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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cause I just got blocked for doing it, the guys status was very negative about messaging over 60+ profiles and getting nothing back, his profile was very negative too, just mentioned he may want to add more positives to it so he's more appealing, got a very sarcastic message back then blocked, honestly you try to help some one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt of bothered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wont next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have bothered either, you would have been better off reporting them instead

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Reporting him for WHAT ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Did he ASK you for help Mally ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reporting him for WHAT ?"

thats just it, cant report someone for being negative on the site, he wasnt abusive towards me just sarcastic, anyway, he'll soon learn I hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did he ASK you for help Mally ?"

no but his gripe was at the top of my update list, cant say what it was on here but it did make me look at his profile to which he got the very wrong assumption that I wanted to meet him? Dunno how he came to that to be honest.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

What's the diff between a guy that moans on his status and a guy that moans in the forums ?

Send me some advice Mally I'll say thanks for it xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the diff between a guy that moans on his status and a guy that moans in the forums ?

Send me some advice Mally I'll say thanks for it xxxx"

Don't eat yellow snow

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Thanks for that Mally xxxxx

Feel sick now ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for that Mally xxxxx

Feel sick now ......"

It's snowing in Liverpool??

And I thought the weather down here was shit!

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Did he ASK you for help Mally ?"

You can't give unsolicited advice then moan when someone doesn't say thanks for it!

Now had he asked for your advice THEN blocked you..... actually..... would that have really mattered either? In the grand scheme of things?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did he ASK you for help Mally ?

You can't give unsolicited advice then moan when someone doesn't say thanks for it!

Now had he asked for your advice THEN blocked you..... actually..... would that have really mattered either? In the grand scheme of things? "

I guess not but I thought it would make a difference from all the would you threads

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Did he ASK you for help Mally ?

You can't give unsolicited advice then moan when someone doesn't say thanks for it!

Now had he asked for your advice THEN blocked you..... actually..... would that have really mattered either? In the grand scheme of things?

I guess not but I thought it would make a difference from all the would you threads "

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Can I offer some unsolicited advice?

Much as I like you blue pants, your cyclists buns are far hornier when unadorned...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"cause I just got blocked for doing it, the guys status was very negative about messaging over 60+ profiles and getting nothing back, his profile was very negative too, just mentioned he may want to add more positives to it so he's more appealing, got a very sarcastic message back then blocked, honestly you try to help some one "

Sorry Mally, I'm in 100% agreement with him.

My profile is designed to suit ME! I get annoyed at random messages from people telling ME that I'd have more joy if I met bi men, I accommodate, this is NSA therefore what difference should it make if they're married etc.

If someone asks for profile critique: fair dos, if unsolicited: I deem is response appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess I've just painted a big target on my back now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone asks for advice openly, and I am in the position to give it, then I would.

Whether the person takes up the advice or not is entirely up to him/her.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I guess I've just painted a big target on my back now "

Oh! Please can I paint it?

I'll be gentle though I may lean in for a grope...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

mally.... mate.. i wouldn't have bothered...

at least the way it is at the moment they can see the difference between people who "get it" so to speak and those who don't.....

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"mally.... mate.. i wouldn't have bothered...

at least the way it is at the moment they can see the difference between people who "get it" so to speak and those who don't....."

I'm sure the advice was well intentioned, however I'm with this way of thinking, why make it easier for them and harder for others yourself included..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mally wouldn't beat yourself up to much over it!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Oh show us your bum Mally

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Oh show us your bum Mally "

Just been for a perv and it's still lush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh show us your bum Mally "

does he have a nice bum under those blue pants?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Oh show us your bum Mally

does he have a nice bum under those blue pants? "

Go take a peek. He's a regular cyclist so it, and his thighs, are very toned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can you leave my ass and thighs out of this lol

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Can you leave my ass and thighs out of this lol "

Nope.

They're very fine and all over your profile.

And this is a thread about unsolicited advice, mine is more buns please Mally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a mighty fine body and bum you have there!

Think you should lose the pants!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"That is a mighty fine body and bum you have there!

Think you should lose the pants! "

You do realise that you'll be getting the same unsolicited advice too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That is a mighty fine body and bum you have there!

Think you should lose the pants!

You do realise that you'll be getting the same unsolicited advice too..."

I do now haha

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"That is a mighty fine body and bum you have there!

Think you should lose the pants!

You do realise that you'll be getting the same unsolicited advice too...

I do now haha"

I did mean that for miss purple pants...

Not that I'm fussed about seeing her foof but plenty will be as keen to see it as I am to see more of your glorious buttocks Mally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cause I just got blocked for doing it, the guys status was very negative about messaging over 60+ profiles and getting nothing back, his profile was very negative too, just mentioned he may want to add more positives to it so he's more appealing, got a very sarcastic message back then blocked, honestly you try to help some one "

Maybe he blocked because he perceived you as someone who isn't discreet and would shout from the hilltops the content of your conversations!

Sometimes its good to realise you don't try and give advice when its not asked for...only a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am afraid my purple pants are stuck to my bottom! I can't get them off lol!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I am afraid my purple pants are stuck to my bottom! I can't get them off lol! "

Not even for nookie?!?

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