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"No but I would rather cry in my Mercedes than at the bus stop." Got to keep the mental breakdowns classy eh? | |||
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"For the right person with the right attitude, sure it's helps. For a miserable cunt, no...." Dunno why I'm typing like Borat.... ....jak sie masz.... | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" The lack of it can cause misery. | |||
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"How many popstars, actors and other wealthy people are treated for depression? Robin Williams Michael Hutchins Just a couple of examples" Do you have to be a pop star, actor etc to be rich? | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness? The lack of it can cause misery." | |||
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"How many popstars, actors and other wealthy people are treated for depression? Robin Williams Michael Hutchins Just a couple of examples Do you have to be a pop star, actor etc to be rich?" Hence my "other wealthy people " | |||
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"No, but it can reduce other negative influences that take happiness away. " this^ | |||
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"How many popstars, actors and other wealthy people are treated for depression? Robin Williams Michael Hutchins Just a couple of examples" How many people who live in poverty are treated for depression? I don't think any amount of money can alleviate clinical depression | |||
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"For the right person with the right attitude, sure it's helps. For a miserable cunt, no.... Dunno why I'm typing like Borat.... ....jak sie masz.... " Are you wearing your mankini? | |||
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"For the right person with the right attitude, sure it's helps. For a miserable cunt, no.... Dunno why I'm typing like Borat.... ....jak sie masz.... Are you wearing your mankini?" I would for you my love! | |||
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"No, but it can reduce other negative influences that take happiness away. " | |||
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"How many popstars, actors and other wealthy people are treated for depression? Robin Williams Michael Hutchins Just a couple of examples How many people who live in poverty are treated for depression? I don't think any amount of money can alleviate clinical depression " I think you'll find this is my point ... you can have money but still be unhappy .. you can have no money and be happy as anything "To be rich is not what you have in your bank account, but what you have in your heart" | |||
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"For the right person with the right attitude, sure it's helps. For a miserable cunt, no.... Dunno why I'm typing like Borat.... ....jak sie masz.... Are you wearing your mankini? I would for you my love! " Nippy you’re the worrrrrrrrst for just chatting random rubbish on threads, go flirt in your messages bro | |||
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"How many popstars, actors and other wealthy people are treated for depression? Robin Williams Michael Hutchins Just a couple of examples How many people who live in poverty are treated for depression? I don't think any amount of money can alleviate clinical depression I think you'll find this is my point ... you can have money but still be unhappy .. you can have no money and be happy as anything "To be rich is not what you have in your back account, but what you have in your heart"" Yes I get that but my point is that the opposite of depression isn't happiness. Depression is an illness, happiness isn't | |||
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"How many popstars, actors and other wealthy people are treated for depression? Robin Williams Michael Hutchins Just a couple of examples How many people who live in poverty are treated for depression? I don't think any amount of money can alleviate clinical depression I think you'll find this is my point ... you can have money but still be unhappy .. you can have no money and be happy as anything "To be rich is not what you have in your back account, but what you have in your heart" Yes I get that but my point is that the opposite of depression isn't happiness. Depression is an illness, happiness isn't " | |||
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"How many popstars, actors and other wealthy people are treated for depression? Robin Williams Michael Hutchins Just a couple of examples How many people who live in poverty are treated for depression? I don't think any amount of money can alleviate clinical depression I think you'll find this is my point ... you can have money but still be unhappy .. you can have no money and be happy as anything "To be rich is not what you have in your back account, but what you have in your heart" Yes I get that but my point is that the opposite of depression isn't happiness. Depression is an illness, happiness isn't " | |||
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"Can't buy happiness, but it can buy a jet-ski And have you ever seen a sad person in a jet-ski? " Now you mention it, no I have not | |||
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"I believe that money certainly makes your life easier.Does it make you happier well that depends on the state of your mental well being.Over the years we have seen many famous people with money suffer from mental health issues and unfortunately some have taken their own life." I think the actual fame probably has a lot to do with that though. | |||
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"I believe that money certainly makes your life easier.Does it make you happier well that depends on the state of your mental well being.Over the years we have seen many famous people with money suffer from mental health issues and unfortunately some have taken their own life." I don't think anyone's suggesting that money can stop certain illnesses, although it can buy you access to certain professional treatment. | |||
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"I believe that money certainly makes your life easier.Does it make you happier well that depends on the state of your mental well being.Over the years we have seen many famous people with money suffer from mental health issues and unfortunately some have taken their own life. I don't think anyone's suggesting that money can stop certain illnesses, although it can buy you access to certain professional treatment. " . It can but it can be very difficult to get someone to admit that they have a problem let alone get treatment for it. | |||
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"For the right person with the right attitude, sure it's helps. For a miserable cunt, no.... Dunno why I'm typing like Borat.... ....jak sie masz.... Are you wearing your mankini? I would for you my love! Nippy you’re the worrrrrrrrst for just chatting random rubbish on threads, go flirt in your messages bro " Thought it was a forum for all. You didn't tell Bella off.... I'll leave you in peace.... | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" It totally depends on what angle you're asking the question and if it's a hypothetical question about money in its own ..as in you're saying full health is also part of the question ..ok here's my tuppence worth..if you're just talking about a person as an individual ..l would say yes as they will have the money to do and go where they want and buy whatever they need to satisfy their desire for Happiness ..now ,if it's a married or couple scenario ..l would say If with the right person yes ..if not with the right person ..no....but l don't d work with a guy who once said to me .." money can't buy love but it can buy you a big car to go out and look for it " ...and another guy used to say .." life is like a shit sandwich..the more bread you have..the less shit you eat "... | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" It can’t & theres a whole scientifically backed theory as to why that is the case. It all centres around normality & how changes in circumstances eventually create a new normality off the back of those changes. The study took recently widowed people & recent winners of large sums of money & asked them tk rank their happiness. Over time they continued to ask them to rank how happy they were. Obviously at the start the recent money winners were at the top ofnthe scale whilst the widows & widowers were at the bottom. Over time they found that ‘normality’ set in & the two groups slowly gravitated to a more ‘levelled out’ line of happiness which was largely the same. | |||
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"No but I would rather cry in my Mercedes than at the bus stop." This is a good comment. I also love my Mercedes. How ever I agree with most for some things but I do think at times it can bring you happiness to | |||
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"No but I would rather cry in my Mercedes than at the bus stop. This is a good comment. I also love my Mercedes. How ever I agree with most for some things but I do think at times it can bring you happiness to " Subtle flex, almost didn’t notice it there | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" Money can bring you options and options can bring you happiness. | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" That depends whether the thing that brings you happiness can be bought Just saying | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness? That depends whether the thing that brings you happiness can be bought Just saying " Ohhhh ya wee witch lol You beat me too it. I was just about to say, it depends what makes you happy. Ps I will give you a fiver if you make me happy by deleting your post. | |||
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"No..... once you have enough, more has the opposite effect. There’s sweet spot of no debts and a little savings, aim for that and give everything else away or be cursed by middle class ness !!! " Spoken like a true lower class. | |||
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"No..... once you have enough, more has the opposite effect. There’s sweet spot of no debts and a little savings, aim for that and give everything else away or be cursed by middle class ness !!! Spoken like a true lower class. " Tbh I could quote easily go back...... just as long as I can keep my Bupa | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" Yes to happiness, as it isn't a constant state. No, to long term, for exactly the same reason. | |||
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"Money buys stuff ... stuff brings happiness... yes money can bring happiness. " Don't agree. If you are materialistic and shallow maybe. Money can bring a certain level of comfort that without it would cause worry and stress. | |||
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"Money buys stuff ... stuff brings happiness... yes money can bring happiness. Don't agree. If you are materialistic and shallow maybe. Money can bring a certain level of comfort that without it would cause worry and stress. " Even materialistic people aren’t really happy, it’s a very short lived buzz. Too much money can stifle creativity too, we did an all inc. in Jamaica one year , first class flights, 5*!dining , swim up cocktails was absolutely lovely but our best holiday ever was driving a beat up Mondeo around the south coast of France wild camping with a boot full of Asda food and cheap wine and literally no money to spend. | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness? That depends whether the thing that brings you happiness can be bought Just saying Ohhhh ya wee witch lol You beat me too it. I was just about to say, it depends what makes you happy. Ps I will give you a fiver if you make me happy by deleting your post. " Erm... Nope | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" No, but it can rent it for a long time... | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" Maybe,maybe not.But, being totally broke definitely can't. | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness? No, but it can rent it for a long time... " exactly! | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" I don't think so, but it can make some aspects of life more comfortable. Being skint is stressful. Not having to worry about bills and debts certainly makes that aspect of life easier. | |||
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"No, but it can reduce other negative influences that take happiness away. " | |||
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"Funny really, when you can't afford something you can really crave it, when you are in the position to afford it, suddenly it doesn't hold the same attraction. " It’s #1 lesson in financial freedom, you’ll never crave a pension ! Don’t shop when hungry | |||
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"Money isn't a magic bullet for happiness but it's nice to have enough that you can buy things that you want without putting yourself in debt and have a decent roof over your head, or to be able to afford holidays which undoubtedly make a world of difference to your mental wellbeing. It's also good to be able to use it to treat family members or close friends." FTFY | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" In my opinion, no. Just short term happiness. | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness? In my opinion, no. Just short term happiness." That's true but you can enjoy loads and loads of little short term happiness. | |||
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"Money isn't a magic bullet for happiness but it's nice to have enough that you can buy things that you want without putting yourself in debt and have a decent roof over your head, or to be able to afford holidays which undoubtedly make a world of difference to your mental wellbeing. It's also good to be able to use it to treat family members or close friends. FTFY" I’m going to disagree It can definitely make life easier if you don’t have enough and have stress and worry of bills etc. But You only need a very little bit more to buy healthily food, a few books to educate and go on picnics and trips with family and friends. Once you’re not worried about about bills , lack of money can make you very creative and adventurous as a family, and very close, whereas extra money can make some families boring, distant, impatient and selfish. Money can buy you a much fancier lifestyle but not the people or relationships to share it with. An observation, relationships are often more authentic the less money is available or involved. Stress and mental health issues are just as high in the middle class - you worry about different things. | |||
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"Can money buy long term happiness?" Happiness comes from within..not your bank account(s) | |||
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