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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford

few things on this site lately making my blood boil. for a period I was having a nice, enjoyable time. But of late I don't know. Did the idiot express stop in town?!

so what angers you? what is 'bad form' on here? or am I just taking things to heart and allowing myself to fall foul?

here's the things

1) women moan about men adding them as friends but not staying in contact, only wanting to see their private pics etc. but women are the worst for this! I could name and shame a number of repeat offenders

2)whats with all the looking but not talking? if you have the pleasure of rubbing one out or whacking one off several times to my pics then at least say thanks or fab them!

3) arranging meets then mysteriously vanishing lol I had a meet arranged today. its been arranged for 2 weeks. I sent a text to ask what time she'd like to meet, no answer. (we'd always had between 11-4 agreed) messaged and got some flimsy excuse about me perhaps not liking her looks (i've seen pics) then got told she can't do before 4pm. now she's blocked me from her profile.

I don't understand people here. i think my frustration is born from that, I work in consultancy, I'm paid to read people like an open book yet here there's so many agendas at work for what is in essence asite to hook up for sex.

and that's point 4. whats with all this just want to be friends nonsense? I keep seeing all these profiles saying 'not looking to meet anymore' etc I get the social aspect of the site, thats cool. But i messaged a girl the other day and again a whole volley of excuses of why she's not meeting at the moment blah blah. I think admin should bin all verifications if they're not within 6 months.

so sorry thats my saturday morning, meet cancelled rant. just feel like the quality and sincerity of people on this site has dropped off a cliff in recent weeks!

enjoy the weekend all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What really makes my blood boil is people who take things on here to heart......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear x you sound so pissed off x must agree that the idiot express is in town x

I got told to come to his last night x at 2 am lol

He couldn't come to me as he'd had a drink x and couldn't drive x so I just bluffed that if he paid for a taxi I'd come x then he said if he thought I wasn't being sarcastic he'd pay for the cab lol

And why don't the filters for age work properly x gonna look at your pics now cos profile one looks good x

Xxx

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"What really makes my blood boil is people who take things on here to heart......

"

haha. very good. that cheered me up. that and the cathartic act of reporting the time waster to admin!

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"Oh dear x you sound so pissed off x must agree that the idiot express is in town x

I got told to come to his last night x at 2 am lol

He couldn't come to me as he'd had a drink x and couldn't drive x so I just bluffed that if he paid for a taxi I'd come x then he said if he thought I wasn't being sarcastic he'd pay for the cab lol

And why don't the filters for age work properly x gonna look at your pics now cos profile one looks good x

Xxx "

that sucks! I'm not pissed off though. as a good parent would say... I'm just disappointed! long week at work, made some time for a bit of fun on my only time off and it turns out i got the time waster haha. In the words of Erasure all I'm asking is for 'a little respect'! let me know your thoughts on the pics. I'm always trying to improve my profile. x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Tbh if people dont wish to meet for a while then thats fine, some do take a break for a while for various reasons..

dont let it get to you, it is yes a site for meeting other like minded folk for sex ...

there are some realy genuine people on here but its the 'net' and it will like other sites (even pay sites) attract a lot of dreamers etc..

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile is cool x your quite specific in what your after so it must be quite rare to find people who fit your bill x

Lovely pics ..... Happy swinging x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not meeting at the moment due to personal reasons only known to myself. but why the hell should i not come on here to chat to friends

(sorry its not in the terms and conditions that you have to meet)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Petulant spoilt brats that throw tantrums if things don't go their way, as they're soooo gorgeous how can people not want to meet them.

Married men that send me messages along the lines it's NSA, I accommodate...so what's the problem in meeting them?

The sense of entitlement demonstrated by some people on here.

Those that think their way is the only way.

To be fair these are just minor annoyances...I have a life!

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"Profile is cool x your quite specific in what your after so it must be quite rare to find people who fit your bill x

Lovely pics ..... Happy swinging x "

is it honestly specific? my aim was to convey what i really like. As in im not afraid to crossdress, be taken by a woman, be dominant etc. I use toys and I love kink so I don't want a woman turning up who's afraid of a few dildos or a pussy pump.

do you think I should change it though? I do like vanilla sex but my whole reason for being here. without blowing my own trumpet is I'm good looking (IMHO)decent job, lifestyle etc but im plain out right kinky and you don't get a chance to play that way with a girl you meet that night in a club. thought i might find it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Petulant spoilt brats that throw tantrums if things don't go their way, as they're soooo gorgeous how can people not want to meet them.

Married men that send me messages along the lines it's NSA, I accommodate...so what's the problem in meeting them?

The sense of entitlement demonstrated by some people on here.

Those that think their way is the only way.

To be fair these are just minor annoyances...I have a life! "

agreed

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"Petulant spoilt brats that throw tantrums if things don't go their way, as they're soooo gorgeous how can people not want to meet them.

Married men that send me messages along the lines it's NSA, I accommodate...so what's the problem in meeting them?

The sense of entitlement demonstrated by some people on here.

Those that think their way is the only way.

To be fair these are just minor annoyances...I have a life! "
haha you've seen them all and more by the sounds of it! I don't mind the playing away thing. Luckily I'm not a marriage counsellor, I'd never get paid!

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"im not meeting at the moment due to personal reasons only known to myself. but why the hell should i not come on here to chat to friends

(sorry its not in the terms and conditions that you have to meet)"

hey that's cool. if you've met before, verified etc and decided to stay for te good times then its fine by me. recently though I've noticed folk on here, signed up for 3+months, no veri's then their profile says "not meeting at the mo" I'm like, did you ever meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"few things on this site lately making my blood boil. for a period I was having a nice, enjoyable time. But of late I don't know. Did the idiot express stop in town?!

so what angers you? what is 'bad form' on here? or am I just taking things to heart and allowing myself to fall foul?

here's the things

1) women moan about men adding them as friends but not staying in contact, only wanting to see their private pics etc. but women are the worst for this! I could name and shame a number of repeat offenders

2)whats with all the looking but not talking? if you have the pleasure of rubbing one out or whacking one off several times to my pics then at least say thanks or fab them!

3) arranging meets then mysteriously vanishing lol I had a meet arranged today. its been arranged for 2 weeks. I sent a text to ask what time she'd like to meet, no answer. (we'd always had between 11-4 agreed) messaged and got some flimsy excuse about me perhaps not liking her looks (i've seen pics) then got told she can't do before 4pm. now she's blocked me from her profile.

I don't understand people here. i think my frustration is born from that, I work in consultancy, I'm paid to read people like an open book yet here there's so many agendas at work for what is in essence asite to hook up for sex.

and that's point 4. whats with all this just want to be friends nonsense? I keep seeing all these profiles saying 'not looking to meet anymore' etc I get the social aspect of the site, thats cool. But i messaged a girl the other day and again a whole volley of excuses of why she's not meeting at the moment blah blah. I think admin should bin all verifications if they're not within 6 months.

so sorry thats my saturday morning, meet cancelled rant. just feel like the quality and sincerity of people on this site has dropped off a cliff in recent weeks!

enjoy the weekend all "
agree with you totally.... we got a party this evneing and had a guy we have chatted to for ages, he been ranting on about how hes looking forward to it, and yet suddenly stops answering our text....... only to find out hes not coming, which isnt a prob, but gets my goat when ppl are so down right rude and dont bother to tell you they have cancelled......... gutless we think....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not meeting at the moment due to personal reasons only known to myself. but why the hell should i not come on here to chat to friends

(sorry its not in the terms and conditions that you have to meet)

hey that's cool. if you've met before, verified etc and decided to stay for te good times then its fine by me. recently though I've noticed folk on here, signed up for 3+months, no veri's then their profile says "not meeting at the mo" I'm like, did you ever meet? "

some people will never meet due to being scared or nervous or happy being a voguer (sp)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are entitled to change their minds about meeting someone though.

Some men are a bit pushy and i say i will meet them.

Then i think, oh why did i say i would meet him, because i dont realy want to.

Or when you have been let down you think the other person will do the same, so you dont take them that seriously because you think they wont come either.

Maybe it was something you said that made her think that she wouldnt be attractive enough for you?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Profile is cool x your quite specific in what your after so it must be quite rare to find people who fit your bill x

Lovely pics ..... Happy swinging x

is it honestly specific? my aim was to convey what i really like. As in im not afraid to crossdress, be taken by a woman, be dominant etc. I use toys and I love kink so I don't want a woman turning up who's afraid of a few dildos or a pussy pump.

do you think I should change it though? I do like vanilla sex but my whole reason for being here. without blowing my own trumpet is I'm good looking (IMHO)decent job, lifestyle etc but im plain out right kinky and you don't get a chance to play that way with a girl you meet that night in a club. thought i might find it here."

My profile is also specific as I can find "vanilla" sex anywhere. This site has been wonderful for that.

I avoid people with generic profiles: I like men who know what they like and aren't afraid to state it...more enjoyable all around I'd imagine.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"agree with you totally.... we got a party this evneing and had a guy we have chatted to for ages, he been ranting on about how hes looking forward to it, and yet suddenly stops answering our text....... only to find out hes not coming, which isnt a prob, but gets my goat when ppl are so down right rude and dont bother to tell you they have cancelled......... gutless we think....!!! "

sadly there are always some who will do this, he will have been knocking one out on the fantasy of the party but probably thats as far as some will go...

any gathering we arrange we always factor in 'drop outs' for any old reason even with regulars who we know as it happens..

with those you hav'nt met may be an idea to go for a 100% ratio more than you initially planned..

hope the party goes well..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

There there, come to evesham.......

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"People are entitled to change their minds about meeting someone though.

Some men are a bit pushy and i say i will meet them.

Then i think, oh why did i say i would meet him, because i dont realy want to.

Or when you have been let down you think the other person will do the same, so you dont take them that seriously because you think they wont come either.

Maybe it was something you said that made her think that she wouldnt be attractive enough for you?"

i kind of see you point. but honesty honesty honesty. it goes back to respect, the two are intrinsically linked. if you change your mind just say. if after I send you a face pic and you think i look like turd, say. I'm 30, divorced, work in sales and consultancy. I've had every disappointment under the sun so when anyone is just out right honest with me i actually like them more!

as for saying something which could offend how does wow you're stunning, can't wait for our meet, im free between 11 and 4pm sound? too pushy, bit creepy. ha I'm just losing my edge.

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"agree with you totally.... we got a party this evneing and had a guy we have chatted to for ages, he been ranting on about how hes looking forward to it, and yet suddenly stops answering our text....... only to find out hes not coming, which isnt a prob, but gets my goat when ppl are so down right rude and dont bother to tell you they have cancelled......... gutless we think....!!! "

hope he's also blocked and reported?! if this was a video game I would've rage quit long ago. It's lucky I have patience. (and a lot of lube and porn haha)

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"

My profile is also specific as I can find "vanilla" sex anywhere. This site has been wonderful for that.

I avoid people with generic profiles: I like men who know what they like and aren't afraid to state it...more enjoyable all around I'd imagine."
tell me about it little miss fussy! sorry mistress.

in 14.5 years I'm so revisiting your profile and making a trip to serve you! actually that just gave me a disgusting image of geriatric 'love making'

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I have a serious point to make though. If I get a message from a guy who mentions kink from the outset I can sometimes get spooked. Especially if he is out of my league good looking.

I enjoy kink, have a number of the things listed on your profile lol but in my experience some of the guys set on kinky fuckery are only after their own pleasure. Many times I have met one and been left wanting as they scoot out of the door

Not for one second saying that's what you are like but its what runs through my mind.

Now, back to you visiting evesham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wait till the school holidays.

There's a sex drought on during them as lots of parents can't get to meets.

And then there are all those horny students whacking one out in the parents back bedroom signing up for the summer.

Madness I tell ya!

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"There there, come to evesham......."

you have a strap on and its what i consider close. so why not?!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"There there, come to evesham.......

you have a strap on and its what i consider close. so why not?!"

woo hoo

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"I have a serious point to make though. If I get a message from a guy who mentions kink from the outset I can sometimes get spooked. Especially if he is out of my league good looking.

I enjoy kink, have a number of the things listed on your profile lol but in my experience some of the guys set on kinky fuckery are only after their own pleasure. Many times I have met one and been left wanting as they scoot out of the door

Not for one second saying that's what you are like but its what runs through my mind.

Now, back to you visiting evesham "
i like this response as it opens to one of my other bugbears. "fancy" or league. yes you need some attraction agreed. but many here are shallow and it's all looks or body size/definition. to me I'm good looking, I'm blonde though so instantly im ruled out by about 75% of females. I'm not rugby, im more road runner. boom there goes another 10-15%. But ya know what I think I'm witty, I'm intelligent, I'm kinky and fun. On a social or with my mates I'm the first out, the first to dance the last home. Attraction to me is these things, are you here for a good time or to pose. the best sex always comes from the least inhibited people who are beyond looks and status.

and when it comes to meets. I give. I play quite dominant (my pics will prove that) but I will never cum before a girl has had at least two. and if I do. well you don't get to go home!! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My profile is also specific as I can find "vanilla" sex anywhere. This site has been wonderful for that.

I avoid people with generic profiles: I like men who know what they like and aren't afraid to state it...more enjoyable all around I'd imagine. tell me about it little miss fussy! sorry mistress.

in 14.5 years I'm so revisiting your profile and making a trip to serve you! actually that just gave me a disgusting image of geriatric 'love making' "

What the??? Maybe your "let down lady" saw how charming you really are

Good on her, not meeting you wasn't a bad choice

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"Just wait till the school holidays.

There's a sex drought on during them as lots of parents can't get to meets.

And then there are all those horny students whacking one out in the parents back bedroom signing up for the summer.

Madness I tell ya! "

firstly. you are one seriously attractive woman. wit woo! ha

secondly me thinks you have a university age son who makes a musty smell at the back of your house every june-september?

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"

My profile is also specific as I can find "vanilla" sex anywhere. This site has been wonderful for that.

I avoid people with generic profiles: I like men who know what they like and aren't afraid to state it...more enjoyable all around I'd imagine. tell me about it little miss fussy! sorry mistress.

in 14.5 years I'm so revisiting your profile and making a trip to serve you! actually that just gave me a disgusting image of geriatric 'love making'

What the??? Maybe your "let down lady" saw how charming you really are

Good on her, not meeting you wasn't a bad choice "
excuse me? make some sense at least?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

see now, as a larger lady on here i accept that the majority (not all before i get lynched) of the 100's of toed fit gym bunnies that ask me for sex are lowering their standards cos they are horny lol they wouldnt tke me out for a drink or meet me socially.

i dont care, i like sex so if they are lucky i'll let them into my world of pleasure

i a, just realistic ad mindful of the fact that if we were out in the same club i wouldnt get a look in unless they were on a pull a pig bet.....i'd probably still give in but expect a share of the winnngs

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"see now, as a larger lady on here i accept that the majority (not all before i get lynched) of the 100's of toed fit gym bunnies that ask me for sex are lowering their standards cos they are horny lol they wouldnt tke me out for a drink or meet me socially.

i dont care, i like sex so if they are lucky i'll let them into my world of pleasure

i a, just realistic ad mindful of the fact that if we were out in the same club i wouldnt get a look in unless they were on a pull a pig bet.....i'd probably still give in but expect a share of the winnngs "

As a larger lady you should celebrate your femininity! I agree in the whole the male mind is conditioned to like 'model looks' etc. the female mind is conditioned to think tall, dark, handsome is the norm. I blame saatchi & saatchi! but actually if you look at my veri's most are larger ladies. I also meet them frequently and stay in touch on facebook proudly as friends.

we're not all the same true but I do enjoy curvy and larger ladies. I don't go to the gym to attract slim girls, i do it as part of my burgeoning mid life crisis

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"see now, as a larger lady on here i accept that the majority (not all before i get lynched) of the 100's of toed fit gym bunnies that ask me for sex are lowering their standards cos they are horny lol they wouldnt tke me out for a drink or meet me socially.

i dont care, i like sex so if they are lucky i'll let them into my world of pleasure

i a, just realistic ad mindful of the fact that if we were out in the same club i wouldnt get a look in unless they were on a pull a pig bet.....i'd probably still give in but expect a share of the winnngs

As a larger lady you should celebrate your femininity! I agree in the whole the male mind is conditioned to like 'model looks' etc. the female mind is conditioned to think tall, dark, handsome is the norm. I blame saatchi & saatchi! but actually if you look at my veri's most are larger ladies. I also meet them frequently and stay in touch on facebook proudly as friends.

we're not all the same true but I do enjoy curvy and larger ladies. I don't go to the gym to attract slim girls, i do it as part of my burgeoning mid life crisis"

well the drop me a message big boy lol

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"

My profile is also specific as I can find "vanilla" sex anywhere. This site has been wonderful for that.

I avoid people with generic profiles: I like men who know what they like and aren't afraid to state it...more enjoyable all around I'd imagine. tell me about it little miss fussy! sorry mistress.

in 14.5 years I'm so revisiting your profile and making a trip to serve you! actually that just gave me a disgusting image of geriatric 'love making'

What the??? Maybe your "let down lady" saw how charming you really are

Good on her, not meeting you wasn't a bad choice "

seeing as you're trigger happy fingers CBA to reply I'll explain. IT WAS A JOKE you see if you like at OP's profile she says her interests are men 45+ now if you bother taking the time to look at mine I'm 30. but actually im closer to 31. so I was saying I'll revisit in 14.5 years. as a bbw black mistress is my most favourite of kind of mistress! i was then referencing that it made me think of what I'd then be like when having sex at 45 with someone who is older than myself, it made me imagine a couple of geriatrics.

sorry you didn't get this or it offended you. but i can't see why you felt the need AND YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE OF ALL POSTERS!!!! who felt the need to be outwardly rude and critical.

in the world of the internet you are known as a troll. go back under your bridge please.

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"see now, as a larger lady on here i accept that the majority (not all before i get lynched) of the 100's of toed fit gym bunnies that ask me for sex are lowering their standards cos they are horny lol they wouldnt tke me out for a drink or meet me socially.

i dont care, i like sex so if they are lucky i'll let them into my world of pleasure

i a, just realistic ad mindful of the fact that if we were out in the same club i wouldnt get a look in unless they were on a pull a pig bet.....i'd probably still give in but expect a share of the winnngs

As a larger lady you should celebrate your femininity! I agree in the whole the male mind is conditioned to like 'model looks' etc. the female mind is conditioned to think tall, dark, handsome is the norm. I blame saatchi & saatchi! but actually if you look at my veri's most are larger ladies. I also meet them frequently and stay in touch on facebook proudly as friends.

we're not all the same true but I do enjoy curvy and larger ladies. I don't go to the gym to attract slim girls, i do it as part of my burgeoning mid life crisis

well the drop me a message big boy lol"
maybe you should check your messages. i mean jeez!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"

My profile is also specific as I can find "vanilla" sex anywhere. This site has been wonderful for that.

I avoid people with generic profiles: I like men who know what they like and aren't afraid to state it...more enjoyable all around I'd imagine. tell me about it little miss fussy! sorry mistress.

in 14.5 years I'm so revisiting your profile and making a trip to serve you! actually that just gave me a disgusting image of geriatric 'love making'

What the??? Maybe your "let down lady" saw how charming you really are

Good on her, not meeting you wasn't a bad choice

seeing as you're trigger happy fingers CBA to reply I'll explain. IT WAS A JOKE you see if you like at OP's profile she says her interests are men 45+ now if you bother taking the time to look at mine I'm 30. but actually im closer to 31. so I was saying I'll revisit in 14.5 years. as a bbw black mistress is my most favourite of kind of mistress! i was then referencing that it made me think of what I'd then be like when having sex at 45 with someone who is older than myself, it made me imagine a couple of geriatrics.

sorry you didn't get this or it offended you. but i can't see why you felt the need AND YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE OF ALL POSTERS!!!! who felt the need to be outwardly rude and critical.

in the world of the internet you are known as a troll. go back under your bridge please."

Whilst I got what you meant and didn't take any offense, I have to say, I find some of your responses aggressive, confrontational and a tad petulant.

Lighten up, you're not coming across as a nice fun person on a public forum. One has to wonder what your personal approach might be like.

Just saying.

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"

My profile is also specific as I can find "vanilla" sex anywhere. This site has been wonderful for that.

I avoid people with generic profiles: I like men who know what they like and aren't afraid to state it...more enjoyable all around I'd imagine. tell me about it little miss fussy! sorry mistress.

in 14.5 years I'm so revisiting your profile and making a trip to serve you! actually that just gave me a disgusting image of geriatric 'love making'

What the??? Maybe your "let down lady" saw how charming you really are

Good on her, not meeting you wasn't a bad choice

seeing as you're trigger happy fingers CBA to reply I'll explain. IT WAS A JOKE you see if you like at OP's profile she says her interests are men 45+ now if you bother taking the time to look at mine I'm 30. but actually im closer to 31. so I was saying I'll revisit in 14.5 years. as a bbw black mistress is my most favourite of kind of mistress! i was then referencing that it made me think of what I'd then be like when having sex at 45 with someone who is older than myself, it made me imagine a couple of geriatrics.

sorry you didn't get this or it offended you. but i can't see why you felt the need AND YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE OF ALL POSTERS!!!! who felt the need to be outwardly rude and critical.

in the world of the internet you are known as a troll. go back under your bridge please.

Whilst I got what you meant and didn't take any offense, I have to say, I find some of your responses aggressive, confrontational and a tad petulant.

Lighten up, you're not coming across as a nice fun person on a public forum. One has to wonder what your personal approach might be like.

Just saying."
to the poster before i was intentionaly rude because they were. without reason. none of my other posts are aggressive or petulant. confrontational yes perhaps. but it's a forum. i like debate, I'm intelligent, I enjoy politics and current affairs, the human condition and pyschology so I like to probe it. if it offends then sorry but people don't have to watch or read or comment. apologies if offence has been taken!

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

@evesham gal ooo you are so lucky !go for it [mrs asexy}enjoyed reading this thread,and the op hasnt come across as rude at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications aren't some sort of licence to fuck. They are an indication that the person being verified is who they say they are and/or is reliable. It doesn't make it open season and anyone who's had a shag in the last 48 hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My profile is also specific as I can find "vanilla" sex anywhere. This site has been wonderful for that.

I avoid people with generic profiles: I like men who know what they like and aren't afraid to state it...more enjoyable all around I'd imagine. tell me about it little miss fussy! sorry mistress.

in 14.5 years I'm so revisiting your profile and making a trip to serve you! actually that just gave me a disgusting image of geriatric 'love making'

What the??? Maybe your "let down lady" saw how charming you really are

Good on her, not meeting you wasn't a bad choice

seeing as you're trigger happy fingers CBA to reply I'll explain. IT WAS A JOKE you see if you like at OP's profile she says her interests are men 45+ now if you bother taking the time to look at mine I'm 30. but actually im closer to 31. so I was saying I'll revisit in 14.5 years. as a bbw black mistress is my most favourite of kind of mistress! i was then referencing that it made me think of what I'd then be like when having sex at 45 with someone who is older than myself, it made me imagine a couple of geriatrics.

sorry you didn't get this or it offended you. but i can't see why you felt the need AND YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE OF ALL POSTERS!!!! who felt the need to be outwardly rude and critical.

in the world of the internet you are known as a troll. go back under your bridge please.

Whilst I got what you meant and didn't take any offense, I have to say, I find some of your responses aggressive, confrontational and a tad petulant.

Lighten up, you're not coming across as a nice fun person on a public forum. One has to wonder what your personal approach might be like.

Just saying.to the poster before i was intentionaly rude because they were. without reason. none of my other posts are aggressive or petulant. confrontational yes perhaps. but it's a forum. i like debate, I'm intelligent, I enjoy politics and current affairs, the human condition and pyschology so I like to probe it. if it offends then sorry but people don't have to watch or read or comment. apologies if offence has been taken!"

For the record OP ...I'm not a TROLL. I didn't rise to calling you anything offensive ...I don't stoop low enough.

I was thinking about the site users that use this site that you may have offended. Yes, there are site users above the age you chose to feel bilious thinking about.... older site users may not be posting, but they might be reading your disgust at 'geriatric sex'.

Don't make me out to be something I'm not. I find your comments rude, offensive and uncalled for

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"@evesham gal ooo you are so lucky !go for it [mrs asexy}enjoyed reading this thread,and the op hasnt come across as rude at all"

thank you very much! i thought i hadn't either. i stir controversy. without it the world would be a very communist place! but i think I've tried to return comment in a straight no messing style to each poster as i treat a forum like a conversation. I wouldn't walk off after someone has said something.

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"

Whilst I got what you meant and didn't take any offense, I have to say, I find some of your responses aggressive, confrontational and a tad petulant.

Lighten up, you're not coming across as a nice fun person on a public forum. One has to wonder what your personal approach might be like.

Just saying.to the poster before i was intentionaly rude because they were. without reason. none of my other posts are aggressive or petulant. confrontational yes perhaps. but it's a forum. i like debate, I'm intelligent, I enjoy politics and current affairs, the human condition and pyschology so I like to probe it. if it offends then sorry but people don't have to watch or read or comment. apologies if offence has been taken!

For the record OP ...I'm not a TROLL. I didn't rise to calling you anything offensive ...I don't stoop low enough.

I was thinking about the site users that use this site that you may have offended. Yes, there are site users above the age you chose to feel bilious thinking about.... older site users may not be posting, but they might be reading your disgust at 'geriatric sex'.

Don't make me out to be something I'm not. I find your comments rude, offensive and uncalled for "
then i must apologise as i misunderstood your comment for general trolling which seems to be fairly commonplace.

for the benefit of any silver surfers out there. i apologise. my joke was not meant to cause offence. i meant that my own arse is not great now. i gave myself an image of my own arse in 15 years time and it'd look even worse. in essence my own ugly arse bouncing away in my mind had turned my stomach! as the phrase goes though, we're all entitled to bump uglies.

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

I actually like your style ! Happy swinging ! I find clubs work best for me ,met loads of great people

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

I like your style . Happy swinging! I've found clubs work best for me . I've met lots of great people there

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"I like your style . Happy swinging! I've found clubs work best for me . I've met lots of great people there "
glad you do, i find honesty the best way always. thanks for the tip. I tend not to go for clubs as I'm not big on the whole mass group thing. prefer it more intimate. by the way, the missus' nipples... like those red liquorice you get. awesome!

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

Thank you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always a bit sceptical about people who go on about 'Timeasters' be it in here, in chat or at socials in conversation.

I have been knocking around swinging (off and on) for nearly 10 years and never been let down or had my time wasted. Met the couple from hell once but at least they showed up and been to parties that weren't my cuppa tea but that isn't 'Timewasting'. Now I don't think I am exceptional (but I am sure someone will get personal) its just I take my time arranging a meet and 90% are started in a chatroom so I have a fair idea what people are like to natter with before a meet is suggested (and not always by me). Someone changing their mind is NOT timewasting. Its their choice.

I do find it out of order when people like the OP try and force THEIR image of swinging on to others without understanding their circumstances. We are all different and I say 'vive la differences'. If someone is on here to just socialise thats fine by me. If someone hasn't got any (or has old) verifications that is fine by me. How people live their lives is fine by me.

Its my choice whether I wish to get involved and theirs if they choose for me not to. Simples and very OK by me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Just leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who moan and groan about lack of luck on FAB for whatever reason(s).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who moan and groan about lack of luck on FAB for whatever reason(s).

"

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"I am always a bit sceptical about people who go on about 'Timeasters' be it in here, in chat or at socials in conversation.

I have been knocking around swinging (off and on) for nearly 10 years and never been let down or had my time wasted. Met the couple from hell once but at least they showed up and been to parties that weren't my cuppa tea but that isn't 'Timewasting'. Now I don't think I am exceptional (but I am sure someone will get personal) its just I take my time arranging a meet and 90% are started in a chatroom so I have a fair idea what people are like to natter with before a meet is suggested (and not always by me). Someone changing their mind is NOT timewasting. Its their choice.

I do find it out of order when people like the OP try and force THEIR image of swinging on to others without understanding their circumstances. We are all different and I say 'vive la differences'. If someone is on here to just socialise thats fine by me. If someone hasn't got any (or has old) verifications that is fine by me. How people live their lives is fine by me.

Its my choice whether I wish to get involved and theirs if they choose for me not to. Simples and very OK by me."

im not forcing anything. just venting a few frustrations which are my opinions and asking for others thoughts and frustrations on a subject. you have been lucky. but I don't like the club scene and I rarely bother with the chat rooms, for some reason this site doesn't register my cam so I can't cam chat here

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

just leave

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"People who moan and groan about lack of luck on FAB for whatever reason(s).

"

oh not a lack of luck at all. had some nice meets, chatted to some lovely people on here. just upset I seem to fall foul of people who have no intention of following through on what they say they intend to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear x you sound so pissed off x must agree that the idiot express is in town x

I got told to come to his last night x at 2 am lol

He couldn't come to me as he'd had a drink x and couldn't drive x so I just bluffed that if he paid for a taxi I'd come x then he said if he thought I wasn't being sarcastic he'd pay for the cab lol

And why don't the filters for age work properly x gonna look at your pics now cos profile one looks good x

Xxx "

The age filters only work for people you have not exchanged messages with before, so if someone sent you a message 2 yrs ago, they can still send you a message as it doesn't block them, bloody annoying

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Nothing annoys me enough about swinging to make my blood boil.....if it did I would quit without looking back

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Do a Jane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Q, What makes my blood boil ?

A, Well that’d be blatant plagiarism attempting to make the poster look like smart arse. (When in reality it makes them look like a total tawt)

Ya know sumit like….!.

“At the heart of the issue is a phenomenon called Boiling Point Elevation. The boiling point of water is elevated when solutes are dissolved in the water. The boiling point also depends on the atmospheric pressure, but for the this question, I'm going to assume that we are at one atmosphere of pressure so that the boiling point of water is 100 degrees centigrade.

Some people put salt in water when they make pasta, believing that the dissolved salt raises the boiling point of the water, and that the water is actually hotter than 100 degrees centigrade when the pasta is added. I say that they believe this because I'm doubt people add enough salt to result in a significant elevation in the boiling point. For water, the boiling point is elevated by 0.513 degrees centigrade for each mole of dissolved solute-ions per kilogram of solution. A mole of salt (NaCl) is 58.44 grams, and since one mole of NaCl disassociates into two moles of ions (Na+ ions and Cl- ions), 58.44 grams of salt (or 2 ounces) would be required to raise the boiling point of one liter (kilogram) of water (at one atmosphere of pressure) to 101.026 degrees. That would be some pretty salty water.

There is a related phenomenon known as Freezing Point Depression, in which the freezing point of water is lowered by 1.86 degress centigrade for each mole of solute-ions per kilogram of solution. We exploit the phenomenon of Freezing Point Depression by using salt to melt snow and ice on roads in the winter and to make ice-cream.

Now, how does this relate to your question about the boiling point of blood? Well blood is basically a water solution. The dissolved solutes are more complex than a simple NaCl solution, but the principle of boiling point elevation (and freezing point depression) should still apply. The salt (NaCl) concentration of blood is 0.9%. This is approximately 0.154 moles of NaCl per kilogram (liter), or 0.308 moles of dissolved solute per liter. This should result in a boiling point elevation of a whopping 0.158 degrees centigrade.

Now, there are other molecules dissolved in blood besides Na+ and Cl- ions, so the boiling point may be slightly different, but I think that you can see that it isn't going to be noticeably higher than 100 degrees (at one atmosphere of pressure).

So the answer to your question is basically, at the same temperature that water does. I hope that isn't too disappointing. If you want more information on Boiling Point Elevation or Freezing Point Depression, you should be able to find it in any college-level chemistry text book”.

Fook-me ya didn't really read through that load of utter bollix .... did-ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

im not forcing anything. just venting a few frustrations which are my opinions and asking for others thoughts and frustrations on a subject. you have been lucky. but I don't like the club scene and I rarely bother with the chat rooms, for some reason this site doesn't register my cam so I can't cam chat here "

Well I think you are:


" ..I don't understand people here. i think my frustration is born from that, I work in consultancy, I'm paid to read people like an open book yet here there's so many agendas at work for what is in essence asite to hook up for sex.

and that's point 4. whats with all this just want to be friends nonsense? I keep seeing all these profiles saying 'not looking to meet anymore' etc I get the social aspect of the site, thats cool. But i messaged a girl the other day and again a whole volley of excuses of why she's not meeting at the moment blah blah. I think admin should bin all verifications if they're not within 6 months. "

Its not a site just 'to hook up for sex' and maybe you might want to readjust your views on that. And 'so many agendas' as you put it are just the various ways people actually 'Swing'.

Oh and I am very lucky. But in this arena we make our own luck and we have to respect others who may not actually find us very attractive.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Q, What makes my blood boil ?

A, Well that’d be blatant plagiarism attempting to make the poster look like smart arse. (When in reality it makes them look like a total tawt)

Ya know sumit like….!.

“At the heart of the issue is a phenomenon called Boiling Point Elevation. The boiling point of water is elevated when solutes are dissolved in the water. The boiling point also depends on the atmospheric pressure, but for the this question, I'm going to assume that we are at one atmosphere of pressure so that the boiling point of water is 100 degrees centigrade.

Some people put salt in water when they make pasta, believing that the dissolved salt raises the boiling point of the water, and that the water is actually hotter than 100 degrees centigrade when the pasta is added. I say that they believe this because I'm doubt people add enough salt to result in a significant elevation in the boiling point. For water, the boiling point is elevated by 0.513 degrees centigrade for each mole of dissolved solute-ions per kilogram of solution. A mole of salt (NaCl) is 58.44 grams, and since one mole of NaCl disassociates into two moles of ions (Na+ ions and Cl- ions), 58.44 grams of salt (or 2 ounces) would be required to raise the boiling point of one liter (kilogram) of water (at one atmosphere of pressure) to 101.026 degrees. That would be some pretty salty water.

There is a related phenomenon known as Freezing Point Depression, in which the freezing point of water is lowered by 1.86 degress centigrade for each mole of solute-ions per kilogram of solution. We exploit the phenomenon of Freezing Point Depression by using salt to melt snow and ice on roads in the winter and to make ice-cream.

Now, how does this relate to your question about the boiling point of blood? Well blood is basically a water solution. The dissolved solutes are more complex than a simple NaCl solution, but the principle of boiling point elevation (and freezing point depression) should still apply. The salt (NaCl) concentration of blood is 0.9%. This is approximately 0.154 moles of NaCl per kilogram (liter), or 0.308 moles of dissolved solute per liter. This should result in a boiling point elevation of a whopping 0.158 degrees centigrade.

Now, there are other molecules dissolved in blood besides Na+ and Cl- ions, so the boiling point may be slightly different, but I think that you can see that it isn't going to be noticeably higher than 100 degrees (at one atmosphere of pressure).

So the answer to your question is basically, at the same temperature that water does. I hope that isn't too disappointing. If you want more information on Boiling Point Elevation or Freezing Point Depression, you should be able to find it in any college-level chemistry text book”.

Fook-me ya didn't really read through that load of utter bollix .... did-ya! "

you dirty bitch! You make me so horrrrrrrrrrrnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those that think their way is the only way. "

Yeah, good call!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you dirty bitch! You make me so horrrrrrrrrrrnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!"

Sheeeeeez Gwanny,,,,,,,would I be wrong thinking you've just cut and paste that straight from your inbox, ........

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"

enjoy the weekend all agree with you totally.... we got a party this evneing and had a guy we have chatted to for ages, he been ranting on about how hes looking forward to it, and yet suddenly stops answering our text....... only to find out hes not coming, which isnt a prob, but gets my goat when ppl are so down right rude and dont bother to tell you they have cancelled......... gutless we think....!!! "

Well it kinda works both ways - you were exchanging messages with me and said you wanted to meet but then stopped answering my messages

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"Q, What makes my blood boil ?

A, Well that’d be blatant plagiarism attempting to make the poster look like smart arse. (When in reality it makes them look like a total tawt)

Ya know sumit like….!.

“At the heart of the issue is a phenomenon called Boiling Point Elevation. The boiling point of water is elevated when solutes are dissolved in the water. The boiling point also depends on the atmospheric pressure, but for the this question, I'm going to assume that we are at one atmosphere of pressure so that the boiling point of water is 100 degrees centigrade.

Some people put salt in water when they make pasta, believing that the dissolved salt raises the boiling point of the water, and that the water is actually hotter than 100 degrees centigrade when the pasta is added. I say that they believe this because I'm doubt people add enough salt to result in a significant elevation in the boiling point. For water, the boiling point is elevated by 0.513 degrees centigrade for each mole of dissolved solute-ions per kilogram of solution. A mole of salt (NaCl) is 58.44 grams, and since one mole of NaCl disassociates into two moles of ions (Na+ ions and Cl- ions), 58.44 grams of salt (or 2 ounces) would be required to raise the boiling point of one liter (kilogram) of water (at one atmosphere of pressure) to 101.026 degrees. That would be some pretty salty water.

There is a related phenomenon known as Freezing Point Depression, in which the freezing point of water is lowered by 1.86 degress centigrade for each mole of solute-ions per kilogram of solution. We exploit the phenomenon of Freezing Point Depression by using salt to melt snow and ice on roads in the winter and to make ice-cream.

Now, how does this relate to your question about the boiling point of blood? Well blood is basically a water solution. The dissolved solutes are more complex than a simple NaCl solution, but the principle of boiling point elevation (and freezing point depression) should still apply. The salt (NaCl) concentration of blood is 0.9%. This is approximately 0.154 moles of NaCl per kilogram (liter), or 0.308 moles of dissolved solute per liter. This should result in a boiling point elevation of a whopping 0.158 degrees centigrade.

Now, there are other molecules dissolved in blood besides Na+ and Cl- ions, so the boiling point may be slightly different, but I think that you can see that it isn't going to be noticeably higher than 100 degrees (at one atmosphere of pressure).

So the answer to your question is basically, at the same temperature that water does. I hope that isn't too disappointing. If you want more information on Boiling Point Elevation or Freezing Point Depression, you should be able to find it in any college-level chemistry text book”.

Fook-me ya didn't really read through that load of utter bollix .... did-ya! "
sure did! erm thanks for the comment. it was nice

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"Do a Jane."
an attempt at humour or just trying to get a rise?

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"

im not forcing anything. just venting a few frustrations which are my opinions and asking for others thoughts and frustrations on a subject. you have been lucky. but I don't like the club scene and I rarely bother with the chat rooms, for some reason this site doesn't register my cam so I can't cam chat here

Well I think you are:

..I don't understand people here. i think my frustration is born from that, I work in consultancy, I'm paid to read people like an open book yet here there's so many agendas at work for what is in essence asite to hook up for sex.

and that's point 4. whats with all this just want to be friends nonsense? I keep seeing all these profiles saying 'not looking to meet anymore' etc I get the social aspect of the site, thats cool. But i messaged a girl the other day and again a whole volley of excuses of why she's not meeting at the moment blah blah. I think admin should bin all verifications if they're not within 6 months.

Its not a site just 'to hook up for sex' and maybe you might want to readjust your views on that. And 'so many agendas' as you put it are just the various ways people actually 'Swing'.

Oh and I am very lucky. But in this arena we make our own luck and we have to respect others who may not actually find us very attractive."
i know that. im aware it's quite the lifestyle for many couples, but that side of it isn't my thing. that's why i put my reasons for being here on my profile. in real relationships ive been hurt and let down but i still want sex and not the vanilla kind. it seemed to make sense to look for those seeking NSA but I don't want notches as some say just a few friends who like to play that way.

the whole point of the post was why do people go to great lengths to fabricate a false meet?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

So basically,you had a meet today that cancelled so you decided to have a rant about all the wrongs in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive just had a read through all of this and......................

all i can say is....

sharooooooooon im so confused x but it might just be my age x lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To follow the title of the thread. I hate and about ignorant arseholes that push in at checkouts. They make my blood boil. Just saying like.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So basically,you had a meet today that cancelled so you decided to have a rant about all the wrongs in the world"

Pretty much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...the whole point of the post was why do people go to great lengths to fabricate a false meet? "

You of course know this to be absolutely true. Without doubt? You seem to totally fail to comprehend that maybe she just realised you weren't someone she wanted to meet. Or she changed her mind. Or maybe you came across as too pushy just before the meet and put her off ..or any one of a dozen other reasons she didn't meet you.

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

Give the guy a break for heavens sake !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving the whole Thread a break ..

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"So basically,you had a meet today that cancelled so you decided to have a rant about all the wrongs in the world"
Yeah but not just today, several recently and some who just add but never talk. All sorts really

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"To follow the title of the thread. I hate and about ignorant arseholes that push in at checkouts. They make my blood boil. Just saying like."
Hahhaha yes. So yes! For me queuing of any kind!

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"So basically,you had a meet today that cancelled so you decided to have a rant about all the wrongs in the world

Pretty much! "
Thanks mistress! Yep indeed!

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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"...the whole point of the post was why do people go to great lengths to fabricate a false meet?

You of course know this to be absolutely true. Without doubt? You seem to totally fail to comprehend that maybe she just realised you weren't someone she wanted to meet. Or she changed her mind. Or maybe you came across as too pushy just before the meet and put her off ..or any one of a dozen other reasons she didn't meet you.

"
Well here's how it happened... She asked to meet me. An u nsolicited message from her to me. I added her as a friend - total chance to see everything I like. We mutually agreed on Saturday and upfront I told her i was only available between 11-4. She said it was cool and she wanted afternoon fun so would text me what time to come. I hadn't heard anything so asked. She never replied so I asked on here. She then said she didn't think she was my type (this is after friending me and chatting and knowing what I like) I said that's crazy and I was excited to be given the chance. She then said ok but what about Sunday. I said I'd made plans for Sunday as we'd previously agreed on a Saturday meet. She wouldnt reply so I changed my plans and said ok when Sunday? She didn't answer then blocked me!!! The. She appeared on the meet now list with a message saying 'fed up of time wasters come meet me now in my hotel' and it was posted 10 minutes after we'd messages!! So no I wasn't pushy! I stuck to what was agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you should pay for the type of sex you are looking for! That way you won't get so frustrated! No man or women has the the right to be annoyed with other members on this site. Because nobody owes anything thing to anyone!! If you get lucky "great" but if you don't, don't get upset about it.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"...the whole point of the post was why do people go to great lengths to fabricate a false meet?

You of course know this to be absolutely true. Without doubt? You seem to totally fail to comprehend that maybe she just realised you weren't someone she wanted to meet. Or she changed her mind. Or maybe you came across as too pushy just before the meet and put her off ..or any one of a dozen other reasons she didn't meet you.

Well here's how it happened... She asked to meet me. An u nsolicited message from her to me. I added her as a friend - total chance to see everything I like. We mutually agreed on Saturday and upfront I told her i was only available between 11-4. She said it was cool and she wanted afternoon fun so would text me what time to come. I hadn't heard anything so asked. She never replied so I asked on here. She then said she didn't think she was my type (this is after friending me and chatting and knowing what I like) I said that's crazy and I was excited to be given the chance. She then said ok but what about Sunday. I said I'd made plans for Sunday as we'd previously agreed on a Saturday meet. She wouldnt reply so I changed my plans and said ok when Sunday? She didn't answer then blocked me!!! The. She appeared on the meet now list with a message saying 'fed up of time wasters come meet me now in my hotel' and it was posted 10 minutes after we'd messages!! So no I wasn't pushy! I stuck to what was agreed"

We only have your (biased) side of the story.

I've chatted to men with a view to meet, everything has been going well and I've found out something about them that has put me off and they could have written the same post you've just written about me...if I hadn't told them why. I never shy away from telling them.

I'll give you a true example. I was contacted by a man who had a profile along the same lines as yours: everything that appealed to me. We got chatting to the point we exchanged email addresses and telephone numbers. His email address is like mine: his full name, which was unusual so I googled it to find its origin.

Well his name came up, along with his home telephone number, address, email...everything...on the BNP supporters list published by the Daily Mirror.

I could have written I don't think I'm his type, then blocked and he'd be feeling as peeved as you...if I didn't tell him what I'd found out and why I was severing ties.

You don't know what you've said, how you've come across etc that has put her off you.

You feel hard done by - boo hoo - forget her, park your ego and move on! You have a great profile, cracking body, concentrate on those who want to play with you, accept people can, and are allowed to change their mind and have fun!

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