FabSwingers.com forum: Ok....profile help

By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Hi chaps. Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies. My profile is brief but any help to make it better? Lose the dick pic for starters?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

You need better pictures. Also your profile states that looks aee unimportant which makes it sound as you would shag anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your name to Dick Rodwell.

All the best X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi chaps. Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies. My profile is brief but any help to make it better? Lose the dick pic for starters?"

Sorry Damian I’ve got nothing!!!!

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks unimportant"

Really?

That is code for "desperate for a shag, will fuck anyone".

Your photos are dull. Great, have a face pic, but get some variety in with body shots etc.

Phone cameras have timers, use them!

More text about what You can offer- make yourself irrisistable!

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Previously starts a thread about being invisible then a new one about previous one not getting much attention......

You didn't give a whole lot of interaction on the "look at poor me" thread. Your profile isn't attention grabbing in anyway, your not really giving anyone much to work with

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Ok. Thought the looks unimportant made me not sound shallow but guess it works both ways. Will have a “fettle”

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

"Previously starts a thread about being invisible then a new one about previous one not getting much attention......

You didn't give a whole lot of interaction on the "look at poor me" thread. Your profile isn't attention grabbing in anyway, your not really giving anyone much to work with"

I meant my profile not getting views/replies. That post suggesting starting one like this. Sheesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your avatar pic is good

it's clear and friendly

. More pics are always good but they don't need to be nudes, nice clothed photos go down well too so whatever you're comfortable with.

You probably do need a bit more info in your text about you, your interests etc.

Re the looks unimportant thing, I didn't find that a problem really, but if general consensus is women are reading it as 'not picky' maybe you could just word it differently, like, a good personality is the most important factor for you as you find lots of different things attractive physically?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"Previously starts a thread about being invisible then a new one about previous one not getting much attention......

You didn't give a whole lot of interaction on the "look at poor me" thread. Your profile isn't attention grabbing in anyway, your not really giving anyone much to work with

I meant my profile not getting views/replies. That post suggesting starting one like this. Sheesh"

"Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies"

See how I read it?

Look at verified guys profiles and ask your self "why is that one getting attention and im not"

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

"I think your avatar pic is good

it's clear and friendly

. More pics are always good but they don't need to be nudes, nice clothed photos go down well too so whatever you're comfortable with.

You probably do need a bit more info in your text about you, your interests etc.

Thanks. Its work in progress at the moment so will see what I can do

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

"Previously starts a thread about being invisible then a new one about previous one not getting much attention......

You didn't give a whole lot of interaction on the "look at poor me" thread. Your profile isn't attention grabbing in anyway, your not really giving anyone much to work with

I meant my profile not getting views/replies. That post suggesting starting one like this. Sheesh

"Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies"

See how I read it?

Look at verified guys profiles and ask your self "why is that one getting attention and im not""

My account shows a pic of me with my profile name on a piece of paper and my face saying verified so not sure why its not???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Previously starts a thread about being invisible then a new one about previous one not getting much attention......

You didn't give a whole lot of interaction on the "look at poor me" thread. Your profile isn't attention grabbing in anyway, your not really giving anyone much to work with

I meant my profile not getting views/replies. That post suggesting starting one like this. Sheesh

"Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies"

See how I read it?

Look at verified guys profiles and ask your self "why is that one getting attention and im not""

Oo great fun, do me next

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Just checked. Says Verified. Thank You. Confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wish for this to sound rude but the best advice I, or anyone, could offer is to make use of the forum "search" for similar threads. There's loads of advice from countless friendly Fabbers

What I will say though is that your profile is an extension of who you are and your chance to put your personality across. So take advantage of all you can do with it! Be it pictures, your bio etc make it stand out

I agree that your avatar is a good start; a smile always goes a long way

As for the "verified" confusion, your profile is 'photo verified' whereas the poster is alluding to those with a green tick (meet/cam verified).

Ultimately, if you stumbled across your profile would it jump out at you and grab your attention? That's always a good litmus test!

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

"I don't wish for this to sound rude but the best advice I, or anyone, could offer is to make use of the forum "search" for similar threads. There's loads of advice from countless friendly Fabbers

I agree that your avatar is a good start; a smile always goes a long way

As for the "verified" confusion, your profile is 'photo verified' whereas the poster is alluding to those with a green tick (meet/cam verified).

Ultimately, if you stumbled across your profile would it jump out at you and grab your attention? That's always a good litmus test! "

Thanks. Not sure I’ll get a meet verified tick at this rate

Guess I’ll play to my humour. Just pic collecting now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi chaps. Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies. My profile is brief but any help to make it better? Lose the dick pic for starters?"

Is that the best that you can do??

Why so brief?

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

"Hi chaps. Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies. My profile is brief but any help to make it better? Lose the dick pic for starters?

Is that the best that you can do??

Why so brief?"

Hence the question. Some profiles are brief. Its either too little or life story. I’m working on it whilst slowly loosing faith in humanity. Have I touched a few nerves around here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi chaps. Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies. My profile is brief but any help to make it better? Lose the dick pic for starters?

Is that the best that you can do??

Why so brief?

Hence the question. Some profiles are brief. Its either too little or life story. I’m working on it whilst slowly loosing faith in humanity. Have I touched a few nerves around here??"

Touched a few nerves?

We wouldn't think anyone is bothered.

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

"Hi chaps. Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies. My profile is brief but any help to make it better? Lose the dick pic for starters?

Is that the best that you can do??

Why so brief?

Hence the question. Some profiles are brief. Its either too little or life story. I’m working on it whilst slowly loosing faith in humanity. Have I touched a few nerves around here??

Touched a few nerves?

We wouldn't think anyone is bothered. "

Better dig out my flame proof suit. I was reluctant to post initially.

Hey....I can take it and can give it but generally too nice. Lifes to short etc. Plus this JD is too nice as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your avatar is nice, get a couple of other pics up, a suit pic always goes down well

. Its fine to have a brief description, mine is, but I would lose the looks unimportant part personally.

Join in with the forums, don't take things too personally , and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say look at your bio. It's short but fairly generic. No one here knows who you are and still don't after reading that.

You say 'likeminded females' but what would be likeminded about them? And what is a 'fun personality'?

Instead of saying you are openminded say what you particularly like doing - oral, anal or hanging from the ceiling dressed as Santa Claus.

Instead of 'Looks unimportant' try something like: 'I don't have a type physically. Personality is what I am attracted to.'

Apart from that join in on the forums. Try some of the photo challenges to get some different photos in your gallery. Most importantly have fun.

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Well....I’ve made a few changes. Its a start. Thanks all. Getting late now so off to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not bad.

Not particularly exciting but better than many.

You’ve only been here five weeks so perhaps you just need to be patient and keep trying.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi chaps. Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies. My profile is brief but any help to make it better? Lose the dick pic for starters?

Is that the best that you can do??

Why so brief?

Hence the question. Some profiles are brief. Its either too little or life story. I’m working on it whilst slowly loosing faith in humanity. Have I touched a few nerves around here??

Touched a few nerves?

We wouldn't think anyone is bothered.

Better dig out my flame proof suit. I was reluctant to post initially.

Hey....I can take it and can give it but generally too nice. Lifes to short etc. Plus this JD is too nice as well"

You can take criticism?

Great.

Let's hope it spurs you to put some proper effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And one more thing.

Great to see a male profile without cock photos.

Good shout.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Not sure but boy you remind me of Frank Skinner!

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

"Not sure but boy you remind me of Frank Skinner!

OMFG!!! Heard that sooooo many times. Especially when I was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it.

The photos are great but maybe a full body shot.

I like your bio but maybe add a bit what type of person you are looking for.

Not a bad job though.

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Ok. Should really go to bed but curious now. I mean....when you say go into what I want how honest/crude do we go or need to go? Used to tamer Tinder etc (pointless as well) profiles. Ideally....cute, curvy, big breasted woman who likes sex at the drop of a hat....(note to self must get hats!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok. Should really go to bed but curious now. I mean....when you say go into what I want how honest/crude do we go or need to go? Used to tamer Tinder etc (pointless as well) profiles. Ideally....cute, curvy, big breasted woman who likes sex at the drop of a hat....(note to self must get hats!!)"

So i don't necessarily mean anything graphic or very specific.

Maybe the type of woman you like or things you'd like to explore.

That kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that kinda thing but drop the hat.

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

BRB

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

"Previously starts a thread about being invisible then a new one about previous one not getting much attention......

You didn't give a whole lot of interaction on the "look at poor me" thread. Your profile isn't attention grabbing in anyway, your not really giving anyone much to work with

I meant my profile not getting views/replies. That post suggesting starting one like this. Sheesh

"Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies"

See how I read it?

Look at verified guys profiles and ask your self "why is that one getting attention and im not"

My account shows a pic of me with my profile name on a piece of paper and my face saying verified so not sure why its not???"

Because a photo veried account doest mean a total shit account like your was! Well done it's so much better now!

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

"Previously starts a thread about being invisible then a new one about previous one not getting much attention......

You didn't give a whole lot of interaction on the "look at poor me" thread. Your profile isn't attention grabbing in anyway, your not really giving anyone much to work with

I meant my profile not getting views/replies. That post suggesting starting one like this. Sheesh

"Posted earlier today. Not getting many views or any replies"

See how I read it?

Look at verified guys profiles and ask your self "why is that one getting attention and im not"

My account shows a pic of me with my profile name on a piece of paper and my face saying verified so not sure why its not???

Because a photo veried account doest mean a total shit account like your was! Well done it's so much better now!"

Er...thanks....I think

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Kinda think I’ve ruined the oppotunity of seeing someone local though as messaged on the shit one. Oh well. Not been blocked...yet...so you never know (don’t worry not messaging again)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kinda think I’ve ruined the oppotunity of seeing someone local though as messaged on the shit one. Oh well. Not been blocked...yet...so you never know (don’t worry not messaging again)"

I wouldn't worry too much.

Also think about the messages you send too.

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

"Kinda think I’ve ruined the oppotunity of seeing someone local though as messaged on the shit one. Oh well. Not been blocked...yet...so you never know (don’t worry not messaging again)

I wouldn't worry too much.

Also think about the messages you send too."

So I’ll give it to you like a big boy was a no no?? ??

Nah. Read profile. Put in the “trigger” word (for all intent and purposes) and just complimented her on the honest profile and nice pics. Ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of guys on this site, more so than the ladies. So they tend to have the upper hand.

It takes time to get noticed.

I would suggest getting involved in the forums and not just rely on your profile.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Change female to woman or ladies on your text.

Don't ponder over the ones that slip by, onwards and upwards to the next

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By *LA1978 OP Man
over a year ago

Fleetwood

"Change female to woman or ladies on your text.

Don't ponder over the ones that slip by, onwards and upwards to the next

Will do and better go to bed

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