 20s have very boyish looks, attractive, sure, won't effect their sexual performance, but it would effect mine. I need and want a man, inside and out.

Lu

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


"I've noticed that alot of women block messages from younger guys. I mean its nice to feel young at 29, but ladies surely your missing a trick here. "

Missing what?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I've noticed that alot of women block messages from younger guys. I mean its nice to feel young at 29, but ladies surely your missing a trick here. "

lol with yourself or in general...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I don't feel I'm missing out at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the trick? Enlighten us please "

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

How can we be missing something we don't want?

Also, 30 plus is "old" to those who lack maturity in my mind. I remember thinking 30 was old when I was a teen.

I'm not missing a trick by not going to a Spice Girls concert coz I don't fucking wanna but would be missing out if I passed up tickets to Gerry Cinnamon, coz I enjoy Gerry Cinnamon.

I'm not missing a trick by not accepting the offer to shit on a blokes chest and make him eat it because it's not something I desired.

Make sense?

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I've noticed that alot of women block messages from younger guys. I mean its nice to feel young at 29, but ladies surely your missing a trick here. "

This mindset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I lowered my age limits for a few hours,and was unindated with downright crude messages,younger guys are just way to immature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not missing anything, I’m dodging a bullet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me...I am into rugged men. I also have nephews in their 20s. I'm not too bothered by age, providing they're over 25ish, but they need to LOOK like men, not boys. A lot of guys in their 20s have very boyish looks, attractive, sure, won't effect their sexual performance, but it would effect mine. I need and want a man, inside and out.

Lu "

^exactly this^

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Who's got the popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go on conventional dating apps: you’ll find far more women and have a greater chance of meeting them.

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By *aughtyBlokeKentMan
over a year ago

Kent/Gatwick area

Bear in mind that women who have chosen to exclude young guys have their own reasons for doing so and they have every right to choose.

"Tricks" aren't what it's about. Most women need to feel safe, comfortable, respected, mentally engaged and somewhat intrigued by a guy in order to feel sexually attracted in the moment. They know the power of connection and intimacy. These qualities tend to develop through experience and maturity.

They're also in a potentially vulnerable position with a stranger and likely to need trust and discretion. They simply know how many young guys think and behave and don't find that attractive. If by "trick" you're meaning porn star athletics.. well, try treating a woman as an individual, listen to what *she* wants and then try to meet her needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a mindset that older must mean more mature and able to hold a conversation without it just resorting to topics of a sexual nature.

I've had some great conversations on here with women older than me but hearing from their experience, I do understand why they have these limits in place.

I quite like it when I have to plug away anyway because it forces me to think more inward for interesting topics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that alot of women block messages from younger guys. I mean its nice to feel young at 29, but ladies surely your missing a trick here. "

Because it’s a preference. Also a lot of the younger guys are rude

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Think of it another way OP - you probably have preferences of your own, whether it be about age, body type or any number of other things - are you "missing a trick" by holding those preferences? Or are they just preferences that you lean towards?

No different to people that hold preferences that exclude you really is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's got the popcorn? "

Sweet, salty or both?

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