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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

How protective are you over your real name?

I feel really odd when people I know well call me Saff.. even though I’ve been Saff for many years.

At socials I always use my real name, which is Lucy.

Feels more me..

So who else is happy to share?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely to meet you Lucy

My name is Michelle, everyone calls me Shelley

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Our user name is ours

Lou & Ray

And we're lovers

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Even at socials I’m called spurs or shortie even though introduce myself with my first name. Only two people know my full real name

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Paul is my real name, yeah i lacked imagination with my username

Lucy is a great name! One of my fav movies is Lucy

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Lovely to meet you Lucy

My name is Michelle, everyone calls me Shelley "

Ah it was actually you that got me thinking about this the other day with Estellas ether thread I loved that you signed off Shelley. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy to Cher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not overly protective of mine, but my partner is and so I don’t share mine until I start to speak to people.

But given I get called K in real life by some of my friends it’s not too much of a departure from my actual identity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends know a version of my real name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do tell people my real name at socials and when we are chatting but they still call me Lorna.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do tell people my real name at socials and when we are chatting but they still call me Lorna. "

Guilty

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I do tell people my real name at socials and when we are chatting but they still call me Lorna. "

I’m usually too d*unk and excited to remember any facts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do tell people my real name at socials and when we are chatting but they still call me Lorna.

Guilty "

It was mainly you I was thinking of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do tell people my real name at socials and when we are chatting but they still call me Lorna.

Guilty

It was mainly you I was thinking of. "

I am a creature of habit

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I do tell people my real name at socials and when we are chatting but they still call me Lorna.

Guilty "

and me oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do tell people my real name at socials and when we are chatting but they still call me Lorna.

Guilty

and me oops "

I actually prefer Lorna.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"How protective are you over your real name?

I feel really odd when people I know well call me Saff.. even though I’ve been Saff for many years.

At socials I always use my real name, which is Lucy.

Feels more me..

So who else is happy to share?

"

Lucy suits you!

Everyone calls me DC in fab land, even at socials I only tend to disclose on 1:2:1 meetings but rarely my full name

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Even at socials I’m called spurs or shortie even though introduce myself with my first name. Only two people know my full real name "

You suit shortie so well

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Paul is my real name, yeah i lacked imagination with my username

Lucy is a great name! One of my fav movies is Lucy "

Ah thanks ha ha keeps it simple though!!!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I do tell people my real name at socials and when we are chatting but they still call me Lorna.

Guilty

and me oops

I actually prefer Lorna. "

Yeah

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live


"Paul is my real name, yeah i lacked imagination with my username

Lucy is a great name! One of my fav movies is Lucy "

Let me guess.. you live in Hull and were born in 1973? Lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Even at socials I’m called spurs or shortie even though introduce myself with my first name. Only two people know my full real name

You suit shortie so well "

Tis better than what else you call me

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

My user name, Lorraine, is my name. When I joined I tried to come with something different but decided to just use my name, why not.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

My real name is Eric,but Stephan is my middle name

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I don't give out my real name willy nilly. It's too unusual and uncommon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lu is always called Lu.

J is Jeff.

We aren't precious about it.

Can't see the point in using pseudonyms. If you end up meeting, generally they come out anyway.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I do tell people my real name at socials and when we are chatting but they still call me Lorna.

Guilty

and me oops "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do tell people my real name at socials and when we are chatting but they still call me Lorna.

Guilty

and me oops

Snap "

Thanks for coming forward ladies. At least now she can think of other people than me

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I think I’ll always be known as Cookie but there are some who know my real name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stick to Ivy, its how most know me and unless you are a friend in the "real world" I see no need to share my real name.

Ivy is fun at parties too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it begins with P. Paul is my real name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My username is taff (original for a welsh man I know )...but will always share my first name as an introduction.

Not sure if anyone shares their surname....I guess there’s dangers of people stalking you on all the social media platforms then Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im Kimberly..

But at socials loads would still call me 'cute' or 'sass'..

Though at 32.. not sure how much longer i can run with this username for

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

When introducing a newby lady friend to the club scene I had to pull her up over introducing herself by her real name as she's quite distinctive and has a large online presence professionally.

However after the initial slip up she was very happy to be introduced by her 'nickname' at subsequent social and play meets.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"How protective are you over your real name?

I feel really odd when people I know well call me Saff.. even though I’ve been Saff for many years.

At socials I always use my real name, which is Lucy.

Feels more me..

So who else is happy to share?

Lucy suits you!

Everyone calls me DC in fab land, even at socials I only tend to disclose on 1:2:1 meetings but rarely my full name "

Thanks DC you suit the title like someone from James Bond I’m happy using people’s names or nicknames. But so many times I’ve just thought about changing my username to my actual name.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Luke and Hannah are our pseudonyms. We don't tell Fabbers our real names until we have met. That's particularly important for Hannah as her real name is very unusual and is quite an easy identifier on the Book of Face.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Evening all. I'm Mick.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I think I’ll always be known as Cookie but there are some who know my real name "

Paddington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Luke and Hannah are our pseudonyms. We don't tell Fabbers our real names until we have met. That's particularly important for Hannah as her real name is very unusual and is quite an easy identifier on the Book of Face. "

Same reason for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh, yeah I'm pretty protective of my name. Begins with a N but it's not the most common one that begins with a N.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m Andrew life’s complicated enough without made up names

Plus nothing to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't give out my real name willy nilly. It's too unusual and uncommon "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will give my name out after a social, of we decide to meet again. I was introduced at a club social by real name, as it was on my ID to register. I didn’t mind too much, as there were only a few people there and they’ve likely forgotten by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im Kimberly..

But at socials loads would still call me 'cute' or 'sass'..

Though at 32.. not sure how much longer i can run with this username for "

She knows my name

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Ahhh, yeah I'm pretty protective of my name. Begins with a N but it's not the most common one that begins with a N."

Snap! I wonder if we have the same N name

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Those I chat to regularly get to know my real first name - those I have met one to one also get my surname for their own security as much as anything

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Those that I meet know my real name. As you know Saff

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Those I chat to regularly get to know my real first name - those I have met one to one also get my surname for their own security as much as anything "

This made me laugh.. I sent a particularly lovely person my passport photo in case I put him under my Patio.. he’s still here

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I shorten my name to Cal, because my full name is very unusual... in fact if I google my full name (first & last name) it only finds me.

Cal

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Those that I meet know my real name. As you know Saff "

Sounds better with the accent Barry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I shorten my name to Cal, because my full name is very unusual... in fact if I google my full name (first & last name) it only finds me.

Cal"

Callie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jim is my real name.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I shorten my name to Cal, because my full name is very unusual... in fact if I google my full name (first & last name) it only finds me.

Cal"

Same for my first name + last name. I'm confident that I'm the only me in the whole wide world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not massively protective over mine and I definitely want people in real life to call me by my real name...but I do still wish my real name was Lana.

You so suit Lucy!!

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don’t let people know my real name, cause it’s different and easy to look me up

I normally just use Carmel or Chelsea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im Kimberly..

But at socials loads would still call me 'cute' or 'sass'..

Though at 32.. not sure how much longer i can run with this username for

She knows my name "

Sure do beautiful xx ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh, yeah I'm pretty protective of my name. Begins with a N but it's not the most common one that begins with a N.

Snap! I wonder if we have the same N name "

I was about to start guessing, that would have got boring quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im Kimberly..

But at socials loads would still call me 'cute' or 'sass'..

Though at 32.. not sure how much longer i can run with this username for

She knows my name

Sure do beautiful xx ?? "

That's delicate information you're entrusted with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a few people know my real name. I always introduce myself as lola in the club and here on fab, and that's what I like to go by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one needs to know my real name.. Not marrying them...

So I stick with ginny as I like gin

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Ahhh, yeah I'm pretty protective of my name. Begins with a N but it's not the most common one that begins with a N.

Snap! I wonder if we have the same N name

I was about to start guessing, that would have got boring quickly "

I'm pretty confident you won't guess mine, but I wouldn't say yay or nay anyway, so...... Depends how bored you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh, yeah I'm pretty protective of my name. Begins with a N but it's not the most common one that begins with a N.

Snap! I wonder if we have the same N name

I was about to start guessing, that would have got boring quickly

I'm pretty confident you won't guess mine, but I wouldn't say yay or nay anyway, so...... Depends how bored you are "

Too bored

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

My real name is shit, a bit like my username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I’m really not. Had to put my career on hold (which restricted face pics and name).

Just wish I could change my user name back to Hatter from what it is now, but not paying for premium just for that and see not much point in having it right now. Ho hum.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"My real name is shit, a bit like my username "

Ha ha but you have beautiful blue eyes and you’re a beautiful soul

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Those that I meet know my real name. As you know Saff

Sounds better with the accent Barry "

Aye - yer not wrong!

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"Paul is my real name, yeah i lacked imagination with my username

Lucy is a great name! One of my fav movies is Lucy

Let me guess.. you live in Hull and were born in 1973? Lol"

Good guess haha

seemed like a good idea at the time, it makes convos 3 questions shorter, not sure if thats a good or bad thing

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

Been on here a long time and people call me Zen at socials, I even had a tattoo to remind me of my time on here lol

Not many people know my real name

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"My real name is shit, a bit like my username

Ha ha but you have beautiful blue eyes and you’re a beautiful soul "

Nawwww stop it you

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I'm not massively protective over mine and I definitely want people in real life to call me by my real name...but I do still wish my real name was Lana.

You so suit Lucy!! "

Ah thanks x

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

Hi Lucy, i’m Adrian. But only get called that by parents. Much prefer Ady. Its nice to able to say it , rather than Drambuie.

Its not like i have to hide my fablife from family..last year at grandads funeral my sister tried to score points. Sat there humming “ jungle book” She announced to everyone “ Ady’s a swinger, he goes to swingers clubs “... OUTED !!!.. so i admitted it. Parents laughed and said “ fair play son”. A few aunties looked like id just pissed on their sandwiches, but tough shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My real name is shit, a bit like my username "

Its not shit.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"My real name is shit, a bit like my username

Its not shit. "

thanks flower

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Mine is jacky x

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border


"Mine is jacky x"

Hi Jacky

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Mine is jacky x

Hi Jacky "

Hiya x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name is Melissa....my friends call me Mel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Mick in life and fab, didn't see any point in a fake one

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If I meet people in person or plan to do so I tell them my real name.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm not protective at all: I'm Sarah, and it says so right on my profile.

Even if I gave you my surname too you'd struggle to do anything with it, it's such a common one round here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not protective of mine, I just don't like it.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"I'm not protective of mine, I just don't like it. "

Why whats wrong with Candace?

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

No-one here knows my name as no-one talks to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No-one here knows my name as no-one talks to me. "

It’s Aitch isn’t it ..., from manny ?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've told quite a few people my real name, but I'm not sure if anyone remembers it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've told quite a few people my real name, but I'm not sure if anyone remembers it. Lol"

I do! It's my exes name though which is a bit

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I've told quite a few people my real name, but I'm not sure if anyone remembers it. Lol

I do! It's my exes name though which is a bit "

Oh.

At least you remember it though - that's something.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We give our real names on socials unless it’s blatantly obvious the other couple aren’t then we make up a funny name and keep a straight face. When we meet Asian couples we are sometimes Bambi and Phileen.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"I've told quite a few people my real name, but I'm not sure if anyone remembers it. Lol

I do! It's my exes name though which is a bit "

Your smile reminds me of Sian Gibson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my real name George on and off user name has links to other things but never explained so tracing is difficult lol

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

My real name, the name i go by at work, the name at home with friends and family are variations of the same as here

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Hi Lucy....we’ve met and it’s still Pete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've told quite a few people my real name, but I'm not sure if anyone remembers it. Lol

I do! It's my exes name though which is a bit

Your smile reminds me of Sian Gibson.

Had to google her but I'll take that! Thanks!

"

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