FabSwingers.com forum: Cloud lifted.

By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

Just a quick one really to thank all of you that's offered your well wishes, support and understanding over these last few months. I know I've not been the easiest person to deal with and my miserable has been like a black cloud of doom.

There's no denying it's been a very volatile and testing time for me, my mental health and my heart.

I had a breakthrough today (I think)

I know I still have some way to go but for the first time in months I've felt like I CAN move forward.

I released a lot of anger and resentment that I knew was holding me hostage, and no, I don't feel great, but I do feel like a weight has been lifted.

So again, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so happy to read this you beautiful C**t

you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great news.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are welcome

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm really happy to read this OP. You're human and you're grieving for the end of something, I'm not going to (and I doubt anyone else will) hold that against you. I'm thrilled that you're beginning to move forward. Baby steps and all that.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You know that we all love you Peach x

Up yer bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great news, I’m glad that you’re moving forward x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Love you lots x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Pleased to hear it beautiful. You deserve to be truly happy!

Jo.Xx

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I'm really happy to read this OP. You're human and you're grieving for the end of something, I'm not going to (and I doubt anyone else will) hold that against you. I'm thrilled that you're beginning to move forward. Baby steps and all that.

I am, and a huge part of the frustration of grief is not being able to say what you want to or need to. Having a huge anvil on your chest of thoughts, feelings and words that need to be heard.

I had my voice today and it really has helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you talk to someone about it all? X

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

That made me smile.... one day at a time, one step at a time Peach xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is good to read. Keep on pushing foward xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be kind to yourself please

You WILL find your happy

Of that I have no doubt

In the meantime allow yourself to be miserable and angry. Im more than happy to listen to your angry

Anytime x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Great news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So happy to read this!

You are a wonderful human! You'll get there lovely!

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

It's cliche but time is a healer and day by day, week by week no matter what the hurt is it will ease but you should always take the time and opportunity to talk, let out those emotions so they don't overwhelm you.

Keep moving forward peach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont let it happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's great to hear!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Good on yer m’lady xxx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Very pleased to read this P xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 07/09/20 19:15:57]"

. Not worth it kiddo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 2 years on from a similar situation, and you will find your way, time creates distance from it and eventually you will realise that you really are okay now xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You know what I think my dear friend - this is the first step on a new path that has opened up and each step you take you'll put it further and further behind you and emerge stronger and better from the bewilderness - you got this, and have done so much these past few months that you should be proud of yourself for - but you know any time you need a companion on that path just to help you past the tricky bits all you gotta do is whistle and Jiminy will come running

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

So pleased to hear this.

Sending big hugs and hopefully we can plan a night out to celebrate xx

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Very good to hear Mrs Woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love you, so much. You queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way is forward

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Big hugs to all that need them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black clouds bring the rain, and the rain brings the flowers. So pleased to hear you are feeling better Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Result!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awesome news

Hugs of happiness to you

Her x

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

This is a cool thing to read

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By *oneyand_ICouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Huzzah my dearest. Proud of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think mines just been lifted too ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 07/09/20 21:44:34]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey smelly Arse... fantastic news.

Does that mean I can have my pogs back?

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Huzzah my dearest. Proud of you

Oh my lordy

And now I know

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Hey smelly Arse... fantastic news.

Does that mean I can have my pogs back?"

Nahhhhhhh

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

"Just a quick one really to thank all of you that's offered your well wishes, support and understanding over these last few months. I know I've not been the easiest person to deal with and my miserable has been like a black cloud of doom.

There's no denying it's been a very volatile and testing time for me, my mental health and my heart.

I had a breakthrough today (I think)

I know I still have some way to go but for the first time in months I've felt like I CAN move forward.

I released a lot of anger and resentment that I knew was holding me hostage, and no, I don't feel great, but I do feel like a weight has been lifted.

So again, thank you.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Small steps or big leaps.. Its all moving forward. Well done you. Wishing you well on the road of the human condition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonderful to hear Peach! Thank you for sharing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no denying it's been a very volatile and testing time for me, my mental health and my heart.

I had a breakthrough today (I think)

I know I still have some way to go but for the first time in months I've felt like I CAN move forward.

I released a lot of anger and resentment that I knew was holding me hostage, and no, I don't feel great, but I do feel like a weight has been lifted.

So again, thank you.

This is great to hear!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Whoop whoop, go you! You got this.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be liberating

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Awe .... loves ya

Prickles xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

That is wonderful news beautiful.

Youre amazing

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

You knowz I love ya Cuntbubbles .

Hope you find happiness in the near future i really do , you deserve it xx

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over a year ago

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’ve just spotted this - really pleased for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know you, but I'm glad to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone deserves sunshine in their life its you....

And when the sun doesn't shine remember to dance in the rain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...

I had a breakthrough today (I think)

I know I still have some way to go but for the first time in months I've felt like I CAN move forward.

I released a lot of anger and resentment that I knew was holding me hostage, and no, I don't feel great, but I do feel like a weight has been lifted.

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Well done - often the most difficult challenges we face are the limits we impose on ourselves.

Look at all the warmth, affection and frienship on this thread. Harnesses it and keep striving so you can feel great.

You are a complete stranger to me - but seeing you break some of the chains that have been holding you down brings me a bigger and better smile that the hottest of hot photos.

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By *rincess peach OP Woman
over a year ago

shits creek

honestly it means the world.

There are so so many people like me as far as friends/family goes.

Miles away from family, only friends they have locally are actually colleagues

Then you have the friends, local or otherwise that came from Fabland. A group you never expected in your wildest dreams to bond with, share highs and lows with.

Some friendships extend beyond this platform, some stay here.

For some of us, you lot ARE our support network.

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