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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips on how to catch the eye of lovely ladies and great couples? been on here over a year and haven't had much luck, you could call me a swinging virgin and I want my cherry popped any advice would be lush, not sure if you can go to the swinging clubs as a single male either? Really want to try the one in Weston super mare as is the closet to me how would I go about getting a invite? Cheers Jimmy

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Start with your profile pic, then take it from there.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

yes they can go. You don't need an invite.

When they are open again, call them up and don't be a weirdo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at some other forumite mens photos, change your style to classier, read a profile and be polite.

Usually i would say go to a club but most are still closed

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Any tips on how to catch the eye of lovely ladies and great couples? been on here over a year and haven't had much luck, you could call me a swinging virgin and I want my cherry popped any advice would be lush, not sure if you can go to the swinging clubs as a single male either? Really want to try the one in Weston super mare as is the closet to me how would I go about getting a invite? Cheers Jimmy"

Best bet for a club is to find a partner in crime to go with a fwb that's my intention when they open again as I have this on my to do list ! Good luck! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start with your profile pic, then take it from there. "
think i should change my current?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes they can go. You don't need an invite.

When they are open again, call them up and don't be a weirdo. "
great thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start with your profile pic, then take it from there. think i should change my current? "

Two almost identical pics of a cock... A body shot would help.... Or maybe a pic suited and booted...

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Start with your profile pic, then take it from there. think i should change my current? "

I'd have a look around the forum and see how unpopular dick pics are... leave the decision with you. It's your profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any tips on how to catch the eye of lovely ladies and great couples? been on here over a year and haven't had much luck, you could call me a swinging virgin and I want my cherry popped any advice would be lush, not sure if you can go to the swinging clubs as a single male either? Really want to try the one in Weston super mare as is the closet to me how would I go about getting a invite? Cheers Jimmy

Best bet for a club is to find a partner in crime to go with a fwb that's my intention when they open again as I have this on my to do list ! Good luck! X"
that would be boss! as I would be proper nervous going on my own, can't see me getting that lucky tho , hope you manage to cross that off your bucket list. Heard about these clubs and they sound ace!, ever near Weston and need company to one give me a shout lol have a great Sunday evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start with your profile pic, then take it from there. think i should change my current? "

Yes. It isn't too good....in fact not good at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start with your profile pic, then take it from there. think i should change my current?

Yes. It isn't too good....in fact not good at all. "
sorry to be such a disappointment lol, seems the dick pic profile pic is going to have to go! I have other pics but my face is in them in my friends/Pvt pics looks like I'm goin to have take some new snaps

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"Start with your profile pic, then take it from there. think i should change my current?

Yes. It isn't too good....in fact not good at all. "

This.

To put it bluntly, At the moment, everyone sees you as just a bit of a dick

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Start with your profile pic, then take it from there. think i should change my current?

Yes. It isn't too good....in fact not good at all. sorry to be such a disappointment lol, seems the dick pic profile pic is going to have to go! I have other pics but my face is in them in my friends/Pvt pics looks like I'm goin to have take some new snaps "

I’m assuming you have a smart phone like most people? It’s really not that difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want advice on your profile you have to ask for it specifically on a new thread.

Otherwise it could boil down to the content of the messages you are sending out and what your expectations of the site are.

Plus you might have been on here for a year but really it's only been six months under non-COVID conditions which isn't that long.

Have you had any conversations going with anyone yet or anyone you regularly message with? If not try to make connections with people rather than thinking of just getting meets. Once COVID has 'settled' a bit you might get meets from the connections.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Start with your profile pic, then take it from there. think i should change my current?

Yes. It isn't too good....in fact not good at all. sorry to be such a disappointment lol, seems the dick pic profile pic is going to have to go! I have other pics but my face is in them in my friends/Pvt pics looks like I'm goin to have take some new snaps

I’m assuming you have a smart phone like most people? It’s really not that difficult. "

This. Crop them, put a sticker over, use pixellate tool, use the pen tool... many, many options.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Take a look at my videos, they give loads of advice

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

Definitely lose the dick pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start with your profile pic, then take it from there. think i should change my current?

Yes. It isn't too good....in fact not good at all. sorry to be such a disappointment lol, seems the dick pic profile pic is going to have to go! I have other pics but my face is in them in my friends/Pvt pics looks like I'm goin to have take some new snaps

I’m assuming you have a smart phone like most people? It’s really not that difficult. "
of course! I'm on it now, jus looking for friendly advice, have a lovely evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want advice on your profile you have to ask for it specifically on a new thread.

Otherwise it could boil down to the content of the messages you are sending out and what your expectations of the site are.

Plus you might have been on here for a year but really it's only been six months under non-COVID conditions which isn't that long.

Have you had any conversations going with anyone yet or anyone you regularly message with? If not try to make connections with people rather than thinking of just getting meets. Once COVID has 'settled' a bit you might get meets from the connections."
great point about the covid 19, yeah chatted with a few people starts good and then fizzes out, il take your comments on board thanks for the help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great advice!! Cheers everyone. even the people who think I'm a dick. and dislike newbies, we all got to start somewhere right! I will be a fab swinger and if not and you don't like I'm still gunna perv on your pics

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Some great advice!! Cheers everyone. even the people who think I'm a dick. and dislike newbies, we all got to start somewhere right! I will be a fab swinger and if not and you don't like I'm still gunna perv on your pics "

I'm a bit of a newbie here! So good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some great advice!! Cheers everyone. even the people who think I'm a dick. and dislike newbies, we all got to start somewhere right! I will be a fab swinger and if not and you don't like I'm still gunna perv on your pics

I'm a bit of a newbie here! So good luck x"
really love fab, great website to chat to like minded people and have a bit of flirty fun! Really? How do you have so many pics...lol jus had a little gander and there great (didn't go thru all 800 odd lol) Hope your enjoying it and having lots of fun! If u go to club before me let me know about your experience and how great it was

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