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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

And has it changed over the last 6 months with all this upheaval?!?

Does your profile reflect what you’re looking for and any changes?

I’ve always been a crap fabber but the last 6 months has made me appreciate quiet company and basic intimacy so much more.

So come say hello and see if anyone localish or who takes your fancy, is looking for the same as you

Be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just chatting with some blokes from Surrey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a forum twat and I don't really want anything I don't already have, except maybe a few new vag pics and tributes.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello and no my profile is the same like before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want I can perve on over coffee and cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im here for the same as when I joined

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I think the last few months having a good conversation is much more important. I've spoken about such a broad range of subjects with people on here. From virology, politics, literature to where best to buy a corset.

The emphasis has changed a bit due to the inability to meet and tbh I've enjoyed the stimulation of the old grey matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just waiting for the right oppurtunity with the right guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello and no my profile is the same like before "

A shag tonight I bet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope - still hoping some smart, sexy woman will snaffle me up or share the fun with her lucky hubby.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My forum profile has said what ive wanted it to say for the last three years. Which is leave me alone im not looking for new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello chums Taff here.

Oh golly one would like a cycling and walking buddy , bobble hats are optional jelly babies supplied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile states I'm here for the forums and a place to upload photos so I'm definitely getting what I want from the website. I do find myself wanting more though. But, when the time comes I'm sure I'll be able to get what I want.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I want people to share my cake and pussy with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want people to share my cake and pussy with. "
yum you have cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just chatting with some blokes from Surrey "

No need to apologise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined not long before all the madness started, and didn't do forums at all until couple weeks before lockdown. So in a sense what I "want" has changed, but probably for the better than compared to when I first joined

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border


"I want people to share my cake and pussy with. "

Great sounding buffet there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello and no my profile is the same like before

A shag tonight I bet ?"
Yes, my profile name sums it up pretty good I think, also I like to lift weights and my favourite sweets are the haribos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though my profile says been here over a year I've only been active for a couple of months once I realised there was a forum.

And I've changed my profile three times already as what I want subtly alters.

At the moment what I want is to post on the forums, make some connections through messaging and see how things go.

Crawling before walking and running.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want people to share my cake and pussy with. "

Cake, you say?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I had this question asked of me a little while ago and I can't answer it now any more than I could then. I really don't know what I want from fab but until I figure it out I'm having fun in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a woman to go home to after work, but I also dont want anyone to answer to.

I've grown a lot while being single and want to see how far I can go. I also want a partner to share that with me.

If that makes sense to anyone let me know

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

I have what I want from fab, just need the opportunities to meet them all, forums are for fun and perusal

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric bikes

Not much has changed for me. still no luck but also still hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty much after the same thing though I am making more of an effort to chat in the forum's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyday I wake up its different. Goes from unlos to meet me now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No changes for me. I briefly thought I may start looking for meets/ for a bubble buddy but soon realised I just didn’t want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still looking for the elusive same

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Hello and no my profile is the same like before

A shag tonight I bet ?Yes, my profile name sums it up pretty good I think, also I like to lift weights and my favourite sweets are the haribos "

And you like buns

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"And has it changed over the last 6 months with all this upheaval?!?

Does your profile reflect what you’re looking for and any changes?

I’ve always been a crap fabber but the last 6 months has made me appreciate quiet company and basic intimacy so much more.

So come say hello and see if anyone localish or who takes your fancy, is looking for the same as you

Be honest "

It's changed hugely for us, we decided to try this way of meeting people during lockdown, it's nice to find likeminded people to chat to but can't wait to meet some people for more than drinks.

We've communicated better and are in such a good place with us we are just starting out. Xxx

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"And has it changed over the last 6 months with all this upheaval?!?

Does your profile reflect what you’re looking for and any changes?

I’ve always been a crap fabber but the last 6 months has made me appreciate quiet company and basic intimacy so much more.

So come say hello and see if anyone localish or who takes your fancy, is looking for the same as you

Be honest

It's changed hugely for us, we decided to try this way of meeting people during lockdown, it's nice to find likeminded people to chat to but can't wait to meet some people for more than drinks.

We've communicated better and are in such a good place with us we are just starting out. Xxx"

Ah that’s lovely to hear it’s good to take the time to pause and just get to know people with zero expectation!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I have absolutely no idea what I want. At the moment I'm not sure I want anything.

Actually, what I want is to be who I was 2 years ago, the confident dickhead who wouldn't let anyone too close.

But alas that ain't gonna happen, so ....

For now I'm working on rebuilding my confidence... AGAIN and maybe in time I'll meet again. I'm kinda thinking it'll just be socials, although there is a couple I would meet, as I know they'd be cool and things would go at whatever pace they went at with fuck all "nose out of jointness" if we just had nowt more than a right good giggle and put the world to rights.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I have absolutely no idea what I want. At the moment I'm not sure I want anything.

Actually, what I want is to be who I was 2 years ago, the confident dickhead who wouldn't let anyone too close.

But alas that ain't gonna happen, so ....

For now I'm working on rebuilding my confidence... AGAIN and maybe in time I'll meet again. I'm kinda thinking it'll just be socials, although there is a couple I would meet, as I know they'd be cool and things would go at whatever pace they went at with fuck all "nose out of jointness" if we just had nowt more than a right good giggle and put the world to rights."

Well if you ever want a change of scenery for a piss up and no stress you know where to come

Until then one day at a time. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tens to find nobody reads your profile. Most are pretty generic though. Mine always out of date as can never work out what to put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have absolutely no idea what I want. At the moment I'm not sure I want anything.

Actually, what I want is to be who I was 2 years ago, the confident dickhead who wouldn't let anyone too close.

But alas that ain't gonna happen, so ....

For now I'm working on rebuilding my confidence... AGAIN and maybe in time I'll meet again. I'm kinda thinking it'll just be socials, although there is a couple I would meet, as I know they'd be cool and things would go at whatever pace they went at with fuck all "nose out of jointness" if we just had nowt more than a right good giggle and put the world to rights."

Id love to have a chat with you as that sounds like the type of relationship I'd love to build with such a sexy beautifulmlady like you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello saffron xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined fab after long term relationship ended

Thinking I was still the confident man I was 20 years ago that my dance card would be full every night.

Wow the world has moved on

Looking for to meet a woman or a couple and if there is a connection see how things go

Not looking for love but safe fun based on trust and respect

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

Have spent a bit more time in forums over the last 6 months, profile has not changed much apart from being a bit more diligent on social distancing and meets

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Hello chums Taff here.

Oh golly one would like a cycling and walking buddy , bobble hats are optional jelly babies supplied "

Oh you bloody tease....

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

My profile says not meeting and here to draw, which is true.

I wasn’t sure what I wanted out of fab except some good laughs and meeting interesting people.... I’ve had that and made some great friends.

Has it changed these last months, yes it has with a clarity of thinking, realisation and taking a step over the edge my focus is elsewhere

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I have realised that as well as sex, I am missing general touch and closeness. I need to rewrite my profile as it was edited as we entered lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says I'm not really looking for anything, which is true... but who knows what will happen?

If someome wants to make me the centre of all their affection while happily sharing me when it suits me, I'm not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a reflective time these last few months. I changed my profile as I'm not searching to meet anyone. I also feel my life is moving on and Fab may not have a place in that. We'll see.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's been a reflective time these last few months. I changed my profile as I'm not searching to meet anyone. I also feel my life is moving on and Fab may not have a place in that. We'll see. "

I'm the same. Nearer leaving than staying. Not on here anywhere near as much as I use to be.

Life moves on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want sleep! Just finished 12hr shift...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's been a reflective time these last few months. I changed my profile as I'm not searching to meet anyone. I also feel my life is moving on and Fab may not have a place in that. We'll see.

I'm the same. Nearer leaving than staying. Not on here anywhere near as much as I use to be.

Life moves on.... "

I 2nd that ...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's been a reflective time these last few months. I changed my profile as I'm not searching to meet anyone. I also feel my life is moving on and Fab may not have a place in that. We'll see.

I'm the same. Nearer leaving than staying. Not on here anywhere near as much as I use to be.

Life moves on....

I 2nd that ... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been clear in what I seek through my off the wall posting skills

To summarise it -

Rather a lot more than just a 'wham bam, thank you mam'

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 6mths leading up to covid i was in a relationship and I thought i wouldn't be single again.

Covid and other things put an end to that life and now my profile is what im looking for going forward.

i can't put my heart on the line again. Im putting me 1st for probably the 1st time ever in my life.

If i find someone who takes my heart then thats OK as well.

I will never say never again but I have very high walls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for "

Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.

Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for

Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.

Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.

"

Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who I want has definitely changed over the last 6 months. The lockdown has brought out a different side to some that’s not attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who I want has definitely changed over the last 6 months. The lockdown has brought out a different side to some that’s not attractive to me. "

Elaborate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know absolutely what I want but I dont want to have to look for it again

My profile reflects my reticence in all things fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who I want has definitely changed over the last 6 months. The lockdown has brought out a different side to some that’s not attractive to me.

Elaborate "

I’ve said enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who I want has definitely changed over the last 6 months. The lockdown has brought out a different side to some that’s not attractive to me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who I want has definitely changed over the last 6 months. The lockdown has brought out a different side to some that’s not attractive to me.

Elaborate

I’ve said enough "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who I want has definitely changed over the last 6 months. The lockdown has brought out a different side to some that’s not attractive to me.

Elaborate

I’ve said enough

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name is Ric

I want a bath of pussies please

Failing that, a box of Flake Icecream

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for "

You know I think you’re a brilliant human and I have a lot of time for you and your shit pancakes truth is sometimes we need our eyes opening to other possibilities. Maybe this is just the start of a whole new journey. Chin up and always here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey beautiful Saff.

We want fun and great times with like minded people.

Jo.Xx

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Hey beautiful Saff.

We want fun and great times with like minded people.

Jo.Xx "

Ahhh I hope we all get a good catch up soon!!’

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for

You know I think you’re a brilliant human and I have a lot of time for you and your shit pancakes truth is sometimes we need our eyes opening to other possibilities. Maybe this is just the start of a whole new journey. Chin up and always here x "

You’re ace thanks. I think you’ll find you made the batter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs "

Which question are you answering man of many words?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs

Which question are you answering man of many words?!?"

Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs

Which question are you answering man of many words?!?

Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings "

Yeah it’s pants. Sort it out

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for

Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.

Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.

Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated "

You’re my friend, always will be and I’m always here for you and you let me raid your fridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs

Which question are you answering man of many words?!?

Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings

Yeah it’s pants. Sort it out "

Yes madam moderator

Ps it's better than it used to be

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for

Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.

Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.

Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated

You’re my friend, always will be and I’m always here for you and you let me raid your fridge "

Pooaacchheeedddd eggggssss

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs

Which question are you answering man of many words?!?

Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings

Yeah it’s pants. Sort it out

Yes madam moderator

Ps it's better than it used to be"

Good god... step it up man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs

Which question are you answering man of many words?!?

Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings

Yeah it’s pants. Sort it out

Yes madam moderator

Ps it's better than it used to be

Good god... step it up man. "

I need a ghost writer

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs

Which question are you answering man of many words?!?

Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings

Yeah it’s pants. Sort it out

Yes madam moderator

Ps it's better than it used to be

Good god... step it up man.

I need a ghost writer"

So many ghosting jokes on the top of my tongue

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for

Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.

Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.

Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated

You’re my friend, always will be and I’m always here for you and you let me raid your fridge

Pooaacchheeedddd eggggssss "

Which I never got

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for

Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.

Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.

Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated

You’re my friend, always will be and I’m always here for you and you let me raid your fridge

Pooaacchheeedddd eggggssss

Which I never got "

You’ll have to come back so we can relive the night with eggs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey beautiful Saff.

We want fun and great times with like minded people.

Jo.Xx

Ahhh I hope we all get a good catch up soon!!’ "

It's most definitely needed.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last 6 months has changed my outlook on what I want from the site. Although I stopped looking for meets before the upheaval began, and stuck to the forums seeking a more social approach on the site, I’m now looking for a few social meets, possibly regular coffee dates. I even considered leaving, and spent very little time online during lockdown

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By *adbod74Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Just here for the chats and if I get more then happy happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just here for the chats and if I get more then happy happy"

Fuck me sounds like Xmas morning as kid in my house ..

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for

Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.

Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.

Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated

You’re my friend, always will be and I’m always here for you and you let me raid your fridge

Pooaacchheeedddd eggggssss

Which I never got

You’ll have to come back so we can relive the night with eggs!!! "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for

Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.

Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.

Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated "

Definitely ??

Besides covid I have had the worst and most devastating year of my life .

Like you I am also trying to rebuild myself and trying to accept loss / change and physical change in so many ways .

It’s hard to allow yourself to feel fragile and vulnerable at any time

We are all just real people with real feelings and ultimately a need for connection and sometimes this site should be avoided for a while when we’re feeling that way as it can seem so shallow x

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Still the same as when we first joined

We've had a few more messages than pre lockdown, but still looking for the right play mate for Lou

We have missed going to clubs as we'd made a few new friends

Ray x

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.

Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.

I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for

Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.

Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.

Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated

Definitely ??

Besides covid I have had the worst and most devastating year of my life .

Like you I am also trying to rebuild myself and trying to accept loss / change and physical change in so many ways .

It’s hard to allow yourself to feel fragile and vulnerable at any time

We are all just real people with real feelings and ultimately a need for connection and sometimes this site should be avoided for a while when we’re feeling that way as it can seem so shallow x

"

It can be like that.. the forum can also be the place to sit and chat absolute crap and laugh with others who are also having a crappy time or just value the kindness of others.. I’ve certainly found comfort since I’ve returned. There are good people here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not overly complicated I don’t think.

I want one or two people in my life that I can laugh with, drink with, be friends with, trust and have amazing sex with!

Anything else on top of that is just a bonus.

I do want to go to a club or two and see how that goes once they reopen again

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Chatting with not much action but it's all good happy sharing the love in other forms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found who I am looking for, when she starts to believe she has found me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello. I’m Nora and I want it all and I want it now.

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