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By *abros OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Is it worth joining?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yh

Its good

Bumble too

Both great for play

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

East London

Yh love tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it worth joining?"
You have more chance getting a date on Tinder than you are seeing a three legged cat, Burying his shit on a frozen pond.

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By *abros OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington

wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined last week.. I don’t like it haha

Prefer here

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By *abros OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington

thanks for the feed back , some are saying bumble is good ?

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I've been on a few weeks and nothing everyone seems to want a relationship and not interested in ONS and players it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab, tinder, OkCupid, Bumble etc are all the same. They are whatever you make them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m on Tinder. I had a date once. He wanted my life history x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met Mr Adventure on tinder.

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By *abros OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington

good for you ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, more succesful than here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on Tinder and Bumble for about a year, didn't get a single date from either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hinge is another one that’s meant to be god but I’m convinced it’s only good in London. When I worked there it was great for dates but in Hampshire it’s dead

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"thanks for the feed back , some are saying bumble is good ?"

That will be the one were women match with you have 24hrs to message you but don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try tagged, absolutely ramapant on there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking about joining but heard different things about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try tagged, absolutely ramapant on there!"

Didn’t think that was still going

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I hated tinder mainly because you go just off photos which can be very misleading.

Bumble was ok but women has to message first which I'm crap at.

PoF was ok but was on years ago so might be different.

Heard Badoo is like a Facebook for dating.

To be honest they are all much and such and depends on what you are wanting it for - just sex or actual dating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yh am on tinder but in Huddersfield its dry fucked one lass a couple month ago and turns out she was on here haha ????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try tagged, absolutely ramapant on there!

Didn’t think that was still going "

App still available but I didnt try to download it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try tagged, absolutely ramapant on there!

Didn’t think that was still going

App still available but I didnt try to download it"

I’m shocked that it’s still available

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By *abros OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington

why are you shocked x

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I just stick to Fabs

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Had more meets of pof than here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined recently not like I'd heard ie rampant etc.

Mostly guys looking for a relationship (which tbh I wasn't expecting)

The occasional couple looking for a female and dom guys.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

East London


"I joined recently not like I'd heard ie rampant etc.

Mostly guys looking for a relationship (which tbh I wasn't expecting)

The occasional couple looking for a female and dom guys. "

Might depend on your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder is dog shit, always has been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined recently not like I'd heard ie rampant etc.

Mostly guys looking for a relationship (which tbh I wasn't expecting)

The occasional couple looking for a female and dom guys.

Might depend on your age range"

Think it depends on my location more Besides I don't go on there alot at all!

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope.

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By *RONMAN16Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Its bots central

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Do you like bots?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Tinder is meh- married mostly, OK Cupid is great I date mostly from there, bumble I love too as women are in charge all in all the men are more reliable I find on other apps than here.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Had more meets of pof than here x"

I never got a single message, let alone date, from POF. I'm obviously an acquired taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on tinder, binned it off, never got on with it.

I’m on bumble, that seems a bit better

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

me...yes i like it even though people rarely chat properly there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on both Tinder and bumble.

No one wants me on either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am having a fabulous time on Tinder, and Bumble (and Pof) at the moment, ever since lockdown eased.

I am sure it is just lockdown novelty value, and loads of "locked down" women on the hunt / pull -

But for now ( as long as it lasts ) I feel like what single women must feel on here!!

It's been great!

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By *RONMAN16Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Do you like bots? "

Conversations are stale and monotonous, expressions robotic like

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I have had quite a few meets thanks to Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried tinder , Pof and Bumble, can’t say any of them

Are better than the other . Ads , fake profiles and bots becoming more frequent .

Looks like I’ll be single a while longer

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I’m on it and a few others too , better here tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had some great hook-ups off tinder. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've used these sites in the past. Its not for me.

Same people on each site.

I prefer it on here.

I'm not looking for a relationship, just a regular male for fwb.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Do you like bots?

Conversations are stale and monotonous, expressions robotic like"

lol I get a hell alot of those messages. I just believe men can't be bothered to put the effort in and expects me to do all the talking

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I am having a fabulous time on Tinder, and Bumble (and Pof) at the moment, ever since lockdown eased.

I am sure it is just lockdown novelty value, and loads of "locked down" women on the hunt / pull -

But for now ( as long as it lasts ) I feel like what single women must feel on here!!

It's been great!

"

what about on fab?

Some men think they have the upper hand when it comes to online dating. Trust me they don't. For every one message a man gets, women get at least 20. She only pick the guy who meets her requirements and is genuine. I duno what men do when they only have a small choice of women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am having a fabulous time on Tinder, and Bumble (and Pof) at the moment, ever since lockdown eased.

I am sure it is just lockdown novelty value, and loads of "locked down" women on the hunt / pull -

But for now ( as long as it lasts ) I feel like what single women must feel on here!!

It's been great!

what about on fab?

Some men think they have the upper hand when it comes to online dating. Trust me they don't. For every one message a man gets, women get at least 20. She only pick the guy who meets her requirements and is genuine. I duno what men do when they only have a small choice of women"

Are you trying to tell me that dick pics aren't a good opener on Tinder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried Tinder...

I’ll stick to fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder is OK - most on there are looking for hookups though.

I prefer looking at peoples faces on Tinder to the endless sea of cocks on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you like bots?

Conversations are stale and monotonous, expressions robotic like"

They so are - some of the 'conversations ' I've had on there were like pulling teeth

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I am having a fabulous time on Tinder, and Bumble (and Pof) at the moment, ever since lockdown eased.

I am sure it is just lockdown novelty value, and loads of "locked down" women on the hunt / pull -

But for now ( as long as it lasts ) I feel like what single women must feel on here!!

It's been great!

what about on fab?

Some men think they have the upper hand when it comes to online dating. Trust me they don't. For every one message a man gets, women get at least 20. She only pick the guy who meets her requirements and is genuine. I duno what men do when they only have a small choice of women

Are you trying to tell me that dick pics aren't a good opener on Tinder? "

they actually not allowed... thats why i prefer fab in many ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am having a fabulous time on Tinder, and Bumble (and Pof) at the moment, ever since lockdown eased.

I am sure it is just lockdown novelty value, and loads of "locked down" women on the hunt / pull -

But for now ( as long as it lasts ) I feel like what single women must feel on here!!

It's been great!

what about on fab?

Some men think they have the upper hand when it comes to online dating. Trust me they don't. For every one message a man gets, women get at least 20. She only pick the guy who meets her requirements and is genuine. I duno what men do when they only have a small choice of women

Are you trying to tell me that dick pics aren't a good opener on Tinder?

they actually not allowed... thats why i prefer fab in many ways "

Well that's boring

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I am having a fabulous time on Tinder, and Bumble (and Pof) at the moment, ever since lockdown eased.

I am sure it is just lockdown novelty value, and loads of "locked down" women on the hunt / pull -

But for now ( as long as it lasts ) I feel like what single women must feel on here!!

It's been great!

what about on fab?

Some men think they have the upper hand when it comes to online dating. Trust me they don't. For every one message a man gets, women get at least 20. She only pick the guy who meets her requirements and is genuine. I duno what men do when they only have a small choice of women

Are you trying to tell me that dick pics aren't a good opener on Tinder?

they actually not allowed... thats why i prefer fab in many ways

Well that's boring "

Luckily you can't get banned for sending a Dick pic on here

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

All I get on tinder is random Chinese lasses wanting to know what I do for a job...ERM nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am having a fabulous time on Tinder, and Bumble (and Pof) at the moment, ever since lockdown eased.

I am sure it is just lockdown novelty value, and loads of "locked down" women on the hunt / pull -

But for now ( as long as it lasts ) I feel like what single women must feel on here!!

It's been great!

what about on fab?

"

Honestly, right now I "sucks2bu" on Fab atm, no prospects, no messages, etc. but for single guys this is not an uncommon experience, and I am not bothering to update profile, pics, or status etc. ( too busy on tinder to bother with that! )

You are correct, Women, especially Gorgeous Women will always have the upper hand and be inundated with messages and dates and offers etc. Not rocket science.

However, in comparison to Fab, Tinder, Bumble et al is just "rocking" at the moment (pour moi), ... but admittedly my beer googles are mostly on, and the quality factor may not always be there! ... that is how men increase their selection pool !!

But also with Fab still essentially opposed to all socialising and meet requests - compared to the dating sites which to all intents and purposes - it is business as usual for C19 dating!

And all the Pubs and Bars are really perfect for meeting proper dates too.

So the vanilla dating sites seems to be the place to be right now??!! Supply and Demand wise ...

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

I think ive accidently superliked someone on my street today haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus way hotter women on Tinder and Bumble

He he

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"

Some men think they have the upper hand when it comes to online dating. Trust me they don't. For every one message a man gets, women get at least 20. She only pick the guy who meets her requirements and is genuine. I duno what men do when they only have a small choice of women"

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder in my opinion is a waste of time. I have had several different profiles on there over the past few years and even if I got a match, guys generally didn't chat to me much before ghosting me!

I will stick to using this site.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

They're all much the same, half the people I've matched with on tinder I've bumped into on here haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on a few weeks and nothing everyone seems to want a relationship and not interested in ONS and players it seems."

If you want ONS or play join another site other than tinder. I met john on tinder and now he is the love if my life seriously. You guys need a cheating site not a dating site!

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"I've been on a few weeks and nothing everyone seems to want a relationship and not interested in ONS and players it seems.

If you want ONS or play join another site other than tinder. I met john on tinder and now he is the love if my life seriously. You guys need a cheating site not a dating site!"

Had more fun of pof and Badoo then fab , Personally starts Conversation and few laughs too

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

Used to be, but Kitty’s account got removed cos you can’t look for unusual relationships there.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I was on Lumen but as of 23/11/20 it has become part of bumble I am also on POF and Freedating . Not had much luck on these sites thinking in the new year deleting all accounts and concentrating on London meet up groups as one of the groups I am with do cinema night , pub night , meal night so a good chance to meet someone and take things from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I don’t particularly like it. I find it full of men who just want sex, but are too afraid to admit that’s all they want and instead tell me things they think I want to hear.

I prefer it here as at least most are on the same page and it’s easier to have an open conversation without the assumption that I want to immediately jump their bones because sex was mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve a friend who does very well out of Tinder amd he’s no Chris Hemsworth, but has a lot of

Female aquatances. I also have a friend who is far too good looking and he has no joy on there (it’s a different matter when we go out and women flock to him)

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Women swipe right on 20% of men. Men swipe right on 90% of women. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tinder is dog shit, always has been"
this

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By *immyleaMan
over a year ago

Derby

I think I must have installed a completely different version of Tinder to EVERYONE I've ever met. Each time someone likes me (which admittedly doesn't happen very often anyway) it comes up with their screen blank and I can't see who it is- unless, of course, I pay a monthly subscription to join Tinder Gold. What's up with this bollocks? How come other people seem to think it's free?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised that so many people have issues and bad luck with Tinder. I must be lucky. For NSA and hook-ups or one night stands with single guys I've found it the best app or site. It's not much good for swinging, threesomes, groups, parties and all that. Fab is best for those. But for a meet and fucks with guys... let's just say I've had a lot of success! Xx

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