FabSwingers.com forum: Lonliness

By *az080378 OP Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

Anyone else struggling with lonliness,not due to lockdown but just that general feeling.

I'm thinking it's time to settle down,I'm not feeling strong enough to carry on alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i feel that way also xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me. I like my own company and as well. I am keeping myself busy with lots of things too such as weight training, yoga and walking to name few things that I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past felt lonely but not so much now.

But if I do I generally just go somewhere where there are other people.

Wander around the shops, cafe/pub for people watching. It can take your mind off things.

If you ever feel like just chatting then you can PM me.

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

I have moments like this too.

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else struggling with lonliness,not due to lockdown but just that general feeling.

I'm thinking it's time to settle down,I'm not feeling strong enough to carry on alone.

When you're feeling like that it's probably not the best time to look for someone to share things with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much at the moment. But I’m one of those people who can feel lonely in a room full of people.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I need a bit of both I need my solitude as long as I have that back up of friends, family or a significant other. I don’t feel I have that back up currently, so I know how you feel

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I'm extremely lonley, being a single parent is hard, no friends because why would the si gle mom's want to hang around with a man at their coffee mornings, I have no friends as I have almost no spare time and no family....just me and the offsprings

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Busy working during the week, but weekends can be a bit tough.

Have to keep the mind active and occupied.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

"Busy working during the week, but weekends can be a bit tough.

Have to keep the mind active and occupied."

And all these bloody lock down restrictions have escalated emotions a little

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

In general no as I'm aways out and about at clubs or socials or hanging out with friends. I did feel a bit isolated when I couldn't do that during lockdown but things are relaxing now so I'm feeling much better.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I'm extremely lonley, being a single parent is hard, no friends because why would the si gle mom's want to hang around with a man at their coffee mornings, I have no friends as I have almost no spare time and no family....just me and the offsprings"

I’m a single dad (admittedly a weekend one) but joined Gingerbread in my area. The ladies love it when a Dad turns up, even one who’s part time currently. Check them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness"

Sorry to hear that, I can't imagine what that feels like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather find a partner from a place of strength, where I am happy in my company alone, and having them is an addition to my life, rather than to stave off loneliness.

If you are lonely, get a pet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness"

You have us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lockdown has had a positive effect on my own mental health. I am at peace with my own solitude for the first time in my life! Have enjoyed being a hermit.

I do feel for others though who struggle without company

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By *az080378 OP Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

"I would rather find a partner from a place of strength, where I am happy in my company alone, and having them is an addition to my life, rather than to stave off loneliness.

If you are lonely, get a pet!"

You are right,it's probably a rubbish idea, unfortunately I never find myself in a place of strength, it will just me me and my dogs for a while!

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

Don't mind a bit of loneliness every now and then but I am longing for a bit fun, laughter and affection

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By *az080378 OP Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness"

It's great that you chat on the forums, those phobias are so hard to live with,I hope you are in receipt of help with them and can move forward in the future

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"I would rather find a partner from a place of strength, where I am happy in my company alone, and having them is an addition to my life, rather than to stave off loneliness.

If you are lonely, get a pet!"

I was thinking that. If you find someone when you’re feeling lonely do you know if you really want them or they’re just an alternative to the loneliness?

I’m very lucky to never really feel lonely due to have close family and friends I can always call upon, but I also enjoy my own company. A lovey bath with a good book can soon get rid of any loneliness!

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I’m a single dad (admittedly a weekend one) but joined Gingerbread in my area. The ladies love it when a Dad turns up, even one who’s part time currently. Check them out

Been there tried that too, I just can't sit for hours chatting about clothes n holidays lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ebbing back and forth atm. Was fine all week but this afternoon I've hit a low again.

Im going to have to find something to keep me occupied as I'm currently spending a fortune on shopping and eating for comfort (which of course never works)

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness

You have us!

Indeed I do, Coming on the fab forums is the only human interaction I get, some kind of normality. Its a great place to find humor, WTF? moments, things to make you think, and supportive people with similar issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else struggling with lonliness,not due to lockdown but just that general feeling.

I'm thinking it's time to settle down,I'm not feeling strong enough to carry on alone.

Sending you love, horrible that you feel like that

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Once and a while I do.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I've basically always been on my own (single mother) so I'm hugely independent which doesn't bither me.

I would love someone just to share life and experiences with, dinnerc cinema, holidays abroad, someone else to choose netflix etc

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I love being alone. I can do what i want, when i want and with who i want which is fantastic. I am always busy so never get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes feel very lonely even when I’m surrounded by the people I love most in the world.

It happens. In the grand scheme of things we are all alone in our own mind. The trick is to find peace in this place and enjoy your own company. Big cuddles to you OP! X

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness

It's great that you chat on the forums, those phobias are so hard to live with,I hope you are in receipt of help with them and can move forward in the future "

To be blunt the NHS Mental health support is inadequate, I imagine its even more overstretched since COVID, the only help I get is my own version of therapy by coming on the fab forums.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness

It's great that you chat on the forums, those phobias are so hard to live with,I hope you are in receipt of help with them and can move forward in the future

To be blunt the NHS Mental health support is inadequate, I imagine its even more overstretched since COVID, the only help I get is my own version of therapy by coming on the fab forums."

Plenty of mistreated dogs out there looking for a loving home and companion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness

It's great that you chat on the forums, those phobias are so hard to live with,I hope you are in receipt of help with them and can move forward in the future

To be blunt the NHS Mental health support is inadequate, I imagine its even more overstretched since COVID, the only help I get is my own version of therapy by coming on the fab forums.

Plenty of mistreated dogs out there looking for a loving home and companion. "

That’s actually fantastic advice. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else struggling with lonliness,not due to lockdown but just that general feeling.

I'm thinking it's time to settle down,I'm not feeling strong enough to carry on alone.

Perhaps it’s just a little “rut” you find yourself in? Make a change and see how you feel?...the degree of change is up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else struggling with lonliness,not due to lockdown but just that general feeling.

I'm thinking it's time to settle down,I'm not feeling strong enough to carry on alone.

Sending hugs. And remember the grass isn't always greener x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else struggling with lonliness,not due to lockdown but just that general feeling.

I'm thinking it's time to settle down,I'm not feeling strong enough to carry on alone.

I’m sorry you’re feeling like this. This pandemic has hit us all in so many different ways and at different times. Loneliness is a horrible, horrible feeling. If you think the time is right for you to find a partner then put yourself out there by joining events, clubs and meetings and just see how it goes. The Meet up app is pretty good. Sending hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes i feel that way also xx"

I’d not enjoy being completely alone I would need a companion of sorts to help me through this world I’d for sharing and caring

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness

It's great that you chat on the forums, those phobias are so hard to live with,I hope you are in receipt of help with them and can move forward in the future

To be blunt the NHS Mental health support is inadequate, I imagine its even more overstretched since COVID, the only help I get is my own version of therapy by coming on the fab forums.

Plenty of mistreated dogs out there looking for a loving home and companion. "

I don't really like dogs, or any other pets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that loneliness and depression are serious problems for this days. Relations between ppl not so strong especially in the families.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for years ..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness

It's great that you chat on the forums, those phobias are so hard to live with,I hope you are in receipt of help with them and can move forward in the future

To be blunt the NHS Mental health support is inadequate, I imagine its even more overstretched since COVID, the only help I get is my own version of therapy by coming on the fab forums.

Plenty of mistreated dogs out there looking for a loving home and companion.

I don't really like dogs, or any other pets"

Shame. Think i prefer them to men

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

All my life i always been alone , i got woust to that and i learned to like my own company , sometimes when i strougle there's no one ... no one ever have been present

Sometimes that it hurts more than the dificult times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness

It's great that you chat on the forums, those phobias are so hard to live with,I hope you are in receipt of help with them and can move forward in the future

To be blunt the NHS Mental health support is inadequate, I imagine its even more overstretched since COVID, the only help I get is my own version of therapy by coming on the fab forums.

Plenty of mistreated dogs out there looking for a loving home and companion.

I don't really like dogs, or any other pets"

Get a carniverous plant then.

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"Due to agoraphobia & sociophobia i've been stuck in my flat alone for 18 months, no family or friends to talk to, I'm kinda used to loneliness

It's great that you chat on the forums, those phobias are so hard to live with,I hope you are in receipt of help with them and can move forward in the future

To be blunt the NHS Mental health support is inadequate, I imagine its even more overstretched since COVID, the only help I get is my own version of therapy by coming on the fab forums.

Plenty of mistreated dogs out there looking for a loving home and companion.

I don't really like dogs, or any other pets

Shame. Think i prefer them to men

I don't want a man either haha

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