FabSwingers.com forum: When someone fabs your pic

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does it seem needy to follow up with a thank you? Or do you really appreciate it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll do a thank you if it's completely out of the blue and fab some of their pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I always reply with a well written copy and paste message, partnered with a small selection of tasteful cock shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm it’s a tricky one, it’s the whole just because some “viewed” your profile, does that mean they want a message from you scenario?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol people don’t fab my pics. If they did then I’d hope they would message and or wink. After all break the ice. Only time to message for me is if they liked lots and no message I’d assume one of my filters prevents them. So if I like them emphasis shifts back to me.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Yes, I always reply with a well written copy and paste message, partnered with a small selection of tasteful cock shots

Is it wrong that I am totally testing that statement now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I always reply with a well written copy and paste message, partnered with a small selection of tasteful cock shots

Is it wrong that I am totally testing that statement now? "

Depends how badly you want those dick pics

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Lol people don’t fab my pics. If they did then I’d hope they would message and or wink. After all break the ice. Only time to message for me is if they liked lots and no message I’d assume one of my filters prevents them. So if I like them emphasis shifts back to me."

I fabbed your face pic because it’s a nice face pic. I wouldn’t be offended if you messaged but neither would I expect it.

For myself I’d only message someone to thank them for a fab if they lived close enough and I might possibly want them to fuck me until we’re both lying in an exhausted, grinning heap!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We never thank people for fabbing our photos. Compared to most we get very few fabs but still too many to contemplate thanking people individually

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Sorry I completely missed the point. It doesn't seem needy but we wouldn't expect it

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By *eeandsexymCouple
over a year ago

Between selby/york

Really appreciate, nice

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't think it's needy it opens up the line of communication doesn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pal .. dont expect them to de dripping just because they fabbed your pic ..

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Yes, I always reply with a well written copy and paste message, partnered with a small selection of tasteful cock shots

Is it wrong that I am totally testing that statement now?

Depends how badly you want those dick pics

Not at all - but I just fabbed some of your pics because you’re a nice guy and a cute one to boot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I will follow up with a thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fabbed your face pic because it’s a nice face pic. I wouldn’t be offended if you messaged but neither would I expect it.

For myself I’d only message someone to thank them for a fab if they lived close enough and I might possibly want them to fuck me until we’re both lying in an exhausted, grinning heap!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I don't see thank you's as being needy, but its a fine line between them appreciating my pic or wanting to have sex with me, so I stopped sending them purely because of the assumptions that were made when I replied to them. I prefer to assume they just like the pic now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I always reply with a well written copy and paste message, partnered with a small selection of tasteful cock shots

Is it wrong that I am totally testing that statement now?

Depends how badly you want those dick pics

Not at all - but I just fabbed some of your pics because you’re a nice guy and a cute one to boot!

Aww

Just a coincidence it was all the dick print ones then?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

None of mine are worth fabbing

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

It seems a little over eager OP but then they did fab your pic so.....

I tend to ignore fabs, but then I got confused by the winking game the other day as I got a few winks and didn’t know what to do, so winked back. I then messaged some peeps and said “this is the winking game right?” And they replied “what winking game?”

So erm firstly no more winking game for me, too confusing and a fab is a fab. Makes me smile, doesn’t make me message them.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Yes, I always reply with a well written copy and paste message, partnered with a small selection of tasteful cock shots

Is it wrong that I am totally testing that statement now?

Depends how badly you want those dick pics

I'm gonna have to fab more aren't I....

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Yes, I always reply with a well written copy and paste message, partnered with a small selection of tasteful cock shots

Is it wrong that I am totally testing that statement now?

Depends how badly you want those dick pics

Not at all - but I just fabbed some of your pics because you’re a nice guy and a cute one to boot!

Aww

Just a coincidence it was all the dick print ones then?

Well it’s a very nice willy!

TBH I much prefer those to a close up cock shot - particularly an oozing cock shot! Think I’ll take the pup to the park before I make myself vomit! Have a lovely day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate it,but I figure if they want to chat they'll send a message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I always reply with a well written copy and paste message, partnered with a small selection of tasteful cock shots

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

I would thank some one if I liked thier profile etc.

If someone messaged me to say thank you I wouldn't be offended. Doesn't mean it's going to lead to anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fabbed your face pic because it’s a nice face pic. I wouldn’t be offended if you messaged but neither would I expect it.

For myself I’d only message someone to thank them for a fab if they lived close enough and I might possibly want them to fuck me until we’re both lying in an exhausted, grinning heap!

You’ve made my day x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It seems a little over eager OP but then they did fab your pic so.....

So erm firstly no more winking game for me, too confusing and a fab is a fab. Makes me smile, doesn’t make me message them. "

So winking and fabbing doesn't make you message..... How about a well thought out rambling essay of some kind?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"It seems a little over eager OP but then they did fab your pic so.....

So erm firstly no more winking game for me, too confusing and a fab is a fab. Makes me smile, doesn’t make me message them.

So winking and fabbing doesn't make you message..... How about a well thought out rambling essay of some kind?

Yeap. I am definitely a rambling essay type guy. With bonus foo and a side-helping of tush. Then I might reply

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It seems a little over eager OP but then they did fab your pic so.....

So erm firstly no more winking game for me, too confusing and a fab is a fab. Makes me smile, doesn’t make me message them.

So winking and fabbing doesn't make you message..... How about a well thought out rambling essay of some kind?

Yeap. I am definitely a rambling essay type guy. With bonus foo and a side-helping of tush. Then I might reply "

Goodness. Fab has gotten all technical these days.

I'm sure it used to be "FAF?" and a flash of boob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have an interesting profile we aleays message to say thanks. And if fetish and bdsm is of interest to them, major plus, we have far bigger profiles on another fet site

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By *ilvery brownMan
over a year ago

lewisham

I usually do send a message saying thanks. Dont get fabbed often so its easy.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I think I've only ever had mine fabbed once and that was by a bloke ?? However I wouldn't expect an acknowledgement when I fab someone else's, if so my mailbox would be overflowing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thank everyone who fabs my pics with tributing one of theirs!

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Does it seem needy to follow up with a thank you? Or do you really appreciate it?"

You totally hit the nail on the head with this. Also with Winks too I’ve messaged with a thank you very much only to be blocked. So now I’m never sure what to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So much chat on this! Never saw that coming. I get most Fabs from men, it seems, which is lovely but I don't really feel the urge to follow up

For transparency's sake, I'd say I've never written a thank you to someone I didn't also fancy...

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've been known to say 'thank you' to any unexpected fabs (& winks).

I feel its a nice way for a shy person to start chatting.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"So much chat on this! Never saw that coming. I get most Fabs from men, it seems, which is lovely but I don't really feel the urge to follow up

For transparency's sake, I'd say I've never written a thank you to someone I didn't also fancy..."

Dammit. Fabbed the lot and no thank you or dick pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So much chat on this! Never saw that coming. I get most Fabs from men, it seems, which is lovely but I don't really feel the urge to follow up

For transparency's sake, I'd say I've never written a thank you to someone I didn't also fancy...

Dammit. Fabbed the lot and no thank you or dick pics

I believe you might have a friend invite awaiting you...

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By *ovelock4Man
over a year ago

Croydon

Given that most guys get less fabs and winks than women and couples, they might have more time to follow them up with a ‘thank you’. I think it’s nice to let someone know you appreciate the attention, if you don’t have hundreds to wade through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get fabbed and then often messaged about it x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"We get fabbed and then often messaged about it x"

Zelda has some lovely ink.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Yea that would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get many fabs

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If you go on the hot pictures, they can often be fabbed hundreds of times, so to thank all of those people would take some time

I don’t thank anyone but will look at everyone’s profile, who has fabbed them and do appreciate the effort for each appreciation of my photos.

To make up for it I have now started to reply to every message I receive, even if it’s just a thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get that many, but when I do, I normally message with a little thanks and maybe give a few fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who it is and what pictures they have fabd of mine

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I often do write a message but I thing it is different for men on here. Women seem to fab less (I know this is a generalisation) and we get far fewer.

Either way, a message can't hurt.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Think not thing.... Stupid phone!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"So much chat on this! Never saw that coming. I get most Fabs from men, it seems, which is lovely but I don't really feel the urge to follow up

For transparency's sake, I'd say I've never written a thank you to someone I didn't also fancy...

Dammit. Fabbed the lot and no thank you or dick pics

I believe you might have a friend invite awaiting you..."

Ooooooh. I like friends.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like a pic I will fab it, that doesn't mean I want to meet. If someone Fabs mine I will send a thank you message because in all honesty, it makes me smile.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i really can't keep up with people who fab my pics, I hardly reply back to winks and messages neither #fabwomendifferentstory

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i really can't keep up with people who fab my pics, I hardly reply back to winks and messages neither #fabwomendifferentstory

This is the hidden answer to my question, I guess - no woman would even have *time* to respond to all her Fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an invite to forward your home address and mobile number!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fab loads of pics daily and rarely get any in return , not that I expect any but always try and say thank you when I do

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By *eeandsexymCouple
over a year ago

Between selby/york

"If I like a pic I will fab it, that doesn't mean I want to meet. If someone Fabs mine I will send a thank you message because in all honesty, it makes me smile.

That's exactly our view on fabs.

Fab cos you like the picture, wink if you fancy intro to the person.. Follow up with a message if a wink back or really keen to chat

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

If someone favs our pics we don’t message them we look at there profile and will fab some of there pics.If they wink us then we would send them a nice polite message ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of mine come from people I’m not interested in so leave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it. That's why many women don't bother fabbing pics.

Do you think women thank every guy that fabs THEIR pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I dont fab many mens photos, I can appreciate a nice pic or just be nice without meaning anything more by it.

I think just reply to messages and winks, not fabs

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I fab pictures just because I like them. Rarely are they local so it’s just a random like from me and sometimes I like the picture but wouldn’t be interested I’m taking it further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t as I have an accountant that deals with that side of things for me.

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

I almost fall over with amazment at first, but do normally message back tk say thanks...

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

If we fab pics and get a wink we try to respond. There are so many beautiful people here, a lot who are out of our league, but we appreciate beautiful photos and good people. If someone fabs ours and winks we wink back if we are interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message with a dick pic.fab my pic if you want one guys

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By *0NyorksMan
over a year ago

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I've been known too. Nice to be nice. Lol

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I fab a pic if I like it, if I get a thanks that's cool, I always say thanks to any pix fabbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never follow up with a thank you. I see it like someone 'liking' a Facebook post, it's just an acknowledgement. If they fab pics then don't message then I'd say they like my pics but not overly carried away to want to engage in conversation and that's absolutely fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely i follow up with a thank you unless really caught my eye...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it seem needy to follow up with a thank you? Or do you really appreciate it?"

Yes, it seems needy and desperate to thank them. And if I did that, I’d be thanking hundreds of men a day. I don’t have the energy to do that, and if I did, I still wouldn’t

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Does it seem needy to follow up with a thank you? Or do you really appreciate it?"

Definitely needy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never follow up with a thank you. I see it like someone 'liking' a Facebook post, it's just an acknowledgement. If they fab pics then don't message then I'd say they like my pics but not overly carried away to want to engage in conversation and that's absolutely fine by me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah and nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get fabbed and then often messaged about it x

Zelda has some lovely ink. "

Thank you x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Does it seem needy to follow up with a thank you? Or do you really appreciate it?"

Sometimes I do if it’s someone I quite like the look of

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

It is always appreciated a quick thank you message.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't think that I have ever responded to anyone who has fabbed my photos unless I know them.

I di sometimes repay the compliment and Fab theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get a FAB so I always say thanks, nothing more.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

It's an ice breaker, we don't mind that kind of message. X

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

I just "fab" one of theirs in return

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