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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.. well tonight is your unlucky night..

Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.

My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.

So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I havent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice!"

haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then.

I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes.

Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising.

But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice!

haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then.

I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha "

To be fair, with that kind of brass you can't go far wrong anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes.

Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising.

But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are."

So before i rejoined fab (was here over 3 years ago) i was in a 2 year relationship.. and when that ended i joined a fetish site for big BIGGG girls

well i was tiny compared to some.. and they wanted to feed me cake. Like i could take a photo of a fat roll or grab my belly and these guys would e eating outta the palm of my hand..

Craziness.

Decided it wasnt for me so rejoined here after it gave me some confidence. Hense my pictures where i just dont give a shit about displaying my body anymore.. haha

I've discovered mens admiration for the extreme bigger girl is like someone eating a bag of chips in church during a service..

You know its wrong.. but i bet someone wants some chips hehe

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By *ets join the funCouple
over a year ago

london


"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice!

haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then.

I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha "

Knowing my luck ild get it right first go.... Kick myself tho, rather a few goes ... (Hahahaha) what would the next game be ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice!

haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then.

I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha

Knowing my luck ild get it right first go.... Kick myself tho, rather a few goes ... (Hahahaha) what would the next game be ?

"

well i dont actually know the answer... so you'd always be wrong

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Everyone has their beauty and will appeal to someone, we all like our tea different, many like it lots of different ways as variety is the spice of life. Personally i think a lot more than a persons waistline goes in to making them attractive.

And don't forget us slim folk either, we are all too easily dismissed when it comes to self image. Hell even mr and mrs perfect are not immune.

Own who you are and approach folk with confidence knowing they are the lucky ones and if that fails....well just smother them with your impressive bosom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a curvy lady

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm a big lad.

The way i see it: i may not have a 6-pack and a toned body, but I've made many friends on here who see me for me. Weight can be gained or lost, but you can't beat having a personality.

Just be you. People will like you for being the adorable lady you are.

As one lady said to me - 'we can't fancy everybody'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice!

haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then.

I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha "

If that was me i would get it wrong on purpose for a second go it would be worth a drink everytime

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I laugh them into bed honestly I don’t know how you chat men up, on here you can send a faf message I suppose, in real life I just think we are all having a jolly laugh and dont ever see any sign that someone fancies me, I’m such a plonka

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think. "

So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff?

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I have never been able to chat people up and I do fail a lot! Its so annoying I wish I knew how to do it! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I laugh them into bed honestly I don’t know how you chat men up, on here you can send a faf message I suppose, in real life I just think we are all having a jolly laugh and dont ever see any sign that someone fancies me, I’m such a plonka "

I dont know the signs either.. that why i was hoping some guys might give us girls some tips

like i am confident enough to buy a guy a drink.. ive had a few cheeky kisses.. had a few numbers..

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I don’t chat guys up..... they either come to me (when I was single) or I don’t bother.

I don’t think it matters how big or small you are, if you show (or at least pretend) your confident and not desperate it show happen naturally.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think.

So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff? "

Let's call it, chatting with intent then!

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think.

So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff? "

Strong eye contact, a smile and the occasional touch say on the elbow when they say something funny. Move closer, open arms rather than crossed etc, show them you are in to them. It's all classic body language.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think.

So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff?

Let's call it, chatting with intent then! "

Like “would you like a drink? And what’s the likelihood of getting it on later” they sort of thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really chat anyone up when I’m out. I’ll be friendly and chatty with everyone and some people take it the wrong way, but if I’m out it’s because I’m with friends/on a date.

I’m just there to cut shapes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the father of a teenage daughter, it is a very real concern at how damaging the forced standards of beauty are on society, and on women in particular.

Having worked as a glamour / porn photographer I've had the privilege of photographing some absolutely stunning women in lots of states of undress (I know, I'm a lucky guy, right?) With one single exception, every girl despite how fabulous they all were in their own right, had an issue or issues with one or more aspect of their look. They all aspired to be something else, when the person they were was beautiful.

The exception? Well, ironically, she was no great shakes at all, and had the worst boob job I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot. On the four hour shoot, the first three hours were spent trying to get her head out of her arse.

If I've learnt nothing over the years its that we are all different. If you are the best version of yourself, you'll be okay. If you're a size 24, well there are more than enough guys who find a size 24 attractive. And from your profile OP, I can see an orderly queue forming.

I'm often asked who the most beautiful person I've photographed is. Obviously, it's my daughter, but aside from her, judging from the reaction her photos generate it was a lovely, busty, very curvy blond lady with very ample and luxurious proportions. Size 24, maybe more... and it didn't matter a jot. How attractive? Thing of Bridgit Bardot in her prime, and won a good day, and you get the idea, but when 100% straight women looked at her photos and gasped, I knew my work was done.

Be proud of who you are OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think.

So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff?

Strong eye contact, a smile and the occasional touch say on the elbow when they say something funny. Move closer, open arms rather than crossed etc, show them you are in to them. It's all classic body language. "

oohh im a lip biter.. i smile loads anyways.. i do this this where i kinda twitch my nose like a rabbit in a cutesy way..

sometimes i trace my fingers along my top/bra line..

expose my neck by brushing my hair to one side..

look at a guys lips as i swallow a mouthful of drink.. before re looking into his eyes

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think.

So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff?

Strong eye contact, a smile and the occasional touch say on the elbow when they say something funny. Move closer, open arms rather than crossed etc, show them you are in to them. It's all classic body language.

oohh im a lip biter.. i smile loads anyways.. i do this this where i kinda twitch my nose like a rabbit in a cutesy way..

sometimes i trace my fingers along my top/bra line..

expose my neck by brushing my hair to one side..

look at a guys lips as i swallow a mouthful of drink.. before re looking into his eyes "

See using your fingers to draw his attention to where you want it if only for an instant is purrrfect, finish that drink and suggest a walk where you brush against him, if he keeps a respectable distance he ain't interested but I'm betting most would lean in.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes.

Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising.

But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are.

So before i rejoined fab (was here over 3 years ago) i was in a 2 year relationship.. and when that ended i joined a fetish site for big BIGGG girls

well i was tiny compared to some.. and they wanted to feed me cake. Like i could take a photo of a fat roll or grab my belly and these guys would e eating outta the palm of my hand..

Craziness.

Decided it wasnt for me so rejoined here after it gave me some confidence. Hense my pictures where i just dont give a shit about displaying my body anymore.. haha

I've discovered mens admiration for the extreme bigger girl is like someone eating a bag of chips in church during a service..

You know its wrong.. but i bet someone wants some chips hehe"

Hi lovely.

Tried to pm you but couldn’t.

I definitely wouldn’t go on sites like that. It’d be the same as me going on a milf or cougar site. I meet younger men sometimes (as well as men roughly my own age) but I certainly don’t want to be anyone’s fetish - the idea makes me .

I’d also stop viewing yourself as an ‘extreme bigger girl’ if you can and just view yourself as a person.

I’m sure there are guys who’ll like you for the fact that you’re a pretty, intelligent young woman - regardless of how much you weigh.

Sending hugs

Peachy xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As the father of a teenage daughter, it is a very real concern at how damaging the forced standards of beauty are on society, and on women in particular.

Having worked as a glamour / porn photographer I've had the privilege of photographing some absolutely stunning women in lots of states of undress (I know, I'm a lucky guy, right?) With one single exception, every girl despite how fabulous they all were in their own right, had an issue or issues with one or more aspect of their look. They all aspired to be something else, when the person they were was beautiful.

The exception? Well, ironically, she was no great shakes at all, and had the worst boob job I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot. On the four hour shoot, the first three hours were spent trying to get her head out of her arse.

If I've learnt nothing over the years its that we are all different. If you are the best version of yourself, you'll be okay. If you're a size 24, well there are more than enough guys who find a size 24 attractive. And from your profile OP, I can see an orderly queue forming.

I'm often asked who the most beautiful person I've photographed is. Obviously, it's my daughter, but aside from her, judging from the reaction her photos generate it was a lovely, busty, very curvy blond lady with very ample and luxurious proportions. Size 24, maybe more... and it didn't matter a jot. How attractive? Thing of Bridgit Bardot in her prime, and won a good day, and you get the idea, but when 100% straight women looked at her photos and gasped, I knew my work was done.

Be proud of who you are OP."

What a lovely post. Thanks so much. My step dad is a photographer and so by default know loads of other 'togs' and i always see their photo's and totally admire that one of them only shoots plus size girls and ive spoken to this guy about photographing me potentially one day.. all the girls look mega confident and so 'deliciously full' THink some of that must come from him as a photographer to make them feel confident infront of the camera.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think.

So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff?

Strong eye contact, a smile and the occasional touch say on the elbow when they say something funny. Move closer, open arms rather than crossed etc, show them you are in to them. It's all classic body language.

oohh im a lip biter.. i smile loads anyways.. i do this this where i kinda twitch my nose like a rabbit in a cutesy way..

sometimes i trace my fingers along my top/bra line..

expose my neck by brushing my hair to one side..

look at a guys lips as i swallow a mouthful of drink.. before re looking into his eyes "

Acting like you don't know how to flirt, and then dropping that description on us? Girl, please! You've pulled me and you weren't even talking to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes.

Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising.

But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are.

So before i rejoined fab (was here over 3 years ago) i was in a 2 year relationship.. and when that ended i joined a fetish site for big BIGGG girls

well i was tiny compared to some.. and they wanted to feed me cake. Like i could take a photo of a fat roll or grab my belly and these guys would e eating outta the palm of my hand..

Craziness.

Decided it wasnt for me so rejoined here after it gave me some confidence. Hense my pictures where i just dont give a shit about displaying my body anymore.. haha

I've discovered mens admiration for the extreme bigger girl is like someone eating a bag of chips in church during a service..

You know its wrong.. but i bet someone wants some chips hehe

Hi lovely.

Tried to pm you but couldn’t.

I definitely wouldn’t go on sites like that. It’d be the same as me going on a milf or cougar site. I meet younger men sometimes (as well as men roughly my own age) but I certainly don’t want to be anyone’s fetish - the idea makes me .

I’d also stop viewing yourself as an ‘extreme bigger girl’ if you can and just view yourself as a person.

I’m sure there are guys who’ll like you for the fact that you’re a pretty, intelligent young woman - regardless of how much you weigh.

Sending hugs

Peachy xxxx"

Oh sorry flower didnt realise i had message filters on.. Yeah i did stop using the site as it was unhealthy for my own mind set. Im not comfortable. They were encouraging a life style i never want to embrace. I posted about weight loss once and got mobbed and slated..

Thanks for your lovely words x x x

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes.

Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising.

But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are.

So before i rejoined fab (was here over 3 years ago) i was in a 2 year relationship.. and when that ended i joined a fetish site for big BIGGG girls

well i was tiny compared to some.. and they wanted to feed me cake. Like i could take a photo of a fat roll or grab my belly and these guys would e eating outta the palm of my hand..

Craziness.

Decided it wasnt for me so rejoined here after it gave me some confidence. Hense my pictures where i just dont give a shit about displaying my body anymore.. haha

I've discovered mens admiration for the extreme bigger girl is like someone eating a bag of chips in church during a service..

You know its wrong.. but i bet someone wants some chips hehe

Hi lovely.

Tried to pm you but couldn’t.

I definitely wouldn’t go on sites like that. It’d be the same as me going on a milf or cougar site. I meet younger men sometimes (as well as men roughly my own age) but I certainly don’t want to be anyone’s fetish - the idea makes me .

I’d also stop viewing yourself as an ‘extreme bigger girl’ if you can and just view yourself as a person.

I’m sure there are guys who’ll like you for the fact that you’re a pretty, intelligent young woman - regardless of how much you weigh.

Sending hugs

Peachy xxxx"

I have to agree, people will accept you for who you are so long as you accept yourself, don't ever let someone try to shape you to serve their desires. Sites like that do nobody any favours as all they are doing is telling you your size is what defines you, we are all so much more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be who you want to be OP. Its your power. Ive seen skinny beautiful girls with no confidence and shyness the same as big girls.

Your size should never define you, be the person who you are.

And dont be a dick ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think its just because i have always been the 'butt of a joke' or 'the fat friend'

i use humour as a self defence against rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the father of a teenage daughter, it is a very real concern at how damaging the forced standards of beauty are on society, and on women in particular.

Having worked as a glamour / porn photographer I've had the privilege of photographing some absolutely stunning women in lots of states of undress (I know, I'm a lucky guy, right?) With one single exception, every girl despite how fabulous they all were in their own right, had an issue or issues with one or more aspect of their look. They all aspired to be something else, when the person they were was beautiful.

The exception? Well, ironically, she was no great shakes at all, and had the worst boob job I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot. On the four hour shoot, the first three hours were spent trying to get her head out of her arse.

If I've learnt nothing over the years its that we are all different. If you are the best version of yourself, you'll be okay. If you're a size 24, well there are more than enough guys who find a size 24 attractive. And from your profile OP, I can see an orderly queue forming.

I'm often asked who the most beautiful person I've photographed is. Obviously, it's my daughter, but aside from her, judging from the reaction her photos generate it was a lovely, busty, very curvy blond lady with very ample and luxurious proportions. Size 24, maybe more... and it didn't matter a jot. How attractive? Thing of Bridgit Bardot in her prime, and won a good day, and you get the idea, but when 100% straight women looked at her photos and gasped, I knew my work was done.

Be proud of who you are OP."

I like this

It really is all about the confidence and how you feel about yourself. Not what other people think of you. If you’re totally happy with yourself you won’t care what other people think. I truly believe this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"THink some of that must come from him as a photographer to make them feel confident infront of the camera. "

It's a two way street OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. well tonight is your unlucky night..

Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.

My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.

So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it? "

How do you friend zone guys you end up fancying? Is it out of choice or by accident?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".. well tonight is your unlucky night..

Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.

My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.

So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?

How do you friend zone guys you end up fancying? Is it out of choice or by accident? "

Think i just chat too much about the wrong stuff.. and dont perhaps read signals from a guy.. if there are any.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


".. well tonight is your unlucky night..

Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.

My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.

So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it? "
always love a bbw

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


".. well tonight is your unlucky night..

Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.

My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.

So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?

How do you friend zone guys you end up fancying? Is it out of choice or by accident?

Think i just chat too much about the wrong stuff.. and dont perhaps read signals from a guy.. if there are any. "

They could always interrupt your chat by kissing you. The signs are definitely there then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Size isn't a problem to me, I'm a big lad myself and it'd be hypocritical to turn someone down because of their size.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help

"

my pics are brutally honest, from every angle, fat rolls, etc..

yet i still am like 'really' when a man expresses an interest

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest


"You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes.

Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising.

But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are."

There is hope yet xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Size isn't a problem to me, I'm a big lad myself and it'd be hypocritical to turn someone down because of their size. "

see i have to disagree there. i dislike large men. they just dont do it for me.

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London


"I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help

"

Ladies, in my opinion you are beautiful and very sexy and you should feel confident about your body.

I like nothing more than to feel and caress a big lady, kiss and lick all the rolls and curves and feel her happiness and excitement.

But then, I am a small, little guy who will probably disappear between your big and beautiful breasts when I try to hug and kiss you

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest


"I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help

"

I can so relate to this, my standard line is I’m a big girl, I realise it’s not everyone’s cup of tea x I find just being honest is the best way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help

my pics are brutally honest, from every angle, fat rolls, etc..

yet i still am like 'really' when a man expresses an interest "

Yep me too!!!!

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest


"As the father of a teenage daughter, it is a very real concern at how damaging the forced standards of beauty are on society, and on women in particular.

Having worked as a glamour / porn photographer I've had the privilege of photographing some absolutely stunning women in lots of states of undress (I know, I'm a lucky guy, right?) With one single exception, every girl despite how fabulous they all were in their own right, had an issue or issues with one or more aspect of their look. They all aspired to be something else, when the person they were was beautiful.

The exception? Well, ironically, she was no great shakes at all, and had the worst boob job I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot. On the four hour shoot, the first three hours were spent trying to get her head out of her arse.

If I've learnt nothing over the years its that we are all different. If you are the best version of yourself, you'll be okay. If you're a size 24, well there are more than enough guys who find a size 24 attractive. And from your profile OP, I can see an orderly queue forming.

I'm often asked who the most beautiful person I've photographed is. Obviously, it's my daughter, but aside from her, judging from the reaction her photos generate it was a lovely, busty, very curvy blond lady with very ample and luxurious proportions. Size 24, maybe more... and it didn't matter a jot. How attractive? Thing of Bridgit Bardot in her prime, and won a good day, and you get the idea, but when 100% straight women looked at her photos and gasped, I knew my work was done.

Be proud of who you are OP.

I like this

It really is all about the confidence and how you feel about yourself. Not what other people think of you. If you’re totally happy with yourself you won’t care what other people think. I truly believe this. "

I agree, love this x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help

my pics are brutally honest, from every angle, fat rolls, etc..

yet i still am like 'really' when a man expresses an interest "

Hello lovely, I just want to reinforce all the lovely comments on here for you. You are absolutely beautiful! And sound a right laugh - I'd love to spend an evening in the pub with you. We'd have a giggle.

But as someone else stated earlier, no matter how perfect we may view someone's body, they're not happy with it. I've put on a fair bit of weight this year, and I honestly think the gorgeous, fit guys who message me are taking the p#ss!

Accept you're beautiful and do not settle for less than you want. Xx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"As the father of a teenage daughter, it is a very real concern at how damaging the forced standards of beauty are on society, and on women in particular.

Having worked as a glamour / porn photographer I've had the privilege of photographing some absolutely stunning women in lots of states of undress (I know, I'm a lucky guy, right?) With one single exception, every girl despite how fabulous they all were in their own right, had an issue or issues with one or more aspect of their look. They all aspired to be something else, when the person they were was beautiful.

The exception? Well, ironically, she was no great shakes at all, and had the worst boob job I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot. On the four hour shoot, the first three hours were spent trying to get her head out of her arse.

If I've learnt nothing over the years its that we are all different. If you are the best version of yourself, you'll be okay. If you're a size 24, well there are more than enough guys who find a size 24 attractive. And from your profile OP, I can see an orderly queue forming.

I'm often asked who the most beautiful person I've photographed is. Obviously, it's my daughter, but aside from her, judging from the reaction her photos generate it was a lovely, busty, very curvy blond lady with very ample and luxurious proportions. Size 24, maybe more... and it didn't matter a jot. How attractive? Thing of Bridgit Bardot in her prime, and won a good day, and you get the idea, but when 100% straight women looked at her photos and gasped, I knew my work was done.

Be proud of who you are OP."

Kirsten halborg?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No words of wisdom from me. I'm piss poor at flirting too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No words of wisdom from me. I'm piss poor at flirting too "

Wow stunning

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"yes.

"

Was it me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i have been with a big women and it is so special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kirsten halborg? "

She wouldn't have got a look in next to the girl I photographed... similar look though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've put on a fair bit of weight this year, and I honestly think the gorgeous, fit guys who message me are taking the p#ss!"

Is that because you've become condition to the myth that only a woman of a certain size and shape can be beautiful? If you believe that, you need to change your religion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want someone to fuck me because I'm really fat. That's why I hate the term BBW. I have no desire to be fetishised.

I've been every size from a 10 to a 26, currently a 22. And I have NEVER struggled to find men who enjoy bigger women. On fab and the real world.

I don't put any emphasis on my size. It doesn't define me.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice!

haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then.

I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha "
and if you have any sense you wont tell them if they are right lol. Keep the drinks flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a lot bigger - a size 20 and have never had problems attracting lovely sexy guys on Fab.

You look gorgeous and if you lived nearer would def be attracted enough to meet.

Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades.

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By *itnessXxMan
over a year ago

london

Just looked at your profile WoW yes you are fat....... In all the right places. Xx Beautiful = my opinion

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By *itnessXxMan
over a year ago

london

Completely agree. Seems like women are not so agreeable when it comes to a man's age, why ??

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don’t want to be fetishised either but also I want to be with someone who isn’t going to go when I take my clothes off and all the wobbly bits hit the floor, when you find someone who does treasure you for all the “bad bits” that you see about yourself it’s the best feeling in the world tbh

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands


"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice!

haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then.

I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha "

What do they get if they guess correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t want to be fetishised either but also I want to be with someone who isn’t going to go when I take my clothes off and all the wobbly bits hit the floor, when you find someone who does treasure you for all the “bad bits” that you see about yourself it’s the best feeling in the world tbh "

If you're fat, clothes don't hide that. They know you're fat before you get naked. They know what they're getting.

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Dread the day a bloke uses the term “fat lass” on here!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I don’t want to be fetishised either but also I want to be with someone who isn’t going to go when I take my clothes off and all the wobbly bits hit the floor, when you find someone who does treasure you for all the “bad bits” that you see about yourself it’s the best feeling in the world tbh

If you're fat, clothes don't hide that. They know you're fat before you get naked. They know what they're getting. "

There just seems so much more of it when it’s set free though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dread the day a bloke uses the term “fat lass” on here! "

I'd prefer that to BBW myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades."

That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Just be who you are cute n sassy

you have got whit and charm as well as have a laugh

I know that your cheeky

then go with that

I know a few larger ladies and the one thing I can say is they really do have a laugh and a joke

some can be the life of a party

That does attract me as I have been with many ladies larger than myself.

3rd pic from the bottom id remove it, you dont really need it there.

as I think you are being over brutal

as there is plenty more other pics that you could use

go on all 4s take a side shot, lay on the bed rest a leg off the side of the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be who you are cute n sassy

you have got whit and charm as well as have a laugh

I know that your cheeky

then go with that

I know a few larger ladies and the one thing I can say is they really do have a laugh and a joke

some can be the life of a party

That does attract me as I have been with many ladies larger than myself.

3rd pic from the bottom id remove it, you dont really need it there.

as I think you are being over brutal

as there is plenty more other pics that you could use

go on all 4s take a side shot, lay on the bed rest a leg off the side of the bed "

Just a couple of things I wanted to pick up on from your post...

That generalisation that fat women are "bubbly"...it's nowt to do with someone's size.

And describing that pic, 3rd up from the bottom as brutal it's a beautiful pic! Fat women do not need to hide their fatness! It's merely a photo of the OPs tum. Personally, i think it's a beautiful, artistic shot. Far from "brutal".

Everyone should post whatever images they like to post.

I know you weren't being mean or trying to offend or anything, I'm not suggesting you were. Just my 2 cents

Lu

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Dread the day a bloke uses the term “fat lass” on here!

I'd prefer that to BBW myself."

Each to there own, but you gotta admit, the likelyhood of a guy getting torn apart is far greater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dread the day a bloke uses the term “fat lass” on here!

I'd prefer that to BBW myself.

Each to there own, but you gotta admit, the likelyhood of a guy getting torn apart is far greater "

Depends on who he's talking to.

I'm not sure why someone's size really needs to be referenced tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. well tonight is your unlucky night..

Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.

My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.

So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it? "

You’re not “fat” more of a BBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. well tonight is your unlucky night..

Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.

My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.

So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?

You’re not “fat” more of a BBW "

See, as a fat woman, this always annoys me.

What's wrong with being "fat"?

Why is being a porn category better?

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"Just be who you are cute n sassy

you have got whit and charm as well as have a laugh

I know that your cheeky

then go with that

I know a few larger ladies and the one thing I can say is they really do have a laugh and a joke

some can be the life of a party

That does attract me as I have been with many ladies larger than myself.

3rd pic from the bottom id remove it, you dont really need it there.

as I think you are being over brutal

as there is plenty more other pics that you could use

go on all 4s take a side shot, lay on the bed rest a leg off the side of the bed

Just a couple of things I wanted to pick up on from your post...

That generalisation that fat women are "bubbly"...it's nowt to do with someone's size.

And describing that pic, 3rd up from the bottom as brutal it's a beautiful pic! Fat women do not need to hide their fatness! It's merely a photo of the OPs tum. Personally, i think it's a beautiful, artistic shot. Far from "brutal".

Everyone should post whatever images they like to post.

I know you weren't being mean or trying to offend or anything, I'm not suggesting you were. Just my 2 cents

Lu "

I was saying shes been over brutal with herself

The generalisation is what ive noted/found with them as much as having a parent the same as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. well tonight is your unlucky night..

Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.

My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.

So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?

You’re not “fat” more of a BBW

See, as a fat woman, this always annoys me.

What's wrong with being "fat"?

Why is being a porn category better? "

“Fat” is derogatory That’s all...BBW isn’t exactly complimentary either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. well tonight is your unlucky night..

Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.

My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.

So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?

You’re not “fat” more of a BBW

See, as a fat woman, this always annoys me.

What's wrong with being "fat"?

Why is being a porn category better?

“Fat” is derogatory That’s all...BBW isn’t exactly complimentary either "

Fat isn't derogatory.

It's a descriptive word that's neither negative or positive.

Is "short" a negative word?

Or "tall"?, "curvy"?

Bbw is literally a porn category. A fetish. Some women are ok to be labelled that. I personally hate it. I'd rather someone either referred to me as fat or simply didn't reference my size.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades.

That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades.

That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude.

"

This! Appearance is one thing, but personality makes my mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude.

This! Appearance is one thing, but personality makes my mind up. "

Appearance is a transient experience... personality, attitude, demeanour, behaviour, outlook seal the deal. OP, go out and live your best life. You're more than equipped for this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude.

This! Appearance is one thing, but personality makes my mind up.

Appearance is a transient experience... personality, attitude, demeanour, behaviour, outlook seal the deal. OP, go out and live your best life. You're more than equipped for this!"

Cheers for all the feedback and lovely comments. Perhaps with age comes confidence. I do generally try and wing it.. blag some gusto. Worst they can say is 'no thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually prefer a curvy lady. The trouble i have is that i am slim so i find this puts many of them off. Humour though is as said above a great ice breaker and i tend to try not to use one liners people have heard before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got to find the right people/men that are interested in plus size women/men which unfortunately in modern days is a rare thing because there's always such a negative stigma that tends to stem from social media and such telling people you shouldn't be fat you should be this, that and be the stereotype ...

It's a load of bullshit beauty is in the eye of the beholder and no one should be ashamed everyone is different and unique in their own way........ also I'd like to say you are absolutely stunning by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got "fat" through different things and times in my life. I met when I was "fat" to feel sexy again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what as a fat girl size 24/26 I’ve learnt not to think of my fat as a hindrance to me. I have so many times let myself feel insecure over my size but my current partner moved my hands away when I was trying to cover my belly and kissed it and something stuck. He gets hard for me. He constantly wants to put his cock in me when we are together, maybe he actually does want me for more than my face.

Embrace what you have, we have much more to play with and cuddle up to

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By *van696969Man
over a year ago

g

I find fat women sexy, everyone’s different I suppose, I also think your pics are sexy, love your figure x

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By *van696969Man
over a year ago

g

I also don’t say fat, I prefer proper woman

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

OP From what I can see you're absolutely gorgeous! Don't put yourself down like that. You're obviously funny but don't make it at your own expense. Own your deliciousness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, was fun

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By *van696969Man
over a year ago

g

Agree, when I said fat it was descriptive, nothing bad meant by that, not everyone says fat and thinks negative, Sexy for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also don’t say fat, I prefer proper woman "

Slim women aren't "proper women" then?

come on guys...

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By *inkyRebelMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I like a woman with a fuller figure. Usually a lot less catty too.

All I've met have been very sensual.

Great company.

Ladies just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a woman with a fuller figure. Usually a lot less catty too.

All I've met have been very sensual.

Great company.

Ladies just be yourself. "

Jeezus...being catty or not has fuck all to do with a woman's size. Just say you like bigger women, you don't need to imply that other women are something negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also don’t say fat, I prefer proper woman

Slim women aren't "proper women" then?

come on guys..."

There's always one

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York


"I laugh them into bed honestly I don’t know how you chat men up, on here you can send a faf message I suppose, in real life I just think we are all having a jolly laugh and dont ever see any sign that someone fancies me, I’m such a plonka "

I am so bad at reading the signs as well.

Long story short I spent most of the night with a woman when she said "I am going home" I said goodbye ect and left it at that. About ten minutes later she returned and said "Taxi is here" and I replied " Ok see you"

She left, my mate ripped the piss out of me for the rest of the night!

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades.

That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude."

Someone buy this man a drink

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Oh to be 30 years younger.

Don't doubt yourself, not everyone out there is confident when it comes to chatting up someone.

I've mates that even at my age, will happily chat up young women, I've never had the nerve to try that, and just look in with admiration.

You'll be fine.

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By *ets join the funCouple
over a year ago

london


"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades.

That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude.

Someone buy this man a drink "

But why can’t we say what we want ?

Only something personal should be offensive???

Freedom of speech

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

In my experience I think a lot of women assume men, like woman to be stick thin,when in a lot of cases this isnt true.

Personally speaking I think there is nothing more sexy than curves on a woman.

However I do think women are under a tremendous amount of pressure in the media to have that perfect shape,and I think magazines like heat and closer etc are the worst culprits for perpetuating this myth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades.

That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude.

Someone buy this man a drink

But why can’t we say what we want ?

Only something personal should be offensive???

Freedom of speech "

You can say what you want, most of the time it’s how people say it that I find is the issue.

We all know we’re not everyone’s “type” as such but it’s the attitude, feeling sexy and empowered that is attractive.

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By *iss behaving2019Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Surely it's personality that is the most appealing asset not shape! Shape is a bonus but not everything!

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By *ereFlix75Man
over a year ago

Hitchin

I second most things said so far;

I am not fat and not too ugly but I always struggled with confidence when out flirting; im too shy to talk to a lady.

When a lady comes and talk to me, puts me at ease, then conversation flows. if she flirts, I get aroused and i flirt back, regardless of her size/shape.

I've had amazing times with bigger women, they can be as naughty and filthy (actually, probably more than I am).

ps. you are stunning. come chat me up any time xx

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Surely it's personality that is the most appealing asset not shape! Shape is a bonus but not everything!"

Bit of both really isnt it?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I've been told I'm flirting with guys by work colleagues before when I genuinely had no intention? There seems to be a confusion between being nice or flirty sometimes

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I also don’t say fat, I prefer proper woman "

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

as a fellow supper fatty that think we have used the same site. ff is very odd. I think it is how you feel yourself. like all woman I have days when I am on top and days when I am not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like all woman I have days when I am on top and days when I am not. "

I resisting the urge to type an incredibly inappropriate joke right now, but I won't, because I'd go straight to hell, and besides, celebrate your curves, they're wonderful!

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"like all woman I have days when I am on top and days when I am not.

I resisting the urge to type an incredibly inappropriate joke right now, but I won't, because I'd go straight to hell, and besides, celebrate your curves, they're wonderful! "

ya just reread, lol nothing wrong with hell I'll save you a seat on the coach least it will be warm lol

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Surely it's personality that is the most appealing asset not shape! Shape is a bonus but not everything!"

True - but having said that - the op has already stated that she doesn’t like larger men - so to some it obviously is.

Very few of us would meet people from literally one size extreme to the other. Many preferences fall somewhere in the middle - whereas some people fluctuate towards preferring one side or the other.

This only becomes an issue, I think, if they choose to be unkind to/about those who don’t meet their preference.

The point isn’t that the op’s appeal should be universal - no-one’s is! The point is that everyone has a right to be respected regardless of shape, size, age, sex etc - and has a right to be confident in who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read it as a fast lass and wondering what was that ?!

Does she talk fast ? Walk fast ? Drive fast ?

But realised it was about weight so to answer your question yes I have

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By *luttonousGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Burnhope

I adore mega sized chubs

My default preference is around 350 lbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before all this virus stuff and we could socialise normally in packed bars and clubs I didn’t really use chat up lines and would never approach a guy.

My tip was going for a wander, would walk to the toilets and back to my friends, just subtly scanning the room like terminator then walk to the bar, by the time I got served some guy would jump in and say I’ll get these.

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