FabSwingers.com forum: So, Ladies and Gents - how honest are we/you? :-)

By *ust Peachy OP Woman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Hello my lovelies.

Most people who read the forums regularly or glance at profiles regularly will be aware that thanks to the bloody menopause I’ve gained a couple of stones.

Whilst most of my public pics are older/slimmer ones I’ve included in friends (and one temporally public) a few very recent ‘warts an all’ unfiltered, Un-photoshopped pics which, it has to be said, are most unflattering.

Whilst I’m aware some will still want to get jiggy with me, some obviously won’t, and had I not been so honest I could probably ‘trade’ off my older, slimmer, younger pictures and meet guys who might not fancy the ‘real’ me!

Also - being honest has just got me informed I look at least 61 by a charming silhouette who messaged me!

So - bearing in mind the potentially negative outcomes - how honest are you when it comes to your pictures? Are they flattering older pics? Totally ‘warts and all’ pics? Or a combination of all like mine?

And what makes you select the pics you use on your profile?

Huge hugs

Peachy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our pics show us, you can clearly see what our bodies look like and we have recent face pics in our friends only gallery.

No point hiding anything, they'll see when they meet us...besides, we think we look pretty decent

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham/Telford

Good question peachy. Id like to think mine are a decent representation of my current form!

Im fortunate enough that the onky real changes ive had the last 2 yeara is shaving my head and weight fluxuation up and down over no more than about 10lbs

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham/Telford

"Our pics show us, you can clearly see what our bodies look like and we have recent face pics in our friends only gallery.

No point hiding anything, they'll see when they meet us...besides, we think we look pretty decent

Very decent... but i bet those cinnamon swirls are a bit stale now

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Aside from use of shadows and tints I am who I am, skinny, shaven headed (slap head) ugly fella. Of course I try my best with pictures but i try not make too much of who I am, I cannot bear the crushing disappointment of the viewer.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If I post a picture I've probably taken it within the last day or two. I'll take a few and post the best one mind you.

Your newest picture is lovely op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are all recent, but I usually miss my stomach out. That IS in friends pics though.

I don't see the point in smoke and mirrors for women, men will shag anything anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are honest in that they are me and recent. However I obviously choose photos that are flattering.

I don't think that's deception. I think everyone does that.

I've not yet met anyone who has run away scared so it must be ok.

That said I'm currently in my pj's rocking yesterday's hair and make up, eating ice cream from the tub. It's not a look I'd share!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our pics show us, you can clearly see what our bodies look like and we have recent face pics in our friends only gallery.

No point hiding anything, they'll see when they meet us...besides, we think we look pretty decent

Very decent... but i bet those cinnamon swirls are a bit stale now

Oh they're long gone

My tits are basically the same tho...still as tasty so J tells me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine are all recent, but I usually miss my stomach out. That IS in friends pics though.

I don't see the point in smoke and mirrors for women, men will shag anything anyway. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking fabulous peachy.........keep smiling

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By *ust Peachy OP Woman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"If I post a picture I've probably taken it within the last day or two. I'll take a few and post the best one mind you.

Your newest picture is lovely op. "

Thanks. Just wanted to be blatantly honest. I do like a lot of your pics!

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By *ust Peachy OP Woman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Mine are honest in that they are me and recent. However I obviously choose photos that are flattering.

I don't think that's deception. I think everyone does that.

I've not yet met anyone who has run away scared so it must be ok.

That said I'm currently in my pj's rocking yesterday's hair and make up, eating ice cream from the tub. It's not a look I'd share! "

Agreed - few of us would post a pic we thought was particularly unflattering - though I was shocked at the eye bags in my latest pics.

Time to start a go fund me for cosmetic surgery!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Our profile reflects us I think!

Also we have pictures from over a year ago where I am alot slimmer than what I am now. The pictures we take now are a true representation of what we look like today. I'm still the same person just chubbier..!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty honest with my pics. They’re taken at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr completely honest not much hiding guys can do in pics. Mrs likes to put good angles up.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You look great in your latest picture

My most recent are about a week old. They're a fair representation but I won't allow any that I think are unflattering, I'm not daft

Mr N's are a bit older I must take some more of him actually.

I get messages saying I could pass for a woman in her 30's, that's as unrealistic as the person who said you look 61. You look gorgeous. You make me laugh, which I know isn't much consolation but...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Mine are all taken this year and reflect the true me. No point in trying to be something i am not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is me, no filters, no photoshops........ it’s me as I am

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Mine were a true representation, dont believe in trying to look something I'm not.

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

Our pics are all recent, no filters or photoshopped either, just cropped for privacy. We only choose pics that are flattering or reflect us as a couple.

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By *ust Peachy OP Woman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"You look great in your latest picture

My most recent are about a week old. They're a fair representation but I won't allow any that I think are unflattering, I'm not daft

Mr N's are a bit older I must take some more of him actually.

I get messages saying I could pass for a woman in her 30's, that's as unrealistic as the person who said you look 61. You look gorgeous. You make me laugh, which I know isn't much consolation but...

Well I got my own back - he was 41 in his profile but I told him his silhouette looked 81!

And thank you - I think you come across as really nice too!

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We don’t see the point of putting up pictures that don’t represent what we look like. We’re old and we have cake bellies which can’t be hidden with any camera filters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are very recent. I'd hate to turn up and frighten anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics were all taken within the last 6 months. They are all filtered, photoshopped and cropped and not a true representation at all.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Im not going to lie, a few of mine have been smoothed over as they're often taken in a bad light or have other things that need cropping out but there are also some warts and all pics on my profile too.

I've never liked having my photo taken and still don't to this day so it feels awkward and shows too.

Thankfully in person im told my pics dont show me off in the best light either so I take some solace for that and never have I been told I look my age either, always younger. Now that could be blowing smoke up my arse or it could be true. Whatever it is, im thankful for those who have taken me as i am and im glad i can call many of the lovely people on fab my friends x

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Mine are all a true representation of who I am.

Thick thighs, a mummy tummy and a size 14/16 depending where I shop. I don’t use filters on any of my pics wether that be body or face but I do take them from the best angle possible

The last couple of days I’ve had a few unkind messages such as you’re vile and why are your nipples so disgusting but I never let them bother me. I’m happy in my own skin and like to think I’m a pretty decent person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My avatar was taken two months ago, that’s the only photo people can see, I’ve put a black and white filter cause it looks more arty.

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By *ust Peachy OP Woman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Mine are all a true representation of who I am.

Thick thighs, a mummy tummy and a size 14/16 depending where I shop. I don’t use filters on any of my pics wether that be body or face but I do take them from the best angle possible

Sorry to hear that my lovely. You definitely don’t deserve any negativity - you’re bloody lovely! Xx

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By *ust Peachy OP Woman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Im not going to lie, a few of mine have been smoothed over as they're often taken in a bad light or have other things that need cropping out but there are also some warts and all pics on my profile too.

I've never liked having my photo taken and still don't to this day so it feels awkward and shows too.

I do like a lot of your pics - they’re lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine are all within the past year and not filtered or edited.

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By *urves and KinksCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We love a good black and white shot here and there, something very alluring about the contrast. But other than that, we'd prefer to see the real person over the photoshopped version any day of the week. We prefer to dress up in our pics than be naked, but that's more to do with the fact that we like to tease rather than hiding flaws

You look great OP, don't worry about being perfect. It's waaaaay overrated lol

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"Mine are all a true representation of who I am.

Thick thighs, a mummy tummy and a size 14/16 depending where I shop. I don’t use filters on any of my pics wether that be body or face but I do take them from the best angle possible

There are some right prats on here, we’ve had a few messages like that. I don’t know what they get out of it, surely if they’re not interested then why do they waste their own time to message insults. Your nipples look magnificent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and post full length mirror pics so people can see I’m fat. The full length black one is from 2 weekends ago so up to date. Face photos are a mix but I always suggest webcamming or sending a video unfiltered before a new meet so they can see exactly what I look like. I personally think I look better on photos

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By *aylorsFlameCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Mine are all a true representation of who I am.

Thick thighs, a mummy tummy and a size 14/16 depending where I shop. I don’t use filters on any of my pics wether that be body or face but I do take them from the best angle possible

I think your photos are great. As for the unkind comments....personally I think the posters who sent them to you should be kicked off...a bit extreme I know but there are thousands of people on here...someone for everyone. If you look at a profile and have those thoughts then simply move along ffs...absolutely no need to be so rude let alone the damage such a comment could do to someone’s self esteem. Flame xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my photos were taken in last month. Not filtered so true reflection of me

I've battled hard since January to lose medication/menopause weight. Was tough at 1 lb a week loss

You look fantastic, we are always our worst critic x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Any new photo has been took that day or the previous week so is totally me at that moment.

Photos don’t wobble so I have a few videos that occasionally come out that show the wobble and the hidden belly ridge.

We are who we are, just love yourselves

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I still would op. There's a lot more to people than their latest pic.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Mine are all a true representation of who I am.

Thick thighs, a mummy tummy and a size 14/16 depending where I shop. I don’t use filters on any of my pics wether that be body or face but I do take them from the best angle possible

You are a good soul and a beautiful person, those individuals don’t deserve your time as they are shallow twats abd I’m being polite

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

NONE of my pics are photoshopped or filtered.

I really don’t like it when people do this as all it makes me think they have something to hide.

My profile pic was taken last night. 100% me. Was just before a 3 hour cam season with my bf.

Peachy...... you don’t look like you have put on weight to me. Look as glamourpuss as always.

Plus you can say if I look like my pics or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not even human

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Mine are all a true representation of who I am.

Thick thighs, a mummy tummy and a size 14/16 depending where I shop. I don’t use filters on any of my pics wether that be body or face but I do take them from the best angle possible

What the actual fuck???

You are the sweetest kindest beautiful person. There are so many nasty fuckers on here.

Ignore and delete.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve deffo put on some Covid pounds!!!! But in a mission to work them off.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of old pics in my friends list, but that's just because I thought they were good pics, and liked what I was wearing. Only time I use a filter, is when I go black & white, not sure that's the same though.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"Mine are all a true representation of who I am.

Thick thighs, a mummy tummy and a size 14/16 depending where I shop. I don’t use filters on any of my pics wether that be body or face but I do take them from the best angle possible

What the actual fuck???

You are the sweetest kindest beautiful person. There are so many nasty fuckers on here.

Ignore and delete.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Mine are me on the date I uploaded them, maybe the day before. Flattering angles, tensed muscles, bloopers deleted, but I don't do any fancy effects.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I will never get my tummy out but all my pics are recent and 100% me.

You look fabulous in all your pics OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally pick ones that I feel good about and obviously flattering angles but I make sure there’s also one or two up to date ones especially after lockdown to show my slightly curvier curves

They’re going to see them eventually anyway

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Mine are a mix of a years timeline that I keep on friends folder, public purely depends on what forum game or mood I am In, to what I show.

Apart from my standard star wars pants pic the public ones are current funny parts of me, because I'm not hunting at the mo x

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"How honest are you?"

I try to be. Within the constraints of black and white and maybe a choice of camera angles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello my lovelies.

Most people who read the forums regularly or glance at profiles regularly will be aware that thanks to the bloody menopause I’ve gained a couple of stones.

Also - being honest has just got me informed I look at least 61 by a charming silhouette who messaged me!

And what makes you select the pics you use on your profile?

Huge hugs

Peachy

Mine are just a few weeks old ..no point in trying to be someone you're not...only fooling yourself

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

My profile is about four years old but I'm told I don't look any older and I'm crap at taking selfies! My friends only are from last year. I'm always happy to provide an up to date photo if requested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say im totally honest about everything I put in my profile from my write up to my pics..The pics are all recent.Ranging from today,to last week and a few weeks ago. I have one older pic on which is 3 months old..

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Only showing my face at the mo but those pics are very recent. I’ve put on a good stone and feel a bit crappy so won’t use older pics where I might have looked slimmer. Enough people have met me in person to know whether my pics are a fair reflection or not. So I’m happy for people to judge in person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My latest pics are recent and not altered in anyway. I try to pick the best angles but do have a couple that are warts and all. Though I don’t do the bra off and show my saggy boobs.

And I think you still look gorgeous peachy. X

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

I've never liked having my photo taken and still don't to this day so it feels awkward and shows too.

You're a beaut in real life!

Think ours are fairly accurate... good angles help, some black and white filters or artsy, but not deceptive.... no point polishing a turd!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% honest my pics are taken the day I upload them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can honestly say im totally honest about everything I put in my profile from my write up to my pics..The pics are all recent.Ranging from today,to last week and a few weeks ago. I have one older pic on which is 3 months old.."

Looking very sexy to Mrs

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We will always send recent face pics when we get chatting with someone, we like to think our pics are a true representation of us. If we ever come across a situation where someone likes or pics but don't like what they see when we meet then cool

no probs, that's there opinion and fair enough

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I have a mixture up, I have older ones up that I like. Also have some taken in the last few weeks. No filters or photoshop, just a border thrown on to hide background items sometimes and a watermark. They are me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pictures are clearly filtered and edited, but I think that's ok because I don't lie about it in my bio (in fact I'm outright and open about it) and I also post public videos which are unedited and very much show the real me and my body in full.

I'll also send several live pics and videos to any guy I'm considering meeting via Snapchat so he can see me again, to make his mind up.

If guys can't be bothered to read my bio, that's really not my problem.

If after all of that I'm still considered to be wrong for filtering my pics, then I still don't care, cos I do this for me

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

A combination, some of them I go with flattering angles, some are just me with everything hanging out lol.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"A combination, some of them I go with flattering angles, some are just me with everything hanging out lol. "

None are filtered though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello my lovelies.

Most people who read the forums regularly or glance at profiles regularly will be aware that thanks to the bloody menopause I’ve gained a couple of stones.

Also - being honest has just got me informed I look at least 61 by a charming silhouette who messaged me!

And what makes you select the pics you use on your profile?

Huge hugs

Peachy

I do try to use flattering angles and lighting, but I draw the line at Photoshop or filters. My pics show the real me, as evidenced by the quite obvious lockdown chub I'm sporting on the most recent ones!

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

I’ve never actually shown my body on here so because of this post peachy... I’ve updated my pics and most are unfiltered. I can’t visibly see if you have added a few more curves but you’re lovely how ever you are, inside and out x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hello my lovelies.

Most people who read the forums regularly or glance at profiles regularly will be aware that thanks to the bloody menopause I’ve gained a couple of stones.

Also - being honest has just got me informed I look at least 61 by a charming silhouette who messaged me!

And what makes you select the pics you use on your profile?

Huge hugs

Peachy

I'd still have a good grope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello my lovelies.

Most people who read the forums regularly or glance at profiles regularly will be aware that thanks to the bloody menopause I’ve gained a couple of stones.

Also - being honest has just got me informed I look at least 61 by a charming silhouette who messaged me!

And what makes you select the pics you use on your profile?

Huge hugs

Peachy

I'd still have a good grope! "

Result!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ever edit my body shape, I just know how to pose and light my photos well, and obviously I take them from a flattering angle. Basically I show my best side. But they're all recent and I upload new ones regularly.

I also have some totally raw, unposed, badly lit photos which are set to friends only, so people can see all sides of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello my lovelies.

Most people who read the forums regularly or glance at profiles regularly will be aware that thanks to the bloody menopause I’ve gained a couple of stones.

Also - being honest has just got me informed I look at least 61 by a charming silhouette who messaged me!

And what makes you select the pics you use on your profile?

Huge hugs

Peachy

What are you talking about. You are being way too harsh on yourself. You look gorgeous.

Out of interest, do people really photoshop their pics on here? For me, what you see is what you get. You'll get caught out eventually.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I did media studies, so am good at taking photos.

There is definitely a visible change between my first photo in 2018 and the last few 2-3 weeks ago... about 1 1/2 stone. I do tell people that I’ve put on some weight during lockdown... doesn’t seem to bother anyone really!

but I’d never mislead anyone with my photos. I’ve had that done to me and it’s not pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Out of interest, do people really photoshop their pics on here? For me, what you see is what you get. You'll get caught out eventually."

Yeah, you can usually tell when they have no visible pores or blemishes in their skin and all their door frames are curved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my profile what you see is what you get

No fuss, no drama and a moderate sized pecker

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

"On my profile what you see is what you get

No fuss, no drama and a moderate sized pecker"

Not heard the term pecker for a while! Thanks for the afternoon smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are recent and unfiltered, what you see is what you get.

I have lots of others taken over the years, but the dates are on them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my profile what you see is what you get

No fuss, no drama and a moderate sized pecker

Not heard the term pecker for a while! Thanks for the afternoon smile

You are welcome

I am just having a laugh, i agree it is a funny word lol

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By *ust Peachy OP Woman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I’ve never actually shown my body on here so because of this post peachy... I’ve updated my pics and most are unfiltered. I can’t visibly see if you have added a few more curves but you’re lovely how ever you are, inside and out x"

Aw thank you lovely - most kind!

I like your new pics - and I’m still plenty of others will too!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I take mine on a daily basis so that's how I look I used to worry but not any more if people dont like then so b it! And u look lovely ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm as honest as I need to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw thank you lovely - most kind!

I like your new pics - and I’m still plenty of others will too!

Tou have a great body peachy

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By *ust Peachy OP Woman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Hello my lovelies.

Most people who read the forums regularly or glance at profiles regularly will be aware that thanks to the bloody menopause I’ve gained a couple of stones.

Also - being honest has just got me informed I look at least 61 by a charming silhouette who messaged me!

And what makes you select the pics you use on your profile?

Huge hugs

Peachy

You’ve always struck me as the sort of person that people would meet for YOU - the all round person who comes across really well - rather than a particular physical attribute.

That’s what/who I try to be too - but I’m aware I don’t always succeed. Xxx

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

As a few others have said,

I take a picture there and then to upload.... but its also the best one out of 30 attempts... everyone wants to look their best surely??

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By *ust Peachy OP Woman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I take mine on a daily basis so that's how I look I used to worry but not any more if people dont like then so b it! And u look lovely ! X"

Thanks lovely. You’re clearly a confident woman who’s comfortable in her own skin - and that’s sexy in itself!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I like to give a fairly honest picture. I don't show my stomach because nobody deserves to stumble across that when they're just trying to see some tits

, but there are some full length photos that clearly show my size.

I'm here to meet (when covid allows), and I've never thought that crushing disappointment over being catfished is a great start to a social.

Yes the photos are mostly flattering angles/cropped (and one in my friends photos is ancient but was uploaded for a reason), but I think I'm recognizably the same person.

If I was going to get catfishy I wouldn't use the photos I've got up, I'd at least use pics of someone with a much more attractive figure

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"As a few others have said,

I take a picture there and then to upload.... but its also the best one out of 30 attempts... everyone wants to look their best surely??"

Exactly the same here, some edited to black and white but no editing of us x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Ours are all taken this calendar year. S is incapable of gaining weight, so his weight will be the same forever. He has maybe acquired a few more grey hairs recently

My pics show the reality, I just choose to avoid photographing my jiggly belly too much

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

What you see is what you get, my photos are as honest as they can be.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Ours are fairly accurate , we update them regularly. We’ve had a few surprises when meeting tbh but none of that matters much , a bit of insecurity is forgivable - if the person has a nice spiritual they are good for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...

Out of interest, do people really photoshop their pics on here? For me, what you see is what you get. You'll get caught out eventually. "

Yes I do. At least I admit it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pictures are very honest.

Iv never photoshoped or used a filter.

The only thing iv ever done is crop or blur.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I tend to use a good angle photos of myself and update them as much as I can as I believe it has to be pleasing the eye but also not far from the reality! I used few old ones when there is a day of the week photo challenge in forums but I deleted them the next day. So far no one told me that I look better in my profile or not like pics in my profile which shows I’m on the right path.

Everyone has flaws even the ones look perfect so don’t think putting worse of yourself is going to be an advantage before locking any possible meets.

You look beautiful btw, if anyone says otherwise , ignore and go to next

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We don't photoshop. We've converted some to B&W and use cropping, usually to get rid of some crud in the background! I have used some "vintage" type filters, if it worked for the image for forum challenge pictures (which have labels on). There's also one Easter pic where I put silly pics on my nipples, but that was for fun, not to obscure what they look like (there are nipple pics on there too).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just google hot guy and posted that as my profile pic. The real me is a white cartoon dog that speaks and goes on adventures with a really clever baby but no one would ever believe that so I'm forced to lie.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"On my profile what you see is what you get

No fuss, no drama and a moderate sized pecker"

I would say that's a fair sized pecker!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oldest one is April this yr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very good at taking pictures but all my pics are definitely a reflection of how I look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To photoshop:

verb (used with object), Pho·to·shopped, Pho·to·shop·ping.

(often lowercase) to digitally alter (a photograph or other graphic) using image-editing software such as Photoshop.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

We keep ours extremely honest. Don't really see the point in posting untrue images of ourselves if we want to meet people. I'd hate to get all the way to a meet then that person not be attracted to me.

Honesty is something we value a lot so if someone were to mislead us with their photos we wouldn't be happy at all.

It's actually happened to us in the past and it was disappointing and unnecessarily awkward.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

lying bastard

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