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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have seen a lot of profiles with this on and thought it would be fun doing, but does anyone use this to find out if they are a match with people on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I failed my theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I failed my theory "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did that test once for a laugh. Didn’t know what half of it meant!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I did it on another site but I don't so much use it to find matches. I think that is best done with conversation.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

They're good indicators into the type of person you are as an individual, but not particularly useful for finding a match as they're very generic and high level.

It might tell me I'm a submissive and she's a Domme, but it doesn't tell you what kind of submissive/Dominant or shared interests, or attraction or any of the other myriad of things that you find through communication and interaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it enlightening when i did it and learnt a lot about myself... Made it easier to then focus on my desires and subsequent conversations

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No. I think they can be quite useful to focus your own mind but I don't find them very useful with regards to other people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

According to it I’m 51% vanilla

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I find the usual BDSM test pretty pointless to be honest. I much prefer the checklists that detail likes, limits and experiences so you get a better feel for what someone likes instead of being fed a list of labels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No if it's on a profile I skip it (or use it as a filter). Really can't be bothered with taking it. I generally know what I do and don't like and what I would or wouldn't do.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I find the usual BDSM test pretty pointless to be honest. I much prefer the checklists that detail likes, limits and experiences so you get a better feel for what someone likes instead of being fed a list of labels."

Yep those ones are much better for not only assessing likely compatibility but also learning about yourself - a few times I've done them and thought "Ooh never thought of that"

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By *hangerMan
over a year ago

brighton

Like others, I can't be bothered to read them on profiles.

I have tried them for fun, but find that the questions are too basic and often don't have the right possible responses for me!

Also they are easy to manipulate with just a few slight changes of my answers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the answers are contradictory but it can give a general idea of types of kinks someone likes or doesn’t like x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think those tests are only really reinforcing what people already know. It's a bit like answering a series of questions to determine your favourite foods. You already know but it's nice to have it in writing

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