FabSwingers.com forum: 69 Concentration

By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A bit of an unusual question;

Due to giving/receiving oral pleasure simultaneously, do you find it hard to concentrate on your ‘job at hand’ so to speak?

I’ve heard so many people report that they struggle in the above regards so thought I’d poll you fine folks.

Thoughts? Experiences? A demonstration?

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

it's been too long since i found a tall enough lass to entertain the idea of a 69, what i wouldn't give to do some practical experiments to help you answer that one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it can be hard to concentrate at times, but think that can be part of the fun for both participants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it may have been the late great Claire Rayner who advised that 69s were probably overrated because of the pleasure vs concentration aspect.

She also said people should put less emphasis of mural orgasms as failure lead to disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love the it when the female is enjoying it so much she struggles to suck my cock.

Makes it more pleasurable for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love the it when the female is enjoying it so much she struggles to suck my cock.

Makes it more pleasurable for me "

This is so me..Especially when he really hits the spot...Holy moly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love the it when the female is enjoying it so much she struggles to suck my cock.

Makes it more pleasurable for me

This is so me..Especially when he really hits the spot...Holy moly!

Nothing better, just my cock in her hands with just the odd feel of her lips on the tip, hearing her deep breathing and moans

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Omg yes!!!

I get so distracted in the pleasure I am receiving I can stop then remember I’m spose to be sucking too!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"I do love the it when the female is enjoying it so much she struggles to suck my cock.

Makes it more pleasurable for me

This is so me..Especially when he really hits the spot...Holy moly!

Nothing better, just my cock in her hands with just the odd feel of her lips on the tip, hearing her deep breathing and moans"

Well that's ok then - I always worry I should pay attention more and try and refocus! The struggle is real!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES!

This is why I would rather take turns, I can't concentrate if its decent!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I don't mind a lady stopping sucking if she's enjoying my tongue.

I enjoy the fact that pleasure is being given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love the it when the female is enjoying it so much she struggles to suck my cock.

Makes it more pleasurable for me

This is so me..Especially when he really hits the spot...Holy moly!

Nothing better, just my cock in her hands with just the odd feel of her lips on the tip, hearing her deep breathing and moans"

Yes I really forget what im doing and sometimes tend to squeeze a little too hard with the excitement and pleasure of that Tongue really getting down and dirty...I always make it up to them once I've caught my breath though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’m rubbish at it. I forget what I’m supposed to be doing

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Yeah I’m rubbish at it. I forget what I’m supposed to be doing "

Id try to remind you after I'm finished making you cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like women are having the most difficulty with 69 and multitasking LOL

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I (MR) am fine if I’m on the bottom have a pillow and breathe, just lick away and think about gadgets and toys ... if I’m top and unanchored there’s a real pressure to perform some moves

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

This is by far the best..concentration game..that pause when shes on top you know shes struggling and loving it

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I wanna kick the cunt off and let me do my thang

Like dude, let me do this my way and I'll be the person you think about every blow job onwards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (MR) am fine if I’m on the bottom have a pillow and breathe, just lick away and think about gadgets and toys ... if I’m top and unanchored there’s a real pressure to perform some moves "

I prefer being on the bottom to be honest. Less likely to forget what I’m doing that way

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I always forgot what I was doing, it would be like suck suck suck, he would be going lick lick, then my brain goes ohh yeah that’s good then the hips get moving and the grinding starts...then oh fuck I better start sucking again, suck suck suuucckkkk.. ohh wow that’s sooooo gooddddd, suck suuuuuu......eyes closed in sheer pleasure at this point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo

One thing at a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ok until they take the whole cock in their mouth then it's OMFG.

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By *wingingSam93Man
over a year ago

Leeds

That's what makes the whole thing fun! I like the juxtaposition of shared intense moments with both parties being unable to continue at different times because the pleasure is too great

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Tbh - i prefer a 68.

I give you one afterwards.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I don't do them because I can't concentrate. Happy to take long turns instead

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) have tried 69s twice in my life and I found them one of the most awkward sexual things I've ever done.

Going down on a woman or man is best done at 180° from the angle 69s provide. I find them best avoided.

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I must admit that this is about the only scenario in which I CAN actually multitask.

Wooo!!! Does this mean that I’m in an elite, tiny percentage of the population and really fucking awesome? Is this the fabled Illuminati? Can I randomly order the CIA to assassinate people now? Holy shit! - My cranium is suddenly swelling to the size of a bastard beach ball here! Bragging rights folks! Shit’s got real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will lose concentration and stop what I'm doing. I also find a 69 particularly uncomfortable. I prefer being on our sides performing mutual oral.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

also, when you're a Shorty McShortarse and they're a Lanky McLonglegs it can be uncomfortable and not all that enjoyable at all

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"also, when you're a Shorty McShortarse and they're a Lanky McLonglegs it can be uncomfortable and not all that enjoyable at all "

I know right! Just take it in turns and save the neck ache

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I must admit that this is about the only scenario in which I CAN actually multitask.

Careful! You may get lots of offers to prove this

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"A bit of an unusual question;

Due to giving/receiving oral pleasure simultaneously, do you find it hard to concentrate on your ‘job at hand’ so to speak?

I’ve heard so many people report that they struggle in the above regards so thought I’d poll you fine folks.

Thoughts? Experiences? A demonstration?

Absolutely not!! Being at work or solving a puzzle requires concentration. A 69? Pleasure at both ends? Thanks OP, that's tonight sorted

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I must admit that this is about the only scenario in which I CAN actually multitask.

Careful! You may get lots of offers to prove this

Update: I’ve just had a threatening email from the Illuminati telling me to keep quiet and not to reveal such esoteric sexual secrets or else...

Not quite the response I was hoping for

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"A bit of an unusual question;

Due to giving/receiving oral pleasure simultaneously, do you find it hard to concentrate on your ‘job at hand’ so to speak?

I’ve heard so many people report that they struggle in the above regards so thought I’d poll you fine folks.

Thoughts? Experiences? A demonstration?

Absolutely not!! Being at work or solving a puzzle requires concentration. A 69? Pleasure at both ends? Thanks OP, that's tonight sorted

Amen!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"A bit of an unusual question;

Due to giving/receiving oral pleasure simultaneously, do you find it hard to concentrate on your ‘job at hand’ so to speak?

I’ve heard so many people report that they struggle in the above regards so thought I’d poll you fine folks.

Thoughts? Experiences? A demonstration?

Absolutely not!! Being at work or solving a puzzle requires concentration. A 69? Pleasure at both ends? Thanks OP, that's tonight sorted

Amen!

Funny profile

Answers

Q1 22.5%

Q2 £6.49p

Q3 0.000000001%

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Never ever I’d much rather give than receive

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Personally I get less distracted during 69 as I know they're enjoying themselves too and I'm not worrying so much about how they are down there. The angle is also really good for me

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"A bit of an unusual question;

Due to giving/receiving oral pleasure simultaneously, do you find it hard to concentrate on your ‘job at hand’ so to speak?

I’ve heard so many people report that they struggle in the above regards so thought I’d poll you fine folks.

Thoughts? Experiences? A demonstration?

Absolutely not!! Being at work or solving a puzzle requires concentration. A 69? Pleasure at both ends? Thanks OP, that's tonight sorted

Amen!

Funny profile

Answers

Q1 22.5%

Q2 £6.49p

Q3 0.000000001%

I am seriously impressed! You are one of only a tiny amount of people who have even attempted these fiendishly difficult questions (to which even I know not the answers) I’m awarding you a major gold star!

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Never ever I’d much rather give than receive

Altruism at it’s finest

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Personally I get less distracted during 69 as I know they're enjoying themselves too and I'm not worrying so much about how they are down there. The angle is also really good for me

. "

Wait....you mean you are in the elite, ‘Can concentrate whilst giving and receiving’ Illuminati as I previously described to m’lady?

Damn - I should have known; Thy beautiful creaseless arse should have been a dead giveaway! It’s like a Masonic calling card

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Personally I get less distracted during 69 as I know they're enjoying themselves too and I'm not worrying so much about how they are down there. The angle is also really good for me

Wait....you mean you are in the elite, ‘Can concentrate whilst giving and receiving’ Illuminati as I previously described to m’lady?

Damn - I should have known; Thy beautiful creaseless arse should have been a dead giveaway! It’s like a Masonic calling card

It is! We much search the fab bum pictures for others!

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Personally I get less distracted during 69 as I know they're enjoying themselves too and I'm not worrying so much about how they are down there. The angle is also really good for me

Wait....you mean you are in the elite, ‘Can concentrate whilst giving and receiving’ Illuminati as I previously described to m’lady?

Damn - I should have known; Thy beautiful creaseless arse should have been a dead giveaway! It’s like a Masonic calling card

It is! We much search the fab bum pictures for others! "

I’m on it right now; I shall meticulously scour every bum photo on the site in order to out our fellow Illuminati brothers and sisters whereupon a mighty, multitasking oral orgy shall transpire with much merriment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love the it when the female is enjoying it so much she struggles to suck my cock.

Makes it more pleasurable for me "

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to cum in this position because I'm so focused on giving a great blow job lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle to cum in this position because I'm so focused on giving a great blow job lol"

Challenge accepted

But I must say if we were to have a race your going to come first

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I struggle to cum in this position because I'm so focused on giving a great blow job lol"

It might become like a sort of polite sexual competition;

‘I want to make you cum’

‘No, I want to make YOU cum first’

‘No, no, please allow me make YOU cum before that...’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give in to the pleasure too easily and may get a little neglectful

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Simultaneous orgasm is amazing. Have managed it only a handful of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it almost impossible to concentrate and find it quite hard to reach orgasm through 69.

I’m either too distracted to please my partner as well as I’d like (which annoys me) or I’m too focused on what I’m doing to them to relax enough to cum.

It’s a fun bit of foreplay though

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Personally I get less distracted during 69 as I know they're enjoying themselves too and I'm not worrying so much about how they are down there. The angle is also really good for me

Wait....you mean you are in the elite, ‘Can concentrate whilst giving and receiving’ Illuminati as I previously described to m’lady?

Damn - I should have known; Thy beautiful creaseless arse should have been a dead giveaway! It’s like a Masonic calling card

It is! We much search the fab bum pictures for others!

Best

Cult

Ever

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I have had more than one partner tell me that they struggle to orgasm in the said position as at the back of their mind they are worried about collapsing on my face if they do (when they are on top of course)

......Ladies, if you worry about this scenario likewise, trust me, from a male perspective, we chaps REALLY don’t mind this at all, even in the slightest!!!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I struggle to cum in this position because I'm so focused on giving a great blow job lol"

I don't but I do have a tendency to completely collapse on them when I do and I'm worried that one day I may suffocate someone

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I struggle to cum in this position because I'm so focused on giving a great blow job lol

I don't but I do have a tendency to completely collapse on them when I do and I'm worried that one day I may suffocate someone

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See above High Priestess

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I have had more than one partner tell me that they struggle to orgasm in the said position as at the back of their mind they are worried about collapsing on my face if they do (when they are on top of course)

......Ladies, if you worry about this scenario likewise, trust me, from a male perspective, we chaps REALLY don’t mind this at all, even in the slightest!!!

Jinx

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

......Ladies, if you worry about this scenario likewise, trust me, from a male perspective, we chaps REALLY don’t mind this at all, even in the slightest!!!

Jinx

A sure sign of the reality of the Illuminati

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I struggle to cum in this position because I'm so focused on giving a great blow job lol

I don't but I do have a tendency to completely collapse on them when I do and I'm worried that one day I may suffocate someone

See above High Priestess

You may not mind but I still would have an asphyxiated body in my bed to deal with with my DNA all over them

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"I struggle to cum in this position because I'm so focused on giving a great blow job lol

I don't but I do have a tendency to completely collapse on them when I do and I'm worried that one day I may suffocate someone

See above High Priestess

You may not mind but I still would have an asphyxiated body in my bed to deal with with my DNA all over them

That looks like some fine dna to have on though to be fair

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I struggle to cum in this position because I'm so focused on giving a great blow job lol

I don't but I do have a tendency to completely collapse on them when I do and I'm worried that one day I may suffocate someone

See above High Priestess

You may not mind but I still would have an asphyxiated body in my bed to deal with with my DNA all over them

Fear not - the Illuminati has MI5 and MI6 in its pockets - they’ll dispose of the body and supply you with a perfectly plausible alibi; ‘Lacey was aboard the Space Station performing essential repairs on the day in question.’

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent?

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over a year ago

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent? "

I can only imagine my blow job technique would suffer if I was receiving some 'attention' from another man at the same time, but if it was that good I probably wouldn't care!

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent?

I can only imagine my blow job technique would suffer if I was receiving some 'attention' from another man at the same time, but if it was that good I probably wouldn't care!"

Are you saying you've never luxuriated in the attention of two gentlemen Kitty?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I struggle to cum in this position because I'm so focused on giving a great blow job lol

I don't but I do have a tendency to completely collapse on them when I do and I'm worried that one day I may suffocate someone

See above High Priestess

You may not mind but I still would have an asphyxiated body in my bed to deal with with my DNA all over them

Ahh perfect!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent? "

Nah the guys just bounce her between them like a game of ping pong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent?

I can only imagine my blow job technique would suffer if I was receiving some 'attention' from another man at the same time, but if it was that good I probably wouldn't care!

Are you saying you've never luxuriated in the attention of two gentlemen Kitty?

No and it's the most upsetting thing ever

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent?

Nah the guys just bounce her between them like a game of ping pong. "

Sounds confusing. I need to know if I'm wiff or waff

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent?

I can only imagine my blow job technique would suffer if I was receiving some 'attention' from another man at the same time, but if it was that good I probably wouldn't care!

Are you saying you've never luxuriated in the attention of two gentlemen Kitty?

No and it's the most upsetting thing ever

If you ever advertise your intention to remedy that frankly disgraceful state of affairs, the men of Fab will beat a path to your door!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent?

Nah the guys just bounce her between them like a game of ping pong.

Sounds confusing. I need to know if I'm wiff or waff

Toss a coin for it?

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent?

Nah the guys just bounce her between them like a game of ping pong.

Sounds confusing. I need to know if I'm wiff or waff

Toss a coin for it? "

I love an arbitrary solution

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent?

Nah the guys just bounce her between them like a game of ping pong.

Sounds confusing. I need to know if I'm wiff or waff

Toss a coin for it?

I love an arbitrary solution

Excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent?

I can only imagine my blow job technique would suffer if I was receiving some 'attention' from another man at the same time, but if it was that good I probably wouldn't care!

Are you saying you've never luxuriated in the attention of two gentlemen Kitty?

No and it's the most upsetting thing ever

If you ever advertise your intention to remedy that frankly disgraceful state of affairs, the men of Fab will beat a path to your door!"

Lol I'll bear it in mind

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"On a related note, in an MFM scenario, do women struggle to concentrate on giving head if being orally pleasured by the other gent?

I can only imagine my blow job technique would suffer if I was receiving some 'attention' from another man at the same time, but if it was that good I probably wouldn't care!

Are you saying you've never luxuriated in the attention of two gentlemen Kitty?

No and it's the most upsetting thing ever

If you ever advertise your intention to remedy that frankly disgraceful state of affairs, the men of Fab will beat a path to your door!

Lol I'll bear it in mind

Extra congratulations to you Kitty - you were the 69th post!

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Yeah there can be a few times with the odd pause whilst your each distracted but that adds to the enjoyment as your able to have a rest to catch your breath and enjoy the recieving bit

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