FabSwingers.com forum: What has fab done to you’re mind

By *iscrete77 OP Man
over a year ago

King’s Lynn

For me when I go on Facebook and read a status with the abbreviation fb I always think fuck buddy lol

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It’s given me a headache and haemorrhoids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When im driving and pass people in the streets, i try and guess what they get up too behind closed doors! Im convinced the woman down the street is a hotwife

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By *iscrete77 OP Man
over a year ago

King’s Lynn

"When im driving and pass people in the streets, i try and guess what they get up too behind closed doors! Im convinced the woman down the street is a hotwife

I know without a doubt a couple down my street were on fab because they sent us pics

But yes me and the wife do tend to look at people and do the same

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Every time I go for a walk in woods and see a couple going in think to myself they must be going for fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I am in Sainsbury’s now I think could they be on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everytime I go out i look around wondering how many are on fab..

I feel that fab has given me alot more confidence though and I thank it for that...

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By *iscrete77 OP Man
over a year ago

King’s Lynn

"Everytime I go out i look around wondering how many are on fab..

I feel that fab has given me alot more confidence though and I thank it for that..."

See I still need the confidence I’m really lacking there

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

oh ya know, made me question my own existence and place on this planet we inhabit.

Broken the bit in my brain where trust comes from.

Stolen my mojo and sex drive.

Shown me sides of humanity I never wished to see.

Other than that, I see a pair of shoes that are funky and think "ooooo, they'd make a cracking photo"

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

My mind was already pretty fecked up with mental health problems, but being on here gives me some sense of normality & made me realise im not the only person going through a hard time.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Patients

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Released an absolute beast!!

Now the beast is tamed

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If any of my clients are fab users

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m actually much more aware and confident in my body than I was pre-fab. I didn’t notice people noticing me when I was out and about doing vanilla life things.

I do now though and it feels really good to actually be aware that I’m attractive to other people outside of my partner.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Fried it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its given my brain a wobble.

Iv got so much more body confidence now.

We swimming the other day and didn't feel self conscious at all.

I didn't go swimming for nearly 17 years because I was to conscious of how I looked in a swimsuit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its given my brain a wobble.

Iv got so much more body confidence now.

We swimming the other day and didn't feel self conscious at all.

I didn't go swimming for nearly 17 years because I was to conscious of how I looked in a swimsuit. "

That’s amazing Lorna!! Go you you utter beauty!

You should feel confident, you’re gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its given my brain a wobble.

Iv got so much more body confidence now.

We swimming the other day and didn't feel self conscious at all.

I didn't go swimming for nearly 17 years because I was to conscious of how I looked in a swimsuit.

That’s amazing Lorna!! Go you you utter beauty!

You should feel confident, you’re gorgeous

Thank you. I even changed in the communal area of the changing room, i have never done that before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its given my brain a wobble.

Iv got so much more body confidence now.

We swimming the other day and didn't feel self conscious at all.

I didn't go swimming for nearly 17 years because I was to conscious of how I looked in a swimsuit.

That’s amazing Lorna!! Go you you utter beauty!

You should feel confident, you’re gorgeous

I totally agree xx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Its given my brain a wobble.

Iv got so much more body confidence now.

We swimming the other day and didn't feel self conscious at all.

I didn't go swimming for nearly 17 years because I was to conscious of how I looked in a swimsuit.

That’s amazing Lorna!! Go you you utter beauty!

You should feel confident, you’re gorgeous

That is amazing and you go girl you are gorgeous and in many ways x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s really made much of an impact on me. But I’m very happy I get to interact with people I otherwise would never meet!

I guess now the only difference is when I accidentally flash my pants getting out of a car I think oh ffs did someone see that and start a thread about this in the forum saying I was deliberately flashing people.

Or when I open the door to a delivery driver in my dressing gown I panic thinking he’s going to think I’m flirting with him and make a thread

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"oh ya know, made me question my own existence and place on this planet we inhabit.

Broken the bit in my brain where trust comes from.

Stolen my mojo and sex drive.

Shown me sides of humanity I never wished to see.

Other than that, I see a pair of shoes that are funky and think "ooooo, they'd make a cracking photo""

P... your spirit is something else. That's yours no one can take that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it has given me a little bit of my confidence back.. but above all it has made me look at life with a positive outlook, and if no one likes the look of me because I am slightly overweight and hairy on my profile pic then that is there problem, not mine. As the song goes 'I am what I am..' but having said this I look around all the time and I do wonder if they are on FAB especially if I see a BBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its given my brain a wobble.

Iv got so much more body confidence now.

We swimming the other day and didn't feel self conscious at all.

I didn't go swimming for nearly 17 years because I was to conscious of how I looked in a swimsuit. "

I feel exactly the same, I didn’t really show any of my body till I joined fab, now I show a lot more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its given my brain a wobble.

Iv got so much more body confidence now.

We swimming the other day and didn't feel self conscious at all.

I didn't go swimming for nearly 17 years because I was to conscious of how I looked in a swimsuit.

I feel exactly the same, I didn’t really show any of my body till I joined fab, now I show a lot more

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Its very liberating isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh should probably have said fab has given the love of my life too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its given my brain a wobble.

Iv got so much more body confidence now.

We swimming the other day and didn't feel self conscious at all.

I didn't go swimming for nearly 17 years because I was to conscious of how I looked in a swimsuit.

I feel exactly the same, I didn’t really show any of my body till I joined fab, now I show a lot more

Its very liberating isn't it.

That’s exactly the right word for it

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Oh should probably have said fab has given the love of my life too.

I think that's totally brilliant..Best wishes to you both xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a bit of fun.

nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its given my brain a wobble.

Iv got so much more body confidence now.

We swimming the other day and didn't feel self conscious at all.

I didn't go swimming for nearly 17 years because I was to conscious of how I looked in a swimsuit.

I feel exactly the same, I didn’t really show any of my body till I joined fab, now I show a lot more

Its very liberating isn't it.

Absolutely. About bloody time, I'm 41

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

Its opened my eyes a lot. It never fails to amuse me daily. Ive met and made some amazing friends on here. Learnt everyone is on here for a valid reason. Believe ive made people believe in themselves..

Ive become more confident in myself. Came out of my shell. I always wonder the person i see on holiday in Wales is on here haha. Its done a lot for me personally and i thank the people on here for that

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Its opened my eyes a lot. It never fails to amuse me daily. Ive met and made some amazing friends on here. Learnt everyone is on here for a valid reason. Believe ive made people believe in themselves..

I'm gonna take a slice of the amusement credit to validate my oxygen use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely smile every time you write in the forum

that's so cute!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me: I can't ask for a fab ice lolly from the ice cream man without blushing and picturing it over someones groin.

I permanently perv at guys crotch area when they wear tight jeans

When I see a guy in a belt I imagine it wrapped tightly round his wrist and want to bend over

Yeah the fb one used to mean the book of face but now means fuck buddy

I'm a changed woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has given me more confidence as a woman, but has also made me question myself at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helped me find myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given me a place to express myself and, hopefully, let me build more confidence. And to know there is somewhere for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more about what I've done for fabs mind.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its interesting to hear so much talk of confidence building out of fab while just last week there was a thread about how tough it can be to be a man here.... and how everyone needed to be tough skinned !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its interesting to hear so much talk of confidence building out of fab while just last week there was a thread about how tough it can be to be a man here.... and how everyone needed to be tough skinned !"

Oh you do.

I get called a fat bitch fairly often if I say no to someone.

But iv realised that actually I don't give a shit.

Iv been to clubs and felt very sexy and beautiful and realise that its how I feel and not what others say that matters.

Does it hurt when people call me names or puts me down, of course it does but at the end of it all it really doesn't matter.

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