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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford

When I go on a meet I find myself talking to much! It's not nervous talking i just have to fill a silence! In fact I do it in all situations remember once we were all going quite a distance and i was going in son inlaws car and my daughter pre warned me not to talk to much lol! Do people find constant chatter annoying? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a shut ya face often offends

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i talk alot but one of my fab meets talked more than me... at first I thought it was nerves but I think after the second meet, he just doesn't like silence. plus we have alot in common to have lots of things to chat about. Best to find someone who equally loves talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only of they get upset when I ask them to shut up!!

I like talking! Its a handy way to get to know someone!

Inane pointless chatter is good!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

depends if the constant chatter is disturbing tranquility and peace. Sometimes you just wanna take in a moment and breathe it in.

Also, if the constant chatter is all about them or if they don't read the signals that actaully, I'm quite enjoying this song and wouldn't mind fucking hearing it!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I personally do as I like to hear my own thoughts from time to time. I suppose it depends on how long you're with the person,if you're only together for a few hours then great talk away,if you're together constantly then I'd need a break from constant chit chat.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I think there's a limit of how much chatter to do... sometimes thoughts should be left in the mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally enjoy listening to people more than I enjoy talking myself

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I talk alot but never nervous. I just like a good natter and intrigued to find out about the person i am with.

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I am exactly the same, I cant stand awkward silences and find myself chatting constantly. I think a few people i have met have found it annoying and have been told to shut up a couple of times. Lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I talk alot but never nervous. I just like a good natter and intrigued to find out about the person i am with."

Yeah but that has substance, you're wanting to learn rather than just talking for the sake of it.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Years and years ago I went to the cinema with a blind date, I had to shush her. Strangely we didn't meet again.

I remember the film more than the woman, and yes the cinema is a shockingly bad first date.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"When I go on a meet I find myself talking to much! It's not nervous talking i just have to fill a silence! In fact I do it in all situations remember once we were all going quite a distance and i was going in son inlaws car and my daughter pre warned me not to talk to much lol! Do people find constant chatter annoying? x"

Not at all I don't mind the chatter especially as I'm the silent type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally enjoy listening to people more than I enjoy talking myself "

This for me too.

I prefer them talking but if I couldn't even get a word in after a few hours then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why create awkward moments. I like to keep the conversation flowing.

Probably why I am not a big fan of texting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exactly the same,but it's better then awkward silences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally enjoy listening to people more than I enjoy talking myself

This for me too.

I prefer them talking but if I couldn't even get a word in after a few hours then "

True As long as they do that little giggle, smile, and "I'm talking too much aren't I?" I'm golden

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

There’s a reason why they have radios in cars (showing my age by calling them radios )

I don’t like silences either so can waffle on, endlessly

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"When I go on a meet I find myself talking to much! It's not nervous talking i just have to fill a silence! In fact I do it in all situations remember once we were all going quite a distance and i was going in son inlaws car and my daughter pre warned me not to talk to much lol! Do people find constant chatter annoying? x"
I'm exactly the same. And as yet I've not annoyed to many I don't think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I find it incredibly annoying and irritating if someone is talking to fill silence or just for the sake of it.

I talk more when nervous or excited (usually a bit rambling) but generally I enjoy listening more than talking especially in a group of people.

But sometimes to sit in silence with someone is the best.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Prefer a person to talk at least then you can change the subject if needed.

ackward silence is not the best thing

But if I couldnt get a say in something id just kiss you

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"depends if the constant chatter is disturbing tranquility and peace. Sometimes you just wanna take in a moment and breathe it in.

Also, if the constant chatter is all about them or if they don't read the signals that actaully, I'm quite enjoying this song and wouldn't mind fucking hearing it!"

Lol I do try and not chat about me I ask them a out their likes the current topics etc x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Yes I find it incredibly annoying and irritating if someone is talking to fill silence or just for the sake of it.

I talk more when nervous or excited (usually a bit rambling) but generally I enjoy listening more than talking especially in a group of people.

But sometimes to sit in silence with someone is the best."

Opps! Dont think I can do that! I once said I'm not going to talk for 10 mins! He got his phone out and set timer I didnt make it

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Prefer a person to talk at least then you can change the subject if needed.

ackward silence is not the best thing

But if I couldnt get a say in something id just kiss you

"

That's a nice idea x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I find a shut ya face often offends "

Lol x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I've had a few chatterbox meets, but they generally calm down pretty quickly and it turns into a flowing conversation instead

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"i talk alot but one of my fab meets talked more than me... at first I thought it was nerves but I think after the second meet, he just doesn't like silence. plus we have alot in common to have lots of things to chat about. Best to find someone who equally loves talking "

Good idea! Sometimes it's more awkward than others x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I talk alot but never nervous. I just like a good natter and intrigued to find out about the person i am with."

Yes me 2 x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I am exactly the same, I cant stand awkward silences and find myself chatting constantly. I think a few people i have met have found it annoying and have been told to shut up a couple of times. Lol"

Havent been told yet I'm surprised I havent lol x

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

For someone who yaks as much as I do on here you'd think I'd be a real chatterbox, and I can be if someone peaks my interest, but I'm not afraid of silence. It shouldn't be seen as awkward, either.

And I especially don't like talking (myself I mean) when I'm driving. The car has a radio for a reason

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't mind people who talk a lot but I don't like it if I can't get a word in edgeways. I prefer a two way conversation to me listening while someone else talks

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I don't mind people who talk a lot but I don't like it if I can't get a word in edgeways. I prefer a two way conversation to me listening while someone else talks "

Yes this is the ideal! But find some answer then it's back to silence x

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I'm awful. I never stop rambling when I'm nervous or excited or both!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't mind people who talk a lot but I don't like it if I can't get a word in edgeways. I prefer a two way conversation to me listening while someone else talks

Yes this is the ideal! But find some answer then it's back to silence x"

That's the art of conversation in my opinion. Someone puts an idea forward or asks a question, someone else gives their opinion of answers the question in such a way that the other person can respond. It can be difficult at first especially if one or both of you are nervous. It's useful to have a few ideas of things to talk about before you meet someone I think.

I worked with a woman who just talked, all the time. I don't know why, she literally talked until she ran out of breath. Conversation was impossible so everyone just spent as little time as possible with her. Which was sad

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I don't mind people who talk a lot but I don't like it if I can't get a word in edgeways. I prefer a two way conversation to me listening while someone else talks

Yes this is the ideal! But find some answer then it's back to silence x

That's the art of conversation in my opinion. Someone puts an idea forward or asks a question, someone else gives their opinion of answers the question in such a way that the other person can respond. It can be difficult at first especially if one or both of you are nervous. It's useful to have a few ideas of things to talk about before you meet someone I think.

I worked with a woman who just talked, all the time. I don't know why, she literally talked until she ran out of breath. Conversation was impossible so everyone just spent as little time as possible with her. Which was sad"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Candy if you are in the company of a gentleman don't forget you can always say "kind sir I feel I am using my mouth in a rather unproductive way. Would you kindly tickle the itch at the back of my throat with your cock please as I need to swallow some lubrication".... I think you will find that solves your problem. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I probably tend to ramble on a bit both before and after the "action" bit of a meet. It's an odd balance to strike. On the one hand, I don't want to just say "Get your kit off" as soon as she's through the door. On the other hand, once I'm chatting about whether squirrels know they're missing out on The Mandalorian (or, y'know, whatever), it's difficult to know how to steer it back to "...and now it is sexy time".

Same afterwards. I'm very much not a "That was nice. Now go away" kind of guy, but I think sometimes I might let the pillow talk run on a bit too long? Not a problem if I'm hosting, as she can always say "Anyway, I really have to get going", but if I'm sitting in her bed, prattling on about dinosaurs and she just wants to go to sleep, that could very well be awkward...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything

It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything

It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction "

Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.

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By *CheshireMaleMan
over a year ago

Middlewich

Id rather a lady talk my socks off, than sit there silent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything

It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction

Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment. "

Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!

Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Candy if you are in the company of a gentleman don't forget you can always say "kind sir I feel I am using my mouth in a rather unproductive way. Would you kindly tickle the itch at the back of my throat with your cock please as I need to swallow some lubrication".... I think you will find that solves your problem. Lol"

Yes for a short while at least! Pmsl! X

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I prefer it actually as I am a quiet person myself. Until I get to know someone, I am quite the introvert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to much all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything

It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction

Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.

Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!

Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid "

I reckon I could grow a horn quite easily in those circumstances...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything

It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction

Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.

Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!

Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid

I reckon I could grow a horn quite easily in those circumstances..."

Looks like we’re about to find out who would win

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I talk to much all the time. "

Me to ohh well !

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I prefer it actually as I am a quiet person myself. Until I get to know someone, I am quite the introvert."

Just bring ear plugs!! X

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"Yeah, I probably tend to ramble on a bit both before and after the "action" bit of a meet. It's an odd balance to strike. On the one hand, I don't want to just say "Get your kit off" as soon as she's through the door. On the other hand, once I'm chatting about whether squirrels know they're missing out on The Mandalorian (or, y'know, whatever), it's difficult to know how to steer it back to "...and now it is sexy time".

Same afterwards. I'm very much not a "That was nice. Now go away" kind of guy, but I think sometimes I might let the pillow talk run on a bit too long? Not a problem if I'm hosting, as she can always say "Anyway, I really have to get going", but if I'm sitting in her bed, prattling on about dinosaurs and she just wants to go to sleep, that could very well be awkward... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything

It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction

Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.

Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!

Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid

I reckon I could grow a horn quite easily in those circumstances...

Looks like we’re about to find out who would win "

I'm starting to feel like a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything

It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction

Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.

Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!

Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid

I reckon I could grow a horn quite easily in those circumstances...

Looks like we’re about to find out who would win

I'm starting to feel like a winner"

Get the maple syrup ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything

It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction

Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.

Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!

Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid

I reckon I could grow a horn quite easily in those circumstances...

Looks like we’re about to find out who would win

I'm starting to feel like a winner

Get the maple syrup ready "

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