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By *ribsa OP   Man
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Anyone else just not feeling it lately?

I have totally lost my mojo I don't know why or for what reason but it's gone, please look under your sofas and beds in your cupboards if you find it could you please send it back to me asap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite the opposite atm tbh, but I think we've all been there OP.

Times are strange atm, don't give yourself a hard time and your mojo will return when it's good and ready.

Lu

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

mine packed up and went a while ago.

I'm hoping it will return. If it does it does, if it doesn't... well, at least I needn't worry about painting my toe nails

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes mine. I seem to be worrying about everything and anything at the moment and sex is the last thing on my mind.

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By *ribsa OP   Man
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"Quite the opposite atm tbh, but I think we've all been there OP.

Times are strange atm, don't give yourself a hard time and your mojo will return when it's good and ready.

Lu "

Thank you for your support and yes it may have something to do with this year that never was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just hit a lull OP, and as mentioned, maybe to do with the way this year has panned out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else just not feeling it lately?

I have totally lost my mojo I don't know why or for what reason but it's gone, please look under your sofas and beds in your cupboards if you find it could you please send it back to me asap. "
hope mojo rushes back to you soon x

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By *ribsa OP   Man
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"Anyone else just not feeling it lately?

I have totally lost my mojo I don't know why or for what reason but it's gone, please look under your sofas and beds in your cupboards if you find it could you please send it back to me asap. hope mojo rushes back to you soon x"

Why thank you Kelly. Shame you don't live closer maybe you could have helped me find it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Yes mine. I seem to be worrying about everything and anything at the moment and sex is the last thing on my mind. "

I think that's part of why it pisses me off when the flutters vanish. It's a sign that things are on my mind and life isn't as free-flowing as I wish it was.

I WANT to be ok, I WANT desire and urges, and not having them highlights my brain isn't happy.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Cheer up, 3 sleep until the weekend

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Cheer up, 3 sleep until the weekend "

No no no nooooooo I'm back at work after the weekend after 2 weeks holiday

I've not accomplished as much as I wanted to by this point but I've done a good job with what I have got done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one and now I don't. Depends what life throws at you as to whether there is any emotion left in you to feel sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes mine. I seem to be worrying about everything and anything at the moment and sex is the last thing on my mind. "

Sending hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

STOP PRESS....

2020 has just resigned. Its been such a crap year that its decided to cancel Christmas rather than fuck that up too.

2021 starts down the corridor, third room on the left.

You will find all the missing mojo's in the box on the desk, filed in alphabetical order.

MESSAGE ENDS...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else just not feeling it lately? "

I regularly lose my mojo. It wanders off, goes on holiday and then comes back for a bit. Up and down and probably a bit more this year than other years. Anxious and nervy one minute then happy and high the next. Just trying to settle on the middle ground.

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By *ribsa OP   Man
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"Anyone else just not feeling it lately?

I regularly lose my mojo. It wanders off, goes on holiday and then comes back for a bit. Up and down and probably a bit more this year than other years. Anxious and nervy one minute then happy and high the next. Just trying to settle on the middle ground."

Yep that sounds something like it.

I am just plodding on one day blurring into the next one week the same as the other with the weather heading down hill from here on in and the dark nights upon us soon. Damn shut up your depressing yourself _ribsa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be a virgin again by the time it's safe to meet

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By *ribsa OP   Man
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"I'll be a virgin again by the time it's safe to meet "

Sweet can I volunteer to pop your cherry then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll be a virgin again by the time it's safe to meet

Sweet can I volunteer to pop your cherry then "

Sure, how is 2040??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost my mojo four years ago. Not sure if it's ever going to come back

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By *ribsa OP   Man
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Cool it's a date I will make it in my calendar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I lost mine when lockdown happened so not had any since then. The less I get the less I want it so praying the clubs open again sooner rather than later

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"STOP PRESS....

2020 has just resigned. Its been such a crap year that its decided to cancel Christmas rather than fuck that up too.

2021 starts down the corridor, third room on the left.

You will find all the missing mojo's in the box on the desk, filed in alphabetical order.

MESSAGE ENDS...

"

No!

*best brave heart voice*

You can take my summer, but you can NEVER TAKE MY CHRISTMAS!!!!"

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By *ribsa OP   Man
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"I lost my mojo four years ago. Not sure if it's ever going to come back "

Sorry to hear that mine not been gone that long but maybe they are hiding out together in a mojo's hideout.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"STOP PRESS....

2020 has just resigned. Its been such a crap year that its decided to cancel Christmas rather than fuck that up too.

2021 starts down the corridor, third room on the left.

You will find all the missing mojo's in the box on the desk, filed in alphabetical order.

MESSAGE ENDS...

No!

*best brave heart voice*

You can take my summer, but you can NEVER TAKE MY CHRISTMAS!!!!"

"

Now I'm imagining you in a sexy santa outfit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, everything was going great for the 12 months prior to lockdown and for that I’m grateful.

But now I do feel like that mojo is gone - very little on the calendar to look forward to and very little to look back on from 2020.

It’s been that way and possibly worse for everyone, but we all need to allow a bit of self pity too.

I do hope that 2021 is better, but it’s also healthy to acknowledge when your mojo is lost - at the end of the day, you only search for something when you know it’s missing

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