FabSwingers.com forum: All talk, no action and only misleading expectations

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have been member here for a year (i think. Time flies by) and I haven’t texted on the forum before. This is my first time so I don’t know what to expect. and even though it’s obvious that most members here are either fake or just talk but no action and showing misleading expectations, I am shocked that those who actually are real and sincere does not put down the foot. After all everyone is here for a reason. Either to meet others, just socialize or to fantasize. Not to mention how rude some people are. Respect is a forgotten word here apparently. Anyway I did not expect my first forum post being me complaining but it’s little frustrating that fakers are everywhere.

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to social media. Fake identities are rampant everywhere and not just on Fab. Good that you found the fora, at least you can have some fun now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m secretly several squirrels in a long coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forum.

What makes them fake?

There are some respectful people on the site. Respect needs to be both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are welcome here in the forum.

I get that it’s frustrating for anyone looking for meets around the site.

This is in my opinion the best place to find those real people and make connections that can grow into what you seek.

Hang about in the forum, spot the people that have the same outlook as you and things in common.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"I’m secretly several squirrels in a long coat"

Shhhh! Don't give away the secrets. I'm actually a parrot standing on stilts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Welcome to social media. Fake identities are rampant everywhere and not just on Fab. Good that you found the fora, at least you can have some fun now.

Thankies. One can try to have fun

Thankies everyone for the warm welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree with Sam tbh. Stick to the forums. You can get to connect with lots of genuine people on here.

Always someone willing to listen in the forums too...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes there are fakes but there are also 1000's of lovely people here for a good time which makes it all worthwhile. Keep smiling.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m secretly several squirrels in a long coat"

I knew it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be honest I don’t know why I haven’t texted on the forum yet. I guess I never really looked on fab that much. Interesting functions on fab that’s for sure. Of course I do know that there are still a lot of genuine people here that is true but that gets overshadowed. That’s just the sad truth

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Love Belfast had some great nights out in the City.

Welcome Op, say what you think and accept the differences of opinion. I’d say those that comment on the forums do take the site seriously, even those that are squirrels (I bloody knew it

) not all the time but most of it

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Welcome to the forum

Take it all as a bit of fun and if you find yourself deleting arsey replys too often its time for a break

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Hey OP and welcome to the forums. Don't take any of it too seriously and you should do ok.

Some of my best meets have come out of forum chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey OP and welcome to the forums. Don't take any of it too seriously and you should do ok.

Some of my best meets have come out of forum chat.

Thankies I try not too take it too seriously. But at the same time I see that fab has potential and it is sad to not make the best out of it. I wish I can find some of the best and finest folks here as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well 6 months of your time here has been during a global pandemic, so of course theres more talking!

People will use the site their way, just as you use it your way.

My advice would be to worry less about other people! Seek out those with which you have an affinity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well 6 months of your time here has been during a global pandemic, so of course theres more talking!

People will use the site their way, just as you use it your way.

My advice would be to worry less about other people! Seek out those with which you have an affinity."

Yeah I know that the COVID-19 situation has of course played a big roll in the increasing of talks. However pandemic or not there is really no reason for fake profiles to exist on fab. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get accused of being a fake profile- which I’m not

I know that there are fake profiles on here, but sometimes someone who you think is fake might not be.

There’s more genuine profiles than there are fake

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"I often get accused of being a fake profile- which I’m not

I know that there are fake profiles on here, but sometimes someone who you think is fake might not be.

There’s more genuine profiles than there are fake

I LOVE your new profile pic

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

There are also real fakes too.

People who portray themselves as one type of person for the public but their actions don't match their words. Better to come across a fake fake that will only waste a few minutes of your time than a real fake that can waste years, even those with many veris!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I often get accused of being a fake profile- which I’m not

I know that there are fake profiles on here, but sometimes someone who you think is fake might not be.

There’s more genuine profiles than there are fake

True wisdom from you. I will remember that

. Thanks all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often get accused of being a fake profile- which I’m not

I know that there are fake profiles on here, but sometimes someone who you think is fake might not be.

There’s more genuine profiles than there are fake

I LOVE your new profile pic "

Thank you! I’m now grinning at my phone. It was for NSPs photo challenge. It’s the only remotely sporty picture I have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m secretly several squirrels in a long coat"

Welcome to the forum hypersexual!

Like anywhere, you'll find a mix of people and a whole variety of opinions, humours and moral stances

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Well done OP for standing up to those pesky time wasting fake profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are actually a family of 200 living in the same house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not aimed at you op ...but alot of guys cry fake when they are getting no where but the fact is there are so many of you compared to single ladies and couples ....... then on top of that the quality of messages and profiles is dire almost like they expect it on a plate with no effot ...for every 100 messages i get i think i can safely say 95% will have no profile or very little or the message is crap in many different ways ... .... so whiles there are fakes on here its nowhere near the figure most think ...the guys who get somewhere are the guys who put a little effot in then ill take notice but then it will be the do i fancy you enough to continue sadly many fail this bit too ..hence i get called fake all the time ...

this is based on my personal opinion not others

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

There are of course fake profiles and people on here.

But also a lot of men seem to have a tendency to say that any woman not returning their messages is 'fake'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well 6 months of your time here has been during a global pandemic, so of course theres more talking!

People will use the site their way, just as you use it your way.

My advice would be to worry less about other people! Seek out those with which you have an affinity.

Yeah I know that the COVID-19 situation has of course played a big roll in the increasing of talks. However pandemic or not there is really no reason for fake profiles to exist on fab. Just saying "

How do you know they are fake and how would you stop fake profiles on here ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are of course fake profiles and people on here.

But also a lot of men seem to have a tendency to say that any woman not returning their messages is 'fake'... "

Yeah I know and that’s not right either. I think the biggest problem isn’t the fake accounts that lays around on fab. I think the biggest problem is that there are way too many rude people. Both men, women, tvs and so on. Hell some of them are even racist. I cannot even keep track how many times i got a racist comment. Then I also understand the rudeness when there are people that refuse to accept or doing so stupid shit by bullying pictures and videos and so on. Respect should be shown at any time, by everyone as respect goes long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I have been member here for a year (i think. Time flies by) and I haven’t texted on the forum before. This is my first time so I don’t know what to expect. and even though it’s obvious that most members here are either fake or just talk but no action and showing misleading expectations, I am shocked that those who actually are real and sincere does not put down the foot. After all everyone is here for a reason. Either to meet others, just socialize or to fantasize. Not to mention how rude some people are. Respect is a forgotten word here apparently. Anyway I did not expect my first forum post being me complaining but it’s little frustrating that fakers are everywhere.

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community "

That's the jungle here...it's full of all sorts ...some good ..some bad ..some others ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

That's the jungle here...it's full of all sorts ...some good ..some bad ..some others ..."

For curiosity sake what’s other?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community "

To be fair, the 'all talk' people might just be here for fantasies, which you said is OK. So they can't be fake and real at the same time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

To be fair, the 'all talk' people might just be here for fantasies, which you said is OK. So they can't be fake and real at the same time

There is a difference between people that are here for just browsing and chatting and those who have fake accounts. There is also a pattern to distinguish fake accounts from real

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"There are of course fake profiles and people on here.

But also a lot of men seem to have a tendency to say that any woman not returning their messages is 'fake'...

Welcome to the forum. I hope you reported the racist comments you've had.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are of course fake profiles and people on here.

But also a lot of men seem to have a tendency to say that any woman not returning their messages is 'fake'...

Welcome to the forum. I hope you reported the racist comments you've had. "

I do sometimes. Unfortunately that has little effect and it’s been coming every now and then so I kinda let it pass. But thankies for the welcome

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

To be fair, the 'all talk' people might just be here for fantasies, which you said is OK. So they can't be fake and real at the same time

There is a difference between people that are here for just browsing and chatting and those who have fake accounts. There is also a pattern to distinguish fake accounts from real "

Yep, but those people that you say are 'all talk to action', might just be here to chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

To be fair, the 'all talk' people might just be here for fantasies, which you said is OK. So they can't be fake and real at the same time

There is a difference between people that are here for just browsing and chatting and those who have fake accounts. There is also a pattern to distinguish fake accounts from real

Yep, but those people that you say are 'all talk to action', might just be here to chat."

When I mentioned all talk no action this was referred to those who has written on their page that they are there to meet in first place and as well has texted people saying they wanna meet but then does not respond afterwards and simply ignores. When people do wanna meet then it’s important that they don’t give false hope or pretend to be something they aren’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi. Welcome to the Forums. There are lots of lovely people here, I know because I've met a fair few and they definitely weren't fake. Just a thought Op, but you are in Ireland so would that be difficult to meet people from here? May be the Irish Forum may work better for you?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

To be fair, the 'all talk' people might just be here for fantasies, which you said is OK. So they can't be fake and real at the same time

There is a difference between people that are here for just browsing and chatting and those who have fake accounts. There is also a pattern to distinguish fake accounts from real

Yep, but those people that you say are 'all talk to action', might just be here to chat.

I meet, just not everyone that messages me, I'm not just talk.

Not everyone that's meeting will want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi. Welcome to the Forums. There are lots of lovely people here, I know because I've met a fair few and they definitely weren't fake. Just a thought Op, but you are in Ireland so would that be difficult to meet people from here? May be the Irish Forum may work better for you? "

Well I’m originally from Sweden but live in Northern Ireland. I don’t know what forum works best but for this post I’m just chatty

. I might find inspiration from your dear loyal members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community "
I also been on here a year and only came on the forum today asking for advice most people where really helpful and friendly just few rude ones, it's nice to be nice. manners are free

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community I also been on here a year and only came on the forum today asking for advice most people where really helpful and friendly just few rude ones, it's nice to be nice. manners are free"

Manners and respect is gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Welcome

Thankies. Much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up and stay positive fella if you're seeking a positive response..... .....I reckon you might be happier trying to focus on yourself and what you want rather than what others get up to....

Fake comes in many forms and shades and I don't see too many out and out fake profiles here tbh.

Enjoy the forum!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Welcome to the forum. So how do you feel now you have popped your cherry?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Welcome to the forum. So how do you feel now you have popped your cherry? "

Like a reborn person. I will try to stick around more often on forum to get to know people better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’m originally from Sweden but live in Northern Ireland. I don’t know what forum works best but for this post I’m just chatty

. I might find inspiration from your dear loyal members

The Lounge is for all to post just about anything. You'll get a mix of responses from genuine to jokey but almost never just out and out rude (the mods do keep a watchful eye). Like Fab generally you have to take the rough with the smooth. Have fun with it

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I’m secretly several squirrels in a long coat

Shhhh! Don't give away the secrets. I'm actually a parrot standing on stilts

So he’s secret squirrel then?

I always wanted to meet him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk so much crap on my profile, all to get some poon

I am really a nerd with glasses, hunch back, bucked tooth psycho

I always aim to disappoint

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I talk so much crap on my profile, all to get some poon

I am really a nerd with glasses, hunch back, bucked tooth psycho

I always aim to disappoint

How has it gone so far for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community "

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

There's a lot of all talk no action on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I talk so much crap on my profile, all to get some poon

I am really a nerd with glasses, hunch back, bucked tooth psycho

I always aim to disappoint

How has it gone so far for you?

Swimmingly

I am just myself really

No puss, no fuss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a lot of all talk no action on here "

Yeah I guess but there are also those who are genuine. Just have to keep the head up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a lot of all talk no action on here

Yeah I guess but there are also those who are genuine. Just have to keep the head up "

Just because someone doesn't meet doesn't make then not genuine.

People use this site for many different reasons.

Some just for the forums.

Some to look at and or post photos.

Some just to use cams.

Obviously there are loads that meet but remember not everyone is here for the same reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating "

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love talking I must admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Might be worth pointing out that getting physical meets right now is certainly problematic. The site is not supporting anything other than socially distanced socials and many people don't want to meet during a pandemic. So, yes, people might be happy to chat but not meet. We have extra reasons for not wanting to meet for any reason at the moment (health related) so we aren't entertaining any new "plans" for the future etc. But I like faffing in the forums, so......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Might be worth pointing out that getting physical meets right now is certainly problematic. The site is not supporting anything other than socially distanced socials and many people don't want to meet during a pandemic. So, yes, people might be happy to chat but not meet. We have extra reasons for not wanting to meet for any reason at the moment (health related) so we aren't entertaining any new "plans" for the future etc. But I like faffing in the forums, so...... "

Ok so not to make people misunderstand what I wrote. This is not regarding the COVID. This is no matter the situation. Also I expressed that there are not just issue with fake accounts but also that there are way too many rude and disrespectful people that is completely unnecessary to even occur on this site. Health care comes first. Family life comes first and personal time comes first as well. That’s all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will always get rude people.

Sometimes though people say someone who says no or doesn't reply is rude and disrespectful.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

OP, on quite an unrelated note, are you Ville Valo in disguise? Or his younger brother?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, on quite an unrelated note, are you Ville Valo in disguise? Or his younger brother?!

Who’s that? No idea what that is

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Block and move on o/p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Block and move on o/p"

That might help... for a while

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"OP, on quite an unrelated note, are you Ville Valo in disguise? Or his younger brother?!

Who’s that? No idea what that is

Never mind. Maybe look him up on Google. He's a Finnish heavy metal singer and guitarist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, on quite an unrelated note, are you Ville Valo in disguise? Or his younger brother?!

Who’s that? No idea what that is

Never mind. Maybe look him up on Google. He's a Finnish heavy metal singer and guitarist. "

Cool. Well I’m from Sweden originally so not too far off

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone. "

Love a backtracker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

Love a backtracker

Who doesn’t?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

Love a backtracker

Don't take the piss out of typos! I'm not great at typing.

There was no need for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

Love a backtracker

Don't take the piss out of typos! I'm not great at typing.

There was no need for that "

Who took a piss at your typing????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God have you seen my typos???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God have you seen my typos???"

Not yet. Hell everyone misspell sometimes. Nothing to be criticized for

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

Love a backtracker

Don't take the piss out of typos! I'm not great at typing.

There was no need for that "

I wasn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

Love a backtracker

Don't take the piss out of typos! I'm not great at typing.

There was no need for that

I wasn't

Nothing to take personally. Was just a mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

Love a backtracker

Don't take the piss out of typos! I'm not great at typing.

There was no need for that

I wasn't

I know. Iv just read it again.

I thought you meant me because I missed out a word.

You know me I act first think later.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

Love a backtracker

Don't take the piss out of typos! I'm not great at typing.

There was no need for that

I wasn't

I know. Iv just read it again.

I thought you meant me because I missed out a word.

You know me I act first think later.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

Love a backtracker

Don't take the piss out of typos! I'm not great at typing.

There was no need for that

Who took a piss at your typing????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

Love a backtracker

Don't take the piss out of typos! I'm not great at typing.

There was no need for that

Who took a piss at your typing????

I didn't even notice that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For what it’s worth keep shining true members of the community

Jokes aside mate there are lots of fakers on this sight, and a collection of peole who literally take photos all day so they get on the AB list but do not meet people at all.

Sick with it and give it time, there are some belters on here.After being let down twice this weekend, a hot couple added me out of the blue and the tension is rising

But yes it is frustrating

But why is this a problem.

There is nothing in the site rules that say you have to be here to meet people.

No one said it was a problem, you are looking for things that are not there

Do I find it desperate and tedious yes

No one said anything about rules.

You said that some people only post pictures and dont meet people.

So i was simply pointing out that they do it and they can. They have to meet anyone.

Love a backtracker

Don't take the piss out of typos! I'm not great at typing.

There was no need for that

Who took a piss at your typing????

I didn't even notice that

Lolz it’s ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you state that " most members here are all talk and no action"

How did you determine that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, you state that " most members here are all talk and no action"

How did you determine that?"

It’s my own experience that I have felt. Also I don’t think I’m the only who thinks so

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over a year ago

"OP, you state that " most members here are all talk and no action"

How did you determine that?

It’s my own experience that I have felt. Also I don’t think I’m the only who thinks so "

Your own experience?

But you dont have insight into Fab members sex lives

How do you know what they do?

Im not understanding what you mean

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over a year ago

"OP, you state that " most members here are all talk and no action"

How did you determine that?

It’s my own experience that I have felt. Also I don’t think I’m the only who thinks so

Your own experience?

But you dont have insight into Fab members sex lives

How do you know what they do?

Im not understanding what you mean"

I mean others share my thoughts as well

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Very strange thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just be ruthless.

if someone is giving you ifs,buts or maybes they are flaky. bin move on.

get short messages?. reply a few days or a week later with a short message.

replying straight away looks like your desperate and will shag anything.

as a man the odds are well against you so dont expect anything and do not lower your standards just for a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess people can be who or whatever they wish to be due to the anonymity Fab allows.

But there are plenty of us genuine people around

Nice to meet you! Hope you enjoy the Fora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just be ruthless.

if someone is giving you ifs,buts or maybes they are flaky. bin move on.

get short messages?. reply a few days or a week later with a short message.

replying straight away looks like your desperate and will shag anything.

as a man the odds are well against you so dont expect anything and do not lower your standards just for a fuck.

Thats terrible advice.

OP just be you and dont take a no or unanswered/deleted message to heart.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"just be ruthless.

if someone is giving you ifs,buts or maybes they are flaky. bin move on.

get short messages?. reply a few days or a week later with a short message.

replying straight away looks like your desperate and will shag anything.

as a man the odds are well against you so dont expect anything and do not lower your standards just for a fuck.

Thats terrible advice.

OP just be you and dont take a no or unanswered/deleted message to heart.

Thankies. Will do. I mean everyone is here for fun for different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just be ruthless.

if someone is giving you ifs,buts or maybes they are flaky. bin move on.

get short messages?. reply a few days or a week later with a short message.

replying straight away looks like your desperate and will shag anything.

as a man the odds are well against you so dont expect anything and do not lower your standards just for a fuck.

Thats terrible advice.

OP just be you and dont take a no or unanswered/deleted message to heart.

Thankies. Will do. I mean everyone is here for fun for different reasons"

I think that it.

Not everyone is here to meet, a lot of upset could be avoided if people read profiles and only messaged those they generally thought would be match.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"just be ruthless.

if someone is giving you ifs,buts or maybes they are flaky. bin move on.

get short messages?. reply a few days or a week later with a short message.

replying straight away looks like your desperate and will shag anything.

as a man the odds are well against you so dont expect anything and do not lower your standards just for a fuck.

Thats terrible advice.

OP just be you and dont take a no or unanswered/deleted message to heart.

Thankies. Will do. I mean everyone is here for fun for different reasons

I think that it.

Not everyone is here to meet, a lot of upset could be avoided if people read profiles and only messaged those they generally thought would be match. "

So true but that’s how it is nowadays

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People are certainly real, even if they don't meet your expectations.

Only you can set reasonable expectations.

It's unreasonable to assume that anything other than a minority of the people that you chat with will progress on to actual meetings or sex. They may be offering the world sexually but if they don't want to share it with you, they are no less honest, they're just exercising their choice. People have preferences and tons of choice, when it comes to filtering men out from the masses, that they actually like.

We're in a pandemic and action is suspended. Think.

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By *enhamhoopMan
over a year ago

Denham

"I’m secretly several squirrels in a long coat"
Keep storing nuts winter is on its way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People are certainly real, even if they don't meet your expectations.

Only you can set reasonable expectations.

We're in a pandemic and action is suspended. Think. "

Ok but I have explained earlier in the thread that this is not regarding Covid situation. This is overall

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over a year ago

"People are certainly real, even if they don't meet your expectations.

Only you can set reasonable expectations.

We're in a pandemic and action is suspended. Think.

Ok but I have explained earlier in the thread that this is not regarding Covid situation. This is overall "

However this does play a massive part.

Not just as to whether people are meeting or not.

Peoples priorities may have also changed, or how far someone is willing travel ect...

It all plays a part.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People are certainly real, even if they don't meet your expectations.

Only you can set reasonable expectations.

We're in a pandemic and action is suspended. Think.

Ok but I have explained earlier in the thread that this is not regarding Covid situation. This is overall

However this does play a massive part.

Not just as to whether people are meeting or not.

Peoples priorities may have also changed, or how far someone is willing travel ect...

It all plays a part. "

And what about the rudeness and disrespectfulness towards others?

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"And what about the rudeness and disrespectfulness towards others? "

There is no need for people to be rude and disrespectful but it happens. It also depends what you classify as rude, no reply is a polite no thank you, a delay in reply may mean they are swamped with messages.

If some one is insulting or abusive, report, block and feel reassured that you have separated some chaff from the wheat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And what about the rudeness and disrespectfulness towards others?

If some one is insulting or abusive, report, block and feel reassured that you have separated some chaff from the wheat. "

Of course it’s unnecessary but that does not stop people from showing their ugly side. Reporting only gets so far. I always try to show respect and understanding for other members desire and privacy

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