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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I am pretty vanilla

What does being sexually filthy mean to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm that's PM kind of talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can still be vanilla and filthy, kinky doesn’t Necessarily mean filthy.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think you can still be vanilla and filthy, kinky doesn’t Necessarily mean filthy."

Nope. I will only get fisted with the lights off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious about trying new things, beyond softcore sex; experimental and not holding back. Also confident sexually and enjoying the more animalistic, primal experience? I guess.. just rambling

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I think you can still be vanilla and filthy, kinky doesn’t Necessarily mean filthy."

I see where you are coming from

I think filthy is more hair pulling, spanky, name calling etc and I would class them as kinks

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

If means whatever you want it to mean between 2 consenting adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am pretty vanilla

What does being sexually filthy mean to you?"

It means you’ve met Estella.

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Curious about trying new things, beyond softcore sex; experimental and not holding back. Also confident sexually and enjoying the more animalistic, primal experience? I guess.. just rambling "

Interesting thoughts rose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For my self would class none vanilla as likes off threesomes

Gangbangs

Meeting 3-4 guys in the one day like one in the morning one in the after noon then a threesome to top the night off

Rough sex spanking and such

Bdsm

Watersports

Xxx

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"If means whatever you want it to mean between 2 consenting adults "

I suppose people would have different takes on it, I wouldn't class wax play for instance as filth but another would x

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I am pretty vanilla

What does being sexually filthy mean to you?

It means you’ve met Estella."

Ive not had the pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I detest the word filthy when describing anything sexual as the word suggests its dirty or wrong.

I know others use it to describe themselves and thats absolutely fine but I have when I get messages like "hi filthy girl"

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"For my self would class none vanilla as likes off threesomes

Gangbangs

Meeting 3-4 guys in the one day like one in the morning one in the after noon then a threesome to top the night off

Rough sex spanking and such

Bdsm

Watersports

Xxx "

Yes I would agree with all that x

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I don't want a description. I like it to unfold as we go along. The pleasure is in the doing

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I detest the word filthy when describing anything sexual as the word suggests its dirty or wrong.

I know others use it to describe themselves and thats absolutely fine but I have when I get messages like "hi filthy girl""

Hi Lorna x

I can see how you wouldn't like it.

Its the naughty word thats fun though, forbidden fruit and all that jazz x

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I don't want a description. I like it to unfold as we go along. The pleasure is in the doing "

Thats fine though, its an a topic I find interesting and I'm literal so descriptions help

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

I see there being an overlap between kinky & filthy...and I like a definition of kink I heard the other day: something you find taboo. So things that feel a bit wrong, dangerous, dirty, risky...and everyone has a different take on what that is.

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"I see there being an overlap between kinky & filthy...and I like a definition of kink I heard the other day: something you find taboo. So things that feel a bit wrong, dangerous, dirty, risky...and everyone has a different take on what that is. "

Thats a good definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am pretty vanilla

What does being sexually filthy mean to you?

It means you’ve met Estella.

Ive not had the pleasure "

She’s pure filth.

Smiles like an angel but behind that smile is the sexual deviancy of levels unimaginable to mere perverts like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see there being an overlap between kinky & filthy...and I like a definition of kink I heard the other day: something you find taboo. So things that feel a bit wrong, dangerous, dirty, risky...and everyone has a different take on what that is. "

So then that would make me a walking kink then ha ha lol

Because most married men want to hook up

Whare that’s completely wrong to step out on his wife

It’s dangerous if his wife finds out

And the sex would be dirty

And it’s definitely a risk for him

Lol just a light harted joke xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For my self would class none vanilla as likes off threesomes

Gangbangs

Meeting 3-4 guys in the one day like one in the morning one in the after noon then a threesome to top the night off

Rough sex spanking and such

Bdsm

Watersports

Xxx

Yes I would agree with all that x"

That’s the way I see it lol xxx

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

To some guys being filthy means you enjoy sucking a cock or you get on top and fuck him for a change, maybe be so filthy/dirty you stick a finger up his arsehole, I suppose it depends what your own sex life is like, to some of us that’s just a good Friday night I recon being filth/dirty really equates to be a sexually liberated female who knows what she likes and isn’t afraid to show it

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I know the topic is about filth, and I will get there however I wanted to cover kink and fetish first as they are often used interchangeably and can lead people to assume they either are or are not “filthy”!

A fetish is a psychological need for a specific object or act required for sexual gratification. This could be things such as leather, shoes, rubber, spanking.

Kink on the other hand is a broader term that includes a wide variety of sexual interests such as bondage, domination/submission, sadism, masochism and all the things they encompass, that differ from what “people” would consider “normal”.

Sniffing dirty underwear is likely a fetish for some, kink for others, but some would consider it filthy if you were sniffing a pair while fucking.

Wearing leather trousers, vests, jackets again could be a fetish for some, kink for others but people would be less likely to say its filthy if they found out you fucked while wearing. Leather.

If you did the same in rubber, some would consider you filthy.

If you can only achieve climax while being fisted, you could be considered filthy.

And so it goes on. If you like wearing women’s underwear, you like being tied up, you like dogging, you like anal, you like being spanked, you live for CNC... all can be considered filthy by some but normal to those that engage in it.

So for me when it comes to being filthy, you may as well say anything that isnt missionary position while wearing full PJs or ankle length night gowns on a Sunday night after bath time is filthy!

Filthy isn't a thing you do or even a state of mind. Its a label others can use to describe how they view what you do, in most cases to try and put you down.

Not trying to be preachy, but I find the fixation and attachment to labels in life can be detrimental to our own health and wellbeing. They can lead to inappropriate ideals, competitiveness and feelings of inadequacy.

Forget about what others think and just enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To some guys being filthy means you enjoy sucking a cock or you get on top and fuck him for a change, maybe be so filthy/dirty you stick a finger up his arsehole, I suppose it depends what your own sex life is like, to some of us that’s just a good Friday night I recon being filth/dirty really equates to be a sexually liberated female who knows what she likes and isn’t afraid to show it "

You had me at 'some guys'

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Usually when you take it up the bum

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"If means whatever you want it to mean between 2 consenting adults "

I think PP got it spot on. It depends on your views/outlook as to what an individual considers vanilla and not. A mate mine things getting a BJ is pretty special, because his wife won't do it. To us, that's a standard part of sex and teasing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually when you take it up the bum "

Who's bum.....?

(sang that like Michael Jackson....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not washing my hands after a wank.

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